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@ TLS: "Her cleavage ran so low/deep, I think if I had looked down there, the devil would've waved at me from hell....lol. "

๐Ÿ˜† hahahahahahaha.... ROFL!!! OMG!!! THAT has me in tears!!! hahahahahaha...

I think if I were in your position I would be laughing inside just as hard at how hilariously funny that whole scenario was... that poor girl, trying so hard like a mere mortal that she was. I give her kudos for trying!

I think with Leo's there is always an element of humor in their behavior. It always has me laughing a bit. I love their effort though!!



See, TLS here is like one stubborn mofo!

He saw that shit coming six miles off... He sniffed that bastard Leo's motive and intention out and wasn't having any of it.

Mmmmm... Jedi Master... You is... _??



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That's how I felt...lol. I think its ultimately a power thing for me too. I look, she wins. She has power over me. She knows she can seduce me in a sense, she has something I desire. I'd rather keep what *she* desires, and not give it to her - that is, my admiration of her breasts....lol.

I don't look, I keep what she wants. I also gain the power of being mysterious, she thinks "is this person not attracted to me?", "is he too good for me?", "is he not a boob man?", "did I look desperate?", "is he actually a gentleman and respecting me?", "I wonder if he knew what I was doing?"...or some combination of those.....

Or probably not, because she is a Leo and will not waste time analyzing all that, but just move on to the next victim...lol.
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I love their effort though!!



Yeah, I can't ultimately go for that, but I've told you before it does turn me on when they are blatant like that. ...Obviously I still think about this incident from time to time....lol



Yeah... They call it the 'Wank Bank...'



AAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAHHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAH!!!!!! You are seriously too much....



buahahahahahahahahahhahahahahahaha!!!! OMG... you KNOW we were all thinking it though!! hahaahahhahaahhahahahahaa ๐Ÿ˜ˆ ๐Ÿ˜ˆ ๐Ÿ˜ˆ
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What if its more like a check she wrote me, but I never deposited it? Would you believe that? lolol
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No, I don't have mother and son fantasies before any of you lot start!!





I had it pegged more as a power trip - not quite tender enough to be maternal...lolol.



Total power trip. Fascinating and interesting but not necessarily sexual though.


And I saw whips in the near future... reality: what a downer!
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Hey, I didn't say I wouldn't fuck him!

I just like 'playing' with him like a kitten with a ball of wool...

Whips? That's so last year... Come into my Aladdin's cave and I'll show you what delights are in store... I might even let you rub the Genies's furry little belly _??
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@ TLS: "Her cleavage ran so low/deep, I think if I had looked down there, the devil would've waved at me from hell....lol. "

๐Ÿ˜† hahahahahahaha.... ROFL!!! OMG!!! THAT has me in tears!!! hahahahahaha...

I think if I were in your position I would be laughing inside just as hard at how hilariously funny that whole scenario was... that poor girl, trying so hard like a mere mortal that she was. I give her kudos for trying!

I think with Leo's there is always an element of humor in their behavior. It always has me laughing a bit. I love their effort though!!



See, TLS here is like one stubborn mofo!

He saw that shit coming six miles off... He sniffed that bastard Leo's motive and intention out and wasn't having any of it.

Mmmmm... Jedi Master... You is... _??





That's how I felt...lol. I think its ultimately a power thing for me too. I look, she wins. She has power over me. She knows she can seduce me in a sense, she has something I desire. I'd rather keep what *she* desires, and not give it to her - that is, my admiration of her breasts....lol.

I don't look, I keep what she wants. I also gain the power of being mysterious, she thinks "is this person not attracted to me?", "is he too good for me?", "is he not a boob man?", "did I look desperate?", "is he actually a gentleman and respecting me?", "I wonder if he knew what I was doing?"...or some combination of those.....

Or probably not, because she is a Leo and will not waste time analyzing all that, but just move on to the next victim...lol.


I swear you sound eerily similar to me sometimes. Way too much in common, it's crazy!
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He sounds like you, me, and my ex Scorp mate! It's all true. The power thing. You know what they want so you don't give it. It's more fun that way. Especially when you do the opposite and it sends their little brain into orbit... Sometimes it's just too easy so you do it out of playful spite, determination, a big 'fuck you' if you like. Just to mix it up a bit. T&S are very similar in that respe
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No, I don't have mother and son fantasies before any of you lot start!!





