Taurus guy fights

Posted by DeleterNerd
Next time just say haha alright my bad then send another in a week. Do what aries are best at and feign forgetfulness "oh babe, sorry I forgot. You know me, so forgetful"

Posted by The_Mad_H8R
My guess would be he's being territorial.

Probably more of a "hey other guys Watching this.... she has me.. she mine" kinda thing. Also letting you know that he likes you. Not sure how old you are but this sounds like something I'd have done in my teens.

Posted by DeleterNerd
Yeah but he called her a tryhard even though he was just being possessive lol. He deserves to be messed with a little.

Posted by The_Mad_H8R

Posted by JJ4568
Friends, cuz I think strategy due to the circumstance. But he has my attention also.

Have you made that clear? Are you trying to string him along? click to expand

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Posted by DeleterNerd
Yeah but he called her a tryhard even though he was just being possessive lol. He deserves to be messed with a little.

But what if what he wrote wasn’t about jealousy but just that he actually thinks that I try too hard to impress which is not true? If me and him finally discuss this do you think he’ll admit to being jealous if that’s what it is about? I forgot to tell u guys that when I did a video on snap of me lipsyncing and dancing I filmed the barbeque party and the guys at the party to show people around I guess. (we were 2 girls and 4-5 guys. Does that give more reason for it to be true, that he got jealous? 🌹 click to expand

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Posted by DeleterNerd
Yeah but he called her a tryhard even though he was just being possessive lol. He deserves to be messed with a little.

But what if what he wrote wasn’t about jealousy but just that he actually thinks that I try too hard to impress which is not true? If me and him finally discuss this do you think he’ll admit to being jealous if that’s what it is about? I forgot to tell u guys that when I did a video on snap of me lipsyncing and dancing I filmed the barbeque party, some guys. Does that give more reason for it to be true, that he got jealous? 🌹 click to expand

Dont use the word jealousy. For some reason that word makes taurs put up a wall. Use possessive. But he was definitely just being jealous lol. If you want him to be happy, then talk about it in a way that makes it seem like you understand where he was coming from if you do... click to expand

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Posted by DeleterNerd
Yeah but he called her a tryhard even though he was just being possessive lol. He deserves to be messed with a little.

But what if what he wrote wasn’t about jealousy but just that he actually thinks that I try too hard to impress which is not true? If me and him finally discuss this do you think he’ll admit to being jealous if that’s what it is about? I forgot to tell u guys that when I did a video on snap of me lipsyncing and dancing I filmed the barbeque party and the guys at the party to show people around I guess. (we were 2 girls and 4-5 guys. Does that give more reason for it to be true, that he got jealous? 🌹 click to expand

Aries are known to be try hards.

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Posted by DeleterNerd
Yeah but he called her a tryhard even though he was just being possessive lol. He deserves to be messed with a little.

But what if what he wrote wasn’t about jealousy but just that he actually thinks that I try too hard to impress which is not true? If me and him finally discuss this do you think he’ll admit to being jealous if that’s what it is about? I forgot to tell u guys that when I did a video on snap of me lipsyncing and dancing I filmed the barbeque party, some guys. Does that give more reason for it to be true, that he got jealous? 🌹 click to expand

Dont use the word jealousy. For some reason that word makes taurs put up a wall. Use possessive. But he was definitely just being jealous lol. If you want him to be happy, then talk about it in a way that makes it seem like you understand where he was coming from if you do... click to expand

To tell him I understand where he’s coming from and tell him I got u that’s me all the way. And i’ll tell him to be more open and learn to discuss without getting all sensitive and start a fight.. I hate drama myself but why do you guys think that he also wrote that we shouldn’t snap each other like send each other whatever furthur forward but only call each other or text if we wanna talk? click to expand

He's probably not talking to you right now because you actually deleted him. click to expand

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Posted by JJ4568
Friends, cuz I think strategy due to the circumstance. But he has my attention also.

