@musicplay
11 Years
Scorp guy - not over yet - Taurus gal
How to Move On from a Scorpio Love Interest
To move on from a Scorpio, focus on self-care and emotional healing. Accept your feelings and give yourself time to heal without forcing reconciliation. Engage in activities that boost your confidence and consider seeking support from friends or a counselor to help process your emotions.
Hi I am also a Taurus woman. I struggle with the "getting over it" every time. Is this man back in your life somehow? Friends? Or were you both in love with each other? If not it's more of a struggle with emotional expectations for us Taurus girls, we can think In our minds every which way things shoud've happened or could've happened...and it's hard to let go of what we want.
I have this scorpio guy friend, whom I want to date
and we like each other but he just isn't showing he wants to pursue me more than casually and probably just is ok with sex. But I'm not giving that, I'm worth much more and I want him to see me, who I am. That's a problem when guys put little or no effort in getting to know you.
The thing is I need a specific kind of man and I know that my scorpio is a good person, not quite yet the kind of man I need him to be to hold my heart.
You sound like you want to let your scorpio go, and not see him as you wish he were. I've learned at 28, the only way to truly let go of any expectations/memories, is to know that YOU are completely loved by God and He has someone better in mind for you. Talk to God, pray & ask even with all your tears and heartache, to help you release this man from your mind, your heart and your life. He knows what you need and is there to be that kind of love that stays and He never ever fails us Š
Isaiah 40:31
"But those who hope in the Lord will renew their strength. They will soar on wings like eagles; they will run and not grow weary, they will walk and not be faint."
Matthew 11:28
Proverbs 31 Š
Posted by musicplay
Today is the day when 3 years ago, I realized I am in mad love with this Scorpio. He was going abroad for studies and I had to let him go not saying that I am crazy about him. I need to get it done, get over from it, move on as I know he is not interested in me.
Scorps are tough to get over, so I feel your pain. But for you, its probably a self-worth thing. You need some Leo in your chart. You just simply can't be in love with someone who is not interested in you. You need to value your self enough to realize that if someone is not interested in you, they are not for you, not compatible, not worth your time, etc. I understand though - feelings are feelings and hard to control. It may just take time....It took me nearly 5 or 6 years to truly get over my first love. It was a really long/hard road.
Honestly, though it seemed too shallow for me at the time, and still seems shallow, I think we need to do what other signs often do, and just get back out there and start dating. Find someone with good positive energy who is fun, to take your mind off this....I'm not saying sleep around, but at least eat and drink around or something...lol.
I often regret constantly getting hitched in one long-term relationship after another. I never got to really indulge my Venus in Gemini in all the opportunities that social media now provides. Join some dating sites, make a profile, see what you catch. You need to be *social*, get out....Do something. The biggest reason bulls get stuck, IMO, is that we sit on our ass and do nothing. Take action. Hit the gym to fight your depression; perhaps you'll meet someone there. It has the dual purpose of increasing your self-esteem but also fighting the depression just on a physical/chemical level.
Oh yeah, I actually do pray through these things as well - and it does help. Being around family really seems to help too, and my family is highly dysfunctional.
He does not want to accept me as his lover. He never asks me to be a sex partner. He leaves life and comes back, again and again. Its been 3 years and counting. He shows disinterest while talking to me and makes me realize how much happy he is wherever he is! It does not end, whatever we have between us. Am I exaggerating? I don't know. He is in life but still not in life. When I ask him to stop talking, he stops. When I ask him to talk again, he resumes, as if he really does not care. It sucks. Whenever I feel this, I do this again and again and let him go but again I start missing him and we again talk, with him showing disinterest in me.
I am badly stuck with him. Why does it has to be so much complex?
I'm not saying sleep around, but at least eat and drink around or something...lol.
hedonistic sluts, smh.
So this is my question: People say that you should be more dedicated, passionate and loyal towards the person to make him see your feelings, possibly consider him to know that someone really loves you. But then if I did that, I became a really mad and crazy girl whom no one would even see at ! Why? Is love not crazy enough that makes people gladly accept the pain and still continue?
I became a crazy girl because I love a guy?