I had it pegged more as a power trip - not quite tender enough to be maternal...lolol.



Total power trip. Fascinating and interesting but not necessarily sexual though.


And I saw whips in the near future... reality: what a downer!



Hey, I didn't say I wouldn't fuck him!

I just like 'playing' with him like a kitten with a ball of wool...

Whips? That's so last year... Come into my Aladdin's cave and I'll show you what delights are in store... I might even let you rub the Genies's furry little belly _??


If Genie is a hot looking male, I'd rather be rubbing something else if you don't mind! Might be more effective as to getting my wish too ๐Ÿ˜‰ Alright... this Alice is curious enough to follow you and see what you have in that store you call Wonderland!
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I've first dibs! You can have sloppy seconds!

I want a tall, dark haired, handsome, single fella without any children who is not of the fucking idiot variety...

Damn... Genie says too many wishes... I may only have one...

In that case, send me Dylan McDermott and that will be the end of it.

He's one sexy Scorp.
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I just wanted to see if the reaction he gave the first time holds good any day..or is it just because i looked pretty that day!



This is such a Scorp test. LOL, she did this many times and I always knew it. Its hard to pass this test though, because when you look *exceptional*, we really want to communicate that you DO look exceptional, and we are really affected by it. But then of course, the normal attention we give you on any day, might not be as exaggerated as this, and there is the risk that the difference between our responses will signal to you, just what you were searching for - that its "just because" you looked pretty that day. Really though, I was always staring lovingly, just maybe not as lustfully...lol. I see this as more of a Scorp trap than a Scorp test....lol.

It was so bold though, as I even think she dressed down intentionally some days to run this one. I think ultimately it backfired on *her* though, and she really did seem to wind up only feeling confident at one point to see me, when she had fully dressed up, her hair straightened, makeup perfect, etc. And her looking like that, activating so much lust in me, really made it impossible to approach anyway, as I'd feel wrong approaching her on such a seemingly superficial/sexual premise, *and* also when she has that much power *over* me...lol.


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Lol!You're right!The difference in responses did signal to me what I was searching for N It did put more pressure on me to be perfect!He sat right behind me n played with my hair n all n I know he's very observant..!It all made me more conscious!N when i know this bull isn't going to come to the class I didn't bother what I wore or what I looked like!I'm sure I'd even looked messy..picking up the worst dress from my wardrobe,no makeup, no straightening of hair.. Crazy it was!Also I was gloomy the whole day when I didn't see him!N the days when I didn't feel like dolling up/when I felt I wasn't looking good I avoided talking to him much n avoided any eye contact too!I didn't feel any need to do all this with anyone else before!
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LOL!

Scorps are supposed to be a little more comfortable dealing with these things, no? Maybe he's trying really hard to maintain his professionalism...lol

When it comes to cleavage, I never go for that bait though - from anyone. Of course every man likes a little cleavage, and every woman knows this, but its just too common, at least in my world, that women sport cleavage, and then come talk to you to see where your eyes will wander. I look them straight in the eye. You see a lot of funny things happen when you do that....Some women can be very persistent at trying to get you to check out their boobs...particularly Leos...lol.



How funny! I NEVER do the cleavage thing. Also think its a bit too obvious.



I had a Leo who had to work on an account with, who was particularly well endowed and widely known for this in the office, come by to visit one day.....Shirt was really inappropriate. I remember her standing there for inordinate amounts of time, waiting for me to check em out, changing her posture to be progressively more revealing, even making some extremely sexual jokes in the process. She wound up going under the desk across from me, asking me if they had a certain random cable under there, then trying to maintain a convo with me, while she was on the floor on her knees completely bent over, facing me. Her cleavage ran so low/deep, I think if I had looked down there, the devil would've waved at me from hell....lol.



Leo... No fucking class!
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Lol! Agree! No class! That's downright ****!N No! I won't do that ever...!I know i don't need to :p
Also true..I did come across Leos being persistent with the validation thing... Never been a fan of leos though
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See, TLS here is like one stubborn mofo!

He saw that shit coming six miles off... He sniffed that bastard Leo's motive and intention out and wasn't having any of it.

Mmmmm... Jedi Master... You is... _??







