xcentriscorpian
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Taurus forced me to break it off, now I'm depressed.
So disrespectful, immature, controlling, insensitive, aggressive but he's your soulmate. ok.
No "normal" taurus would behave like that and what more are u expecting for it be a toxic relationship.. Him to hit u?
Red flags! Ruuuuun! He encompasses all the negative traits of a Bull, selfish in bed, righteously hypocritical, potential violence, obsessive, sneaky, and possibly a cheater. Don't forget...grudge holder.
A more evolved Bull doesn't entertain flirty exes, they dismiss them. They're givers in the bedroom. They walk away before they explode. They're rational. There are great Taurus men out there and then...there are real shady fucked up ones too.
Run, there were red flags all over the place - get yourself mentally prepared because he will be back.
Posted by TaurusBull1977Agreed!
A more evolved Bull doesn't entertain flirty exes, they dismiss them. They're givers in the bedroom. They walk away before they explode. They're rational. There are great Taurus men out there and then...there are real shady fucked up ones too.
Lol this isn't typical Taurus behavior. My bf and I are both Taurus and we don't act abusive or controlling towards each other. We can both get possessive, but we never show it in a threatening/controlling matter.
Please don't move in with this guy. Please.
Posted by AznnationI'm on 4/20 right on the cusp with a mercury in Aries, and like I said I don't act like this lol this guys just a dick
04/22 taurus probably has some aries in him.
Posted by TaurusBull1977
A more evolved Bull doesn't entertain flirty exes, they dismiss them. They're givers in the bedroom. They walk away before they explode. They're rational. There are great Taurus men out there and then...there are real shady fucked up ones too.
^^^ this exactly
Posted by Aznnationi'm kind of curious to hear your personal experience in this area.Posted by thecrazyariestaurusWell put a ram and a bull together thats what you get, not the typical betas.Posted by AznnationI'm on 4/20 right on the cusp with a mercury in Aries, and like I said I don't act like this lol this guys just a dick
04/22 taurus probably has some aries in him.click to expand
All of the above comments from everyone 100% .
This guy is showing you WHO he is and WHAT he is right there. Seeing POTENTIAL in this way is a waste of time. He is who he is, not who you want him to be or who he could/would/should/might be at some point in time. You were dating him now, as he is now, not what he might be in ten years. It's real time now.
Red flags all over the circus here. I can't believe you were going to move in together. That's proper fucked up thinking. Get a backbone Scorpio and don't let others walk over you in this way. You know it's wrong. I also think you're putting far too much importance on the passion/chemistry aspect and not enough on the other parts such as how he makes you feel, things in common, how you are together, how/who he is as a person, and if you even match together - you thought you matched due to this chemistry thing but as time has gone on you have realised that you're not a match at all. Frankly, that's just how life works. 100% passion does not make a good, well built, foundation for a relationship, neither does it provide longevity.
I've no idea why he has these issues. Perhaps he's immature, needs to grow up, has mummy or daddy issues, is a bad egg, or is just an arsehole. Who knows!
As others have said, there are good men out there of all signs. My Taurus has Venus and Merc in Aries but is nothing like this guy at all. He's 46 so much older.
Based on the info you have provided, I think you've made the right decision to end things with this person. It's not a match. I'd also say that when you feel ready to date again, and you will, I would go much slower. I don't think jumping into bed with a guy early on is the way forward if you're trying to see if there's enough there between you to begin building a relationship with them. It clouds judgement, gets you far too involved far too quickly, and doesn't give you the breathing space you need to be logical/rational. If you want to fuck someone on the first date because the chemistry is so amazing then go ahead and fill your boots. Nothing wrong with that. Just don't expect it to produce the solid foundation for a relationship you're looking for, and anyway, what's the rush?
Allow things to unfold, date more than one person, be selective with the guys you date, weed them out via texts/emails/phone calls before even wasting your time going on a date. Getting sent dick pics? Bin them. Asking for dirty pics? Bin them. Not following through on what they say or showing you flaky behaviour? Bin them. Perhaps that's harsh but guys sending dick pics or not responding to messages for more than a day are not serious about finding a relationship.
