taurus guys, what have your experiences been like with scorpio women?

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Anyway, I digress OP. Sorry. I'm not a Taurus but I've always attracted Scorpio women in the past. I think they like to see you at a weak moment. I always suspected they have a "rescuer" fetish.
Interesting... Have you shown weak moments around them or something? What is considered a weak moment?
Yeah just fake a personal crisis.

... Just kidding, before the Scorps lose it on me.

But it basically boils down to that. Not being a sap or crying about it, but just showing vulnerability. The Scorps I was in a relationship with, zoned in on me after I lost family, relationships, money or all three.
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Hah! Very interesting. I have no problem getting along with Scorp guys. Most of my best pals are Scorps. The women on the other hand are totally hit or miss with me. I'll test this theory out and get back to yall.
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Anyway, I digress OP. Sorry. I'm not a Taurus but I've always attracted Scorpio women in the past. I think they like to see you at a weak moment. I always suspected they have a "rescuer" fetish.
Interesting... Have you shown weak moments around them or something? What is considered a weak moment?
We as Scorps are professionals at hiding out weaknesses/vulnerabilities (especially when young and not so evolved). When someone does that to us - show us their humanity, their true selves (not an act) good and bad - it feels like heaven to us, because it is the one thing we would love to do so freely, but it's very hard.

So, it's an admirable trait and one we tend to gravitate to in others. If you have that, you will get very far with her!

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Thanks for the advice! I don't plan on being a bullshitter (not really am one), and just being myself with her. It's more that not much crap is going on for me to feel weak or vulnerable at the moment ahah. It'll have to come naturally. We'll cross that bridge if we get there. She seems very guarded atm so this will take some time.

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Anyway, I digress OP. Sorry. I'm not a Taurus but I've always attracted Scorpio women in the past. I think they like to see you at a weak moment. I always suspected they have a "rescuer" fetish.
Interesting... Have you shown weak moments around them or something? What is considered a weak moment?
Yeah just fake a personal crisis.

... Just kidding, before the Scorps lose it on me.

But it basically boils down to that. Not being a sap or crying about it, but just showing vulnerability. The Scorps I was in a relationship with, zoned in on me after I lost family, relationships, money or all three.
Hah! Very interesting. I have no problem getting along with Scorp guys. Most of my best pals are Scorps. The women on the other hand are totally hit or miss with me. I'll test this theory out and get back to yall.
I wait with abaited breath to saw if your "book" will beat TLS's!!!

I always wonder if it is ever disappointing.. All the "hype" re this pairing, people believe it and to have it fail. But I think it is more for scorp fem and Taurus male. I had a date with a scorp 4 years ago. I didn't get any of those "vibes"! But I rarely attract water or earth. Mainly fire and air.

Good luck OP!

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Much thanks! Though to share, I have been with Scorpio women in my past but it never led to anything serious. More flings than anything. They're super intense and I love their energy, but timing never really worked out. I think the Scorp guys are definitely more laid back and chill compared to the women. The women seem to carry this aura of skepticism and will analyse secretly where as the guys just don't give a crap and will just be around with good vibes.
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Anyway, I digress OP. Sorry. I'm not a Taurus but I've always attracted Scorpio women in the past. I think they like to see you at a weak moment. I always suspected they have a "rescuer" fetish.
Damn... That IS somewhat true 😐



I have to add though: whenever I was in that mode, I never became serious with that person. My serious relationships were much healthier!
It can become counter-productive if that's all there is to the dynamic. A man with a stronger protective instinct for the relationship than the already strong protective instinct a Scorp woman has, herself, can provide some humility for her - which I believe Scorp women find peaceful. If they're always reminiscing over the time where she rescued and rebuilt him, there's never going to be that path to a humble mutual harmony of their goals.

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Best thing you've said here Tiz. The peaceful feeling is true. I think my Taurus fella is protective of me and the relationship which offers trust and security which is calming and peaceful for a Scorp. None of that dramatic crap we usually think we need. Some scorps might use that or think it's a weakness in the bull but his humility is a strength.
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Anyway, I digress OP. Sorry. I'm not a Taurus but I've always attracted Scorpio women in the past. I think they like to see you at a weak moment. I always suspected they have a "rescuer" fetish.
Interesting... Have you shown weak moments around them or something? What is considered a weak moment?
Yeah just fake a personal crisis.

