Signs a Taurus is Serious About You?

This topic was created in the Taurus forum by piscesman707 on Thursday, June 14, 2018 and has 20 replies.

How to Know When a Taurus Is Serious About You

A Taurus shows seriousness through consistent communication, sharing personal plans, involving you in future topics like marriage or moving in, and sharing finances or daily routines. They also demonstrate commitment by sharing food, pets, or planning trips together. These signs indicate a Taurus's genuine interest and intent to build a deeper relationship.

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@piscesman707
9 Years

Any help would be appreciated. Here are some of my ideas:

- children talk

- marriage talk

- if things get serious talk (happened at the very beginning, first two months for us)

- moves in

- finances talk (read online they only share their finances if they are serious -- she hasn't quite shown anything specific but says she saves and is very frugal)

- travelling? (we are talking about going on a cruise alone together)

- laundry sharing (share a laundry basket)

- sharing of food (has happened since the beginning)

- sharing of pets (we have 5 cats now!)

Any ideas?

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@tctaa
8 Years500+ Posts

curious - why do you wonder if she's serious about you if you are sharing so much already - as in the last 4 items - not sure about the first 4

PS: warning lol I was married to a Pisces Sun man for 11 years. I'm a Taurus female. The travel was out of this world - we were great on adventures - but I try to not get into the bad stuff so much anymore lol

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@piscesman707
9 Years

(why) Since I have proposed with rings and she said it was too early but kept the rings... That was around 2 months ago before I had all of my debts paid off. Now I will be saving up to go on that cruise with her soon...

I also really enjoy her being around me, unlike my Gemini ex who was a horrible person behind the fake smiles.

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@AbbyNormal
13 Years5,000+ PostsTaurus

Posted by piscesman707
(why) Since I have proposed with rings and she said it was too early but kept the rings... That was around 2 months ago before I had all of my debts paid off. Now I will be saving up to go on that cruise with her soon...

I also really enjoy her being around me, unlike my Gemini ex who was a horrible person behind the fake smiles.

How long ago did you propose? You can remind her that a proposal is not a wedding and that you will have plenty of time before that. If it's too early, it's too early to her but it sounds as if she has made her choice in you. How old are yall?

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@GuardianAnu
11 Years1,000+ Posts

They want to talk to you and be around you. A lot.

As for talks like children talk, etc, I do that in the very beginning only because I am saying "I don't want kids, ever. If you do want kids, move on". I do tend to lay shit on the line early, though, before things get serious.... that could just be me, though. I don't like wasting my time or other people's.

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@AbbyNormal
13 Years5,000+ PostsTaurus

Posted by GuardianAnu
Sharing of food may stop at some point, unless she is the type to pick at YOUR food. Then, just watch out. She should be ordering and eating her own damn food.

What's mine is mine. And what's yours is mine 😁 naw but I'm super generous with food with my loved ones. I'll go hungry before they do. And I adore feeding them and sharing my meals with them. Often times, if we have the same tastes, I can just share a meal while out since they make meals so big now!! I mean, you gotta get a side for us to pick on too haha but yeah, I love sharing with bae! 😊

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@jeane
11 Years5,000+ Posts

Posted by AbbyNormal

Posted by GuardianAnu
Sharing of food may stop at some point, unless she is the type to pick at YOUR food. Then, just watch out. She should be ordering and eating her own damn food.

What's mine is mine. And what's yours is mine 😁 naw but I'm super generous with food with my loved ones. I'll go hungry before they do. And I adore feeding them and sharing my meals with them. Often times, if we have the same tastes, I can just share a meal while out since they make meals so big now!! I mean, you gotta get a side for us to pick on too haha but yeah, I love sharing with bae! 😊 click to expand

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aw, mine will offer me a bite of his first. i've never done it though figuring he is just being polite and expecting me to say no. he might headbutt if i take him up on his offer.

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@AbbyNormal
13 Years5,000+ PostsTaurus

Posted by jeane

Posted by AbbyNormal

Posted by GuardianAnu
Sharing of food may stop at some point, unless she is the type to pick at YOUR food. Then, just watch out. She should be ordering and eating her own damn food.