Have you made that clear? Are you trying to string him along? click to expand

Definitely not. He knows about the circumstance and he also knows that I take him more as a friend than a guy I could date due to the circumstance with distance. And it’s not like I feel interested the whole time we spend with each other. I just go with the flow, act myself and act as a friend u know u gotta have ur limits.. I don’t wanna get him all headtreetrunked but I feel headtreetrunked by the situation too so.. but otherwise sure, he is interesting to me and I kinda miss him rn. click to expand

Make sure he understands exactly where you guys stand and what you want in the future. click to expand

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Posted by MoonshineLeo
I dont think being more than friends is possible for him, look at how hes acting already sounds like a headache

Posted by The_Mad_H8R

Posted by JJ4568
That’s the thing. He thinks he can observe me and think he read my mind just because he observed me in his own way. Doesnt have to mean that he is right tho😓

I'd guess he's looking for patterns of stability. Something to build on. click to expand

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Posted by JJ4568
Friends, cuz I think strategy due to the circumstance. But he has my attention also.

Have you made that clear? Are you trying to string him along? click to expand

Definitely not. He knows about the circumstance and he also knows that I take him more as a friend than a guy I could date due to the circumstance with distance. And it’s not like I feel interested the whole time we spend with each other. I just go with the flow, act myself and act as a friend u know u gotta have ur limits.. I don’t wanna get him all headtreetrunked but I feel headtreetrunked by the situation too so.. but otherwise sure, he is interesting to me and I kinda miss him rn. click to expand

Make sure he understands exactly where you guys stand and what you want in the future. click to expand

Do virgos do that? Or do we expect people to read our minds? click to expand

Haha it depends. Can be very forward or be very moody and you have to read their minds. It's a crap shoot click to expand

Yes! So do taurs need reassurance when we're being the latter? Other signs will just ask for it from us, but tauruses dont really. click to expand

It definitely wouldn't hurt. click to expand

Last question: but do they kind of give up or lose interest if you dont? click to expand

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Are you asking if they can go from love interest to friends? I would think so. click to expand

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Posted by JJ4568
That’s the thing. He thinks he can observe me and think he read my mind just because he observed me in his own way. Doesnt have to mean that he is right tho😓

I'd guess he's looking for patterns of stability. Something to build on. click to expand

Excately. Me too but i’m trying to be more realistic and go with the flow, while he’s here bugging. click to expand

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He's tryna figure out where you guys truly stand. Sounds like you're not sure yourself and are kinda giving mixed signals. That's my take. click to expand

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Posted by MoonshineLeo
I dont think being more than friends is possible for him, look at how hes acting already sounds like a headache

Mhm.. I don’t know what to do but i’m gonna try to discuss this behaviour with him and I get him but he has to get me in this situation. Also get the circumstance of it. click to expand

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Posted by The_Mad_H8R

Posted by JJ4568
That’s the thing. He thinks he can observe me and think he read my mind just because he observed me in his own way. Doesnt have to mean that he is right tho😓

I'd guess he's looking for patterns of stability. Something to build on. click to expand

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Posted by JJ4568
That’s the thing. He thinks he can observe me and think he read my mind just because he observed me in his own way. Doesnt have to mean that he is right tho😓

I'd guess he's looking for patterns of stability. Something to build on. click to expand

How is he building but wants to limit contact with her? yea not buying this click to expand

He's texting and calling. How is he not communicating? He's trying to get her alone for a better read. It's common sense really. click to expand

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Posted by JJ4568
Yeah but it’s not like we can’t send each other memes or watch each others storys on insta or snap.. But at the moment we don’t talk. We haven’t spoken since friday.
It’s complicated for both of us and it does make sense that he wants to not be in contact on snapchat since we send stuff of what we’re doing almost everyday, and since he’s on my bestfriendslist I send stuff to him too, I also send stuff cuz I wanna share what i’m doing with him.

That's hard though, like being hungry and having steak put in your face but can't eat. click to expand

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Posted by JJ4568
That’s the thing. He thinks he can observe me and think he read my mind just because he observed me in his own way. Doesnt have to mean that he is right tho😓

I'd guess he's looking for patterns of stability. Something to build on. click to expand

How is he building but wants to limit contact with her? yea not buying this click to expand

He's texting and calling. How is he not communicating? He's trying to get her alone for a better read. It's common sense really. click to expand

he said "we should only text or call" key word ONLY, is that not a red flag? hes making things wayyy too complicated. click to expand

How is he making it complicated? He's saying there are a million people looking at your snaps.. lets talk privately.. she likes him he likes her but situation complicated.. click to expand

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Posted by JJ4568
That’s the thing. He thinks he can observe me and think he read my mind just because he observed me in his own way. Doesnt have to mean that he is right tho😓

I'd guess he's looking for patterns of stability. Something to build on. click to expand

