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Posted by Teena
"I asked him about his job and where he wanted to travel to. He didn't reply. No problem."
>>Wtf is wrong with the Taurus men? Are they retarded in some way?? Why wouldn't he reply you?He was the one who started conversation right? N he still wouldn't reply? I've seen this kinda weird texting pattern with my bull too!Mental he seems! I think it's their Gemini Venus.. But why should i blame the stars everytime!
No, I initiated the text last month. We exchanged a few. I asked about his job. He did not reply. Although I noticed he updated his Linked-In page pretty much right after I asked him what job he was doing. That's rather amusing. If he wants to reply then he can. If he doesn't then he doesn't.
Communication last year was fine and consistent but at that time there was a point or a purpose to it. Now there really isn't much point and there's no purpose to it.
My view and opinion on him has changed quite considerably since last year. I had thought he was a mature fella who was having a bit of a career change and figuring out what he wanted to do. I now know him better and experienced his personality which I would describe as an immature person, like a child, with zero clue and zero to offer, not even kind manners or a good heart. I'm sure he has those somewhere but they were not meant for me.
Seriously, you should have seen the tantrum this dude had in the street when I didn't put my arm around him in the way he wanted. I genuinely didn't know how to deal with it. Not even my much younger brother had a tantrum like that! I just looked at him as if to say 'wtf are you doing? I don't get you. Why can't we just go out and have a nice time, I've come all this way to see you, is this not registering in your head?'
I actually like his humour and conversation when he wasn't being a fucktard. I have a Gem descendant and mental stimulation is important to me.
I found him very attractive on the outside but his inside put me off and I just couldn't connect with him. I think he was angling for a shag but my loins were dryer than the Sahara! Had he have taken me out somewhere and bothered with me then it may have happened but I was like Fort Knox which I'm sure was tough for him to deal with too.
I'm not bashing the guy, it was what it was. We are who we are. Had I not taken the chance to visit him then I'm confident this situation
situation would still be going on and I'd still be waiting for him to visit me which probably wouldn't have materialised as he wasn't quite as interested, fair enough.
He's been friend zoned! If he wants to remain in sporadic contact as a distant friend then I'm happy to entertain that. If he wanted to come to the UK and stay a few days or meet up as friends and sight see then I'd consider it but wouldn't bend over backwards for him and it would depend on what else was going on in my life or where I'm at with stuff. That's exceedingly generous of me!
I'd even promise to fetch him from the airport and then... Not turn up... Just as he did to see how he likes it. I might even then suggest he takes the train followed by a cab and when there's no cabs at the other end I might suggest he walk through a shithole of a city at 9pm with 90lbs of luggage on his back dressed in his smartest clothing... Oh sorry... I forgot you were coming... _—
In a good way, he served a purpose for something else that was going on in my life back then so it's all good.
He's been friend zoned! If he wants to remain in sporadic contact as a distant friend then I'm happy to entertain that. If he wanted to come to the UK and stay a few days or meet up as friends and sight see then I'd consider it but wouldn't bend over backwards for him and it would depend on what else was going on in my life or where I'm at with stuff. That's exceedingly generous of me!
I'd even promise to fetch him from the airport and then... Not turn up... Just as he did to see how he likes it. I might even then suggest he takes the train followed by a cab and when there's no cabs at the other end I might suggest he walk through a shithole of a city at 9pm with 90lbs of luggage on his back dressed in his smartest clothing... Oh sorry... I forgot you were coming... _—
In a good way, he served a purpose for something else that was going on in my life back then so it's all good.
"He did not reply. Although I noticed he updated his Linked-In page pretty much right after I asked him what job he was doing. That's rather amusing. If he wants to reply then he can. If he doesn't then he doesn't"
>Lol! This so reminds of some teenager!
"I would describe as an immature person, like a child, with zero clue and zero to offer, not even kind manners or a good heart. I'm sure he has those somewhere but they were not meant for me"
>I think he's just super messed up! I'm guessing he's also kinda jealous!Maybe he didn't like you doing better than him..an average guy instinct.. Isn't it?Though ofcourse you downplayed it..he might have had this itch!
"Seriously,you should have seen the tantrum this dude had in the street when I didn't put my arm around him in the way he wanted. I genuinely didn't know how to deal with it. Not even my much younger brother had a tantrum like that! I just looked at him as if to say 'wtf are you doing? I don't get you. Why can't we just go out and have a nice time, I've come all this"
>I feel you! N as i said.. I don't think it's just about holding arms thing.. There must me something which has been troubling him!
