I am a virgo who dated a Taurus for two an half months. Yes, we were in love and everything would be good at times. But there was those times in our relationship were he was so hard headed (his way or high way, very loving and had my back for anything as while as my child who was not his). But he went into depression a lot thought the relationship and it was very hard trying to make it would.. I felt like he kept me guessing if it was me.. if I wasn't doing enough for him..I tried many times to talk to him about my feelings.. he would say nothing or just say hes not man enough and I deserve better..I seriously didn't like hearing that and only wanted to be with him.. I loved what we had.. He was so stuck in his ways and would never let me into his life fully.. I felt like he shut down a lot and I would argue a lot with him about it. I couldn't understand how he would not let me in and we had been together for two years..I think what really did is that he didn't have his life together and I know there are things he wanted to do but just wasn't able to right now because he lost his job.. A year later of up and down rollercoster he starts working but I still felt like he didn't seem interested in us anymore..I asked him recently what is he expecting from our relationship..does he see up with him in the future.. He flipped out and was like oh I never thought about u guys like that before..Which hurt deeply! I was stock..I said I dont' want to get married or move in together right now.. Im just asking so we are on the same page.. he like I don't know ..while we are always together..while I felt that he was a great guy..loving,caring, vey supportive, but left me guessing to much on where he stand.. He would tell me while I do a lot for u and that should be good enough..the hard things about our relationship was him communicating he would not say much but did everything for me.. I have been very patient with him but I didn't like that he could not tell me yes or no if he saw us moving in together or growing together..leaving me guessing where things where going..The comment above said somethinga bout Bull wanting to own their own things like house he was sooo like that.. he's like I need to get my own things (house, finical things, car, etc) before anything..I was like why can't we do that together/ I had my own place, money and car.. he lived with his parents because he lost his job.. I told him one day that he was driving my crazy because he would not open up