How is he building but wants to limit contact with her? yea not buying this click to expand

He's texting and calling. How is he not communicating? He's trying to get her alone for a better read. It's common sense really. click to expand

he said "we should only text or call" key word ONLY, is that not a red flag? hes making things wayyy too complicated. click to expand

It's exactly what DMs. Were invented for. click to expand

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Posted by JJ4568
That’s the thing. He thinks he can observe me and think he read my mind just because he observed me in his own way. Doesnt have to mean that he is right tho😓

I'd guess he's looking for patterns of stability. Something to build on. click to expand

How is he building but wants to limit contact with her? yea not buying this click to expand

He's texting and calling. How is he not communicating? He's trying to get her alone for a better read. It's common sense really. click to expand

he said "we should only text or call" key word ONLY, is that not a red flag? hes making things wayyy too complicated. click to expand

How is he making it complicated? He's saying there are a million people looking at your snaps.. lets talk privately.. she likes him he likes her but situation complicated.. click to expand

You're ASSUMING that though he didnt say that... and if you're a guy who does this then you need to grow up. Ladies like men who are straight to the point. click to expand

Have you read this thread? There is nothing straight to the point about any if it click to expand

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Posted by JJ4568
That’s the thing. He thinks he can observe me and think he read my mind just because he observed me in his own way. Doesnt have to mean that he is right tho😓

I'd guess he's looking for patterns of stability. Something to build on. click to expand

How is he building but wants to limit contact with her? yea not buying this click to expand

He's texting and calling. How is he not communicating? He's trying to get her alone for a better read. It's common sense really. click to expand

he said "we should only text or call" key word ONLY, is that not a red flag? hes making things wayyy too complicated. click to expand

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if anything that's making it simpler.

This looks like that weird territory men and women see things totally different. click to expand

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Posted by The_Mad_H8R

Posted by JJ4568
That’s the thing. He thinks he can observe me and think he read my mind just because he observed me in his own way. Doesnt have to mean that he is right tho😓

I'd guess he's looking for patterns of stability. Something to build on. click to expand

How is he building but wants to limit contact with her? yea not buying this click to expand

He's texting and calling. How is he not communicating? He's trying to get her alone for a better read. It's common sense really. click to expand

he said "we should only text or call" key word ONLY, is that not a red flag? hes making things wayyy too complicated. click to expand

??

if anything that's making it simpler.

This looks like that weird territory men and women see things totally different. click to expand

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Posted by JJ4568
That’s the thing. He thinks he can observe me and think he read my mind just because he observed me in his own way. Doesnt have to mean that he is right tho😓

I'd guess he's looking for patterns of stability. Something to build on. click to expand

How is he building but wants to limit contact with her? yea not buying this click to expand

He's texting and calling. How is he not communicating? He's trying to get her alone for a better read. It's common sense really. click to expand

he said "we should only text or call" key word ONLY, is that not a red flag? hes making things wayyy too complicated. click to expand

??

if anything that's making it simpler.

This looks like that weird territory men and women see things totally different. click to expand

this girl was just having fun in her snap and hes like noooo you cant be fun, block! lol
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No doubt he's been a baby about some of it.

But ultimately it just sounds like he's trying to not mix up their relationship with snapchat if it's just going to cause grief for both. click to expand

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Posted by tiziani
It looks to me like both of you are trying to prove something that isn't worth proving.

He reacted like a prick to your video, obviously out of insecurity.

And others are right, it's no point trying to get anyone, Taurus or any sign, to try and face their own bad reactions when they're not ready to be honest about why.

But instead of just letting it slide and working towards what's good about you both, you are more concerned with getting him to keep his pants down with his vulnerabilities. In the end he will only resent you for that.

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Posted by The_Mad_H8R

Posted by JJ4568
That’s the thing. He thinks he can observe me and think he read my mind just because he observed me in his own way. Doesnt have to mean that he is right tho😓

I'd guess he's looking for patterns of stability. Something to build on. click to expand

How is he building but wants to limit contact with her? yea not buying this click to expand

He's texting and calling. How is he not communicating? He's trying to get her alone for a better read. It's common sense really. click to expand

he said "we should only text or call" key word ONLY, is that not a red flag? hes making things wayyy too complicated. click to expand

??

if anything that's making it simpler.

This looks like that weird territory men and women see things totally different. click to expand

this girl was just having fun in her snap and hes like noooo you cant be fun, block! lol
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No doubt he's been a baby about some of it.

