Taurus and lingering feelings of love

This topic was created in the Taurus forum by Illusen on Wednesday, July 23, 2014 and has 5 replies.

How Taurus Handles Lingering Feelings of Love

Taurus individuals tend to hold onto feelings for a long time and may struggle with emotional closure. They can be self-critical when they believe they've done wrong and often prefer stable, one-sided relationships. Taurus deals with lingering feelings by seeking comfort in routines and physical sensations, which helps them process emotional overstay.

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@Illusen
13 Years

Do Taurus people tend to hold onto feelings for a very, very long time?
Do they get angry at themselves for doing the wrong thing?
Do they often end up in more one sided situations?
How does Taurus deal with feelings that overstay their welcome?

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@TaurusBull1977
17 Years1,000+ Posts

Posted by Illusen
Do Taurus people tend to hold onto feelings for a very, very long time?

It depends. Good feelings or bad feelings? Be more specific.

Posted by Illusen
Do they get angry at themselves for doing the wrong thing?

It depends. If everything was taken into careful consideration or was I rushed into making a decision? Be more specific.

Posted by Illusen
Do they often end up in more one sided situations?

In relationships? Friendships? Drama? Be more specific.

Posted by Illusen
How does Taurus deal with feelings that overstay their welcome?

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Are you asking if the feelings are o longer present in a relationship? Be more specific.

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@xxbrittxxtay
12 Years

1) Yes we do! If something or someone means a lot to us we will always hold onto those memories, and sometimes think back on them depending on what it is. A lot of Taurus' dwell on their past, as in we look back and see the past better than it actually was. If that makes sense.

2) Yes we do hold some sort of resentment/anger if we know we did something bad. But depending on the person and situation a lot of times we're so stubborn we think every thing we do is the right thing haha and that we cannot do any wrong

3 & 4) Need to be more specific...

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@Illusen
13 Years

Posted by honeejr

Posted by Illusen
Do Taurus people tend to hold onto feelings for a very, very long time?
Do they get angry at themselves for doing the wrong thing?
Do they often end up in more one sided situations?
How does Taurus deal with feelings that overstay their welcome?

I have a Taurus moon and two Taurus sun sons....

Yes feelings get held onto for a bit unless they didn't pass a test then they get kicked to the curb pronto.

Everyone gets angry at themselves for doing the wrong thing....

Hmmmmm I can only answer for me..Yes I end up always giving 150% and getting 10% quite lopsided most times.

I am having an issue now trying to get rid of emotions that were quite strong....so to be honest this is the first time I'm stuck with what to do with them. I can't shake it. Normally I would engross myself into work...and writing and I'm good after a few weeks. But even that right now proves to be difficult. I think this one has a huge hold on me spiritually. But he isn't worth the time of day and he must be banished. LOL.

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As to the wrong thing, I meant more things that you coulda shoulda woulda, more than actually doing wrong. I apologise for vagueness, but I'm going through something similar to what you are. It's been WAY too long, IMO, for me to be feeling this way. I've decided, after a year and a half or so, to just let myself feel everything I feel for him, and say "that's ok. If he doesn't like me back, that doesn't mean I stop liking him, because I'm a better person than that and do not require equal payback for my love." And I'm hoping that with some time, those feelings will dicipate, given the healthy sunlight I've been denying them 🙂
However, I wanted to know, in general, what these things meant to other Taureans. Above most things, I am curious. Especially because I'm actually not one for feelings of deep love and compassion. I kicked those out some time ago in favour of sarcasm and fits of hurorous rage to amuse people. 😛

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@Geminlove
12 Years

If you truly meant something to a taurus they wont give up on you until they reach a point of no return....basically they suck at letting go (unless it was a fling)