... Just kidding, before the Scorps lose it on me.

But it basically boils down to that. Not being a sap or crying about it, but just showing vulnerability. The Scorps I was in a relationship with, zoned in on me after I lost family, relationships, money or all three.
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Second best thing you've said here Tiz. You're on a roll!

No saps please. Genuine vulnerability only.
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Just an observation here on DXP and from what I've seen IRL:

Taurus man likes a girl: Sag through Libra

Taurus man falls HARD for a girl: Scorpio


Which one is better?


THAT answer differs!

I've seen this pairing to be a very good one - both connected to the hip with happy grins from euphoria. But, getting there IS a massive challenge and many don't make it to that point.



I've seen Taurus men give their all while the Scorp isn't ready and I've seen the Scorp go crazy and Taurus shutting down.

Both are extremely stubborn in their ways and if there is no respect or mutual understanding, the relationship flounders in a devestating way - Traunatizing for BOTH parties.

It's risky business... That's for sure.

I also think many Taurus feel uncomfortable with feeling so much and becoming too vulnerable that they prefer to cut ties and hook up with someone easier where their emotions aren't so deeply invested... It's manageable and more peaceful that way.

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wow very well put and truthful

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My bad, it was Dominique, and she used a knife

http://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-1136287/One-night-stand-man-wakes-lover-carved-arm.html

He said: 'I went to her place for sex, not to be tattoed. I can't believe she did this to me and I hate her."
Reminds me of the book "Heartsick". Sorry but when I think of Taurus and Scorp, I think of Laci and Scott Peterson. Jeez. Why would anyone voluntarily enter a relationship knowing that's a possible outcome?
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I like Taurus's! I've dated a Taurus guy before. It was good but i didn't see a future with him, I just knew I wouldn't be happy with him in the long run. That was a couple of years back. Over the years he's tried to rekindle something but I legit just look at him as a friend, I no longer find myself attracted to him in the slightest.

I have this other Taurus that I met not long after things ended with the Taurus I mentioned above. I met him whilst travelling overseas and we were both from the same country. We've managed to stay friends over the last 2 years even though we live in different states. He and I just really get each other. There's attraction there but for the time being We just seem like really good friends.

I think Scorpio and Taurus are very similar. We are both stubborn, possessive, fearful of rejection, afraid to show emotions. It can be a hard thing to make work when neither party is willing to make the first move!
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My bad, it was Dominique, and she used a knife

http://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-1136287/One-night-stand-man-wakes-lover-carved-arm.html

He said: 'I went to her place for sex, not to be tattoed. I can't believe she did this to me and I hate her."
Reminds me of the book "Heartsick". Sorry but when I think of Taurus and Scorp, I think of Laci and Scott Peterson. Jeez. Why would anyone voluntarily enter a relationship knowing that's a possible outcome?

I remember that trial. He brutally murdered his wife who was 8 months pregnant and he continued to have affairs while the entire town was searching for her. What a psycho!

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Yes, and when they found him trying to escape to Mexico he had a knife and a shovel and rope and the directions to his current girlfriends place in the car. Just scary. I agree.
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My bad, it was Dominique, and she used a knife

http://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-1136287/One-night-stand-man-wakes-lover-carved-arm.html

He said: 'I went to her place for sex, not to be tattoed. I can't believe she did this to me and I hate her."
Reminds me of the book "Heartsick". Sorry but when I think of Taurus and Scorp, I think of Laci and Scott Peterson. Jeez. Why would anyone voluntarily enter a relationship knowing that's a possible outcome?

I remember that trial. He brutally murdered his wife who was 8 months pregnant and he continued to have affairs while the entire town was searching for her. What a psycho!