I don't look, I keep what she wants. I also gain the power of being mysterious, she thinks "is this person not attracted to me?", "is he too good for me?", "is he not a boob man?", "did I look desperate?", "is he actually a gentleman and respecting me?", "I wonder if he knew what I was doing?"...or some combination of those.....

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You gave me a clue here!I'll make sure I'll remember this ๐Ÿ˜„
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It can be culturally conditioned I guess. In the Northeast, you can get into a fight for the way you look at a woman while she is with her man. In Texas, it seems that men really like to show their women off, and desire for all eyes to be on her. My TX bull friend married a Leo and he really wants others to see how valuable his possession is...lol. He apparently wants them to know he is great enough to be with such a gorgeous woman, and its a big theme with him - constantly dressing her up, pushing the boundaries of inappropriateness.
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Is it normal for guy friends to show off their friends (girls) too? Or is it just their women they show off?I constantly come across guys who just talk to me n try showing it off! I'm afraid I'll lose most of my guy friends once I let them into my pants!Though they seemingly do care for me when no one is around, I don't get this good vibes..They're best(they act like they own me sometimes) with me only when we are surrounded by their other guy friends..!Also shouldn't my guy friends respect me when they are with their friends?I mean if their friends got something nasty to tell about me or make some lewd comments shouldn't they get defensive n take my side rather than laughing it off??Or is it something like a guys' thing which makes them be deaf to it or Just share the laughs?
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Yeah, I'd already done my 'research' after our first appointment. That's how I know how old he, his bday, girlfriend, where he lives, works, his family, friends, where he went to university, when he graduated... Shit, I know everything about him so I don't need to go for that pint!!



Dont EVER tell him this! That is freaky! ๐Ÿ˜



Oh come on... There's no way in hell I'd tell him. What the fuck for?

I can't help it. It's my skill set. It's my main career. I get paid loads to exercise my skill set... Research, due diligence, finding things others don't, won't or can't...

It doesn't make me a bad AgentP _โ€”
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And to think it all started stalking those early soulmate prospects! LOL.

You should seriously let your Venus in Scorp go pro, and start some sort of (legal) online "stalking" agency, where people can hire you to dig and snoop on their objects of limerence. lol....I would hire you....

the Scorp business alone would keep you afloat....hahhahahahah
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It can be culturally conditioned I guess. In the Northeast, you can get into a fight for the way you look at a woman while she is with her man. In Texas, it seems that men really like to show their women off, and desire for all eyes to be on her. My TX bull friend married a Leo and he really wants others to see how valuable his possession is...lol. He apparently wants them to know he is great enough to be with such a gorgeous woman, and its a big theme with him - constantly dressing her up, pushing the boundaries of inappropriateness.



Is it normal for guy friends to show off their friends (girls) too? Or is it just their women they show off?I constantly come across guys who just talk to me n try showing it off! I'm afraid I'll lose most of my guy friends once I let them into my pants!Though they seemingly do care for me when no one is around, I don't get this good vibes..They're best(they act like they own me sometimes) with me only when we are surrounded by their other guy friends..!Also shouldn't my guy friends respect me when they are with their friends?I mean if their friends got something nasty to tell about me or make some lewd comments shouldn't they get defensive n take my side rather than laughing it off??Or is it something like a guys' thing which makes them be deaf to it or Just share the laughs?
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I can't advise you on sex with dudes. A friend is a just friend IMO. I am pre-FWB generation.

On guys sticking up for you, you probably provoke a strong reaction in others like most Scorps....I wouldn't expect too much loyalty or chivalry out of 20yr' old dudes though
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I can't advise you on sex with dudes. A friend is a just friend IMO. I am pre-FWB generation.

On guys sticking up for you, you probably provoke a strong reaction in others like most Scorps....I wouldn't expect too much loyalty or chivalry out of 20yr' old dudes though
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Advise me on Sex with friends? Lol!I may not be the pre-FWB generation.. But I'm very vintage about this stuff! I haven't had sex in all the 21 years of my life,let alone getting into the Fwb thing...
N the guy friends.. What's the point of being friends when we aren't able to even defend them ...It can be done in very subtle way possible too right? Or yeah...maybe it's too much to ask for from 20year olds? But I'd do that for my friends if I were them I say!They make me feel they only want one thing from me though they don't make me obvious !
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Your breakfast would be ready before you wake up to the sweetest good morning kiss And You will get the most sensual, relaxing massages before going to bed.. do i need to mention that would be followed by an intense/deep intimacy that feeds your soul?






