Taurus disappearing act!

I met this Taurus man online and not even having the slightest idea about how they operate! He is 31 and I am a 28 year old Scorpio gal; him and I have full time jobs and we both are busy. Also, given the fact that I am a single parent and he has none but we are both divorced. I gave it a shot and gave him my attention and wow I am in for it. The first two weeks things were great!

We chatted online getting to know each other and moving the communication to texting for the most part and at times he would call when I wanted to talk. He always flirted with me saying this and that and the other until we had a our first date. When we first met we talked a little just telling each other things but there was an immense and I mean an IMMENSE attraction between him and I. I knew that he wanted to make out with me so bad; it got to me that I ended up kissing him first and that just made the whole night.

We met again later that week at my place and again made out but no sex on either occasion. He told me after that second night that he hopes he is not hurting me? I told him he wasn't because I did not want sex to start us off but I wanted that he wanted to start something with me. We both mutually agreed to that understanding.

Now after that night I noticed his texts were slowing down as to how frequent it was before; he texts in the morning every 2 days and stops after he gets off work were he doesn't respond at all when I text back at him at night. I had made hints to see him again on a Friday night and a Saturday morning but when I text him to ask if he we are still meeting he doesn't respond back. I tried calling once it went to voice mail and the other time he just let it ring. Then he would text me again at work like nothing happened and I was getting sick of the inconsistency and felt that he is getting disinterested in me. When I asked him about not getting my texts to find out if we were meeting? he tells me "what do you mean?" Then he says that his phone drop and it has a mind of it's own so he sometimes doesn't get texts. Sounds like BULL crap to me!

Last Friday before he stopped texting me I told him I was on the road and he said he would chat with me later and I was like "uh huh" and he said "he would do his best" guess what? He never did. This past Sunday I asked him "When can we see each other" he never responded and this whole week no contact at all he just disappeared! So I feel hurt, confused and hopeless. So whats a Scorp girl to do?

I agree with Intrigued. Right before my Taurus went Mia, he started to reveal how bad he wanted to have sex with me. He said it was a need, and I told him to go take care of that need with someone else. I was joking a bit, but he was starting to scare me, in that I had to put a halt to the situation before he eventually got what he wanted lol. Havent heard from him since, but it definitely crossed my mnd that the silence was used to try and make me give in.

IntriguedScorp is most likely right. Pay attention to the timing.

Wow! Would have never thought of it that way. I just want to know
Is he into me? Or just wanting sex? I had asked him before what were
His intentions are for dating? He was mumbling a bit saying about no
Expectations and start off to be friends and see where it goes because he
Goes with the flow.

I even told him that I don't have sex with everyone I meet and once I have sex
with them its a monogamous committment with eachother. Which of coarse
would put us in the exclusive stage. He mumbled and told me when we do have
Sex, I wouldn't need to worry because I would be the only one.

So this is where I am all confused if he is into me or just playing head games
Or he is just wants me ad a side? What is he doing? Thinking and possibly thinking?
Especially, when he has dissapeared. I'm trying to make sense of this Taureanean
man... *sighs*

DissAppActs.They always do this shit. Don't take it personal. Get used to it or keep it moving.Disappear on their ass. He will stalk you if ge likes you. trust me on this one. Living it