We had a huge argument

I have been stso stressed out lately... actually, for a long time.

Background: I'm a very strong Leo woman... like most Leo women. I'm in business with a much younger Taurus man. We're both attracted to each other and have revealed our true romantic feelings for each other, but we also have to think about our business. I feel like I've been carrying much of the load of the business. And my Taurus man, as young as he is, doesn't understand the weigh of the world is on my shoulders and when I vent, he takes it personally as if I'm attacking him... even when the tone of my voice becomes serious. Recently, I have been more serious, working most of my waking hour and all I day dream about is escaping my workaholic life for a while and just go and have fun. I feel like I've forgotten how to loosen up.

I have been taking a lot of my frustration out on him... yelling, pouting that he's not giving me the attention I want, just being demanding of his time and for the first time since I've known my Taurus man, he started yelling at me.

We both decided to take a week of cooling off... no texting, no phone calls. But I have been emailing him about business and with him not responding to any of my emails.

I've said some hurtful things to him... such as how selfish he is and for him to grow up. A part of me doesn't trust him completely and that's what stopping me from moving forward romantically with him. I want to ravage him, but my heart, I can't take another disappointment.

This Saturday, we'd made plans over a month ago that I would cook him a birthday dinner... which at this moment is still in place. I confirmed it with him last night and he said yes, we are still on. I have no reason to believe it wouldn't.

I talked to my Mom, whom I inherited my strength and business sense and she told me something I've never thought of... maybe I'm frustrated with my Taurus man because I may not have any respect for him. I cried. Because I'm in love with this man... or perhaps in love with the idea of love. I don't know. I'm so confused. I know my Taurus man wants to move forward and be romantically involved because I have certain stipulations prior to any physical involvement with anybody and he made the decision to follow my conditions in able to move forward. I got scared.

I don't know at this point what a typical Taurus man would think. He is standing ground on his no contact, yet, I'm the one emailing him all sorts of business ty

I have been so stressed out lately... actually, for a long time.

Background: I'm a very strong Leo woman... like most Leo women. I'm in business with a much younger Taurus man. We're both attracted to each other and have revealed our true romantic feelings for each other, but we also have to think about our business. I feel like I've been carrying much of the load of the business. And my Taurus man, as young as he is, doesn't understand the weigh of the world is on my shoulders and when I vent, he takes it personally as if I'm attacking him... even when the tone of my voice becomes serious. Recently, I have been more serious, working most of my waking hour and all I day dream about is escaping my workaholic life for a while and just go and have fun. I feel like I've forgotten how to loosen up.

I have been taking a lot of my frustration out on him... yelling, pouting that he's not giving me the attention I want, just being demanding of his time and for the first time since I've known my Taurus man, he started yelling at me.

We both decided to take a week of cooling off... no texting, no phone calls. But I have been emailing him about business and with him not responding to any of my emails.

I've said some hurtful things to him... such as how selfish he is and for him to grow up. A part of me doesn't trust him completely and that's what stopping me from moving forward romantically with him. I want to ravage him, but my heart, I can't take another disappointment.

This Saturday, we'd made plans over a month ago that I would cook him a birthday dinner... which at this moment is still in place. I confirmed it with him last night and he said yes, we are still on. I have no reason to believe it wouldn't.

I don't know at this point what a typical Taurus man would think. He is standing his ground on his no contact, yet, I'm the one emailing him all sorts of business type emails.

I love this man, yet, I'm mature and strong enough to walk away. But at this point, I don't know what to think, what to feel. Because a part of me knows there's potential here, in this partnership, professionally and romantically. But I'm also mature enough to know that I can't live on "potential". I've been there... I've done that.

I guess at this point, I'm looking for advise, whether it be astrologically or just plain advise. At the end of this month, we are to go away together for a weekend, sharing 1 hotel room, 2 beds. I've thought about how that would work out and how we would be able to control ourselves... I guess I'm just fooling myself to thinking there'd be any control at all in that type of setting.

I don't want to loose him. I don't want him to loose respect for me. I want things to change... I want him to take charge a bit and take some of the load off my shoulder, however, most of the things I am doing, he cannot do. He has no experience nor does he want to be pushy and tell me, the control freak of a Leo woman I am, to let it go and give some of the load to him.

Thanks

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Posted by guiwaterdaymaster
If you want to post his chart... maybe that will show something...

He is a bull though so he will be direct... and there is nothing wrong with a strong woman... I personally love to date woman that are strong... I was raised the stronger the woman the stronger the man needs to be... If you don't mind me asking how many years is the age difference...

PM

Then what happens when a strong woman makes a bull feel insecure just by bring who she is? I struggle to reconcile that one... How to get him to step up?

Posted by guiwaterdaymaster
If you want to post his chart... maybe that will show something...

He is a bull though so he will be direct... and there is nothing wrong with a strong woman... I personally love to date woman that are strong... I was raised the stronger the woman the stronger the man needs to be... If you don't mind me asking how many years is the age difference...

PM

I don't know what time he's born, but I'll do my best.

Posted by PetiteVeau
All this emphasis on being a strong woman, and then consider the fact that you're older than he is, AND you work together AND you have greater work responsibilities.

Are there plenty of opportunities in your relationship for HIM to be strong and feel powerful, like he can solve your problems and take care of you? You've already said you take a lot of frustration out on him, and tell him all the things he doesn't do enough. That is the FASTEST way to get a man to close up on you.