I mean I just keep coming back to this, especially that breakfast part....lol.

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Lol @ The breakfast part. This doesnt surprise me one bit. Hahahaha

Btw! Happy birthdayy my friend. Hope ur having a bril day.
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Lol I thought I might go and try to have a life outside DXP last week... Only joking. Was busy with a work task, 26 hour shift over the UK election. I took the weekend to recover!

I'd started to read the thread but don't think I commented then by the time I'd come back it had exploded!

I think I got bored of the T&S thing a bit. I didn't personally have an amazing connection with the one I met, I just thought he was cute and funny etc. He's been moved to 'incompatible dickhead' category now. My experience here is lacking so I tend to only comment on the more obvious stuff which doesn't always relate to astrology. The other two Bulls I know, one has harboured a crush on me for 8 years but it's not happening, the other I got on well with instantly but not in a sexual way.

There's so many stories already on here and most are not that unique. If the readers took time to go back over older posts they would gain much knowledge and opinion etc. Then they might be better placed to ask only specific questions and we don't have to keep repeating ourselves.



Got bored a " bit" ? Seriously?Just a bit??I mean you haven't even experienced any such thing n still try to understand n help n not even get bored of how all of us here go on n on about it??Staying true to your sign eh? ๐Ÿ˜‰ I'm your fan girl from now :p N about this Taurus guy being an incompatible dickhead..I'm sure most of us going through this energy phase or whatever will realize that we're totally incompatible with the other eventually if not immediately Or so i feel!But wait...You haven't been there (T & S thing i mean) ,you seemingly don't have any relationship problems,you're not into astrology (because you said you comment on the obvious stuff ..or is it just here?) so what actually brought/brings you to dxp?I'm curious ๐Ÿ˜„
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To answer your questions:

I am into astrology. More than the basics. You should see my book shelves. Although not into the degrees and orbs and a lot of that stuff. I understand the signs, planets, and houses plus compara
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Teena,

To answer your questions:

I am into astrology. More than the basics. You should see my book shelves. Although not into the degrees and orbs and a lot of that stuff. I understand the signs, planets, and houses plus compatability etc.

I joined DXP as I found the TLS thread regarding his Scorp experience while googling about Taurus guys. I wanted to know more about them as I was interested in one at the time. I'd not had much experience or knowledge of them.

I often comment on posts from a more objective or balanced view and not always from an astrological view point. When something or someone is doing or being a particular way it is not always the result of astrology. A dick head is a dick head regardless of sign or placements. Often my replies are sarcastic, humorous, honest, well intended but occasionally tactless. Blame my Sag Merc and Rising.

I don't currently have any relationship problems because I don't have a relationship. I'm taking time out after a bad break up last Feb followed by the disaster of what was the Taurus. I'm slowly coming round to the thought of meeting someone again but right now I'm pretty busy. Other things are more important plus I'm learning more about what I do and do not want. I'd prefer to meet someone in person rather than via Internet dating. I can't be arsed with that any more.

I have 'been there' with the Taurus man. I didn't feel this amazing connection which many others describe. There was clearly enough connection for me to spend a large amount of money on a plane ticket and trip from the UK to USA to see him again. Unfortunately he didn't quite appreciate my visit in the way I thought he would, had led me to believe, and had hoped. I took a chance because he ticked a lot of boxes and he said was looking to settle down so it was a possible match between two 34 year olds. Not because of this amazing intense connection, sexual or otherwise. He was very cute and sexy, intelligent, friendly, funny, single, no kids, no ex wife, and I very much liked his affection. Unfortunately, in my opinion, he was also rather immature in many respects, extremely disrespectful, made no effort to really bother with me in a way a mature 34 year old would or should, and he was just quite difficult to deal with. We didn't speak the same language. I had a good insight about the whole situation from another DXP member which I appreciated and took on board. I think now I look back along with having more information about
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We didn't speak the same language. I'm Venus in Scorp, he is Venus in Gem. I found his behaviour odd and alien to me. I had a good insight about the whole situation from another DXP member which I appreciated and took on board. Not TLS because he was being a lazy shit. I think now I look back along with having more information about the dude available to me, I can see we wouldn't be compatible at all. He's still cute, I'd have a casual beer with him if I was in the USA again (if he could bother himself) but nothing more.

