Questions for the bulls

Since Taureans like touching would you be upset/disappointed if the person of your interest does not initiate physical contact or are you fine with being the initiator?.......

Would you feel if the person didn't, that they weren't as interested (physically/sexually) in you as you were in them?......

we like security and part of that security is physical touch. i personally would be disappointed if it wasn't being returned.

Well, although I'm a Taurus man (obviously) I can tell you with 100% certainty that if you are a Taurus and the initiation of the touch/affection/intimacy is left up to YOU mainly, you eventually get frustrated, feel unwanted and END THE RELATIONSHIP. It will NOT work !!!

The reason is that there will be a lack of a connection in an area that's important - to YOU. If it's not satisfied then your relationship will have a void for YOU. I KNOW because my most recent relationship ended for this VERY reason. Ironically, she was a TAURUS!!!! She just was not capable of being an initiator - so I moved on. Got tired of walking up to her while she's washing dishes or what not, slowly rubbing her hips as I gently began to grab her waist, then gently kiss her neck - and NOTHIN in response!!!! And it was always this way.

I KNOW she loved me - without a doubt. Just didn't share the same love language. What it boils down to is 1) knowin yourself and 2) nowing what YOUR love language is.

funny you mention love language. A lot of people don't know about this concept. Most Taurus' speak the love language of physical touch.

here's the info:

http://www.fivelovelanguages.com/30sec.html

It's Christian based, so I apologize for those who don't follow this faith...It's still quite insightful.

Yeah, i actually understood this before I gained knowledge about the actual semantics. I read the book. Very insightful. Another VERY good one to read is Date or Soul Mate - by Dr. Neil Clark Warren of eharmony.com.

Thanks both Houstonpeach and Taurusman....

I am a cancer female and the taurus male I am seeing is such a sweetheart.....We just recently started intimate physical touch/contact and he was the initiator.....At times I find it hard to initiate touch/intimacy, but I have. I am open and responsive to the contact once started.....(I really dislike rejection, which is a major reason why I normally feel more comfortable with the other person showing their interest first)....

I am passive but can become the aggressor once started....He is very affectionate with me which I like....I notice that he asks me to touch him, and I am starting to feel as if I am not being affectionate enough....He likes holding hands, rubbing my back, running fingers through my hair, kissing my forehead and giving me foot massages and a whole heap of other things too....I just want to make sure that although I do not always initiate, that he does not feel unwanted by me, because that is not the message that I am trying to send...

Hotgal78, it's good you're have that level of maturity. You can try just changin ght way you see it. don't look at it in terms of acceptance or rejection but rather in terms of the rewards you'll get by doing it. It will take your relationship to whole new levels - TRUST ME!!!! He prob won't rejct very often - and if/when it does happen, don't take it person. We Taurean men can carry HUGE loads and internalize things a LOT. Be a good verbal communicator first and be fearless in expressing yourself sensually, physically.

(LOL) Please excuse all of my misspellings in the previously posted message !!!!!

Taurusman, he is the very first Taurus I have met and I have forced myself to come out of my shell very quickly and take the initiative on certain things....He makes me feel very comfortable around him and he is soothing....

I cooked breakfast for him yesterday morning before I was heading to work and even though I over-cooked his turkey bacon a bit he was still very appreciative and told me I got an A- for effort....(I eat regular bacon, thus the reason I was unsure how long to cook the turkey)....I normally don't cook breakfast for myself on workdays (I just buy it at work), so I know I must really like him to rush myself to be on-time for work and still make sure he had a full stomach before left.

Great Hotgal78, glad to hear positivity in your relationship!!!!

You DEF really like him. Good luck!!!

we melt like butter when we're touched first.

Toro, peach, as a taurus man I think its more getting the response we're trying to evoke that's even more important than who's initiating.

Definitely need to be touched. Otherwise I get incredibly frustrated and I probably would end up finishing the relationship. May sound shallow, but physical touch is incredibly important to me in my relationships, even with friends.

If I have to constantly initiate it I feel like the other person isn't interested in me.

Hey Merc.....Haven't heard from you in a few days, buddy....

"hey, hotgirl, do you have a sister? or a friend that that's like you?
i mean where can I meet somebody like you?!"

I have a younger sister but she is nothing like me (Libra), and she is probably too young for you (20yrs old)....

I really like Mr. T and I think that he likes me too....I just feel more vulnerable now and it kind of scares me a bit....After I made him breakfast, he said "I love you baby" so I laughed and left the room to go get him a glass of orange juice.....I did not take him seriously since this is so new.....

We have been talking for only a month solid.......When I came back he said I am gonna watch you get dressed for work....He is so sweet and attentive....While dressing he adjusted my bra strap and fixed some out of place hairs in my twist....

He really is a different type of guy than any others that I have dated...I do not know whether it is him being Taurus or just the man that he is....

Sorry...I thought you were closer to my age (29)