Taurus needs....

I got into an argument with my boyfriend this morning over nonsense. At my job, we have a day where we dress up in pajamas for the day. Well, I had to get some pajamas from a store this morning. He wanted to make love before I went. Ok,I didn't have much time to do that because I had to be at work at 8. I told him I didn't have time and he went beserk! He said my job was more important than him. Ya see, he is used to me being around all day, but I work more hours now. He is mad at me right now. My question are....Why do taurus men need so much affection? Why do they feel neglected without this? I mean if i have to work or something, that shouldn't be a problem and if I don't want to make love one freakin day! I need Taurus opinions please.

Hey twinkee77

I wish I had a job where you could dress in PJ's. That must be really entertaining. I've heard of dress down Friday's but wow!

Anyway, I don't understand why your boyfriend went "beserk", we as tauruses are most often patient and understanding. You see what kind of effect you have on him. LOL (Only playing). I guess maybe he had things going on with him mentally and wanted a release (which sex usually does for a person) but I can't see any justification for his irrational behavior just because he wanted sex. Don't feel bad about it, your body belongs to you and no one else.

As for your question, everyone needs affection and would feel neglected without it, but there is a time and a place for everything and he should have understood your situation. Do you talk to him to find out what is wrong or if he has any "issues" going on in his life. Right now Tauruses are going through some s--t, so maybe he felt like that was another obstacle in his life. The key is communication.

Thanks money lady! Well, i forgot to mention that is actually on the taurus/aries cusp! I don't know if that makes a difference but he is classified as a taurus. As I said I am on a new shift,from 8-5 and he will be starting a new shift from like 5-3 a.m. He says he don't know how we will see eachother. My thing is we will have money for things and if you care about someone , you make it work. Have any suggestions?

That is very good advice Money Lady! You did better than I could get done!!

I would add one thing, if you love each other, there is always time and you will find it and you will work together at it. You still have your evenings together. I really don't see a problem? Other than he needs your affection, so give it to him!!! And find out what is bothering him so much. You took the time to talk to us; take the time to talk with the one you need to be talking to!!! Kabish??

Love,

Your Mother

Well you guys if you look at the time, where is the evening to spend together? I go in a 8 am and he works when i get off and doesn't get off til the middle of the night. But thanks!

Hey Twinkee

I see that the time constraints can be a problem. Well as "Your Mother" (what a name!)said if you love and honestly care for one another, you two will find the time to be together. I'm assuming (you know what they say about this) that the both of you have work schedules that is on the weekdays. If so, then maybe you two can hook up on the weekend. I'm sure the both of you don't work 7 days a week, so try to arrange times accordingly.

I know this sounds like a chore or tedious but honey if that's what you have to do to keep your relationship alive, then do so. One of my ex-coworkers (he was of middle age) told me that you have a job 9 to 5, then you have another job at home. Relationships take WORK, no matter how wonderful or bad the pair is. That's how the two got together in the first place isn't it? So I'm sure the two of you can make an arrangement.

ML (hope this helped)