Scared or Careful—

I've been dating a Taurus for about 4 1/2 mths, I'm a Cancer. We get along great, we're like two peas in a pod..I started seeing him the week of New Years and havent missed a weekend with us going out, or spending time together. He spends the whole weekend with me and we talked 3-5 times a day. He's told me some of his friends have said now that he's in a relationship he doenst want to hang out with them as much, the same friend even asked when he was going to meet me. Early on, we had a argument about when we were going to get into a relationship, he told me he had planned on coming to me on Valentines Day but because I was pressuring him, I spoiled the surprise. I felt like a heel, because I had no idea and he mentioned early on he doesn't like to be pressured into anything. From that point, things changed though he kept calling and seeing me. My question is, he acts like we're together , he hasn't given me any signs theres anyone else, he always asks if I want to go to a party his friends are having, or cookouts etc.. But he hasn't officially said we're together, I don't want to ask out of fear of it appearing to be pressure, but I don't want to assume anything. This past Friday when he came over he thanked me for treating him so nice and said he couldn't have ask for anyone better. Is he scared to commit officially or is he just being careful— I've read Taurus men take forever to commit.. Can some of you Taurus men give me some insight?

I am not a Taurus guy, but I was or rather still am seeing one (confusing I know, but that's part of the mystery with being with a Taurus)

I would advise you not to ask him directly about ur relationship, in order not to put him in a corner ? coz trust me they hate that. Instead try and ask him indirectly, but not so you're playing too much emphasise on the answer that he gives ? remember no pressure.

In my relationship with my dear Taurus it often seem that we take 10 steps forwards a-times then 15 back, I just wish that I knew all the things I know about Taurus when we initially meet; at least then I would have had some kind of understanding into his strange behaviour!

Back to you , and based on what you have written, it seem as though the both of you are getting on pretty well, being that your regularly still in contact, mine has a trait of doing disappearing acts for one strange reason or the other!

My advice to you is to try and be as patient as possible with him and know that certain things that you may say which may not be too serious to you, to him on the other hand could mean the world! to give u an insight as to what I'm talking about, read my post entitled: MY TAURUS GUY HAS U-Turned!, don't make the mistake I have made, coz I'm still paying for it.

Hope this helps, Good Luck!

Thanks Passion. He has stayed the night for 5 straight nights so I know he's into me. I just need to hear him say it even with his consistent presence, I just need confirmation. I learned the hard way never to ask directly or put him on the spot so maybe this is where I learn true patience and trust that things will end up right, with us together. Good luck with your Taurus, I know mine makes subtle comments about me having other guys though he sees there is clearly no one else. So just wait it out and if he comes back never mention another man, I've read they need you to reassure them they're the only one. Good Luck!

Can any Taurus guys give any advice??

LOL @ Merc

Taurus men like to hold their cards close to the chest, keep you in the dark until they've made up their minds.

"Scared or Careful—" probably both