Posted by musicplay
So this is my question: People say that you should be more dedicated, passionate and loyal towards the person to make him see your feelings, possibly consider him to know that someone really loves you. But then if I did that, I became a really mad and crazy girl whom no one would even see at ! Why? Is love not crazy enough that makes people gladly accept the pain and still continue?I became a crazy girl because I love a guy?
your initial premise is wrong.
Okay! I am in love so indeed I am a crazy girl. Thank you!
hahaha. musicplay.. been long time enough for that love. 3 yrs is no longer healthy to daydream about it.
My friend taurus kept calling me to help her out of her emotions. She's married but she's in love with the other man before she met her husband.
She opened up all the story about the ex disappearing acts.. that misled her to marry a new guy when she was all alone.
So when the ex came. she contacted me what to do. I tell her go and see him even she's married ( bad me) but I can sense she is still in love with him
that is why I told her to go..but she did not see the guy because of holding a *married status* when in fact her heart is not into it.
After 3 months the guy married a new lady just July 2015. Now she is crying everyday. She told me yesterday she cannot move on...
and I can't help her anymore.. Taurus are very Stubborn.
Posted by Blueprism28
Hi I am also a Taurus woman. I struggle with the "getting over it" every time. Is this man back in your life somehow? Friends? Or were you both in love with each other? If not it's more of a struggle with emotional expectations for us Taurus girls, we can think In our minds every which way things shoud've happened or could've happened...and it's hard to let go of what we want.
I have this scorpio guy friend, whom I want to date
and we like each other but he just isn't showing he wants to pursue me more than casually and probably just is ok with sex. But I'm not giving that, I'm worth much more and I want him to see me, who I am. That's a problem when guys put little or no effort in getting to know you.
The thing is I need a specific kind of man and I know that my scorpio is a good person, not quite yet the kind of man I need him to be to hold my heart.
You sound like you want to let your scorpio go, and not see him as you wish he were. I've learned at 28, the only way to truly let go of any expectations/memories, is to know that YOU are completely loved by God and He has someone better in mind for you. Talk to God, pray & ask even with all your tears and heartache, to help you release this man from your mind, your heart and your life. He knows what you need and is there to be that kind of love that stays and He never ever fails us Š
this could be the most useful message ive ever read on here...
+1
Posted by Blueprism28
Hi I am also a Taurus woman. I struggle with the "getting over it" every time. Is this man back in your life somehow? Friends? Or were you both in love with each other? If not it's more of a struggle with emotional expectations for us Taurus girls, we can think In our minds every which way things shoud've happened or could've happened...and it's hard to let go of what we want.
I have this scorpio guy friend, whom I want to date
and we like each other but he just isn't showing he wants to pursue me more than casually and probably just is ok with sex. But I'm not giving that, I'm worth much more and I want him to see me, who I am. That's a problem when guys put little or no effort in getting to know you.
The thing is I need a specific kind of man and I know that my scorpio is a good person, not quite yet the kind of man I need him to be to hold my heart.
You sound like you want to let your scorpio go, and not see him as you wish he were. I've learned at 28, the only way to truly let go of any expectations/memories, is to know that YOU are completely loved by God and He has someone better in mind for you. Talk to God, pray & ask even with all your tears and heartache, to help you release this man from your mind, your heart and your life. He knows what you need and is there to be that kind of love that stays and He never ever fails us ŠI do this every time and it works!! No point in pining over a man who is not doing the same for you! Wasted emotions and energy!! I pray and stay single until the "right one" comes along however long that takes!! A true taurean woman will find she spends a lot of time alone as there is hardly any man out there who will meet her expectations.
Just "date" ! Improve your social skills by meeting many new and different people. Its a big world out there, go venture out and explore it!!! There's a huge ocean with many beautiful fishes in it! Go fishing! 🙂
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Good god this times 1000. I never see myself as being alone if I'm in between relationships. I relish the time I can solely dedicate my energy towards me. LOL
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Today is the day when 3 years ago, I realized I am in mad love with this Scorpio. He was going abroad for studies and I had to let him go not saying that I am crazy about him. I need to get it done, get over from it, move on as I know he is not interested in me.
How to get over from a Scorpio and move on? I don't know what actually I am feeling right now, but I really really considering to try again, with more dedication and passion towards him.
What should I do? I am getting stressed over it. Help!