Question for Taurus men

I have been on this sight before and have read just about everything about the taurus man. But I did read that what we (pisces girl) may perceive as ignoring is them just thinking everything is fine. The taurus man I am talking about lives overseas (Hong Kong). About a month ago I sent him an email to see if he wanted to chat (via email). We have emailed here and there this past year. Well, he emailed me back and asked for my phone number (I live in the states). I gave him my number, totally not expecting him to call. He called two minutes later. We got disconnected a few times, but he always called right back. We talked for some time and it was a pleasant conversation. I tried to connect again and I have not heard anything in about a month. I know taurus play the disappear/reappear game. And I also know he is very busy. I do know they are single minded. So, should I just chill out and do my thing and just not worry about it? Is he thinking "things are fine, I'm busy, she's busy, we will connect at some point" ? Is it a big deal that he called me? We tried to Skype but I couldn't get the video part to work. He asked me for a picture because he needed a visual while he talked to me. Nothing bad, just a normal pic. But we haven't heard each others' voices in over 20 years and the very first question he asks me is "do you remember the nights we spent together?" I am a little confused.

I find it's a balancing act between having lots of patience and not chasing the man.

It's a tough one in general as being patient can also be misinterpreted as waiting around for some bloke to sort his life out while he throws you a few crumbs and you're settling for that.

Me having patience is simply not being impatient, not demanding everything now, now, now, and not only identifying with my own point of view. Giving a man his space to come to his own conclusion in his own time is being patient. I am finding Taurus does move slow which isn't a bad thing. Not pushing or demanding stuff also helps.

I'm mixed with the being devoted thing and the disappearing and testing thing. Perhaps once you know the guy better this might work but showing the guy more interest than he shows you can be dangerous and can lead to you 'chasing' the man.

Keeping the lines of communication open with the occasional fun, friendly messages which don't always require a response can be helpful to express sufficient interest in him which in turn gives him the green light to pursue you.

In your situation, it is what it is and it was what it was. A phone call and reminiscing. It sounds like you might benefit from stepping back a lot and chilling out. It is hard but I think you're reading way too much into this and making something of it. Don't make problems or take issue where there aren't any.

Ask yourself what are you hoping for or looking for from this man?

The chances are you might be looking at what 'might be' or what 'could be' instead of looking at it for what it is... Which is some email exchange and a phone call. You probably have this with friends or family you don't see often. Don't treat this any differently than you would a casual friend.

I've been there and done that and I'm still learning so I'm not preaching but I'm just stripping away your post and seeing it for what is.

Taurus men love to dwell in the past when they have memories of someone. I don't know but they love the feeling of nostalgia and trying to relive the past. Leave him alone, he knows you exist he knows you are there. Let him do his thing, you don't want to appear desperate. Don't let him know you want to talk to him be casual and cool. Whenever he is ready to talk to you he will. With Taurus men you never know their true intentions because they are so calm and collective. He could have a girlfriend over in Hong Kong for all you know... Like I stated previously just be cool and let him come to you! Good luck xx

thank you all, that's what I thought and that's what I needed to hear!