First & Last Blind Date

Ok, so I meet this guy online, we find out we have a lot in common and he lives close to me. For 2 weeks he calls me constantly, to be honest I liked the conversation but didn't really feel like taking it further because i'm still trying to get over my aqua. So anyway the time comes to meet...now he had sent me pics during that time and though he wasn't as cute as i'd like him to be i tried to convince myself it didn't matter. Well, we arrange to meet at the local movies which is cool with me (the more people around the better)..so i get to the movies and there he is...BIG PROBLEM...i take one look at him and decide i dont like him...aaagghhhh..ok so what i do now, he can see me so i can't run back to my car, i can't tell him hey now that i've seen you i really dont like you so i'm going home...or can I? lol! I decide to go with the flow since we have been talking for a while and i know its not right to just stand someone up like that...he goes to kiss me, i turn my face...he trys to hug me, i cringe...ok get a grip girl, its only a 2 hour movie..you can do this! All the time i am with him i just want to leave, he's trys his best to flirt with me but i just keep looking at him thinking i'm not attracted to you whatsoever, i need to go home. Anyway the movie finishes and he wants to take me to a club.....HELL NO..thats it, your time's up buddy! I make excuses and tell him we'll hook up again another time. This was Friday, since then he keeps calling me and i have not answered. He's scorpio by the way, i feel so bad because i dont like him in that way and i know he likes me and wants to be more than friends but i just want to tell him..no way! Is that conceited? I feel really bad but I'm just not attracted to him and for me there needs to be some form of attraction to keep me interested!

Have any of you ever experienced a bad blind date, if so how did you handle it?

To be honest, i did find the situation really funny and me and my girls have been laughing about it all weekend but i can tell from the messages that this scorpio is taking the situation very seriously indeed! I have no problem with being honest with him its just that i dont wrap my honesty up in pretty words, i tell it like it is and i'm just trying to save his ego because i think for him it will be more of a KO than a blow...hopefully he'll get the message before this bull lets him into her ring! lol

Sagitauries:
Lets not get this whole thing twisted, i'm not afraid he wont like me, i couldn't care less but i also do not think its nice to judge somebody on their appearance alone which is something that i was guilty of on Friday night...yeah its human nature but it doesn't mean its right! It was just a funny experience that i felt like sharing, not something serious that i'll be checking myself into the nearest psychiatric ward about...geeesh!

Imao...you are the one in need of some serious fun for crying out loud! lol

H-E-L-L-O! I'm a taurus gyal...I can never give myself enough credit! lol

No..correction MercinAries...YOU will never be happy as long as YOU are alive (and i can understand why!)lol I'm very happy thank you very much...whether it be a good or bad day, to me all my experiences are part of life's lessons and i enjoy learning something new each and every day. It aint always about WHAT you do..its the WAY you do it!

"You can do any way you like, ppl will still hate you"

NOT IF YOU'RE DOING IT RIGHT :-)

*venuslady slaps your face*

"Get Over it then"
NO dammit! Its my post and i'll get over it when i'm good and ready not before! If you dont like it move on to another post!
*venuslady sits with legs crossed, arms folded and lips pouting*

Imfao...you just can't get enough, can you? go on admit it? best action you've had in a long time! lol!

Wow Venus, Your on one get ego trip huh? I liked the tall tale, i thought i was very entertaining. You were too caught up in the first impression, thats all u went for, the negative energy. But too each their own. Im glad that their are shallow people in the world, cause the more of them, the happy i get, cause i get to crush them.

lol...you are quite right King Bull..i love my ego more than anything...sad but true. Every day my ego smiles at me and says i love you and i smile and say i love you back. We cry together, laugh together, go everywhere together and would never be seen apart, most of all i trust my ego above anybody and anything else. Thats got to be true love! lol What is it they say...you got to love yourself before you can love another...well as you can see i got the loving myself bit down just still trying to figure the loving another part! Oh well until then me and my ego rock!!!!

*Venuslady lady turns to her ego "i love you baby"*

*Ego turns to venuslady "i love you back"*