Yes, and when they found him trying to escape to Mexico he had a knife and a shovel and rope and the directions to his current girlfriends place in the car. Just scary. I agree.
Who was the scorpio the guy or the mistress?
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The mistress had nothing to do with it, she actually testified against him, he told her, he didn't have a wife. He was the bat crap crazy one.
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Disaster. Just a no go. However as much as I'd like to say dont do it I cant because of the learning experiences. Its kind of close but I wouldnt not have met her even though it ended in disastrous fashion. In the end we arent together like before we met so nothing lost and hard lessons gained. Iwill say Im wiser and even more cautious about this after that. I kind of auto put Scorps in friendzone status and dont even think about going there.
If you don't mind going into too much detail, why didn't it work out?
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My bad, it was Dominique, and she used a knife

http://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-1136287/One-night-stand-man-wakes-lover-carved-arm.html

He said: 'I went to her place for sex, not to be tattoed. I can't believe she did this to me and I hate her."
Reminds me of the book "Heartsick". Sorry but when I think of Taurus and Scorp, I think of Laci and Scott Peterson. Jeez. Why would anyone voluntarily enter a relationship knowing that's a possible outcome?

I remember that trial. He brutally murdered his wife who was 8 months pregnant and he continued to have affairs while the entire town was searching for her. What a psycho!


Yes, and when they found him trying to escape to Mexico he had a knife and a shovel and rope and the directions to his current girlfriends place in the car. Just scary. I agree.
Who was the scorpio the guy or the mistress?
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The guy was the Scorpio. His wife was a Taurus. I don't know what sign his mistress was. Lucky.
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I've only had friendships with Taurus men. So far, I haven't had the pull romantically to Taurus and vice versa.

Taurus is built into me already, with my Taurus rising conjunct Taurus Saturn, which are opposite everything Scorpio in my chart rather sharply, so the opposition is lived out daily in me in various ways. Maybe that's why there isn't the pull to Taurus that some Scorpios talk about.
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I've only had friendships with Taurus men. So far, I haven't had the pull romantically to Taurus and vice versa.

Taurus is built into me already, with my Taurus rising conjunct Taurus Saturn, which are opposite everything Scorpio in my chart rather sharply, so the opposition is lived out daily in me in various ways. Maybe that's why there isn't the pull to Taurus that some Scorpios talk about.
? Interesting POV...

I don't have any Taurus in my chart or Earth sign for that matter.

Unless you want to count my:

-moon, Mars & Saturn in the 10th house

-8th house in Taurus

That's about it 😐

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10th house is Capricorn things so I can see how you might be drawn to Capricorn, Saturn and 10th house influenced people potentially given your moon being in that house. Does that fit at all?

With 8th house in Taurus some would say sexually you'll be drawn to Taurus traits, notably sensuality.

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I've only had friendships with Taurus men. So far, I haven't had the pull romantically to Taurus and vice versa.

Taurus is built into me already, with my Taurus rising conjunct Taurus Saturn, which are opposite everything Scorpio in my chart rather sharply, so the opposition is lived out daily in me in various ways. Maybe that's why there isn't the pull to Taurus that some Scorpios talk about.
? Interesting POV...

I don't have any Taurus in my chart or Earth sign for that matter.

Unless you want to count my:

-moon, Mars & Saturn in the 10th house

-8th house in Taurus

That's about it 😐


10th house is Capricorn things so I can see how you might be drawn to Capricorn, Saturn and 10th house influenced people potentially given your moon being in that house. Does that fit at all?

With 8th house in Taurus some would say sexually you'll be drawn to Taurus traits, notably sensuality.


I would definitely agree that sexually, I am attracted to Taurus traits and all things sensual.

With Capricorn traits, I'm surprised to say that I am attracted to its energy, somewhat. I'm very attracted to the seriousness, the discipline, the darkness, the brooding and their secretive sensuality. But not at all attracted to treating people like commodities.

?Hmm... It's confusing because the characteristics that I like about Caps are actually very similar to those owned by Scorpio, so... Not sure if that is me attracted to Scorpio or Cap traits??



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I can like Cap energy too, minus the negatives as you mentioned. I dated a Cap with Scorpio moon who had the good qualities fortunately, and I liked the mix.

Cap and Scorpio have a lot in common, it seems, so sometimes I can confuse the traits a bit too. Cap definitely can be more earth-bound - practical - generally speaking, in my experience, but certainly I've known Cap influenced people who aren't just about the practical reality of things, as one might expect from some descriptions.