>Lol! This so reminds of some teenager!
"I would describe as an immature person, like a child, with zero clue and zero to offer, not even kind manners or a good heart. I'm sure he has those somewhere but they were not meant for me"
>I think he's just super messed up! I'm guessing he's also kinda jealous!Maybe he didn't like you doing better than him..an average guy instinct.. Isn't it?Though ofcourse you downplayed it..he might have had this itch!
"Seriously,you should have seen the tantrum this dude had in the street when I didn't put my arm around him in the way he wanted. I genuinely didn't know how to deal with it. Not even my much younger brother had a tantrum like that! I just looked at him as if to say 'wtf are you doing? I don't get you. Why can't we just go out and have a nice time, I've come all this"
>I feel you! N as i said.. I don't think it's just about holding arms thing.. There must me something which has been troubling him!
"I think he was angling for a shag but my loins were dryer than the Sahara."
>>Lol!Good that you didn't go for it! Else you'd have had another reason to regret!
"but wouldn't bend over backwards for him and it would depend on what else was going on in my life or where I'm at with stuff. That's exceedingly generous of me! "
>>Never! You won't be doing that! Ofcourse it's still exceedingly generous
"Oh sorry... I forgot you were coming... _—
>>Wtf did i just read— Did he really promise to fetch you up at the airpot n totally forgot about it n he dared to tell that to you??Wow!Such an asshole!Clearly he's a moron! Are you sure he's 34?? Now I question his manhood!
This gemimi guy had a tantrum too once..!We were hanging out that day!I didn't know if he even wants me to come..it's his bestie who forced me to go along with them..saying the whole plan is made only for me!Our plan is to meet their older friends(all girls)..!We reached place n he didn't want me to take a chair beside him!He was like "see,i don't want to give a different impression to my friends.. Go n take another seat!" I was like wtf? I dunno any of them..how do you expect me to sit amidst them when you didn't even introduce me to them?Neither did he talk nor did he let his friends talk to me n had this sulking face the whole time.. I mean..dude really?You were hitting on me n trailing me like a dog few days ago..n used me as a trophy to show off to your guy friends n shit!Now what?I felt really embarrassed!He made me feel so unwanted that day!
N What was the purpose he served you then? If i may ask so..
>>Lol!Good that you didn't go for it! Else you'd have had another reason to regret!
"but wouldn't bend over backwards for him and it would depend on what else was going on in my life or where I'm at with stuff. That's exceedingly generous of me! "
>>Never! You won't be doing that! Ofcourse it's still exceedingly generous
"Oh sorry... I forgot you were coming... _—
>>Wtf did i just read— Did he really promise to fetch you up at the airpot n totally forgot about it n he dared to tell that to you??Wow!Such an asshole!Clearly he's a moron! Are you sure he's 34?? Now I question his manhood!
This gemimi guy had a tantrum too once..!We were hanging out that day!I didn't know if he even wants me to come..it's his bestie who forced me to go along with them..saying the whole plan is made only for me!Our plan is to meet their older friends(all girls)..!We reached place n he didn't want me to take a chair beside him!He was like "see,i don't want to give a different impression to my friends.. Go n take another seat!" I was like wtf? I dunno any of them..how do you expect me to sit amidst them when you didn't even introduce me to them?Neither did he talk nor did he let his friends talk to me n had this sulking face the whole time.. I mean..dude really?You were hitting on me n trailing me like a dog few days ago..n used me as a trophy to show off to your guy friends n shit!Now what?I felt really embarrassed!He made me feel so unwanted that day!
N What was the purpose he served you then? If i may ask so..
I don't think he was messed up as such. I just don't think he had a clue of what he wanted to do. He was well aware of his situation which was a good thing. He wasn't oblivious to it. He was working in the interim for a friends decorating company so he could keep money coming in. I respected that. It wasn't ultimately what he wanted to do but he was enjoying working with his hands and it kept him busy. He wasn't arrogant enough to be sitting on his arse. He was also considering moving into an apartment but in that area property is expensive so I guess it made sense to remain at home. It's a luxury and a fall back plan he has relied on a lot. I'm not entirely convinced he's really stood or had to stand on his own two feet but one cannot persecute him because he has the good support of his family. It's something I don't have in the same way he does.
