Taurus man and Valentine's Day smh (Page 2)

Posted by Eris
People here (canada) have a warped view on Texas and the rest of the states a lot of the time.

Yeah, I am from the Northeast. I used to think TX sucked and hated the accents. I like it a lot now. On apocalyptic scenarios, I'm not waiting for the rapture or anything, but I am strange when it comes to protection of my self and family. I feel like your home is your castle. It should have a moat around it and a drawbridge. lol...What are all these windows doing on the first floor?!! Come on in. Look at all of the stuff in my living room. Come and get it!! I was looking at shatter-proof/reinforced glass the other day. I live in a good neighborhood; I just am paranoid. I feel you should protect the things you love the most, and anticipate worst case scenarios. My ideal home has all of the bedrooms on the 2nd floor, with an impenetrable steel door at the top of the stairway leading upstairs, and a slot for me to poke a gun through. LOL.

I lived on the streets of Dallas for 3 years. One of the best times of my life... Wouldn't want to be around that area if zombies do happen, though!
Doesn't sound like too bad of an idea you've got going on there. The moat is a great idea... Fill it with acid and you'll be very safe.

My taurus is constantly looking up survival gear... I talk about apocalypse type situations and get his mind just going... Months later I'm like, "oh no! What have I done?"
I thought I was the obsessive one lol

Update: I got a Happy Valentine text...that is all lol

Carry On

Smh at the update.
My Taurus friend just made a joke saying he's a Bull, you gotta grab him by the horns.

Ive been going through personal issues for a long(*sigh*) while and just told him Friday how he's NO help to my situation. He's so sensitive and will look like he's darn near in tears if i tell him about the part he plays or even hint towards taking a needed break from the situation, but at the same time he will not change.

After all the talking Friday, still no vday text. Well he sent one, literally a second after i did, which upset me smh.

I told him Friday as soon as i get my life on track im cutting him off and not fooling with him anymore. Then with a stupid look on my face i was like "Uhhhh, i wasn't suppose to reveal that to you huh?" He said "NOPE!" lol smh.

I dont take him nearly as seriously anymore and that has helped along with limiting contact. I never did call much, but I dont text anymore either, and thats the first thing he says...you never call me, and i always have to text you first! Uh, yeah...why do i want to hear the voicemail or wait hours to get a response from text? Taurus and Caps dont mix. Both are use to taking more than they give. He wants me to just put out constantly and i want him to do the same. Or maybe its just the combination of laziness, committment issues, and immaturity on our end. Idk.

Its been 5yrs since ive known my Taurus and when i mentioned it to him he said he was just thinking about that last week. If u are okay with not progressing, how i clearly am, then continue, if not...run. Ive noticed I can put my foot down, demand respect, do this, that, and the other...and at the end of the day, it just makes him more persistent in conquering me. Thats all he wants to do is conquer me...over and over again wheeps smh. The ugly truth of it all.

He meant *horn*

Please excuse my Leo moon Mimi. I just wanted to talk about my situation of course lol, and give you more of a glimpse into another screwed up Taurus and Cap. Where are the success stories with this pair i wonder?

Posted by lnana04
Smh at the update.
My Taurus friend just made a joke saying he's a Bull, you gotta grab him by the horns.

Ive been going through personal issues for a long(*sigh*) while and just told him Friday how he's NO help to my situation. He's so sensitive and will look like he's darn near in tears if i tell him about the part he plays or even hint towards taking a needed break from the situation, but at the same time he will not change.

After all the talking Friday, still no vday text. Well he sent one, literally a second after i did, which upset me smh.

I told him Friday as soon as i get my life on track im cutting him off and not fooling with him anymore. Then with a stupid look on my face i was like "Uhhhh, i wasn't suppose to reveal that to you huh?" He said "NOPE!" lol smh.

I dont take him nearly as seriously anymore and that has helped along with limiting contact. I never did call much, but I dont text anymore either, and thats the first thing he says...you never call me, and i always have to text you first! Uh, yeah...why do i want to hear the voicemail or wait hours to get a response from text? Taurus and Caps dont mix. Both are use to taking more than they give. He wants me to just put out constantly and i want him to do the same. Or maybe its just the combination of laziness, committment issues, and immaturity on our end. Idk.

Its been 5yrs since ive known my Taurus and when i mentioned it to him he said he was just thinking about that last week. If u are okay with not progressing, how i clearly am, then continue, if not...run. Ive noticed I can put my foot down, demand respect, do this, that, and the other...and at the end of the day, it just makes him more persistent in conquering me. Thats all he wants to do is conquer me...over and over again wheeps smh. The ugly truth of it all.

I've known my Taurus for 2 years today and I do not want to be doing this for 5 years. Every time I try to leave him alone he damn near begs me not to. He asked me to not give up on him. He'll say that I should help him to be better. He never shows any progress so im done again. He just wants me in his bed whenever its convenient for him. Caps dont let go easily once we are comfortable with someone but I cant deal with this foolishness any more.

Mimi, is he clear on what you want from him? Do you know what you want from him?