An astrologer I know conveyed that Capricorn/Saturnian people should be connected to nature to be healthiest.

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?Ooh!! Cap Sun & Scorpio moon - does he have that Ralph Fiennes look by any chance?!?! I think he has that combo, and I remember being taken aback when I first saw him in Schindler's List. I know... It sounds morbid, but I was gaga for him in that film. The English Patient as well❤️

I think you might have a point ? Caps with water moons please me. I also found Ricky Martin (his energy) very attractive and he has a Pisces moon. Most Caps that I went out with, had that watery & sensual mix except for one - he was a steep typical Cap. Anyway, I shouldn't have generalized. There might be more exceptions to that rule than I had assumed.

Artistic Caps also are very appealing.

So the Capricorn/Saturnian advice... Does that include 10th house peeps?!?! I'm sure it makes everyone healthy to be in nature. But, I do find an extreme calm when in nature. It's heavenly.


Oh wow, I guess the Cap-Scorp I dated did have a bit of that look, only softer thanks to Cancer rising.

I was really taken by Ralph Fiennes in his early films too! I don't react that way to most actors, no matter how good looking they are. There was something about him that really stood out to me - a quality that came through his eyes. I remember looking at his chart long ago, around the time of Schindler's List, and being pleased by what I saw, but I had forgotten about that until you mentioned it! Even though no birth time is listed for him, it looks like the moon was in Scorpio for his entire birthday. I see that he has Scorpio Venus too, and Leo Mars.

I'm not as familiar with Ricky Martin so I'll have to look him up. 🙂

I agree about artistic Caps. The Cap I dated was a very talented woodworker.

I think it would include 10th house peeps with the importance of nature. I agree that it seems to be healthy for everyone, but that astrologer believed that it was of particular importance to a Saturn/Cap influenced person to be in nature, to live with it surrounding them.



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Wow... RF was definitely targeting all my Scorp & Leo bits, lol!!! I also have Leo Mars.

Ricky Martin is all over the place - but an energy that stood out for me was his moon and Mars in Pisces both in the 10th house (like me). Anyway, it's starting to make sense - earth sun with water placements are a very nice combo ?



Thanks for the info on nature, it is a pleasure of mine to be in nature so I'm glad it's also something that strongly benefits me!

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Leo Mars seems like a really good placement. A friend of mine referred to it as "warm" which I agree with from what I've seen in people who have it.

I really enjoyed the video, and the feel of it seems perfect for the recent full moon in Pisces!

I like the combination of water and earth too. Having Pisces placements in the 10th house seems good to me. I wonder if it's often found in people who are involved with the arts professionally, particularly in connection to music and dance, which I believe you've posted about (regarding yourself).

You're welcome! I have Saturn conjunct my ascendant and it aspects a few things in my chart. I live surrounded by nature (in a small forest) after searching for a long time for a place that felt right to me.









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Had a talk with my bull this morning.

He said.. we are moving out soon and find house close to the sea.

I said.. honey you were there already why you kept moving.?

He replied.. I like water. I feel balance.

Ok.. this is why I study Astrology. I am scorpio.water element. I built my house in my hometown because I like the surrounding. Earthy. Greeny. Lol.

You as a taurus. Earth element you find water very attractive. Inner balance.

Why not build house along the sea? Speechless bull.

He said... we are mud together. Lol.

I replied."exactly baby".

Taurus and Scorpio...nice couple. I bet.
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@infinite8 Yes, in a small forest of mostly cedar and Douglas-fir trees so they're green all year. 🙂 It is rather like paradise every day. I feel very lucky. I didn't expect to find something so special when I was looking for an ideal place to live.

Same with what I noticed about my state in nature. I love walks too.

It seems to match your chart really well with what you do. 🙂







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Scorpio chick I was pursuing disappeared and stopped talking so I've moved on. Old Scorpio chick reappeared from Europe and messaged me. Why they gotta be damn mysterious and so in and out for? Just magically disappearing and reappearing at the most random times.
I am going to do the same with "my" taurus... I do it when I feel like he's doesn't hook, if I feel he's hiding something, if I can't enjoy the situation or if I feel he is going to be totally into me but I am not sure about it...

