I will say my story is a bit different. I am a Taurus female in a committed relationship with a Taurus male. We met 10 years ago. Briefly dated. And then just stopped. It was long distance. I was in school. He was young, immature, had a daughter from a previous relationship at a very young age. I stumbled upon him through a social networking site. We had met through a mutual friend (I was still friends with this mutual friend). We met for drinks. I will say I walked a fine line of trying to stay a lady (no one night hook up. We had wine, talked, kissed. I said no.) and pursuing him/calling after that night. It's not easy. I eventually asked him what was going on with us... what were his intentions towards me. It seems to easy. All of a sudden he wanted a relationship, to live together, marriage, kids. I was the one this time being overtly cautious. Over thinking/analyzing (shocker since I'm female, right. lol). We are approaching our year mark now. We talk of marriage. Me moving. We still are long distance. He is extremely affectionate. He cooks. Calls cause he knows it's important to me. As for wife material. I think he's looking for someone who matches him. But, not completely. He doesn't want a "yes" person. He doesn't mind that I disagree, have different opinions, viewpoints on most things. Heck, I don't think even on the major things. But, that I'm honest with myself and him. I'm not flaky and changing my mind,views in fear of rocking the boat, upsetting the dynamic. Now, speaking of which. He is a creature of comfort and habit. This man wants someone to walk side by side/hand in hand peacefully with. Make sure you have you butter together and to not cause a ripple in the comfort vibe/setting his has crafted. Bills must be paid on time, money in the bank, food on the plate. Now. As for him. Sometimes I think he doesn't really practice what he "preaches".lol I have learned that he does want me to be strong and say what I want. He will make fun of it, or course if it wasn't his idea. He may even say later "that was a really good idea" and of course, he will forget that you were the one who told him about it. But, I think this is like most men. Smart, funny, attractive in own way, cuddly, pushes him to be better, loves music, movies, books, arts, the finer things in life. And, at the end of the night, you are the person he wants to have long, passionate nights with... that's what he wants.