Sometimes I find some of the threads boring as it can be about the same thing so sometimes I don't follow it or I'm busy elsewhere.

I'll read your story and offer any feedback, if any.

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Agent... That guy was an ass! Did he ever apologize?



A Taurean apologise?

Ha ha ha ha ha...

No. He didn't. I don't think he thought he did anything wrong. I used to wonder if he genuinely gave a shit. Now I don't dedicate much time thinking of it. Waste of time and energy.

We did not remain in contact after I left San Fran in Nov last year. However, him and the situation wouldn't leave my mind. We have since exchanged the odd text around the time of his bday which I initiated.

Since those texts, it's like the switch in my head/heart has been turned off. The balance has been restored in some odd way.

Everything about it and him is just wrong. I see it better now. I see him differently now. Perhaps I just had a different kind of 'pull' than others had.
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That is SOOOOOOO rude! So, right before the trip; How was he behaving? Were there no red flags in sight?



Lots of words. Empty words. He probably meant them at the time he said them but five minutes later he probably changed his mind. I just wasn't aware how flighty and indecisive he was until I met him again. It was like I was dealing with a different person. He basically didn't 'remember' anything.

There weren't any major red flags. We met for one night. Kept in touch for six months. Good communication, for a male bull! He was the one slowly making plans. I just went with it all.

I don't feel he really appreciated me or the effort I'd made, I feel he squandered a nice opportunity to just get to know me.

On the other hand, if he wasn't ready to get to know me or didn't feel he was happy with his life etc then it just wasn't to be. I would have preferred he said that before I booked my flight!

Additionally, it's also his loss, potentially a big loss. I'm not saying this arrogantly but I could have assisted him with a mutually beneficial and potential career opportunity. He was in between jobs since leaving his teaching job. He mentioned about teaching English abroad, a new idea he'd discussed with his mother. It's a conversation I'd have liked to expand on but his overly arrogant and defensive, stubborn, almost misogynistic, disrespectful, I know it all and I'm right about everything attitude was rather tricky to deal with along with his volcanic outbursts and temper.

In some way, I kind of felt this was due to his insecurities or lack of confidence due to his situation - temp job and living back home at 34 along with me having good careers, good home, well travelled, good investments - which I completely played down because it's not relevent plus he's a bloke, at the time I thought his personal circumstances were an advantage not a disadvantage. I didn't want to judge him or make him feel bad.

I would have liked to discuss this with him because I part own six English schools in China with two new ones opening later this year. At the time I needed teachers and I needed an Education Director to build and co-ordinate our expansion. These roles would have suited his skill set for various reasons plus it would have been a good opportunity and career challenge he was looking for, plus the money would have been significantly mo
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plus the money would have been significantly more than anything he could have got in USA. In addition, he was into sports and this could have been utilised too.

I chose to keep quiet about it because it was easier to say 'yes Eric' rather than demonstrate I'm a female with a brain and an opinion!

To this day he still doesn't know.

He now has some crap, dead end job he's not happy in and won't stick at. He wants to travel but in the year I've known him he hasn't made any plan or done anything about it. Words! Since Xmas I've booked a weekend in Poland, a week in Morocco in August, two weeks away this Xmas to Russia and eastern bloc, and I'm working on a week in Scotland. So you see how incompatible we are!!

