spoil me

For those dealing with male bulls do you feel like you have to spoil them?

I am a scorp and I'm not used to having to work for a man's attention but it seems like with this bull I really do have to work!?!? He really does respond to "pampering" and I'm like wtf—?

I like to do those things but usually it's just an added bonus that comes along with ME!

I did an experiment on him that involved spoiling him a little and he was like putty in my hands!

Am I missing something here?

"yes, you HAVE to spoil us A LITTLE, because we are your babies.
until we hit the bedroom, then we're your daddies,"

LMAO!!!!! Yes I have to fight the urge to call him daddy, lol. But I'm used to being the spoiled one so this is new to me

"as i see, we're the easiest sign to have, but to get us is the hardest thing to do."

So this is normal—?? I may have to WORK for it—————

"But what I do think for me was to show some interest back and it was the green light for him to start to persue"

We've already passed the green light doing 100mph in the 5th lane. Now I need to show him that I am the perfect woman for him...lol...just kidding.

"Well he gone work for this"

Yeah, that's my usual style . This time it was so different. I COULDN'T resist him.

"if you spoil us,we will spoil you right back and you are going to LOVE it."

This is PRECISELY what my findings revealed. :-)

Yes indeed! We do love to be spoiled; I ain't gonna lie. LOL! BUT, we reciprocate. It's not a "Tit for Tat" type of situation. If we love you, whether you are a family member, friend, or lover, we will want to make you happy and we will give emotionally and materially to make you happy; although, I'd say the emotional is harder for some us (me 🙂) than the material giving. We don't like a lot of strife in relationships, so we will do a lot to "keep the peace." I know we are stubborn, but that's only when you've pushed us too far!