@mskuran
10 Years
I'm Falling for a Scorpio man! But he doesn't want any attachment..
Understanding Scorpio Men's Attachment Tendencies
Scorpio men often value deep connections but can also be guarded and avoid commitment. They may flirt and enjoy intimacy without wanting a formal relationship. Recognizing their emotional boundaries helps determine if pursuing a serious connection is possible or if they prefer casual encounters.
Seems pretty logical to me that you should hand your heart over to someone who doesn't want it.
He's a grown ass man who doesn't want to commit to you. But I'm sure you know what's best for him. You can change his mind with your magical pussy and MAKE him 'fall for you'.
Posted by mskuran
So I've been seeing this Scorpio for a month now. I don't really know if I should stop or not. I'm a Taurus woman... There's a part of me telling me to stop seeing him & there's also a part of me telling me to take chances. I don't know what to do. A lot of women are chasing him some are like around 30's or 40's. He flirts with everyone! Do you guys think he would fall for me? We became like friends with benefits! He told me he likes me & I told him I feel the same way but he made it clear that he doesn't want a relationship?! Am I just his other girls!?
Yes. Youre one of his other girls
Yes, you are one of his options. Don't waste time with him like I did with my Scorp. It just leads to pain. I finally cut mine loose.
Posted by confusedlibra78
Yes, you are one of his options. Don't waste time with him like I did with my Scorp. It just leads to pain. I finally cut mine loose.
I already cut him off! Already blocked him everywhere. Some saying that scorpios are loyal but in my experience they're completely opposite.. I asked him before "how long are we gonna do this" & he goes like "if you find someone you'll stop right?
Posted by confusedlibra78
Yes, you are one of his options. Don't waste time with him like I did with my Scorp. It just leads to pain. I finally cut mine loose.I already cut him off! Already blocked him everywhere. Some saying that scorpios are loyal but in my experience they're completely opposite.. I asked him before "how long are we gonna do this" & he goes like "if you find someone you'll stop right?
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It almost sounds like we dated the same guy. I've not experienced a loyal Scorpio, though I've heard they'll play the field until they find "the one" which can take them a loooong time. I don't play those games. It's not worth it.
Posted by LadyNeptune
Seems pretty logical to me that you should hand your heart over to someone who doesn't want it.He's a grown ass man who doesn't want to commit to you. But I'm sure you know what's best for him. You can change his mind with your magical pussy and MAKE him 'fall for you'.
Yep...it's not like he told EXACTLY how he felt.
You just tell yourself whatever makes YOU happy or blind to the facts he stated.
Posted by confusedlibra78
Yes, you are one of his options. Don't waste time with him like I did with my Scorp. It just leads to pain. I finally cut mine loose.I already cut him off! Already blocked him everywhere. Some saying that scorpios are loyal but in my experience they're completely opposite.. I asked him before "how long are we gonna do this" & he goes like "if you find someone you'll stop right?
It almost sounds like we dated the same guy. I've not experienced a loyal Scorpio, though I've heard they'll play the field until they find "the one" which can take them a loooong time. I don't play those games. It's not worth it.
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I don't play games either. I want a relationship, something serious & something that lasts.. But he really did turn me off when I found out he's not a boyfriend material. He just likes to sleep around. But it's true that there's a strong physical attraction between Taurus & Scorpio.. Have you ever dated a Virgo? It was the best relationship that I've ever had.
In my experience with Scorpio men, if they say it, they mean it. He has commitment issues, big time.
Hes got his stinger pointing at you, you deserve better than a player
Posted by mskuran
So I've been seeing this Scorpio for a month now. I don't really know if I should stop or not. I'm a Taurus woman... There's a part of me telling me to stop seeing him & there's also a part of me telling me to take chances. I don't know what to do. A lot of women are chasing him some are like around 30's or 40's. He flirts with everyone! Do you guys think he would fall for me? We became like friends with benefits! He told me he likes me & I told him I feel the same way but he made it clear that he doesn't want a relationship?! Am I just his other girls!?
Yes.
Posted by confusedlibra78
Yes, you are one of his options. Don't waste time with him like I did with my Scorp. It just leads to pain. I finally cut mine loose.I already cut him off! Already blocked him everywhere. Some saying that scorpios are loyal but in my experience they're completely opposite.. I asked him before "how long are we gonna do this" & he goes like "if you find someone you'll stop right?
