virgo2009
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Taurus men and rebounds
Its very simple, if hes with you hes with you, if hes not with you hes not, you dont choose him he chooses you.
Posted by virgo2009
Hey!
So my taurus man broke up with me almost a month ago after over a year of relationship. We were still living together and decided to try and live together until I finish uni for this year. However, as soon as I found out, that he had gone on a date with a taurus girl just a day after we finally broke up, I couldn't handle it any more. Very shortly the girl's Facebook profile photo was a picture of them two and after third date they were in relationship.
As I didn't take it well (over analysing virgo), on Monday my ex moved to this girl's family house to live with her, her parents, her child and an uncle. So we broke up nearly 4 weeks ago and after 3 weeks of seeing this girl he moved into her house. I find this kind of behaviour very unusual for him and no taurus would ever do such a crazy move like that.
Also, he basically cheated on her with me whilst we lived together, I promised not to tell her but I feel sick. He has turned into a complete liar. He constantly told me lies about how he feels about this girl trying to make me feel better. For instance, he said that they were not going to have a valentines day out of respect for me. However, I found a card wrap on our kitchen just like it had been left there for me to see, I know it was a valentines card and I cant believe he had balls to write it in my house. And because he has lied now I feel like he has been lying all along. Was he cheating on me? He says he hasn't. Did he ever love me? He says he still loves me but just isn't in love with me and he wants to stay friends. He says he can't imagine his life without me.
Any ideas what is going on? What is a lie and what is not? Is he going to come back? He says he won't try to come live with me again but I think that if he gets kicked out he won't have any other choice.
I am avoiding to contact him now, I think I will need at least 4 week of NC to see clearly what has happened here. I don't think I could ever take a liar back but he always swore me he was honest. I am heartbroken and he still messages me which isn't helping much. Any advice?
Fuck me Virgo!! You've had a right result AND a very lucky escape!!
He's either with you or he's not. He decided to break up with you and moved on within five minutes to a new victim. He's toying with you and he knows it.
I don't know if he ever did or did not love you. People are funny creatures. This is the way I'd look at it... If you were to make a list of what you think and feel a good relationship is, I guarantee to you that his behaviour and attitude would not be on that list under the 'must have...' category.
This is not the behaviour and attitude I'd want in a man.
I just scrolled up to look at all the bullshit he said and done but the list is too long to write here.
If it's your house then why are you letting him use your home as a 'second option' base?
I feel you're hoping he'll come back to be with you so you're leaving your door open... literally! I can understand you're heartbroken and questioning things but let's walk through an example. He comes back, pitches up on your doorstep, says he's broken up with the other girl and wants to be with you. You accept that. Then what? You spend your time worrying if he will cheat on you. You wonder when the next lie will come. You question all he says and does because evidence and past behaviour shows he cannot be trusted.
Solution:
1. Pack up his shit from your home and remove it.
2. Change your locks.
3. Delete/block his number.
4. Cry and lick your wounds.
5. Feel much happier within yourself because you're no longer with such an arsehole.
6. Enjoy single time again and busy yourself with stuff.
7. Now you're out of that relationship and over it, you're only one step away from finding a nice fella.
8. Make a list of qualities and things you think you want your new man to have and what's important to you.
9. Date, mingle, get out there and socialise.
10. Start new relationship with nice fella and live happily ever after!
Hmm doesn't seem worth it to me.
He chose her at the moment...do you even want him back?
Take some time away, block his number. You don't need that kind of negativity in your life.
He chose her at the moment...do you even want him back?
Take some time away, block his number. You don't need that kind of negativity in your life.
Posted by virgo2009I have never heard of a Taurus moving that fast, he was seeing her for quite sometimes and you just found out about it. That doesn't make any sense, Taurus move slowly in relationships... but all you can do is move on.
Hey!
So my taurus man broke up with me almost a month ago after over a year of relationship. We were still living together and decided to try and live together until I finish uni for this year. However, as soon as I found out, that he had gone on a date with a taurus girl just a day after we finally broke up, I couldn't handle it any more. Very shortly the girl's Facebook profile photo was a picture of them two and after third date they were in relationship.