It is likely he may have had an issue with my 'success' but what can you do. I don't think jealousy as such. I think it was a huge ego thing and he may have interpreted it as such. I have experienced it a few times before with other guys, they don't like it if you earn more or are perceived to do better, but most of the time these things are not an issue. I try to avoid discussing two things with a new fella: finances and sexual partners/past relationships. Until later down the line.
There were comments made regarding certain things I said. I've travelled a lot for work and pleasure. I have accumulated air miles and I often use them for travelling with my sister and taking my little bro on holiday. I'm a gold member of an airline and it awarded me an upgrade to business class on my flight to SF. He mentioned he wanted to travel to Thailand and had seen a flight at a good price. I've been three times and said it was a good price. I also suggested an alternative route such as going to Bangkok and flying straight out to an island and doing Bangkok on the way back, and I suggested a few places he might like etc. He didn't take my suggestion well and it was like he wanted to 'win' whereas all I was doing was offering him alternatives to consider so he's covered all bases. He finally looked at it and delighted in the fact that his way was $ 50 cheaper. I just said 'well now you know for sure'. He also made comments about him not having points to use or being a gold member or being 'privileged' for an upgrade but it was how he said it. He was tiring!
He asked about my living arrangements and work so I just said
It is likely he may have had an issue with my 'success' but what can you do. I don't think jealousy as such. I think it was a huge ego thing and he may have interpreted it as such. I have experienced it a few times before with other guys, they don't like it if you earn more or are perceived to do better, but most of the time these things are not an issue. I try to avoid discussing two things with a new fella: finances and sexual partners/past relationships. Until later down the line.
There were comments made regarding certain things I said. I've travelled a lot for work and pleasure. I have accumulated air miles and I often use them for travelling with my sister and taking my little bro on holiday. I'm a gold member of an airline and it awarded me an upgrade to business class on my flight to SF. He mentioned he wanted to travel to Thailand and had seen a flight at a good price. I've been three times and said it was a good price. I also suggested an alternative route such as going to Bangkok and flying straight out to an island and doing Bangkok on the way back, and I suggested a few places he might like etc. He didn't take my suggestion well and it was like he wanted to 'win' whereas all I was doing was offering him alternatives to consider so he's covered all bases. He finally looked at it and delighted in the fact that his way was $ 50 cheaper. I just said 'well now you know for sure'. He also made comments about him not having points to use or being a gold member or being 'privileged' for an upgrade but it was how he said it. He was tiring!
He asked about my living arrangements and work so I just said
He asked about my living arrangements and work so I just said I have a house and my sister lives with me as she rents her place out so it's better financially and I just said about my main job, he knows I'm self employed. He asked a few more questions but not indepth but I didn't tell him anything further as it wasn't relevent and I didn't want it to create issues.
Yeah, the shag just wasn't happening. Which was a shame. I liked his openness and affection. He was far better than me at that stuff.
Yeah, you read it right. He wasn't at the airport. I think my trip ended as soon as I arrived! Unforgivable. He didn't like the way I bollocked him over the phone and later when he came over he said that no girl had ever spoken to him like that before but that he thought he kind of needed it. No shit, he needed my boot up his arse! Hence why I don't think he really connected with the whole 'me coming on plane to see him'. There's other more odd behaviour but enough of that. Thankfully I spent one of the three weeks with a friend of mine so it was a great trip for that. We barely saw each other for 8 hours in total and that was all instigated by me. Seriously, I just wanted to go home but I wanted to see it through too.
Lol he'll never make a travel plan and certainly not one to come to the UK. I think I'm safe! Anyway, I told him he'd have to leave his bullshit behind as UK immigration wouldn't let him in!
Your dude seems like an arse but you kind of expect that from young uns in a way. It's still not good though.
The purpose he served was to bring me and another person back into communication. I asked this person for advice and his 'man view' on a few texts etc so basically Eric was a talking point for us over last summer which lead to rebuilding communication for work purposes.
Yeah, the shag just wasn't happening. Which was a shame. I liked his openness and affection. He was far better than me at that stuff.
Yeah, you read it right. He wasn't at the airport. I think my trip ended as soon as I arrived! Unforgivable. He didn't like the way I bollocked him over the phone and later when he came over he said that no girl had ever spoken to him like that before but that he thought he kind of needed it. No shit, he needed my boot up his arse! Hence why I don't think he really connected with the whole 'me coming on plane to see him'. There's other more odd behaviour but enough of that. Thankfully I spent one of the three weeks with a friend of mine so it was a great trip for that. We barely saw each other for 8 hours in total and that was all instigated by me. Seriously, I just wanted to go home but I wanted to see it through too.