In conclusion, I took a chance, my decision, and I went there to see him, to learn more about him, and to find out if there was something more there. I learnt we were not a match. That was fine. Shit happens. I just wasn't prepared for how bad and horrible the experience was.
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"I joined DXP as I found the TLS thread regarding his Scorp experience while googling about Taurus guys.I wanted to know more about them as I was interested in one at the time.I'd not had much experience or knowledge of them."
Lol! I found it years back when I was searching about Scorpios n When I read this thread I had this moronic feeling that it's written by some self-obsessed scorpio :p..n few months before when I was confused about this Taurus guy!
"A dick head is a dick head regardless of sign or placements. Often my replies are sarcastic, humorous, honest, well intended but occasionally tactless"
>>Rofl! True that! It's not about astrology always..n yeah I did observe the pattern of your comments n loved it ๐Ÿ™‚
"Other things are more important plus I'm learning more about what I do and do not want. I'd prefer to meet someone in person rather than via Internet dating"
Lol! Yeah..I've seen your reply on the other thread which says you don't have time for sex(I'm note stalking you.. Or maybe? :p)
So you met this guy via internet?
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"I have 'been there' with the Taurus man. I didn't feel this amazing connection which many others describe"
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Lucky you didn't have it! Though I can see you had it pretty bad,it'd have been worser..
"We didn't speak the same language. I'm Venus in Scorp, he is Venus in Gem. I found his behaviour odd and alien to me."
This explains everything.. I thought he must be a Taurus-gemini cusp when i was reading your story..Apparently venus in Gemini makes him no different from a sun in Gemini! I dealt with a gemini guy before n had a very similar experience.He lead me on without no real intentions..I think he's just making sure his flirting skills are still intact n that they can their work charm on every female he met..N yeah when i reciprocated I saw him withdrawing his cards mercilessly!He's suchha douchebag!But still it was hard not to like him..n I was(still am) very forgiving.. Not one of those vengeful lot..!Else he'd have seen his doom..i did know how to tick him off n make his life a mess!
"Not TLS because he was being a lazy shit."
>>Lol! Now I see why you try n pick fights with him :p..it's fun though!
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"Thanks for being a fan. Much appreciated. I'll send you a signed photo in the post! _??__??__โ€” "
Lol!That'd be great..thanks ๐Ÿ˜„
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Feel free to PM me or write it on here."
I didn't ask anything any particular here...i was just going with the flow of thread! Thanks ๐Ÿ™‚ I'll Pm you if any ๐Ÿ™‚
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"A Taurean apologise?"
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Lol!I didn't know(didn't like to take note of) this till i came across some video regarding taurus yesterday.. N then i racked my brains..!True the bull I'm dealing with has this huge ego..he wasn't sorry even when he had to be!I just ignored his every flaw..seemingly!They don't even think they did something wrong!
"Since those texts, it's like the switch in my head/heart has been turned off. The balance has been restored in some odd way"
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I so think you've been waiting for some kind of closure!A very similar thing happenedto me with the gem guy i mentioned!When I iced him out after realizing I've been taken for granted or whatever,I had this awful feeling which wouldn't leave me for months!Maybe because i didn't have a chance to show him his place?Or maybe because my ego took a terrible beating!But when i did talk to him later I had this great sense of relief!I showed him how happy I was with my life n how I was too busy for him,how i made new friends n etc! That's when I realized i badly needed a second chance..not to bounce back with him but for a proper closure/ending!
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"Lots of words. Empty words. He probably meant them at the time he said them but five minutes later he probably changed his mind. I just wasn't aware how flighty and indecisive he was until I met him again. It was like I was dealing with a different person. He basically didn't 'remember' anything."
>>lol! This again makes me think of Geminis in general! They're so like this!
"I don't feel he really appreciated me or the effort I'd made, I feel he squandered a nice opportunity to just get to know me"
>>I think he was just looking for some kind of mental stimulation N panicked when he actually saw you!Because then he realized it has something to do with heart n not the brain!

"I chose to keep quiet about it because it was easier to say 'yes Eric' rather than demonstrate I'm a female with a brain and an opinion!
To this day he still doesn't know."
Rofl!I'm sure you'd have made him run for life if you did demonstrate that :p
HE doesn't know?? I think you should've let him know..let him know you could've been of great help but you still wouldn't!That'd have been pure evil!He'd have known what he lost!
Also..apparently, this guy is not just incompatible with you,he didn't even deserve you!I'm not saying this just for the sake of it Or to make you feel better!You really deserved so much better with all that career advancements you're making!

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No I didn't meet the Taurus via the Internet. I'd met him in person before.

It's not that I don't have time for a shag. I just don't or won't make the time for it with the particular person who is volunteering.

Yes I did like the Taurus dude. He had good qualities too. As ViS I do find myself becoming attached. I think I did have it pretty bad. In this scenario I placed too much on it and hoped for too much which kinda back fired. That is my fault, not his. However, I expected better from a 34 year old man but as it was pointed out to me, he was just being himself. A flighty bull. I now know this is not for me.

My male friend is Gem Sun, he's a flighty fucker but I've known him 14 years. My own mother is Gem Sun and Gem Venus, seriously, she is an alien and I have never understood her at all. I tolerate her because I have to and have learnt how to deal with her over the years. I actually didn't make the connection of Gem Venus between my mother and Taurus dude until after my trip.

