We are meant to be meeting tomorrow...

This topic was created in the Taurus forum by oliviad on Friday, January 17, 2014 and has 8 replies.

Should I message him to confirm our meeting tomorrow

It is acceptable to send a casual message to confirm your plans, especially if you feel unsure. It shows interest without seeming desperate. Keep it simple and friendly to gauge his response and avoid overanalyzing the situation.

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@oliviad
12 Years

Hi,
So I've posted here before, I'm taurus, he is virgo. I initiated the first move by giving him my number, but since then he has asked me out on two dates. The last one went really well, and he said he is free on saturday and i said i am free too. He is shy though and tried to kiss me but somehow it didn't happen, but he is interested I think because he said he wants to cook something for me. Anyway, he went to his home country this week and got back on thursday, and has been working all day today at a restaurant until it closes tonight. He hasn't texted me though a time or anything, and we are meant to be meeting tomorrow. Should I text him asking if we are meeting or does that sound desperate? :S I'm asking this because i tend to overanalyse everything and in the end just end up making the moves, so want to take it slowly this time but am a bit confused that he hasn't arranged anything for tomorrow.. thanks

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@oliviad
12 Years

He kissed me by the lips and then 'said so i will see you on saturday', and then really slowly he kissed the other side by the lips, then i said ok bye... and then we stood there and said bye again, walked away and then we turned and walked towards eachother again, and he said 'i don't know what to do'. It was my fault also cuz I didn't make it obvious that he could kiss me, i just stood there. It was quite awkward to be honest.

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@Damnata
16 Years25,000+ PostsVirgo

It's really sweet 🙂

You can text him something like "So where and at what hour will we meet? 🙂"

Don't ask if you're meeting, take it as absolute truth in your mind.

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@bloodflood
12 Years500+ Posts

Posted by Damnata
It's really sweet 🙂

You can text him something like "So where and at what hour will we meet? 🙂"

Don't ask if you're meeting, take it as absolute truth in your mind.

i second this.

also the whole kiss scene is really cute.. like a scene from a romcom! we virgos are pretty awkward!

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@mfwb55
13 Years1,000+ Posts

Yes Damnata I would say something like that sort of when would you like to meet up and where and no it does not sound too desperate, overanalysing may make it seem like that.

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@TaurusBull1977
17 Years1,000+ Posts

Posted by Damnata
It's really sweet 🙂

You can text him something like "So where and at what hour will we meet? 🙂"

Don't ask if you're meeting, take it as absolute truth in your mind.

Great idea. He seems shy and awkward.

Is this why it takes eternity for two earth signs to solidify anything? 🙂

I notice some shyness and awkwardness from the OP as well.