Taurus, a virgo needs your help.

I'm a 26 year old female, virgo sun, virgo moon.
I meet this sexy ass hippy taurus dude. His moon is in leo. He's 32. This happened 6 months ago.
When we meet-instant connection/attraction/etc. (rare feelings, my friends)
The first time we hang out he tells me: 1. He is very religious and was celibate until age ~29. (weird about sex) 2. There is a girl in his life (for the past three years) who he's not dating but "shes in love with him." 3. He never wants to grow up or be in a relationship. 4. His last relationship was in high school.

Me being a Virgo, up for the challenge and unable to ignore my feelings, continues the persuit.


We have now been hanging out/intimate like 2-3 times a month since we met. We text almost every day. We facetime like once a week. Anytime we are together it lasts like 12-24 hours and its amazing.
I know the "other girl" is still "in the picture." But I have no idea how often they see each other or are intimate with each other.
Him and I are "not exclusive" which has been made very clear.

I have noticed this pattern of: one week he is super into me, talkative, we see eachother, etc. And then immediately after I am ignored for a week. This cycle continues to happen over and over again. I feel like he is purposely trying to resist feelings for me. I feel like I am being tortured with this inconsistency of affection.

I know you all are slow in love. I really like this dude-he is 100% aware of how I feel about him and knows I want "more".
But at what point do I just bail?

Posted by uncleVirgo4u
I'm a 26 year old female, virgo sun, virgo moon.
I meet this sexy ass hippy taurus dude. His moon is in leo. He's 32. This happened 6 months ago.
When we meet-instant connection/attraction/etc. (rare feelings, my friends)
The first time we hang out he tells me: 1. He is very religious and was celibate until age ~29. (weird about sex) 2. There is a girl in his life (for the past three years) who he's not dating but "shes in love with him." 3. He never wants to grow up or be in a relationship. 4. His last relationship was in high school.

Me being a Virgo, up for the challenge and unable to ignore my feelings, continues the persuit.


We have now been hanging out/intimate like 2-3 times a month since we met. We text almost every day. We facetime like once a week. Anytime we are together it lasts like 12-24 hours and its amazing.
I know the "other girl" is still "in the picture." But I have no idea how often they see each other or are intimate with each other.
Him and I are "not exclusive" which has been made very clear.

I have noticed this pattern of: one week he is super into me, talkative, we see eachother, etc. And then immediately after I am ignored for a week. This cycle continues to happen over and over again. I feel like he is purposely trying to resist feelings for me. I feel like I am being tortured with this inconsistency of affection.

I know you all are slow in love. I really like this dude-he is 100% aware of how I feel about him and knows I want "more".
But at what point do I just bail?

One week with you. One week with the other girl.

One week with you. One week with the other girl.

Aren't you the lucky Virgo!!!

Sounds like you want more from him and he's already made it clear he does not. You wrote your answer yourself in the first section of your post.

What is it exactly you need answering?

Posted by uncleVirgo4u
He is very religious and was celibate until age ~29. (weird about sex) 2. There is a girl in his life (for the past three years) who he's not dating but "shes in love with him." 3. He never wants to grow up or be in a relationship. 4. His last relationship was in high school.

This man sounds like a walking contradiction.
....and is probably in the closet.

My advice...

RUUUUUUN!