Lol he'll never make a travel plan and certainly not one to come to the UK. I think I'm safe! Anyway, I told him he'd have to leave his bullshit behind as UK immigration wouldn't let him in!
Your dude seems like an arse but you kind of expect that from young uns in a way. It's still not good though.
The purpose he served was to bring me and another person back into communication. I asked this person for advice and his 'man view' on a few texts etc so basically Eric was a talking point for us over last summer which lead to rebuilding communication for work purposes.
"He finally looked at it and delighted in the fact that his way was $ 50 cheaper. I just said 'well now you know for sure'. He also made comments about him not having points to use or being a gold member or being 'privileged' for an upgrade but it was how he said it. He was tiring!"
>>Rofl! Delighted because his way was cheaper or because he thinks he's better at things? He seems like a total kid somehow :p
He sure seems tiring! Gawd! We really are patient sometimes..
"He asked a few more questions but not indepth but I didn't tell him anything further as it wasn't relevent and I didn't want it to create issues"
>>I think something about you being better already hit him n he's triggered by that!
N whaaa? He doesn't come to fetch you from the airport n complains about you bollocking?? Effing retard!N no woman talked to him that way?? Now I see why he's left single at 34!whaa..wait?3 weeks n you saw him for 8 hours??N you instigated every time?? I'm done!I give up!wtf?? I feel like #### !I'd have errr***! Omg! I'm sorry you had to go through that!Another odd behavior? I'm sure you told me nothing compared to what you had to go through!
My Gemini guy was sure a douche!But somehow karma got back at him..not that i wished for it!I do feel bad for him!
Lol! That's nice! Atleast he helped you in someway!
>>Rofl! Delighted because his way was cheaper or because he thinks he's better at things? He seems like a total kid somehow :p
He sure seems tiring! Gawd! We really are patient sometimes..
"He asked a few more questions but not indepth but I didn't tell him anything further as it wasn't relevent and I didn't want it to create issues"
>>I think something about you being better already hit him n he's triggered by that!
N whaaa? He doesn't come to fetch you from the airport n complains about you bollocking?? Effing retard!N no woman talked to him that way?? Now I see why he's left single at 34!whaa..wait?3 weeks n you saw him for 8 hours??N you instigated every time?? I'm done!I give up!wtf?? I feel like #### !I'd have errr***! Omg! I'm sorry you had to go through that!Another odd behavior? I'm sure you told me nothing compared to what you had to go through!
My Gemini guy was sure a douche!But somehow karma got back at him..not that i wished for it!I do feel bad for him!
Lol! That's nice! Atleast he helped you in someway!
Omfg! I just went through what I've been posting/replying! Excuse all my typos n grammatical errors:/ sorry you had to read all that ! o_O 😐
Posted by Hotbeefy
What the actually fuck with plenty of posted here, sounds like everyone got excited about it. 😐
Sorry HB. _—
Half my life story is on here and the other day Inf8, TLS and I had a mammoth piss take session...
It wasn't so much the $ 50. That's hardly worth jumping up and down about. It felt more like point scoring. He 'won' because his opinion, view or point was better or correct in the end. The fact that it was just a simple two way conversation exploring viable and non viable options seemed to escape him!
What irritated me about it wasn't the 'who is right or wrong' as to me there wasn't a right or wrong. It was the total disregard of my input as if it wasn't valid and had zero basis.
Now I'd mentioned this point on another post months back and a load of bulls jumped all over it saying I was wrong and he didn't disregard my input as he did look at it but concluded his solution was better. I appreciate that but it just demonstrated my point even further! The 'tunnel vision' he had along with the inability to openly and easily consider another view point or option, so ridged! I could see that by being so completely closed to other suggestions or input may have hindered his life path. The potential teaching job or education director job is a great example. Right now he could have been teaching English in China on $ 45k or as education director flying to South Africa, Europe or Australia, where he lived as a teenager for two years, to recruit other teachers in and assisting with building our education plan. $ 75k a year with expenses, he could have got his own fucking gold card! He would have actually been good at networking! I have since filled the positions. The boat was missed...
I'm sure he can't be like this to everyone! Maybe it was just me! Yes, it's probably why he's still single at 35 but so am I so no comment! He'll sort his life out at some point. He's a bull, what's the rush!! _—
Yeah the airport thing was a particularly low point. I let it go (kind of) for the sake of the trip and hoped it got better but it didn't really.
