What is he doing. Literally. Like what the fuck?

"Kay" is what I will call him.

I'm on an app called: OkCupid. This is where I met Kay. Immediately we hit it off. The same day he gave me his number. I got busy with things in my own life. He slipped from my mind. A week later
Kay pops again, we chitchat. I give him my number, and calls me. He does ask why I never called. I explain. All is understood. We continue a BEAUTIFUL, but HUMOROUS day to dawn conversation.

Over the next few days we TALK about meeting up. It does not happen. He asks me what happened to us meeting. I tell him a day/time was never made.

A few days after that he asks me what my plans are. I told him I was doing something at the moment, but I'd be free for the entire evening.

He disappears for four days no response to what I've said. I absolutely forget about him. I've deleted his number. Wiped him from my mind.

[Four Days Later]
"Kay viewed your OkCupid Profile!"

Kay; Stranger.
Myself; Accidents happen. Bye.


[Five days later.]

Kay: Why are you being so mean
Myself: I'm not.
Kay: Oh ok.
Myself: How am I being mean?
Kay: You're not, remember.
Myself: Ok
Kay; -__-
Kay; Chassidy.
Myself: What.
Kay: Hi.
Myself; What do you want.
Kay: I'll leave you alone.
(One Hour Later)
Myself; Wanna see Anabelle
Kay: Huh?
Myself; That horror movie about the possessed doll.
Kay: If you don't hate me, I'm down.
Myself: I don't hate anybody, and I'm off the weekend.

No response.

Honestly, I just want to go see the movie. My few friends aren't available. I realize what my topic title is pondering, but I see that it might be me.


Am I missing something here.

You set up the day, time , and place.

If he doesn't show up , forget about him

Crimsonxsoleil,

Ok, I will when the movie is out Thursday

@PV

its not about the movie. Its the attitude of the situation.

Hello QP

So yes why are you so mean.? Mean what you say and say what you mean. You already gave him drama. This bull don't like chaos. Now, you got no response. I'm just curious I had lots of Taurus pursuer. I don't remember they don't show up.. In fact it was them who planned not me. I don't talk a lot. I just say * alright darling* that means I agreed. Just have fun nothing more.. Meaning you have to build relationship first. Until its establish then boom you got him hook. I must say deal his demons first harmoniously. No nagging. No drama. Lol

@M143
He vanishes into thin air without so much as a peep of a response, then waltz's reluctantly back in as if I'm suppose to be "Merry"Jane. No.

I am not trying to have drama, but he is playing magician with me. We will see where this goes. I'll send him movie times for Saturday, on Thursday.

QP darling, your second and third paragraph is the beginning of drama. So there he goes silent. Don't nag. Just drop by and say *hi*. Don't elaborate your intentions first let him decide.

@M143

Hmm, okay.

little bit

I love her music.

Posted by tiziani

Posted by Koniucha
Okcupid is pretty much a site just for hooking up. I was on there and that was my experience. In fact, I met a Taurus on there!

Oh yeah? When I had that app I deleted it the same day. Couldn't tell you why, I just felt very negative about the whole thing. Which is strange because on Ashley Madison I felt no such problems.

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Less than an hour and I deleted my profile from it... the stuff I got messaged to me was not appealing at all.

I agree with what Koniucha said. I got the feeling it's for hookups so if that isn't what you are seeking be careful.

Posted by Chael
I met damnata, scorched, and stillwater there. Still dxp so i was like fuck it i will just delete

Don't forget about that hot european chick you showed me 😄

Posted by tiziani
Also it's irritating that my dentist is so cute. I come there to get my teeth cleaned, not to bare my soul.

so that's what the whole wisdom tooth affair was about! HA!

Posted by tiziani

Posted by Koniucha
Okcupid is pretty much a site just for hooking up. I was on there and that was my experience. In fact, I met a Taurus on there!

Oh yeah? When I had that app I deleted it the same day. Couldn't tell you why, I just felt very negative about the whole thing. Which is strange because on Ashley Madison I felt no such problems.

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Ashley Madison is for married people who want to hook up with like minded cheaters. I take it you were joking.

Posted by LeoVeen

Posted by Chael
As usual i just trolled the ones that showed interest and asked them how they sliced their sandwiches. None of them answered wittily so that was that.

I eat my peanut butter and ruffles sandwiches whole like an adult.
Or maybe I don't slice them; I roll them like taquitos and then fry them in peanut oil?

How do you even answer that question with a witty reply without sounding like an idiot asshole?

Nothing is ever good enough for you.

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You should've seen his replies...he had the market covered on "douchebag" on that comparative scale between profiles.

Update; y
Instead of sending a direct message on Okcupid. He texts me at 11:21pm after I had went to sleep.

Him Hope you had a goodday
Me: Same to you.

What does he want? I've decided to let the flow too. No pressure.

@BeaCancer

Why did you hide.

@Cheeky.
Oh boy.

Neither working for me.

As you said a lot of the people are dull, and two of the guys I met one was to young, the other was just a no-no

Update:

So I've been doing as CheekyFaerie has clued me in about. "Enjoying the scenery."

Work was dull Thursday so I texted Kay. "I'm so bored." We a nice four hour conversation. EARLY Friday he sends a text; "Hit me up."

I answer back;
"Hey Kay,hit me up too." Is "Hit me up." clue for something else? " He responses "Hey, Whats up?" I response."Not much, just now waking up." He says nothing.

Am I missing cues? or is this a Taurus thing? Ive literally had no guy this do this before. lol

I'm still open to see Anabelle on Saturday, but some of you guys told me not to, and others to do it.

unsure.

Hmm, ok.

This is a bit of a non story. It's just some random bloke on a dating app.

If he hasn't asked you out after sufficient messaging then move on.

There's no need to analyse every message that is sent. Most of which are idle chit chat with no point.

@HotBeefy I dont find this relevant.

@Agent I'm not trying to make it it anything, but I do like clarity on things. It has its bad and good
reasoning's, but you are right. Way before I posted this. I decided to go with the flow. I don't make it point to talk him, he's there when I'm bored.

@Tizani
True.

Posted by QuiitePlausible
both of my posts are fake. I just wanted a reaction. I'm doing a research paper 😉

-Cassie

Just wanted to make sure this got around, and everyone got a chance to see it.

https://www.dxpnet.com/opinion/relationships-astrology/astrology-is-an-opinon-5121306/#5121352