Talking about work will not endear you to him. Being vulnerable, telling him you just need his strong arms around you for a moment to forget about all the stress, telling him the reasons he's such a comfort to you, that will encourage him and let him know what makes you happy.

I think the fact that you two work together will make this challenging.

I agree, but we need to be honest because we have this dynamic relationship that's combined with business and borderline pleasure... Oh, I don't even know where to start or go anymore.

BTW, I'm 9-10 years older than him.

Posted by Jynja
Okay, I'll be serious 🙂

Jess - is it likely (and please tell me if I'm unequivocally wrong) that you want him to take charge of everything, thus the stress? Let me explain explicitly:

Even though you are mature and know all about the world, a part of you wants this strong silent powerful man to...

Shut you up with a hushed command, turn you around your desk, push your skirt up out of consideration, tear the flimsy whisp of cloth that is your panty off and fuck you till you see the second daylight. You're itching like mad for his domination, to break all your strength down and build it up piece by piece being in charge.

Because,
1. I think you wouldn't employ him or agree to a partnership with him if he didn't know how to do his work - so it's not about the work.

2. You're likely enjoying his extreme silence. The challenge is exciting, so you send him more "work" emails. You want to win this "competition" and claim leonine victory! (You go girl! 😉 )

3. The sexual tension is so much, you can cut it with a knife. It's making you a little nervous. You know it's coming - he'll fall in that hotel room. He's powerless to it, and so are you... and the excitement is just nerve-racking. Oooo... (Ouick tip - Tauruses like understated sensuality. Long, long sleeve, loose, high neck (1920 style )cotton night gown should do it, lol)

4. You are trying to push his boundaries. No problem, he can handle it. BUT, can you handle his? I don't know where his Mars is, but those men are LEGENDARY in bed.

5. Take a deep breath, count to 10 and smile. He likely smells you from miles away - he'll deliver (don't fret)

6. 😄

(((Jynga!))) OH MY GOSH! I would love for him to just slam me against a desk, hike up my skirt and send me to the moon and back! ROLFMAO! The tension is thick... but we're trying to behave. Our trip is still on, but I've cancelled dinner tomorrow night... I just don't like being treated like s h y t e then cook dinner for the person who treated me badly.

Just got off the phone w/ my Taurus man. The night before, it got uglier. It was late, we were yelling @ each other taking our frustrations out on each other. We both had a bad day and what made it worse, it was his birthday. I felt bad, but I wanted his attention and tell him of how good my meeting went with a potential client. But it became an "F" bomb fiasco... on his part. He was tired. I was tired.

Tonight, we made a pact:

- We wouldn't talk late at night
- We would make time for each other
- We would tell each other how our day was
- We would talk things out if something was bothering us, whether it's with each other or outside of us
- We would be kinder to each other
- We would make time to be with each other at least once a week and not talk about business

We both expressed excitement about our upcoming trip.

Is this how Leo women and Taurus men are? This crazy? This passionate? This intense? This much care, concern, tenderness? Just a jumble of emotions? The high-highs and the profound lows?

If it is, WOW! I could go on for years like this! I'll post his natal chart in a bit.

Thank you everybody for your responses. This is relationship is crazy.

Here's my Taurus man's natal chart


Zodiac in degrees 0.00 Time unknown
Sun Taurus 23.23
Moon Sagittarius 27.59
Mercury Taurus 6.51
Venus Aries 26.06
Mars Aries 28.57
Jupiter Leo 2.37
Saturn Virgo 7.06
Uranus Scorpio 18.47 R
Neptune Sagittarius 19.49 R
Pluto Libra 16.56 R
Lilith Leo 23.44
Asc node Virgo 15.12




Here's mine


Zodiac in degrees 0.00 Placidus Orb:0
Sun Leo 19.39 Ascendant Capricorn 19.10
Moon Libra 17.45 II Aquarius 21.58
Mercury Virgo 15.45 III Pisces 26.23
Venus Cancer 5.10 IV Aries 28.50
Mars Cancer 8.23 V Taurus 27.21
Jupiter Taurus 24.21 VI Gemini 23.12
Saturn Pisces 2.36 R VII Cancer 19.10
Uranus Virgo 9.07 VIII Leo 21.58
Neptune Scorpio 15.08 IX Virgo 26.23
Pluto Virgo 13.08 Midheaven Libra 28.50
Lilith Sagittarius 23.27 XI Scorpio 27.21
Asc node Cancer 0.58 XII Sagittarius 23.12


I have no clue how to read or interpret charts.

Any interpretation would be appreciated.

In addition, we're going to see each other tomorrow night and go out to dinner so I don't have to work in the kitchen... but we're still getting sustenance and talk.

You guys, I'm so in love with this man... but maybe, I could eventually show him just how much.

No jynga that's the point we haven't seen in other in 2 weeks. We've both been traveling and we hardly spend time with each other lately. In the last 2 moths wed seen each other in total of 2 weeks combined. We're both so busy. It's sad.

Actually Jynga... I'm done with him. I know, 180 degree turn around. I'm so done with men who flip flops, don't know what they want... knows what they want but once they have it, they don't know what to do with them. Ah! I'm so done! I'm going to go back to just treetrunking men and tossing them like yesterday's garbage.

One minute they proclaim their love to you... the next minute, their whole demeanor changes. I'm done with Taurus men. After our trip, I'm going to distance myself and keep it business. Period.

This Leo woman is no longer playing Taurus man's game. Period. I'm so done. You don't get this s h y t e from Leo women.

I do need to calm down. I need to get slammed and get a concusion. 🙂