Bestrong25
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I want my taurus BACK no matter how LONG it takes. Because i know hes my soul mate
Will My Taurus Come Back After Breakup
Rebuilding trust with a Taurus after betrayal takes time and sincere effort. Showing consistent remorse, giving him space, and demonstrating personal growth can help. Patience is key as Taurus values loyalty and stability. Focus on self-improvement and respectful communication to increase the chances of reconciliation over time.
ok. good luck.
yeah you treetrunked up bad.
are you still talking to the other guy....I didn't read through your whole story tbh.
Taurus' are tough, once they make up their mind they are hard to change (stubborn bulls)
they like reason and logic, but I don't think you have a leg to stand on there, no logical or rational reason why you hurt him.
I think if you loved him and cared about him you would let him go, I think you will just hurt him again...sorry.
are you still talking to the other guy....I didn't read through your whole story tbh.
Taurus' are tough, once they make up their mind they are hard to change (stubborn bulls)
they like reason and logic, but I don't think you have a leg to stand on there, no logical or rational reason why you hurt him.
I think if you loved him and cared about him you would let him go, I think you will just hurt him again...sorry.
Soulmates arent real...question: if you love him so.much why did you screw your ex? Thats what he is thinking....but bc tauruses are stubborn af ...he'll most likely forgive you despite your shitty behavior bc they are gluttons for punishment apparently. Good luck.
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Since you mentioned he's a Taurus, obviously astrology has some meaning for you. I'm a women with a moon in Taurus so...I know this is important to you and I'm not judging your actions because we all do stupid/bad things, anyone who says otherwise is lying. I'll just tell you the way it is, in a Taurus moon kind of way, plus women can cut to the chase with the percission of a surgical blade, but it's better than dragging it out slowly with a rusty knife.
You broke the bond/link that can't be fixed. Sex/physical bonding/trust/comfort are the relationship for the Taurus man (or any man) and he was in love with you, still is, although in a horribly painful way. You dropped the egg on the floor and you can scrape it all back together again, but it's still going to be a mess. He's feeling the loss too, the death of the relationship, but his is with a knife twisted into his gut (or back...). You know how badly you hurt? He hurts worse. You feel horrible and don't know why you did it because you ex was a stalker out to hurt you and he succeeded, but it's done. You slept with your ex for sex, but to your boyfriend, you were 'date'n satan'. And you were, because I personally believe that your
ex lured you back into sex for the purpose of taking those pictures and then giving them to your boyfriend to mortally destroy your relationship. Yep, he got ya good. You're upset with yourself because you don't know why you were compelled to do it and now you see how horribly wounded your man is. You're panicking to make it right, but you can't call 911. You can remove the knife, but the scars will be there for life. It probably won't hurt anymore with another woman, but it will be a long time before he feels secure with one again. Forgiveness from him to you and from you to yourself is the only option here and those will be the hardest things to get, especially the one from yourself. A relationship is not an option here because you represent pain to this guy now. Yes, it's terrible. If you truely were in love with your man, you wouldn't have had sex with another, he's crushed, you're being criushed under the weight of guilt. But now it's time to stop.
You said you were soul mates and you probably are (and also with your ex) because true soul mate connections are not meant to last a lifetime. They bring learning through pain, gut wrenching drama and trauma. You have that with these 2 men. Focus on improving yourself and workout a lot, date no one for awhile, improve yourself!!! If it feels like a soap opera...run, run, run.
You broke the bond/link that can't be fixed. Sex/physical bonding/trust/comfort are the relationship for the Taurus man (or any man) and he was in love with you, still is, although in a horribly painful way. You dropped the egg on the floor and you can scrape it all back together again, but it's still going to be a mess. He's feeling the loss too, the death of the relationship, but his is with a knife twisted into his gut (or back...). You know how badly you hurt? He hurts worse. You feel horrible and don't know why you did it because you ex was a stalker out to hurt you and he succeeded, but it's done. You slept with your ex for sex, but to your boyfriend, you were 'date'n satan'. And you were, because I personally believe that your
ex lured you back into sex for the purpose of taking those pictures and then giving them to your boyfriend to mortally destroy your relationship. Yep, he got ya good. You're upset with yourself because you don't know why you were compelled to do it and now you see how horribly wounded your man is. You're panicking to make it right, but you can't call 911. You can remove the knife, but the scars will be there for life. It probably won't hurt anymore with another woman, but it will be a long time before he feels secure with one again. Forgiveness from him to you and from you to yourself is the only option here and those will be the hardest things to get, especially the one from yourself. A relationship is not an option here because you represent pain to this guy now. Yes, it's terrible. If you truely were in love with your man, you wouldn't have had sex with another, he's crushed, you're being criushed under the weight of guilt. But now it's time to stop.
You said you were soul mates and you probably are (and also with your ex) because true soul mate connections are not meant to last a lifetime. They bring learning through pain, gut wrenching drama and trauma. You have that with these 2 men. Focus on improving yourself and workout a lot, date no one for awhile, improve yourself!!! If it feels like a soap opera...run, run, run.
Virgo/cancer behavior
You broke the sacred oath that comes with our love you fucked up we don’t forget shit that involves our emotions. what you did to him will play on repeat in his head every time he’s around you which will cause him nothing but pain and misery. Let him be and take this as a life lesson to be more considerate of your actions and how they’ll affect your life and others so maybe next time you will make wiser decisions.
I think the cheating killed it for him. Not sure if you can come back from this.
Everybody here says there is no future with him. It's most probably right. But why do you think he is your soul mate? Don't be too hard on yourself, shit happens.
If you want to get rid of your guilt, the best way is send him a card explaining yourself (briefly) with some flowers.
If you want to get rid of your guilt, the best way is send him a card explaining yourself (briefly) with some flowers.
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