But ultimately it just sounds like he's trying to not mix up their relationship with snapchat if it's just going to cause grief for both. click to expand

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Posted by JJ4568

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Posted by MoonshineLeo

Posted by The_Mad_H8R

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Posted by The_Mad_H8R

Posted by JJ4568
That’s the thing. He thinks he can observe me and think he read my mind just because he observed me in his own way. Doesnt have to mean that he is right tho😓

I'd guess he's looking for patterns of stability. Something to build on. click to expand

How is he building but wants to limit contact with her? yea not buying this click to expand

He's texting and calling. How is he not communicating? He's trying to get her alone for a better read. It's common sense really. click to expand

he said "we should only text or call" key word ONLY, is that not a red flag? hes making things wayyy too complicated. click to expand

??

if anything that's making it simpler.

This looks like that weird territory men and women see things totally different. click to expand

Excately. People have their own minds and understandings. That’s what communication is for, that’s the key and we will get there. click to expand

Did he make you worry that he might turn controlling or something? I feel like you gotta let some things slide. But fair enough. click to expand

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Posted by JJ4568
That’s the thing. He thinks he can observe me and think he read my mind just because he observed me in his own way. Doesnt have to mean that he is right tho😓

I'd guess he's looking for patterns of stability. Something to build on. click to expand

How is he building but wants to limit contact with her? yea not buying this click to expand

He's texting and calling. How is he not communicating? He's trying to get her alone for a better read. It's common sense really. click to expand

he said "we should only text or call" key word ONLY, is that not a red flag? hes making things wayyy too complicated. click to expand

??

if anything that's making it simpler.

This looks like that weird territory men and women see things totally different. click to expand

this girl was just having fun in her snap and hes like noooo you cant be fun, block! lol
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No doubt he's been a baby about some of it.

But ultimately it just sounds like he's trying to not mix up their relationship with snapchat if it's just going to cause grief for both. click to expand

understandable but the point is hes going about it totally wrong, its diminishing the connection now op is all paranoid. that sucks click to expand

I can't argue with that. The joys of miscommunication lol click to expand

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Posted by JJ4568

Posted by tiziani
It looks to me like both of you are trying to prove something that isn't worth proving.

He reacted like a prick to your video, obviously out of insecurity.

And others are right, it's no point trying to get anyone, Taurus or any sign, to try and face their own bad reactions when they're not ready to be honest about why.

But instead of just letting it slide and working towards what's good about you both, you are more concerned with getting him to keep his pants down with his vulnerabilities. In the end he will only resent you for that.

Lol u got it all wrong, u think u some sort of behaviour psychologist tho? 😂 I won’t explain myself since this comment makes me realize that some people only understand with their level of perception so i’m being cautious 🌹
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That's why I started off my post with "it looks to me like"

Because I don't want to make the time to write in longhand. Just getting to the point of what I see. If it's wrong it's wrong. click to expand

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Posted by MoonshineLeo
Sucks when you feel like you cant be yourself around a guy you really like, as a aries moon i totally relate to this

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Posted by MoonshineLeo
Sucks when you feel like you cant be yourself around a guy you really like, as a aries moon i totally relate to this

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Sucks when you feel like you cant be yourself around a guy you really like, as a aries moon i totally relate to this

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Idk how old you are but as you get older you’ll know when to tone down your fire, a lot of people won’t like all that fire and you will have to simply respect that and send them on their way. Don’t change yourself the right person will like all of you even when you’re being extra lol chin up! click to expand

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Sucks when you feel like you cant be yourself around a guy you really like, as a aries moon i totally relate to this

🤯💔 click to expand

Idk how old you are but as you get older you’ll know when to tone down your fire, a lot of people won’t like all that fire and you will have to simply respect that and send them on their way. Don’t change yourself the right person will like all of you even when you’re being extra lol chin up! click to expand

20. Yeah I kinda get what u mean even tho thats what I already stand for but when u wrote that it sucks when you feel like you can’t be yourself around a guy you really like because of reasons u can’t do anything about. Even though we’re more like 90% ourselves w each other mixed with some goofyness I feel like those 10% is all this in this thread. There’s nothing to do about it so u gotta act all cool and have ur limits when it comes to staying friends. And that’s what hurt my heart a bit when I started thinking about that now. click to expand

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