I don't think he lead me on as such. It was a consideration at the start that he might just be contacting me as he was bored but I went with it thinking it will either be something or nothing. For a guy to remain in good contact for six months when he's 5000 miles away, to make a plan to visit me (his trip got cancelled, genuine reason) is not the sign of someone who didn't like me or was leading me on. I do think he struggled with the reality of me in person but I now know this dude has got issues! I still have a slight soft spot for him but there's nothing there, and yes, in some odd way, by re-establishing contact it restored the balance or brought closure. We are not in contact right now, he sent an odd message about some stocks/shares, and said he wasn't settling in his new job and he wanted to travel. I glossed over his stocks/shares comment (he was making a statement to big himself up rather than requiring my opinion which I would have happily provided had he been receptive to it), and I asked him about his job and where he wanted to travel to. He didn't reply. No problem.
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No point in bringing up the job opportunity now or rubbing it in his face. I'm not like that. I don't see any point or what it would achieve. Had he behaved differently towards me, been respectful, and bothered to be proactive and spend time with me I would have discussed it with him. As it happened, it was not something we could have had a civil and 'grown up' conversation about so I concluded I wouldn't have been able to work with him in an effective way. Perhaps I should have given it a chance but when he's sat there with his 'I know everything, I know best' attitude it was tricky to break through that.

I wondered if he was a complete arsehole to everyone which is why at 34 he isn't really where a 34 year old should be.

He really didn't know everything and he didn't know best. The beauty is to recognise what you do know and what you don't know. I've noticed a few Bulls (people in general too) are stubborn with this attitude and it can really hinder them. Plus he couldn't make a decision to save his life. Certainly not without discussing it with his mummy first, bless him!

I'm sure he'll find his way at some point and I hope he's happy. I just think he needs to be careful with what he says in future. He's not going to settle down for a while yet. I think i may have left him with a couple of scars _??_
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How dare you say twenty year olds don't have chivalry. Fuck you ASSHOLE!



He didn't say twenty year olds do not have any chivalry.

He just suggested not to expect too much chivalry (or loyalty) so she wouldn't be disappointed or hurt. More from the view point of self protection.

It's a fair and just point.


According to who? You? AgentP91? Ugh. BYE! Jerk!
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Yes, according me.

Are you a child?

Have you escaped from a nursery or a mental asylum?

What's with your behaviour?

It's AgentP911, not AgentP91.

Now why don't you 'flyover' there and fuck off!
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Well seeing as how I wasn't addressing you I'll stay right here. As far as your name goes you'll always p91 to me I only know one 911 and that's la polocia!



You were addressing me.

May I draw your attention to the part where you quoted my post/reply. The one where you said 'according to who? You?' Then you misspelt my username, said 'ugh' followed by 'BYE' then called me a jerk.

Yeah, I think that constitutes addressing me.

Good to know you're acquainted with the police although the number for the emergency services here in the UK is 999. Oh look, you learn something new every day.

The 911 in my username is reference to a Porsche.

Oh dear... There's always one... Sigh...

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"In this scenario I placed too much on it and hoped for too much which kinda back fired. That is my fault, not his. However, I expected better from a 34 year old man but as it was pointed out to me, he was just being himself. A flighty bull. I now know this is not for me."

>>The Gemini i dealt with surely did lead me on n it wasn't my fault!Though this bull confuses me!I don't understand what to expect next from him..he keeps me on my toes.. Which again,I don't know is intentional!It annoys me to not be able to dissect him.But yeah,Talking about your case,it'd have been totally unexpected from a 34 year old!
"My male friend is Gem Sun, he's a flighty fucker but I've known him 14 years. My own mother is Gem Sun and Gem Venus, seriously, she is an alien and I have never understood her at all. I tolerate her because I have to and have learnt how to deal with her over the years.I actually didn't make the connection of Gem Venus between my mother and Taurus dude until after my trip.

>>Every Gemini I met has been very flighty!But I'm kinda very drawn to them...for a while that is!They're very smart,witty,humorous,fun to have around,can keep the conversation going..They got some charm about them...but there it ends..There's nothing beyond this i could see!No emotions,no depth,very indecisive,also i found them veryyy jealous (though their sign says otherwise)..I doubt if they at all know what they want!For me their negatives outweigh positives!Bumped into a lot of them but never got it going!It's always been fun while it lasted though!
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>>I think he was just looking for some kind of mental stimulation N panicked when he actually saw you!Because then he realized it has something to do with heart n not the brain!