Never mind. I would have liked it to have turned out differently but it was not meant to be and I'd still take a chance again next time only I'll probably prefer the guy to make more effort!
What irritated me about it wasn't the 'who is right or wrong' as to me there wasn't a right or wrong. It was the total disregard of my input as if it wasn't valid and had zero basis.
Now I'd mentioned this point on another post months back and a load of bulls jumped all over it saying I was wrong and he didn't disregard my input as he did look at it but concluded his solution was better. I appreciate that but it just demonstrated my point even further! The 'tunnel vision' he had along with the inability to openly and easily consider another view point or option, so ridged! I could see that by being so completely closed to other suggestions or input may have hindered his life path. The potential teaching job or education director job is a great example. Right now he could have been teaching English in China on $ 45k or as education director flying to South Africa, Europe or Australia, where he lived as a teenager for two years, to recruit other teachers in and assisting with building our education plan. $ 75k a year with expenses, he could have got his own fucking gold card! He would have actually been good at networking! I have since filled the positions. The boat was missed...
I'm sure he can't be like this to everyone! Maybe it was just me! Yes, it's probably why he's still single at 35 but so am I so no comment! He'll sort his life out at some point. He's a bull, what's the rush!! _—
Yeah the airport thing was a particularly low point. I let it go (kind of) for the sake of the trip and hoped it got better but it didn't really.
Never mind. I would have liked it to have turned out differently but it was not meant to be and I'd still take a chance again next time only I'll probably prefer the guy to make more effort!
What irritated me about it wasn't the 'who is right or wrong' as to me there wasn't a right or wrong. It was the total disregard of my input as if it wasn't valid and had zero basis!
>>I can totally imagine this!I saw how stubborn a bull can get with his view point even when he's wrong!Me n my bull got into some argument once(discussion turned into an argument by him)He called me liar..didn't believe me even when I swore(i totally didn't need to..it's suchha trivial thing)!I had a proof but didn't want to put it on the table already!I wanted to see how far he can go with that n then i showed him!N wow!Still he doesn't agree to disagree let alone telling sorry! N I didn't want to argue further..i didn't even get mad at him!I totally got what you said about the "tunnel vision" n his inability to consider other's views!N you've been there not the other bulls who jumped out at you! So you must be knowing it better!Again I'd give credit to their rigidity here! You see? They just don't "see"!N you maybe right about what hindered his progress!I still feel you should've let him know what you'd have done for him about his whole job thing..he would have had something to regret!
>>I can totally imagine this!I saw how stubborn a bull can get with his view point even when he's wrong!Me n my bull got into some argument once(discussion turned into an argument by him)He called me liar..didn't believe me even when I swore(i totally didn't need to..it's suchha trivial thing)!I had a proof but didn't want to put it on the table already!I wanted to see how far he can go with that n then i showed him!N wow!Still he doesn't agree to disagree let alone telling sorry! N I didn't want to argue further..i didn't even get mad at him!I totally got what you said about the "tunnel vision" n his inability to consider other's views!N you've been there not the other bulls who jumped out at you! So you must be knowing it better!Again I'd give credit to their rigidity here! You see? They just don't "see"!N you maybe right about what hindered his progress!I still feel you should've let him know what you'd have done for him about his whole job thing..he would have had something to regret!
Nah, he wouldn't have bloody 'seen' it anyway! Lol
I would have liked to have discussed it further with a possible view to doing business. I'm always on the look out for good people and opportunities.
Despite the negatives described, I felt he could offer much to either role. I was very interested in having an American on board (or Aussie, NZ, South African) to bring in additional educational ideas. Each country works differently so we want to utilise that.
He would have been good with assisting in writing our language programme for the written word. I thought he was a little autistic and could quote or paraphrase things literally text book style. That goes down well in China.
I didn't say anything as I wouldn't have been able to work with him. This is a slow but massive expansion. It's basically part of my pension fund. Perhaps had I have said something he may have viewed me differently but I doubt it. It would probably have made things even worse.
I know what you mean with your example. If you're so obviously wrong then what's the point of labouring the point.
I would have liked to have discussed it further with a possible view to doing business. I'm always on the look out for good people and opportunities.
Despite the negatives described, I felt he could offer much to either role. I was very interested in having an American on board (or Aussie, NZ, South African) to bring in additional educational ideas. Each country works differently so we want to utilise that.
