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So, where to start..? I'm a virgo female who's trying not to fall for this idiot taurus, but failing miserably in the process. I met him through work where I felt a strong connection towards him. Me being a weird virgo, always get vibes off people, and this guy seemed so chill which I LOVED. I would get so many things wrong and he'd tell me to "just calm down, it's okay" he'd be really supportive and patient which was such an attractive quality and a big turn on.
He'd flirt with me all the time but he was PRO. Some people try and flirt and you're just like "no.. pls. pls stop" He would always make sexual innuendoes towards me and I'd often tell him off like "NO. Behave yourself" when I low-key liked it.. But I never flirted back because YANOE- virgin over 'ere!! So anyways, a week of working around him, he opens up to me whilst he's on his break about some deep things after we vibe and talk about the things we have in common like faith, life etc.. And me being me, I played it off like it was nothing, I can't tell what it was just incase he's on here, snooping and sees this post =/ =/ =/ But I'm super awkward when it comes to personal information, If I don't really know you well and you say something sensitive/ meaningful- I freeze and I don't know what to say so I say nothing incase I end up hurting you.
He'd do things like gently hold my waist when he went by as if to say "excuse me" but he would never say it, I would catch him looking at me through the window on his breaks and I'd smile, one of his friends said he had a thing for me when working and he wasn't there.
Long story short, I stop working there months later and I see his relationship status on FB saying "In a relationship" and I'm like "in a relationship with what? Food, I bloody hope" but no. After months of flirting and late night texting and I genuinely liked this guy, idiot goes and gets himself in a relationship.
What pisses me off most is he still texts me from time to time and asked me out for coffee, but never actually set a day or time? He's in a relationship and is willing to cheat on his girlfriend with me, but I ain't about that life, and I'm certainly not a home wrecker. Too damn moral for that shiz. I thought Taurus were the epitome of loyalty and faithfulness? Maybe not this one.
Any one who knows taurus's quite well, can you please explain why they behave like this? Or is this just a damaged man kind of thing?
Any help or insight would be much appreciated guys
Sun:01?? 46' in Taurus Moon:10?? 31' in Gemini Mercury:14?? 21' in Taurus
female from New York City Baby!
It's typical for some Virgos to just go with the flow and pretend they're OK with a situation, being patient, analyzing the situation, and seeing if there is potential for longevity.
However, the mystery stops here. He IS in a relationship. There is nothing to psychoanalyze. I mentioned this in a previous thread, there are three types of Bulls, the Bullbutterters, the Proscatinors, and the Bullfighters.
I think you have encountered a Bullbutterter. A hedonistic cheater who wants to have his cake and eat it too.
Bulls are receptive to 'firmness' and 'consistency.' Don't go with the flow. Call him out on his bullbutter, tell him that you know that he is in a relationship. Tell him that he needs to respect the work boundaries. ...And then stop entertaining him.
This can go two ways. 1. He will respect your wishes, and leave you alone, respect you in the process, and you may have a loyal friend, and a reliable co-worker.
2. If he is really interested, he will end the relationship, then approach you a little more cautiously.
Never create gray areas for a Bull, especially the unevolved cheaters.