After a while I may come back think about him so I just text a brief message also to see how I feel if he answer/don't answer back.. Or to be honest sometimes life is sad and bored and I need to feel a connection so I check on my "black book" ahaha joking..
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Currently falling hard for one atm. Curious what people's experiences are with them.
I only know one couple that's Taurus and Scorpio.

We use to hook up for like a year and then started seeing her and now they're together.

He's an asshole Taurus though.. doesn't have respect for woman in that earthy type way. He's known as a player. He's so cheap. She is not that attractive. I think he's with her cuz she puts up with him and does everything for him.

But not me. We couldn't be in the same room together unless it was just to hook up. He still contacts me and pretends he doesn't even have a gf. Really sad.
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Scorpio chick I was pursuing disappeared and stopped talking so I've moved on. Old Scorpio chick reappeared from Europe and messaged me. Why they gotta be damn mysterious and so in and out for? Just magically disappearing and reappearing at the most random times.
I am going to do the same with "my" taurus... I do it when I feel like he's doesn't hook, if I feel he's hiding something, if I can't enjoy the situation or if I feel he is going to be totally into me but I am not sure about it...

After a while I may come back think about him so I just text a brief message also to see how I feel if he answer/don't answer back.. Or to be honest sometimes life is sad and bored and I need to feel a connection so I check on my "black book" ahaha joking..
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Pshh. Even when I answer they go back into hide mode again. I'm just so emotionally spent that I don't give a crap anymore at this point.
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Currently falling hard for one atm. Curious what people's experiences are with them.
I only know one couple that's Taurus and Scorpio.

We use to hook up for like a year and then started seeing her and now they're together.

He's an asshole Taurus though.. doesn't have respect for woman in that earthy type way. He's known as a player. He's so cheap. She is not that attractive. I think he's with her cuz she puts up with him and does everything for him.

But not me. We couldn't be in the same room together unless it was just to hook up. He still contacts me and pretends he doesn't even have a gf. Really sad.
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That dude sounds like a pure douche. I'm sorry that you even had to deal with his BS.
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Scorpio chick I was pursuing disappeared and stopped talking so I've moved on. Old Scorpio chick reappeared from Europe and messaged me. Why they gotta be damn mysterious and so in and out for? Just magically disappearing and reappearing at the most random times.
I am going to do the same with "my" taurus... I do it when I feel like he's doesn't hook, if I feel he's hiding something, if I can't enjoy the situation or if I feel he is going to be totally into me but I am not sure about it...

After a while I may come back think about him so I just text a brief message also to see how I feel if he answer/don't answer back.. Or to be honest sometimes life is sad and bored and I need to feel a connection so I check on my "black book" ahaha joking..
Pshh. Even when I answer they go back into hide mode again. I'm just so emotionally spent that I don't give a crap anymore at this point.
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- I'm just so emotionally spent that I don't give a crap anymore at this point.-

that's exactly why I am going to disappear with the T man.. he doesn't appreciate me enough
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Scorpio chick I was pursuing disappeared and stopped talking so I've moved on. Old Scorpio chick reappeared from Europe and messaged me. Why they gotta be damn mysterious and so in and out for? Just magically disappearing and reappearing at the most random times.
I am going to do the same with "my" taurus... I do it when I feel like he's doesn't hook, if I feel he's hiding something, if I can't enjoy the situation or if I feel he is going to be totally into me but I am not sure about it...

After a while I may come back think about him so I just text a brief message also to see how I feel if he answer/don't answer back.. Or to be honest sometimes life is sad and bored and I need to feel a connection so I check on my "black book" ahaha joking..
Pshh. Even when I answer they go back into hide mode again. I'm just so emotionally spent that I don't give a crap anymore at this point.


- I'm just so emotionally spent that I don't give a crap anymore at this point.-

that's exactly why I am going to disappear with the T man.. he doesn't appreciate me enough

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I don't know about that. There's appreciation, and then there's manipulation. I don't think its necessarily right to tell a guy you like em and spend time with them, disappear for literally anywhere between 3 months to over a year with ZERO contact, only to reach back out and expect a person to still be there waiting for you. That's not how one should feel appreciated. People have their own lives and have emotional voids too. Love is a partnership, not a one way street.