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Diamondnurse
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Me and my taurus guy has been going on 8 months. We fight and argue i broke it off with him multiple times cause i feel like we aren't on the same level. We hardly communicate which is the number one prob. But every time i say Im done he comes back the next day texting me telling me Im not going any where. We went to the bar one night he was putting on a show saying things out of the way. He kept touching my leg slapping my butt was getting mad another guy was looking at me i can tell but he didn't want to show it sooo much. I know he would. He loves sex alot but man why are Taurus's hard to read. One night he told me i better start being nice. He told me to be loyal. He says stuff like i only want you you the only one Im seeing. he told me twice he loved me but i don't know where anything is goin on? Few nights ago i went to go see him we ended up cuddling and falling asleep together he woke up smiling at me. I like him and got feelings i just feel like we aren't going any where so i should stop giving my hopes up. He showed me messages him talking to another girl but why? Saying he single he enjoys life to the fullest but he stays in contact with me like almost every day. Jealous of my guy friend so i cut off my guy friend he told me we need to spice it up in sex the other day. Any suggestions here? We fight but we clinged on one another.
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Diamondnurse
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Posted by Diamondnurse
Me and my taurus guy has been going on 8 months. We fight and argue i broke it off with him multiple times cause i feel like we aren't on the same level. We hardly communicate which is the number one prob. But every time i say Im done he comes back the next day texting me telling me Im not going any where. We went to the bar one night he was putting on a show saying things out of the way. He kept touching my leg slapping my butt was getting mad another guy was looking at me i can tell but he didn't want to show it sooo much. I know he would. He loves sex alot but man why are Taurus's hard to read. One night he told me i better start being nice. He told me to be loyal. He says stuff like i only want you you the only one Im seeing. he told me twice he loved me but i don't know where anything is goin on? Few nights ago i went to go see him we ended up cuddling and falling asleep together he woke up smiling at me. I like him and got feelings i just feel like we aren't going any where so i should stop giving my hopes up. He showed me messages him talking to another girl but why? Saying he single he enjoys life to the fullest but he stays in contact with me like almost every day. Jealous of my guy friend so i cut off my guy friend he told me we need to spice it up in sex the other day. Any suggestions here? We fight but we clinged on one another. 8 months a long time. It seems like he wants a relationship but then he says he don't? His actions say a lot i don't know if he seeing someone else or not.
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Diamondnurse
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8 Years

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See i thought he was manipulating me too. But everyone says give him a chance. He stopped bringing me around his friends like i asked him too and he stopped clinging on me. I guess we won't be on the same level ever so i just need to keep pushing forward. Sound like he was trying to make me jealous but Im not jealous. He said the girl was trying to holler at him he didn't go with it but who knows. I don't even contact him i wait til he contacts me. Like ever since i didn't tell him i loved him because i wasn't sure it was insincere his behavior has been changing. He told me i was mean and i think i hurt his feelings. My friend thinks he is infatuated with me.
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LadyNeptune
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Posted by Diamondnurse
See i thought he was manipulating me too. But everyone says give him a chance. He stopped bringing me around his friends like i asked him too and he stopped clinging on me. I guess we won't be on the same level ever so i just need to keep pushing forward. Sound like he was trying to make me jealous but Im not jealous. He said the girl was trying to holler at him he didn't go with it but who knows. I don't even contact him i wait til he contacts me. Like ever since i didn't tell him i loved him because i wasn't sure it was insincere his behavior has been changing. He told me i was mean and i think i hurt his feelings. My friend thinks he is infatuated with me.
Why don't you want to be around his friends??
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Diamondnurse
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Cause he acts like an ass when he is with them. He can be talking to em then he randomly puts the convo on me. Then gets mad if his friend talking to me. He did that one night at the bar was being an ass putting the convo all on me trying to blame me for stuff and i hardly conversated with him when he does that. So he stop bringing me around his friends. He told me i need a real man i hope i find him but seems like he trying to impress me saying he is him. He been saying i love you lately. I think he confused i dk if he loves me i feel like he lusting.
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Posted by Diamondnurse
See i thought he was manipulating me too. But everyone says give him a chance. He stopped bringing me around his friends like i asked him too and he stopped clinging on me. I guess we won't be on the same level ever so i just need to keep pushing forward. Sound like he was trying to make me jealous but Im not jealous. He said the girl was trying to holler at him he didn't go with it but who knows. I don't even contact him i wait til he contacts me. Like ever since i didn't tell him i loved him because i wasn't sure it was insincere his behavior has been changing. He told me i was mean and i think i hurt his feelings. My friend thinks he is infatuated with me.
Every week or two you are starting threads about this guy.

Each time the board overwhelmingly feel that this is no bueno. But each time you return asking what should you do.

What you want is for us to tell you that he is madly in love with you but is scared/confused/not aware of his own feelings yet.

Yes! He is infatuated! He doesn't talk to you, he says he doesn't respect you, says your loyalty is worthless, doesn't want to commit, controls who you talk to while still living with his mother and drinking to excess.

Totally into you.
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Posted by Diamondnurse
See i thought he was manipulating me too. But everyone says give him a chance. He stopped bringing me around his friends like i asked him too and he stopped clinging on me. I guess we won't be on the same level ever so i just need to keep pushing forward. Sound like he was trying to make me jealous but Im not jealous. He said the girl was trying to holler at him he didn't go with it but who knows. I don't even contact him i wait til he contacts me. Like ever since i didn't tell him i loved him because i wasn't sure it was insincere his behavior has been changing. He told me i was mean and i think i hurt his feelings. My friend thinks he is infatuated with me.
Every week or two you are starting threads about this guy.

Each time the board overwhelmingly feel that this is no bueno. But each time you return asking what should you do.

What you want is for is to tell you that he is madly in love with you but is scared/confused/ to aware of his own feelings yet.

Yes! He is infatuated! He doesn't talk to you, he says he doesn't respect you, says your loyalty is worthless, doesn't want to commit, controls who you talk to while still living with his mother and drinking.

Totally into you.
And a few months ago she was spamming the Libra board about 2 different Libras.. yet has been with this guy 8 months?
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I don't think they are really together. The only bits that are together is their genitalia on occasion.
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AriesLady8
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Knowing what you've already told us... and I'm certain your friends know way more than we do... the fact that they think you should stay and thug it out with him speaks volumes of the type of women your friends are. Plus, you're 25. Why would you take advice from your peer group? Seek the advice of someone older and of quality.

You don't know any of us. This thread could produces pages of good advice from adults of all age groups. And you probably still wouldn't listen. So go talk to some you respect and admire. I'm sure they will tell you what we are but you might listen to them.

You're 25 go somewhere and focus on building yourself for your 30's. This man will only set you back and eventually tear down what you've built thus far if you stick around and allow him too.

There's a reason why he drinks all the time and behaves so ugly. He's not happy with himself or who he is. Whole ppl don't behave this way.