As I didn't take it well (over analysing virgo), on Monday my ex moved to this girl's family house to live with her, her parents, her child and an uncle. So we broke up nearly 4 weeks ago and after 3 weeks of seeing this girl he moved into her house. I find this kind of behaviour very unusual for him and no taurus would ever do such a crazy move like that.
Also, he basically cheated on her with me whilst we lived together, I promised not to tell her but I feel sick. He has turned into a complete liar. He constantly told me lies about how he feels about this girl trying to make me feel better. For instance, he said that they were not going to have a valentines day out of respect for me. However, I found a card wrap on our kitchen just like it had been left there for me to see, I know it was a valentines card and I cant believe he had balls to write it in my house. And because he has lied now I feel like he has been lying all along. Was he cheating on me? He says he hasn't. Did he ever love me? He says he still loves me but just isn't in love with me and he wants to stay friends. He says he can't imagine his life without me.
Any ideas what is going on? What is a lie and what is not? Is he going to come back? He says he won't try to come live with me again but I think that if he gets kicked out he won't have any other choice.
I am avoiding to contact him now, I think I will need at least 4 week of NC to see clearly what has happened here. I don't think I could ever take a liar back but he always swore me he was honest. I am heartbroken and he still messages me which isn't helping much. Any advice?
You probably dropped to plan B girl long time ago and he was planning to go for the Taurus as his main girl. Count yourself lucky. Better to find out now, then a few years down the road.
Time to move on.
Time to move on.
Posted by GoodtimesPosted by virgo2009I have never heard of a Taurus moving that fast, he was seeing her for quite sometimes and you just found out about it. That doesn't make any sense, Taurus move slowly in relationships... but all you can do is move on.
Hey!
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That is what bothers me as he swears that he only met her once at work and started dating after we broke up. But when I think back me and him also moved on quite fast because he pursued it. I wonder what in his sign makes him move on so fast. He also told me on last Sunday that he hadn't slept with her yet. It is just I can't recognise the lies anymore. He was the most honest man I had ever met, I can't believe it all could have been a lie?
Posted by AgentP911Thank you for your encouragement! That is what I really want to do. If he comes back too soon he isn't going to get anything but hate off me. There's no point of thinking we will be friends after all this... It is just so out of character that he would lie so much and move on quickly.
Fuck me Virgo!! You've had a right result AND a very lucky escape!!
He's either with you or he's not. He decided to break up with you and moved on within five minutes to a new victim. He's toying with you and he knows it.
I don't know if he ever did or did not love you. People are funny creatures. This is the way I'd look at it... If you were to make a list of what you think and feel a good relationship is, I guarantee to you that his behaviour and attitude would not be on that list under the 'must have...' category.
This is not the behaviour and attitude I'd want in a man.
I just scrolled up to look at all the bullshit he said and done but the list is too long to write here.
If it's your house then why are you letting him use your home as a 'second option' base?
I feel you're hoping he'll come back to be with you so you're leaving your door open... literally! I can understand you're heartbroken and questioning things but let's walk through an example. He comes back, pitches up on your doorstep, says he's broken up with the other girl and wants to be with you. You accept that. Then what? You spend your time worrying if he will cheat on you. You wonder when the next lie will come. You question all he says and does because evidence and past behaviour shows he cannot be trusted.
Solution:
1. Pack up his shit from your home and remove it.
2. Change your locks.
3. Delete/block his number.
4. Cry and lick your wounds.
5. Feel much happier within yourself because you're no longer with such an arsehole.
6. Enjoy single time again and busy yourself with stuff.
7. Now you're out of that relationship and over it, you're only one step away from finding a nice fella.
8. Make a list of qualities and things you think you want your new man to have and what's important to you.
9. Date, mingle, get out there and socialise.
10. Start new relationship with nice fella and live happily ever after!
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Posted by virgo2009Posted by GoodtimesPosted by virgo2009I have never heard of a Taurus moving that fast, he was seeing her for quite sometimes and you just found out about it. That doesn't make any sense, Taurus move slowly in relationships... but all you can do is move on.