He would have been good with assisting in writing our language programme for the written word. I thought he was a little autistic and could quote or paraphrase things literally text book style. That goes down well in China.
I didn't say anything as I wouldn't have been able to work with him. This is a slow but massive expansion. It's basically part of my pension fund. Perhaps had I have said something he may have viewed me differently but I doubt it. It would probably have made things even worse.
I know what you mean with your example. If you're so obviously wrong then what's the point of labouring the point.
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Well seeing as how I wasn't addressing you I'll stay right here. As far as your name goes you'll always p91 to me I only know one 911 and that's la polocia!
You were addressing me.
May I draw your attention to the part where you quoted my post/reply. The one where you said 'according to who? You?' Then you misspelt my username, said 'ugh' followed by 'BYE' then called me a jerk.
Yeah, I think that constitutes addressing me.
Good to know you're acquainted with the police although the number for the emergency services here in the UK is 999. Oh look, you learn something new every day.
The 911 in my username is reference to a Porsche.
Oh dear... There's always one... Sigh...
Well this is AMERICA bitchiest and IMA A godDAMmit AMERICAN! BITCH's.click to expand
You're American. Yes. I thought as much.
Posted by flyoverPosted by Hotbeefy
What the actually fuck with plenty of posted here, sounds like everyone got excited about it. 😐
A bunch of essays from nobody. This is America bitch.click to expand
The World Wide Web...
As in, world wide...
"Despite the negatives described, I felt he could offer much to either role. I was very interested in having an American on board (or Aussie, NZ, South African) to bring in additional educational ideas. Each country works differently so we want to utilise that.
>>Makes me curious to know what your work is about.It seems to involve lot of travelling... It's good to get to know different cultures too!It sure seems interesting!
"I didn't say anything as I wouldn't have been able to work with him. Perhaps had I have said something he may have viewed me differently but I doubt it. It would probably have made things even worse."
>> I understand when you said you can't work with him n It probably would've made things worser!It's ok..When you don't know where you stand it's better to start walking!It doesn't seem right..
>>Makes me curious to know what your work is about.It seems to involve lot of travelling... It's good to get to know different cultures too!It sure seems interesting!
"I didn't say anything as I wouldn't have been able to work with him. Perhaps had I have said something he may have viewed me differently but I doubt it. It would probably have made things even worse."
>> I understand when you said you can't work with him n It probably would've made things worser!It's ok..When you don't know where you stand it's better to start walking!It doesn't seem right..
Posted by Infinite8
@Teena - Your Toro seems immature (perhaps due to age). Have you tried going out with older guys? I honestly wouldn't sum it up to just age though... there are some guys that behave much more mature than that at that age. It really just depends. I always felt mature for my age (growing up teenage/early 20's) and it was a turn-off for me to see a guy behaving immaturely. It was the perfect remedy for me to NOT be interested anymore. I usually attracted mature guys and older guys... which was a bit of a dichotomy for me because I was mentally very mature but in life experiences very innocent.
You're right! Age maybe a factor for his behavior!He's not only young..but is a couple of years younger to me!N the Gemini guy i mentioned is also a year younger to me!I did find guys much matured at that age..but haven't been into them! Also seen an older guy..I lost it for him after a while...he was just too nice..husband material i should say!It just got too boring for my taste(blame my gem rising :p)..I didn't find "my" guy!I'd definitely prefer older guys,matured kind who can also get goofy n funny! I'm like "old enough to do better,but young enough to do it anyway " kind 😉 I've been wise beyond my years too..That's the reason I'm looking for something different maybe..Not a father figure but at the same time not a son/child!
Posted by Infinite8
@Teena: Yeah, I can see your Gemini energy is VERY apparent! You seem very social and talkative (just on this board alone, your messages are long and wordy)... plus, you seem very youthful/pixie and curious like a Gemini... it's very cute!
It's probably this very energy that is causing you to attract younger guys. Although age might be a factor when 20 and below... I'm certain it isn't impossible to find. Just because one is mature doesn't mean they act like old, stuffy men (unless it's a Cap). Scorp guys and Pisces guys are that way... very mature and deep, but with the ability to be very youthful, energetic and fun (sometimes passionate too).
