(((Huggggs Stpatricspisces)))) I'm sorry to hear about all you (and your friend who lost her husband) have been going through. Sometimes it's tough, but we do continue to persevere through it all. I'm not a religious person AT all (I'm spiritual), and I didn't read "The Secret", but I will say that I do believe in what you put out into the universe is what you get. I'm not going to go on and on about it, but I just think we do reap what we sow; therefore, if we sow positivity, that is what we will generally have in our life. Just like those people in your life that you know who ALWAYS appear to have a storm cloud following them around. It doesn't mean they are bad people, but they probably sow a lot of negativity; thus, causing a lot of negative things to happen to/around them and/or their attitude makes something worse than it actually is.