With VinGem, its not really a focus on the brain, as opposed to the heart. The heart kinda is the brain, or at least....the mind is the conduit to the heart. Like with VinScorp, the heart resides quite lower, in the underworld of the body....lol.

I love VinScorps but honestly, not sure VinGem is ultimately going to be able to hang with it. Too light-hearted and inconstant as is being described, too subject to change, too slick/crafty for their own good, yet not quite enough to circumvent the VinScorp pro spy game....I think VinScorp really needs consistency. Unfortunately, I actually admire the level to which VinScorp loves, the view of love and loyalty that many of them subscribe to, and I have such an appreciation for the raw power of this placement when it comes to the art of seduction, which I've experienced as something I'd more accurately describe as a type of sorcery, or mind-control....In fact, I have never seen, heard, or felt anything more impressive from another human being. So with all that, I am kinda screwed. I am really drawn to them, and all of my closest friends have this placement, so apparently they are drawn to me. But romantically, for the most part, we just probably aren't compatible....VinGem is really a tough placement to deal with for a lot of reasons. But not even 1/1000th as hard as VinScorp, so I wouldn't even get any astrological sympathy from them....lol.
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"I asked him about his job and where he wanted to travel to. He didn't reply. No problem."

>>Wtf is wrong with the Taurus men? Are they retarded in some way?? Why wouldn't he reply you?He was the one who started conversation right? N he still wouldn't reply? I've seen this kinda weird texting pattern with my bull too!Mental he seems! I think it's their Gemini Venus.. But why should i blame the stars everytime!
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It's always been fun while it lasted though!



I would never go near a Gemini romantically. But I grew up surrounded by Geminis, maybe bc I have Venus in Gemini, I've always appreciated them. I learned early on though that you basically have to just accept that they are here today, and probably gone tomorrow, and just enjoy them with no strings attached. They can be some of the most entertaining people. I have never met a Gemini that is lacking in passion, or even emotion - the problem is more likely to be that they are passionate about TOO many things. The curse of the Gemini mind is the fact that it gets bored so easily and often does not have the strength to suffer through that and bring its utterly brilliant concepts to fruition. Geminis I have known have definitely been some of the most intelligent/creative people I've ever met.
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>>I think he was just looking for some kind of mental stimulation N panicked when he actually saw you!Because then he realized it has something to do with heart n not the brain!




. ...VinGem is really a tough placement to deal with for a lot of reasons. But not even 1/1000th as hard as VinScorp, so I wouldn't even get any astrological sympathy from them....lol.
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Lol! This is so in sync with my last post above ^^
I don't think i can deal with a Gemini! Didn't think about Venus is Gemini! I got my Venus in Sagittarius though!
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Posted by AgentP911
he's sat there with his 'I know everything, I know best' attitude it was tricky to break through that.

I wondered if he was a complete arsehole to everyone which is why at 34 he isn't really where a 34 year old should be.

He really didn't know everything and he didn't know best. The beauty is to recognise what you do know and what you don't know. I've noticed a few Bulls (people in general too) are stubborn with this attitude and it can really hinder them. Plus he couldn't make a decision to save his life. Certainly not without discussing it with his mummy first, bless him!

I'm sure he'll find his way at some point and I hope he's happy. I just think he needs to be careful with what he says in future. He's not going to settle down for a while yet. I think i may have left him with a couple of scars _??_



Didn't get to know many Taurus people but i do think this bull is very opinionated n has some strong judgments! It's impossible to make him budge!Makes me wonder how they are both considerate n stubborn at the same time!

My mom has both sun n moon in Taurus (don't know about any of her other placements )But she's not like any of what we are discussing!She's the sweetest person I've ever met!Very adaptable,very modest,very friendly n flexible with her thoughts too,emotional n sensitive to everyone's needs!She's very accepting of people!She hasn't got one person against her!N she's been with my dad for 25 years now..though it's never been easy with him having a cancer sun n taurus moon again!
Lol! This bull guy is suchha momma's boy too..I saw that immediately after we started talking!
Good that you left him with few scars!Makes you live in peace :p