I've recently hooked up with an old boyfriend after 20 years. We found each other over a website that is dedicated to getting together with friends from highschool. We were emailing back and forth constantly both at home and at work. He talked about how much he still cares for me and how he is thrilled that I care for him...things were magical between us...but he did say that he has a lot of irons in the fire right now and that he would be a little distant for the time being...now he seems to have dropped off of the face of the earth and doesn't answer my emails at all for the past 2 weeks...what I'm curious to know is...does any one out there have an opinion on if I been "Blown Off" or is this guy just "getting his house in order" as he stated previously?
Rekindling love with a Taurus man after 20 years
Be careful. It could be one of two things. If he has things going on with him, the "magical" time that you and he had could have been a temporary escape from the problems that he is dealing with. You don't want to get caught up in that. On the other hand, maybe he does have some issues that is preventing him from communicating with you. I just thing that 2 weeks is a long time not to stay in touch with someone you really care for. If I were you, I would just push my feelings aside for him until you find out a little more about his recent events. It sounds like he needs to get some affairs in order and you don't want to be emotionally involved with him while he is doing so.
Thank you for your input...I finally heard from him yesterday...not exactically what I wanted to hear though...it seems Mr. Taurus is a little freaked out by how fast our "new" relationship was progressing (although he did his share in progressing it to where it was) He wants to slow it down some...seems like he thought that since we are 2000 miles away from each other that a possibility of a relationship between us was unrealistic...although I stated my case that just because it may start out as a long distance relationship doesn't mean that it will necessarily stay that way. I guess only time will tell.
I HAVE THE SAME STORY ABOUT TAURUS!
I DO NOT KNOW WHAT IS ON HIS MIND BECAUSE HE IS AFRAID TO TRUST ME WITH HIS FEELINGS(I HOPE I AM WRONG)BECAUSE I REALLY WANT HIM TO TRUST ME AGAIN. I AM OK, AT LEAST I BELIEVE SO.
I DO NOT KNOW WHAT IS ON HIS MIND BECAUSE HE IS AFRAID TO TRUST ME WITH HIS FEELINGS(I HOPE I AM WRONG)BECAUSE I REALLY WANT HIM TO TRUST ME AGAIN. I AM OK, AT LEAST I BELIEVE SO.
Get over him - he's not worth the trouble. You deserve respect. Look for that elsewhere.
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