Taurus man hard to read

Ok,So I met this Taurus man at some birthday party where we just got introduced. After 6 months, he sends me a Facebook request and starts chatting. He invites me over to a festival gathering over the weekend. I don't agree to go as I hardly know him, but he insists and literally forces me to come there. I go there and have a great time, danced, met new people, some of which are good friend now. But this man didn't talk to me. While he dropped me home, he asked what are my plans for job, study etc. So the party at which he forced me to go, later on i recieve a mail asking me to pay the cover fee. I think that if i had been in his place, i would make sure that i pay for my guest.

Anyways, he invited me over movies with more 3-4 friends. I went, watched and came back home, nothing much, no talks. Usually he would he ping me on some chatting site, chat for 2-5 mins and then goes away. We even had a trip together to Buffalo for shopping with a group of friends. His actions towards me are just pulling my leg and making fun of me. He never talks to me like in a serious mode.

Once he invited me and only me to dinner at his place and he ended up being serious and telling me about his past relationship he had, which wasn't good.

Last weekend he had friends over his house for pool and i also went, ended up having great time with other people except him. He would just treat me like a baby, pulling jokes on me and i dont react, i just smile along.

The thing is that I have started to fall for him. He is a very happy man, always smiling and enjoying life, and i super adore him. I just don't know if he likes me or if hes testing me.

we met this weekend with friends for a Christmas market and he hugged me when he saw me, he took my coffee cup and sipped coffee from it and gave it back. Like who does that— There are such tiny subtle hints i have, but nothing is sure.

Any Taurus men here ,,please help or women who have had similar experiences with Taurus men, please guide me. I think i will soon go crazy!!!!

They're super shy, in most cases and even a little reserved when you get to know them. I pretty much pursued mine, who I married and am now divorcing. Not sure if that helps. lol

Posted by MoonArtist
They're super shy, in most cases and even a little reserved when you get to know them.

Very true.

Is he interested?

Too soon to tell. This Bull can still be in 'shy' mode.

My advice Cancermaid,

Crack a few jokes to lighten up the mood, and flirt a little. 😉

I am not good with jokes, but i keep laughing and smiling all the time. He invited me to movies tomorrow again with friends, I think i will go. But my patience has been running out now. Its been 3 long months.

Why are you falling for him? He's done nothing to warrant you investing yourself emotionally.

Seems immature and annoying but that's just how I perceived your perception of him.

Think twice before investing your precious commodity (your heart) to a man that's ambiguous, you'll regret it if you do.

Stop going out with him unless he ask you out on a real date and treat you like your HIS date.

You've responded to his ambiguity positively so there is no way he's going to stop being ambiguous with you unless you create a boundary/standard and stick to it.

Go back and read your own words, this guy does not seem like he's all that into you.

Oh wait you're a cancer, cancer women are cuckoo for coko coko puffs so this kind of behavior may be enduring, wonderful and very attractive to you.

never mind

I guess you have a point. I was told that the taurus man is slow to proceed or come out with his true feelings. I adore him as a person and would like to pursue a relationship with him. I want to get to know him. I go out to have a good time with friends and hes also a part of that, so it affects me. I wont stop going out with people just because hes also a part of that group...

Thanks Tiki33. But what do you mean by coko coko puffs—

Also, why does he only pull jokes with me— There are other girls as well, he doesnt joke with them!!!!Thats weird for me.

What do you mean robyn808??

I have a similar situation going on. This guy makes fun of me constantly at our martial arts class. He's got a very sarcastic & self deprecating sense of humor. He asked me out a couple times over the summer, but he came on kinda strong for me (physically) & I backed way off. He hasn't asked me out again since but he makes lil comments/jabs every now & then about me not contacting him or not wanting to go out with him again. Last week he asked for my info to friend me on facebook.

I guess my point in all of this is I think he may still be interested & maybe looking for me to make some sort of move to demonstrate that I'm interested & maybe ur guy is looking for the same. Maybe try asking him to do smtg one on one so u can talk & get to know each other more. Or even just try to engage him more the next time u r out with the group so u can get a better feel for what's up.

Posted by Cancermermaid

we met this weekend with friends for a Christmas market and he hugged me when he saw me, he took my coffee cup and sipped coffee from it and gave it back. Like who does that—

Someone who wants you to lighten up. 😉

"I hardly know him, but he insists and literally forces me to come there." LOL.
This is so Taurus. I mean he sounds adorable, and likes you. So what's the issue?

Posted by Cancermermaid
Thanks Tiki33. But what do you mean by coko coko puffs—

LOL!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

I totally get why he likes you too. You're super innocent and he probably wants to take care of you....

I mean on an emotional level cancer women can be weird & crazy so his kind of weird & crazy may be appealing to you.

How old are the both of you? early or late 20's, early or late 30's?

We can't answer, well I can't put an answer to his ambiguous behavior, well immature is one answer that I can come up with. The joke pulling is high school assclownery behavior.

Why not ASK him why? Ask him what he's doing?

You're just as ambiguous as he is, you say nothing, you ask nothing so you know nothing.

He makes no sense with his behavior and you're falling for him makes no sense.

He's done nothing from what you've revealed that would make a woman fall.

Thanks anonymousheart. The issue is that im not good with words or good with expressing and neither is he according to me. So the waiting game is getting on my nerves.

Posted by tiki33
I mean on an emotional level cancer women can be weird & crazy so his kind of weird & crazy may be appealing to you.

How old are the both of you? early or late 20's, early or late 30's?

We can't answer, well I can't put an answer to his ambiguous behavior, well immature is one answer that I can come up with. The joke pulling is high school assclownery behavior.

Why not ASK him why? Ask him what he's doing?

You're just as ambiguous as he is, you say nothing, you ask nothing so you know nothing.

He makes no sense with his behavior and you're falling for him makes no sense.

He's done nothing from what you've revealed that would make a woman fall.

I am 24 and hes 28. I know its better to just go and ask him, but thats hard for me, I am not open about my feelings. The reason why i think im falling for him is that his happiness excites me. being a cancer im an extremist, can be super happy and dancing one minute and depressed and super sad the 2nd minute. So this unpredictability in me is something i hate and cant control. He, on the other side has a zest for life, and i believe he can teach me how to be that way. And apart from that does Love need a reason to be??

Posted by anonymousheart
I totally get why he likes you too. You're super innocent and he probably wants to take care of you....

Hahaha +1. It's true though, Taurus men seem to be suckers for innocent-appearing girls that they can protect/look after. It's a possession thing.

I know that cancerians crave security in terms of their partner, house, finances etc., is it true for taurus people as well?

Hell yes.

Posted by Theatrum


Hahaha +1. It's true though, Taurus men seem to be suckers for innocent-appearing girls that they can protect/look after. It's a possession thing.

I get a doe-eyed visual of Cancermaid

Posted by TaurusBull1977

Posted by Theatrum


Hahaha +1. It's true though, Taurus men seem to be suckers for innocent-appearing girls that they can protect/look after. It's a possession thing.

I get a doe-eyed visual of Cancermaid

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Well yes i guess you are right!!!! 🙂

Thanks Theatrum 🙂