Scorpio hurt her Taurus feelings. HELP! (Page 2)

Posted by mae6671
Idk about the nose to spite face thing,

I mean in the sense that scorp would willing inflict pain on themselves if it is better in the long run. Cutting an arm off to save the body kind of thing.

yes, that is true, I perfer to sting myself, than to allow someone else to stomp on me.... Jeane, what is your sign?

Also - with your bull and how he's changing physically, that's actually a lot to go through. I went through that myself when I started getting really into working out after a major breakup. My body composition changed majorly, and very fast. It also played a lot with my ego. It was shocking to see how everyone treated me differently, women in particular though. On one hand, I gained a lot more confidence, but I also probably lost a little respect for women in general when I saw how different my interactions with them were, that they could be just as superficial as men. Taurean magnetism is definitely a real thing with women, where we have to do very little to attract usually, but I agree with the Sextrology entry on Taurus, which basically says that this is really most present and amplified when a bull is in their peak physical shape. Making that transition into that can be a lot to adapt to, you can become very vain, or power trip for a while, etc. Hard really to put that experience into words. But that was also a big factor in my interaction with the Scorp. I think its important to keep your appearance up, be healthy, etc., but when someone focuses too much on that physical aspect, it can really mess you up.

I know it is I went through it myself and I continue to keep in shape and exercising on the regular, ya know, keep myself right, so that yes, I feel good, as well as look good too. I don't think he's focuses too much on the physical aspect. I think it's s discpline thing, I think he feels if he gives me an inch, he's giving me control over his mind, dick and emotions. idk, it's up to him, they are his cards, he can play them however he wants. the physical part I only brought up bc I believe I motivated him, when I told him I lost weight, exercise, etc, plus he's always asking, can you tell I lost weight bc I don't tell him, on purpose bc he's such a puto w/me, so.....I won't feed his ego/mind cause he doesn't want to feed my emotions. so stupid, power trip. rollingmyeyez.

Posted by mae6671
yes, that is true, I perfer to sting myself, than to allow someone else to stomp on me.... Jeane, what is your sign?

exactly.

i'm a libra but have a scorp venus. 🙂

idk much about astrology, I'm just starting to dip my feet into it, don't know much about libras and don't know anyone who is a libra, guess I have some homework to do in my spare time.

Posted by mae6671
plus he's always asking, can you tell I lost weight bc I don't tell him, on purpose bc he's such a puto w/me, so.....I won't feed his ego/mind cause he doesn't want to feed my emotions. so stupid, power trip. rollingmyeyez.

LOL - I am always negotiating with my Sag for compliments. Its truth though - it has to be a give & take. Some people's "love language" is words of affirmation, but if your needs are not being met, you can't be the only one giving.

Posted by mae6671
idk much about astrology, I'm just starting to dip my feet into it, don't know much about libras and don't know anyone who is a libra, guess I have some homework to do in my spare time.

me too. i'm still very much feeling my way. this board is great though. i've learn a great deal from everyone here.

Yes, I love I found this board, lots of different opinions and I like to hear them all....

yes, TLS, and right now, I'm the only one giving, unfair and if I let him tell MY story, he's giving ALOT, but, again, emotional manipulation, selfish, he's basically telling me, MY WORTH. You may be good, but you??re not that good, to where I'm blinded.

Yes, TLS and right now I'm the only one giving, if I allow him to tell my story, he's giving plenty, again selfish, emotional manipulation & he may be good, but he's not that good to where I'm blinded. Ok good evening too all.

Yes, TLS and right now I'm the only one giving, if I allow him to tell my story, he's giving plenty, again selfish, emotional manipulation & he may be good, but he's not that good to where I'm blinded. Ok good evening too all.

And he of course is full of BULL.

Can anyone see my profile pic? Err

Posted by mae6671
Can anyone see my profile pic? Err

Sometimes it takes a bit to show up. Like an hour I think.

Me too I8.

Ahh, tx TLS.

So, apparently, I THOUGHT I blocked T man??s calls and texts, NOW I know it doesn't fully work, but anyway a weird text came through, displaying just from a number 1, it was in my spam texts, but it was a video, of him singing and playing the piano and then a 2nd text in my spam too, saying, he's back in town, from another state, & that he??d u-haul his stuff, he was just getting in??_well, after a great night of dancing, this past Saturday, he apparently left town the next day, (Sunday) but didn't bother tell me he was leaving town to get his things, which we all know, he knew in advance he was leaving??_why does or would he do that? It's so inconsiderate & hurtful of him. On top of, he's only ruining what we could have, leaving a bad taste in my mouth, forming bad habits between us, thus fore we can only connect at arm??s length, making it feel like it's a FWB, I get less and less attached, but why then, make such a huge move, for what I thought is for me. I got him here; he stayed bc of me or so, it appeared that way bc this is his home state, he moved to another state, 13 years ago, bought a home, made a life and all, he has always come to visit, but only during thanksgiving OR xmas/new year breaks for ONLY 1 or 2 weeks, but not even every year, or longer than 2 weeks, as his family is here, but he never choose to come back to stay, until that is, we reconnected a year ago, during 2013 xmas break, he went back home, but we stayed connected for 6 month via phone, his job allows him to get a job in any state, (teacher) so in the summer of 2014, he was to come for the entire summer break, something he??d never done before, so I'm pretty sure it was bc of me and go back, but instead, he decided he was staying & has for the last 8 months, got a teaching job, here and NOW, has gone back to get more of his things, and I know that's HUGE for anyone, but for a T man, that's REAL big, they don't make moves, like this, so easily and so there is something or someone, that made him want to stay, but why then, all lack on consideration and minds games, it's cray cray and so stupid, to me.
Any thoughts or comments, anyone, on why, he's so weird, like this?
P.S. my profile pic, still isn't showing up, anyone know why?