Taurus Sun/Libra Asc

Folks with this placements, I need your insight!

I'll be specific. My guy has this placements, plus his Moon and Mercury are also in Taurus. He is the keeper of peace. I as a Libra Sun, come off as a warmonger compared to him.
His actions are calm and slow until he is ready to speak, then he acts with the full voice and his words are not wasted.His friendly and positive Libra Asc makes things tougher when it's really time to make a stand in conflict situations (specially in front of lot of people). I see it as an inability not to be nice.

Well, he is now in a situation that is dragging for too long. In short, it's about telling his own long time (used to be)friend who come off as a hypocrite, gossiping, frustrated and jealous ass, to fuck off, cause he deserved it. For too long my guy tried to ignore him, but he cannot fool himself and ignore his own feelings. As a bull, he doesn't take anything lightly. He is reluctant too tell the fool in his face all he deserves. This situation is eating him. He says he will resolve it in a right time, but I see what he cannot admit to himself , that he actually avoids that moment and just prolongs the stench of false relationship. I can understand his pow, after all it's his first experience of ??_breaking up— with a long time friend. I know he feels he need to do it the right way. The thing is, while he waits for that moment, this situation stinks more by every day.

I talked about that with him just this morning, when the mentioned ??_friend— called him for coffee. Made my blood biol instantly. I asked my guy again, ??_why don't you resolve this issue once and for all? You know that your reasons are on their place and that you owe him nothing, in fact by seeing him and hating his presence more and more, you are being hypocrite as well— He was not glad to hear that coming from me, but he figured it is the truth. I told him: ??_Listen, I don't want to push you in anything. You have your own ways in dealing with things, but this situation is really over the top.—

I said my piece, I won't say anything more. I want to encourage him, not push him in anything. This situation affects me as well,I have to keep silent for him, though every time I see that guy makes me tell all in his face. However,he is not my friend, I shouldn't interfere.

Can you relate with this situation, how you deal with it, what makes you react?
Is there anything I can do to help?

Posted by RainDancer88
My bull was taurus sun, moon, merc, mars, and venus... talk about slow and methodical lol

I just know pushing or hunting at the action will only make him stall more. You have to be creative, come up with a way to make him handle this and think it's his own idea.

Rushing him = NO lol

I'm not much help but good luck 😛

Thanks Rain 🙂

Yeah I know rushing him into it won't help a bit,so I pretty much don't do it. I am commenting though whenever he himself brings up that topic. I care about him and want to help, but I think it's pretty much his own battle to handle, I cannot do much. He already agreed to all I am saying, the difference is I would already no second thought do what I have to.


I am just very curious how people with this particular placement feel in situations like these, how they eventually handle it. When does Libra Asc cut with all that niceness and brings the ugly truth out?
His bull side would maybe give a hint that something is wrong, if with anything then with that uncomfortable silence (coldness), but his Libra Asc makes him extremely friendly and positive on instant. As a Libra Sun I can understand his peace keeping nature, but only to some degree. The situation is deeply in that state where there's no second doubt of what should be done.

Posted by Redbull
Maybe he doesnt want to cut this person off for whatever reason...

It is a small town we are living in. Open conflict, full cut, would brought in the open their state of relationship, but it would brought more negative vibes all around. That guy would probably be even more gossiping and negative than he already is. Hm...This scenario really didn't cross my mind. I am about solving out things that are my problem now. What will happen later will be my problem then.

My guy same as you, above all, despise negativity and conflicts. Few days ago, he told me he will be passive about it. Though he is very well aware what this guy is doing, he will stay in contact with him, he won't be confrontational. One of the reasons is cause that guy has no fertile ground inside him for solving things out, there's no reason there. Just a huge ego and a lot of barking. So, my guy thinks he would waste his energy overall and be even more upset about it. Instead, he will stay in contact, but give him the sign that their relationship has changed. Be overall colder and ignore him.

I'll see how will that go. Maybe I learn something 🙂 I am so accustomed to see situations like this explode sooner or later. Maybe I am wrong.