It almost sounds like we dated the same guy. I've not experienced a loyal Scorpio, though I've heard they'll play the field until they find "the one" which can take them a loooong time. I don't play those games. It's not worth it.
I don't play games either. I want a relationship, something serious & something that lasts.. But he really did turn me off when I found out he's not a boyfriend material. He just likes to sleep around. But it's true that there's a strong physical attraction between Taurus & Scorpio.. Have you ever dated a Virgo? It was the best relationship that I've ever had.
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Yes, Taurus and Scorpio can be a good match, but look at your whole chart. Plus, some are just selfish assholes who use their sexual power over women to stroke their ego. I'm talking to one now and he's completely the opposite, so it's not all of them.
I have dated Virgos, but it's not a great match for Libra, though my moon is in Virgo
Posted by confusedlibra78
Yes, you are one of his options. Don't waste time with him like I did with my Scorp. It just leads to pain. I finally cut mine loose.I already cut him off! Already blocked him everywhere. Some saying that scorpios are loyal but in my experience they're completely opposite.. I asked him before "how long are we gonna do this" & he goes like "if you find someone you'll stop right?
It almost sounds like we dated the same guy. I've not experienced a loyal Scorpio, though I've heard they'll play the field until they find "the one" which can take them a loooong time. I don't play those games. It's not worth it.
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Just to clear up any confusion before this becomes a "Scorpio men ain't sh*t" thread. Loyalty is only given to the ones their hearts are committed to.
Sex alone isn't going to magically get you loyalty. It doesn't matter how long you've been sharing a pillow or how committed you are either. Give your heart wisely ladies.
My Scorp is the only one I've dated, but not the first Scorpio to describe himself as a one woman man, on this board or in life. My guy is tickled when my normally blase and chill attitude gets bent when I feel territorial.
Posted by confusedlibra78
Yes, you are one of his options. Don't waste time with him like I did with my Scorp. It just leads to pain. I finally cut mine loose.I already cut him off! Already blocked him everywhere. Some saying that scorpios are loyal but in my experience they're completely opposite.. I asked him before "how long are we gonna do this" & he goes like "if you find someone you'll stop right?
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I agree when i was younger i met nothing but scorpio men nov 3 and the 4th bwfore i started liking women. I attracted all scorpio men. They wanted nothing but sex only ans not to be tied down. They wasnt loyal and the one that broke my heart at 16 said this to me along with the others
Posted by confusedlibra78
Yes, you are one of his options. Don't waste time with him like I did with my Scorp. It just leads to pain. I finally cut mine loose.I already cut him off! Already blocked him everywhere. Some saying that scorpios are loyal but in my experience they're completely opposite.. I asked him before "how long are we gonna do this" & he goes like "if you find someone you'll stop right?
It almost sounds like we dated the same guy. I've not experienced a loyal Scorpio, though I've heard they'll play the field until they find "the one" which can take them a loooong time. I don't play those games. It's not worth it.
Just to clear up any confusion before this becomes a "Scorpio men ain't sh*t" thread. Loyalty is only given to the ones their hearts are committed to.
Sex alone isn't going to magically get you loyalty. It doesn't matter how long you've been sharing a pillow or how committed you are either. Give your heart wisely ladies.
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So true ppl miscontrue love with sex. If i love you im 100 loyal etc i totally get it now
I don't think this is sign specific, but if any guy says he doesn't want a relationship with you - believe him
Sorry
Ye, what is it? If it hurts, if its confusing if your overanalyzing, if its not fun, rewarding and makes you feel good, relaxed and happy....its not meant to be!! Obviously.
Posted by LadyNeptune
Seems pretty logical to me that you should hand your heart over to someone who doesn't want it.He's a grown ass man who doesn't want to commit to you. But I'm sure you know what's best for him. You can change his mind with your magical pussy and MAKE him 'fall for you'.
I want a magical pussy!!!!! Š
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So I've been seeing this Scorpio for a month now. I don't really know if I should stop or not. I'm a Taurus woman... There's a part of me telling me to stop seeing him & there's also a part of me telling me to take chances. I don't know what to do. A lot of women are chasing him some are like around 30's or 40's. He flirts with everyone! Do you guys think he would fall for me? We became like friends with benefits! He told me he likes me & I told him I feel the same way but he made it clear that he doesn't want a relationship?! Am I just his other girls!?