I'm not surprised you attract Geminis! They probably see you as their missing twin! 🙂
I take that as a compliment..thanks :p
N you made me think!Lol! You were right! That one older guy I dealt with has his moon in Capricorn n weirdly enough,the younger guys whom I described as being matured are also capricorns(sun)!Wow! How did i miss out on this!Never came across a Pisces guy..i always wanted to meet one!Pisces girls are the nicest people I met!The only people I bump into (well,mostly) are gems n virgos!I also have this feeling that I'll like Aries better than Scorpios! We're ruled by same planets..So we share similar traits to an extent..also they are little less intense n more forgiving than Scorpios maybe? N also not one to hold grudges n are little air headed.. I can deal with their aggressiveness anyway..The go-getters concept intimidates me!Only read this stuff..never met one in person..
HAHA! I'm sure I'm their missing twin 😄
Infinite8
It's funny you mention about fitting in and not fitting in because I don't think he fitted in at all. In a way, it was like he wasn't American. He was more British or Aussie. He had spent two years in Oz as a teenager where he learnt to play rugby. He then went on to play rugby as a career. He definitely wasn't an SF person or even Californian. It was a really odd observation to make but we did talk a little about it and it was correct.
Despite the negative stuff, when we did have a little time together and he wasn't being a volcano or having ego issues, it was nice and I did enjoy it. Our humour was very similar.
He had a beer from Prague and he asked me if I'd been before. I said 'yes, twice' and I started to say a bit more about it and he cut me off sarcastically by saying 'yeah send me an email...' It was said in good humour.
I found the whole 'Eco Warrior' thing in SF a bit much. I don't get on the band wagon with all that shit. I don't litter and I do recycle but the extremes some of you guys go to is unreal. Almost everyone is a Goody Two Shoes Do Gooder and it's sickening! The owners of the apartment I was staying in were well into all that, plus veganism. Wtf??!!
Our English School projects are a business. We are here to exploit and make money _??_ exploiting the rich Chinese is helping my retirement fund! There's lots of money to be made there. No charity here!
I do think his self esteem was low. I probably didn't help matters but hey, it's not every day a girl gets on a plane and travels 5000 to see him. I don't think he took it as a compliment. He does need to sort his issues out on his own. I did say to him he needs to cut his apron strings. It's ok to seek advice but I felt his mother was a bit too much of an influence and hindrence.
It's funny you mention about fitting in and not fitting in because I don't think he fitted in at all. In a way, it was like he wasn't American. He was more British or Aussie. He had spent two years in Oz as a teenager where he learnt to play rugby. He then went on to play rugby as a career. He definitely wasn't an SF person or even Californian. It was a really odd observation to make but we did talk a little about it and it was correct.
Despite the negative stuff, when we did have a little time together and he wasn't being a volcano or having ego issues, it was nice and I did enjoy it. Our humour was very similar.
He had a beer from Prague and he asked me if I'd been before. I said 'yes, twice' and I started to say a bit more about it and he cut me off sarcastically by saying 'yeah send me an email...' It was said in good humour.
I found the whole 'Eco Warrior' thing in SF a bit much. I don't get on the band wagon with all that shit. I don't litter and I do recycle but the extremes some of you guys go to is unreal. Almost everyone is a Goody Two Shoes Do Gooder and it's sickening! The owners of the apartment I was staying in were well into all that, plus veganism. Wtf??!!
Our English School projects are a business. We are here to exploit and make money _??_ exploiting the rich Chinese is helping my retirement fund! There's lots of money to be made there. No charity here!
I do think his self esteem was low. I probably didn't help matters but hey, it's not every day a girl gets on a plane and travels 5000 to see him. I don't think he took it as a compliment. He does need to sort his issues out on his own. I did say to him he needs to cut his apron strings. It's ok to seek advice but I felt his mother was a bit too much of an influence and hindrence.
Posted by Infinite8
@AgentP911 - On your end, it does sound like a traumatic experience. It's sad, but I guess the lesson is not to be so giving. And perhaps it's not just "oh, I can't be giving any more" but, maybe it's best to just wait until the guy gives first and you give an equal or a bit more in return. So that in the end, you don't feel overwhelmingly robbed or under-appreciated in any way. Your shell is strong, loud, honest, funny, charismatic, intelligent - it's all very evident and perhaps intimidating to a regular joe. But, you are also very caring, sensitive and giving - these traits seem to go unnoticed by others for some reason. You have exceptional qualities... learn to value them and expect others to value them as well. You were so busy protecting this Toro dude, you forgot to protect yourself. Look for a guy that nourishes your qualities. You deserve it.