What's mine is mine. And what's yours is mine 😁 naw but I'm super generous with food with my loved ones. I'll go hungry before they do. And I adore feeding them and sharing my meals with them. Often times, if we have the same tastes, I can just share a meal while out since they make meals so big now!! I mean, you gotta get a side for us to pick on too haha but yeah, I love sharing with bae! 😊 click to expand

aw, mine will offer me a bite of his first. i've never done it though figuring he is just being polite and expecting me to say no. he might headbutt if i take him up on his offer. click to expand

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@tctaa
8 Years500+ Posts

Posted by piscesman707
(why) Since I have proposed with rings and she said it was too early but kept the rings... That was around 2 months ago before I had all of my debts paid off. Now I will be saving up to go on that cruise with her soon...

I also really enjoy her being around me, unlike my Gemini ex who was a horrible person behind the fake smiles.

Oh so how long have you been together overall ? she is smart to wait - and you are cautious because of your ex - you will find that this is a better match I believe than Gemini and Pisces.

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@piscesman707
9 Years

We have been together for almost 6 months now. She has talked in the future about getting a car together but has been saying 'I' a lot more lately than 'we'.

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@tctaa
8 Years500+ Posts

Posted by piscesman707
We have been together for almost 6 months now. She has talked in the future about getting a car together but has been saying 'I' a lot more lately than 'we'.

do you find yourself tuning into specific things and feeling negative about them or just questioning them in general

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@piscesman707
9 Years

I have read that Taurus has a tendency to get comfortable and jnflexible as the relationship progreasrs so I am concerned that she will show no consideration for my wishes eventually. She has backtracked on sing no one has ever bought her jewelry before to the jewelry her ex''s bought her usually broke.. it was a stab to my heart and kick to the nether regions to hear that kind of thing.

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@TaurusBull1977
17 Years1,000+ Posts

@Piscesman....

Try not to let the courtship seem too methodical...as a man who is trying to access 'brownie' points

to solidify his position.

Allow everything to happen organically.

Honestly, I will take 'quality' over 'quantity' any day.

A check list doesn't impress me. But a man who is willing to go the distance with me, that has 'true' candid intentions will always win me over.

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@jeane
11 Years5,000+ Posts

Posted by AbbyNormal

Posted by piscesman707
(why) Since I have proposed with rings and she said it was too early but kept the rings... That was around 2 months ago before I had all of my debts paid off. Now I will be saving up to go on that cruise with her soon...

I also really enjoy her being around me, unlike my Gemini ex who was a horrible person behind the fake smiles.

How long ago did you propose? You can remind her that a proposal is not a wedding and that you will have plenty of time before that. If it's too early, it's too early to her but it sounds as if she has made her choice in you. How old are yall?

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i noticed this wasn't answered. he is 35ish and she is 23. they've been together 6 months? he proposed after 3 months. her parents aren't fond of him. although, according to him, it seems like her relationship with her parents isn't great either.

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@piscesman707
9 Years

Her parents have since warmed up to both me and her since she moved out. They needed space from her. She is a very stubborn Taurus type.

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@looneymoonmaiden
8 Years

Posted by TaurusBull1977
@Piscesman....

Try not to let the courtship seem too methodical...as a man who is trying to access 'brownie' points
to solidify his position.

Allow everything to happen organically.

Honestly, I will take 'quality' over 'quantity' any day.

A check list doesn't impress me. But a man who is willing to go the distance with me, that has 'true' candid intentions will always win me over.

hahahahahah ohmyyyy

my bull uses that word too....organically!!!!! lol

just caught my eyeeeee....just the other day...the whole day

love it btw

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@piscesman707
9 Years

She has referred to objects and together and us though. Her parents are also spending money on us and doing me favours so it seems like everyone believes in this being final.

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@piscesman707
9 Years

She made us fiance/fiancee officially on Sunday on Facebook before telling her family and asked me who I'd like to be my Best Man.

she seems very serious now.

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@looneymoonmaiden
8 Years

Posted by piscesman707

She made us fiance/fiancee officially on Sunday on Facebook before telling her family and asked me who I'd like to be my Best Man.

she seems very serious now.

dont worry so much ...let your pisces intuition take over...

you know she is serious yet you say "she seems serious..."

honey she is talking marriage....she IS serious lol

stop worrying and enjoy this moment... 😄

and uh congratulations!!!