Hey!
That is what bothers me as he swears that he only met her once at work and started dating after we broke up. But when I think back me and him also moved on quite fast because he pursued it. I wonder what in his sign makes him move on so fast. He also told me on last Sunday that he hadn't slept with her yet. It is just I can't recognise the lies anymore. He was the most honest man I had ever met, I can't believe it all could have been a lie?click to expand
Look to his Venus sign. It might be in Aries which can make them move fast. Falling in and out of love quickly. That said, my fella has Venus Aries. He did the falling and pursuing quickly but he's not done the falling out bit yet ? Or Gemini Venus so he could be fickle and flighty, not really connecting emotionally. Or Venus in the sign of a c*nt... I'd go with the latter...
Frankly, I don't know why he's discussing his sex life regarding another girl with you. It's as if he thinks it's 'ok' just because it's ok in his head.
If he's the epitome of honest then I'm sorry, you need to widen your social circle.
All this analysing Miss Virgo is gonna do your head in!
Posted by virgo2009Posted by AgentP911Thank you for your encouragement! That is what I really want to do. If he comes back too soon he isn't going to get anything but hate off me. There's no point of thinking we will be friends after all this... It is just so out of character that he would lie so much and move on quickly.
Fuck me Virgo!! You've had a right result AND a very lucky escape!!
He's either with you or he's not. He decided to break up with you and moved on within five minutes to a new victim. He's toying with you and he knows it.
I don't know if he ever did or did not love you. People are funny creatures. This is the way I'd look at it... If you were to make a list of what you think and feel a good relationship is, I guarantee to you that his behaviour and attitude would not be on that list under the 'must have...' category.
This is not the behaviour and attitude I'd want in a man.
I just scrolled up to look at all the bullshit he said and done but the list is too long to write here.
If it's your house then why are you letting him use your home as a 'second option' base?
I feel you're hoping he'll come back to be with you so you're leaving your door open... literally! I can understand you're heartbroken and questioning things but let's walk through an example. He comes back, pitches up on your doorstep, says he's broken up with the other girl and wants to be with you. You accept that. Then what? You spend your time worrying if he will cheat on you. You wonder when the next lie will come. You question all he says and does because evidence and past behaviour shows he cannot be trusted.
Solution:
1. Pack up his shit from your home and remove it.
2. Change your locks.
3. Delete/block his number.
4. Cry and lick your wounds.
5. Feel much happier within yourself because you're no longer with such an arsehole.
6. Enjoy single time again and busy yourself with stuff.
7. Now you're out of that relationship and over it, you're only one step away from finding a nice fella.
8. Make a list of qualities and things you think you want your new man to have and what's important to you.
9. Date, mingle, get out there and socialise.
10. Start new relationship with nice fella and live happily ever after!
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Well perhaps you don't know him as well as you thought you did. During your year together is the time you begin to learn about each other. It takes a lifetime to really get to know someone but you only REALLY know them after divorcing them!
Why would you want a friend like that? I don't even have enemies that would treat me as he has. I'm not bashing the guy here. If he'd have said he didn't want to be with you and went off with someone else then ok. It's not nice but ok. However, it's the stringing you along bit and saying you'll be friends, discussing sex life, etc I disagree with. Don't be the fall back plan.
If he comes back too soon...? He shouldn't be coming back at all.
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Also, he basically cheated on her with me whilst we lived together, I promised not to tell her but I feel sick. He has turned into a complete liar. He constantly told me lies about how he feels about this girl trying to make me feel better. For instance, he said that they were not going to have a valentines day out of respect for me. However, I found a card wrap on our kitchen just like it had been left there for me to see, I know it was a valentines card and I cant believe he had balls to write it in my house. And because he has lied now I feel like he has been lying all along. Was he cheating on me? He says he hasn't. Did he ever love me? He says he still loves me but just isn't in love with me and he wants to stay friends. He says he can't imagine his life without me.
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