Awwww much love... _??__??__??_
It was rather traumatic at the time. I can't remember the last time I cried so much! Obviously not traumatic as in life or death but it took its toll on me emotionally. I was very angry about it afterwards. Now it doesn't provoke the same level of emotion, even now while I'm regurgitating it. I'm not of the 'I'm not giving any more' clan. If anything, the experience has made me take a leaf out of the Taurus dude's book and be more selfish about me and my time and life. It's working ok and I think I'm in a better place now to meet someone new.
He did say he found me intimidating and I was pushing him away when I got angry. No shit, but it took so much to get that angry and wound up. I probably wouldn't have wanted to spend time with me either! However, I couldn't shake the fact that is gone all that way...
Protecting the Taurus dude? Not sure about that bit.
Posted by flyoverPosted by AgentP911Posted by flyoverPosted by AgentP911Posted by flyover
Well seeing as how I wasn't addressing you I'll stay right here. As far as your name goes you'll always p91 to me I only know one 911 and that's la polocia!
You were addressing me.
May I draw your attention to the part where you quoted my post/reply. The one where you said 'according to who? You?' Then you misspelt my username, said 'ugh' followed by 'BYE' then called me a jerk.
Yeah, I think that constitutes addressing me.
Good to know you're acquainted with the police although the number for the emergency services here in the UK is 999. Oh look, you learn something new every day.
The 911 in my username is reference to a Porsche.
Oh dear... There's always one... Sigh...
Well this is AMERICA bitchiest and IMA A godDAMmit AMERICAN! BITCH's.
You're American. Yes. I thought as much.
You don't think.click to expand
I do think.
I think you're a cunt.
No thanks. As an American, I'm sure your need for a cookie is far greater than mine.
Apologies but I don't speak Latin or pig either.
Posted by flyoverPosted by AgentP911
Apologies but I don't speak Latin or pig either.
Nose wrinkle. Please move forward and stop harassing me thank you kindly. I wish you the best in life and so much more sweetheart. BYE.click to expand
I think you're off your rocker. I wish you and your husband all the best xx
O_o
Posted by Rambunctious76Yeah, I posted it on a Taurus thread, for opinions from Taureans. Except for the 1st year, he may have seemed more Taurus, but there was always sometime more complicated. When I learned his moon, i looked into that.
And then I find...this thread.
Posted by DMVDMV... Don't you remember this?
@Just Eva,
Ive been reading this post for that last few days. I am friends with an Aries Sun, Mars in Cancer, Venus in Taurus. Weve known each other for over 5 years and only recently within the last year he made a move. My threads about him are on the Sag board.
Long story short, I am a Moon in Scorpio and a Sag 3 degrees and i kid you not, everything you wrote. Ive done/thought/everything. Even the lil point about only wearing dresses and not cursing around him. When i saw that you wrote that. my heart skipped.
Now, My heart dropped after i read this.
Posted by JustEva
One day I saw him after swimming and I was a mess. I felt like I was going to have a nervous breakdown. I didn't plan to swim. My clothes didn't match, I was a dried out chlorine mess. I had zero make up on He ran after me and trapped me into a one hour conversation with a really sinister smile on his face the entire time. He would not stop smiling. Like he was enjoying me at my worst. I figured ok, you'll hate me, I'm not perfect and this will be over. Actually, I think that was the turning point. I thought you had to look perfect around a Taurus. He got more aggressive after that day.
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The day b4 the party, i was having a meeting with my bff and i told her that i was so intrigued by him and it wrecks my mind like daily. This is me not even knowing he liked me. I just always felt a "pull," and indescribable urge to bond with him.
The day he made a move, it was at a pool party. I myself had just gotten down swimming and i didnt think i looked bad but definitely not my best. whatever i looked like was his ideal apparently. After that day, he is exactly what you described; aggressive. I was sitting in the back of a truck watching the fireworks and he was the last person i would suspect to come over. Gurl, we watched the fireworks together, hand n hand. it was the most electrifying thing ever. Id never seen this side of him, damn sure not towards me. again, my thread is on the sag board. ive never been so bold with someone but i just kept feeling these urges.
since that day, things were never the same.
So thank you for sharing. Shit, I thought i WROTE this thread.click to expand
JustEva....do you remember the vows you took?
Once you remember your vows and why you said them, then and only then can you and I have an intelligent genuine conversation.
then and only then.
Peace
then and only then.
Peace
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