Enjoy getting to know these guys over several dates, over these dates these guys will show you who they are and what their intentions are - you don't even have to open your legs to find all this out, you can weed them out over two to four dates. Within three hours of a first date over dinner/drinks you can tell a lot about a person. Think of it as an interview process and you're interviewing for a vacant boyfriend position. Many will completely disagree with this thinking process but when you do stop and think about it it's not much different to looking for a new job, you see what's there, whittle them down, apply for the most suitable positions. Likewise, when you're recruiting someone for a job, for example, you need a butcher, you're not going to waste you're time interviewing someone who is currently a nurse with zero butcher experience. Sure, they may have the potential to be a butcher, and they may have great enthusiasm and you get on well with them but a butcher they ain't so it's not gonna work as it's not what you're looking for. It's not a match. Same as if you want a relationship, only date people who are also looking for a relationship as that's a match to what you're looking for. If you want a relationship and he wants to sleep around then that's not going to work. If you keep doing what you're doing you'll get the same results. Change your process, get better results.
This guy is showing you WHO he is and WHAT he is right there. Seeing POTENTIAL in this way is a waste of time. He is who he is, not who you want him to be or who he could/would/should/might be at some point in time. You were dating him now, as he is now, not what he might be in ten years. It's real time now.
Red flags all over the circus here. I can't believe you were going to move in together. That's proper fucked up thinking. Get a backbone Scorpio and don't let others walk over you in this way. You know it's wrong. I also think you're putting far too much importance on the passion/chemistry aspect and not enough on the other parts such as how he makes you feel, things in common, how you are together, how/who he is as a person, and if you even match together - you thought you matched due to this chemistry thing but as time has gone on you have realised that you're not a match at all. Frankly, that's just how life works. 100% passion does not make a good, well built, foundation for a relationship, neither does it provide longevity.
I've no idea why he has these issues. Perhaps he's immature, needs to grow up, has mummy or daddy issues, is a bad egg, or is just an arsehole. Who knows!
As others have said, there are good men out there of all signs. My Taurus has Venus and Merc in Aries but is nothing like this guy at all. He's 46 so much older.
Based on the info you have provided, I think you've made the right decision to end things with this person. It's not a match. I'd also say that when you feel ready to date again, and you will, I would go much slower. I don't think jumping into bed with a guy early on is the way forward if you're trying to see if there's enough there between you to begin building a relationship with them. It clouds judgement, gets you far too involved far too quickly, and doesn't give you the breathing space you need to be logical/rational. If you want to fuck someone on the first date because the chemistry is so amazing then go ahead and fill your boots. Nothing wrong with that. Just don't expect it to produce the solid foundation for a relationship you're looking for, and anyway, what's the rush?
Allow things to unfold, date more than one person, be selective with the guys you date, weed them out via texts/emails/phone calls before even wasting your time going on a date. Getting sent dick pics? Bin them. Asking for dirty pics? Bin them. Not following through on what they say or showing you flaky behaviour? Bin them. Perhaps that's harsh but guys sending dick pics or not responding to messages for more than a day are not serious about finding a relationship.
Enjoy getting to know these guys over several dates, over these dates these guys will show you who they are and what their intentions are - you don't even have to open your legs to find all this out, you can weed them out over two to four dates. Within three hours of a first date over dinner/drinks you can tell a lot about a person. Think of it as an interview process and you're interviewing for a vacant boyfriend position. Many will completely disagree with this thinking process but when you do stop and think about it it's not much different to looking for a new job, you see what's there, whittle them down, apply for the most suitable positions. Likewise, when you're recruiting someone for a job, for example, you need a butcher, you're not going to waste you're time interviewing someone who is currently a nurse with zero butcher experience. Sure, they may have the potential to be a butcher, and they may have great enthusiasm and you get on well with them but a butcher they ain't so it's not gonna work as it's not what you're looking for. It's not a match. Same as if you want a relationship, only date people who are also looking for a relationship as that's a match to what you're looking for. If you want a relationship and he wants to sleep around then that's not going to work. If you keep doing what you're doing you'll get the same results. Change your process, get better results.
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