MeowScorpii
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What Taurus male thinks of Scorpio females (Page 2)
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Meow - great stuff. You seem highly *evolved*. What you said about the shyness was definitely helpful. This girl is VERY attractive; one of the most beautiful women I've seen. That's definitely what makes me shy/nervous. Her beauty just has that much power over me.
Posted by scorchedearth
come back in a few months and reread this stupid shit you're posting. you'll see what a completely over the top stalkerish retard you're being. it's not attractive. i'm sure if the girl in question read what you've been telling us she'd get a restraining order. and i seriously don't believe you about you being less needy. you've done nothing but prove what a needy stalkerish douchebag you are with every post. and the more you post the worse it gets.
it's like you have no respect for yourself. so you'll just say whatever pops into your head no matter how pathetic or embarrassing. and you attack me because i'm the only one not sucking your dick. you are being a creeper. you are being a stalker. it is pathetic. i really do wish the girl in question could see this shit so she could tell you to go fuck yourself and then you wouldn't be polluting our boards with your pathetic obsession anymore. though you'd probably just cry about how unfair it is and how you're meant to be and she just doesn't see it yet but you'll convince her. that's the type of "logic" you've been using here. lol@you.
wow.
you must be an october scorp.
Posted by Scorpio72
Please read and advise on my new posting about Taurus men being confusing. One thing that really stuck out there for me with this posting is the comment about the eyes! My Taurus told me that he was drawn to me the first time he saw me by my eyes! He said "It was your eyes"! I was like what?? Never have been told that before! hahaha
me too! my taurus often says how much he loves my eyes.
Posted by TaurusLovesScorpio
Part I.
Taurus male here. Currently under Scorpion woman's spell. All Taurus men need to take the time to read this. For Scorpio women as well - here's what the more enlightened of us think, when we finally get it — sorry if this offends anyone??_.
Have experienced love at first sight (ok maybe second sight when I really took a good look), and it was a Scorpio female. Holy shit! Sorry folks - to me, hands down Scorpio female is the sexiest creature in existence. And she is so far beyond all the other signs, the comparison is almost ridiculous. This woman rules sex (!), but so much more. The sexiest part of a human being is the eyes. Her eyes don't even have to be beautiful in the traditional sense (long eye-lashes, certain shape, etc.), and they are still the most magnetic, mesmerizing, intense objects you will ever see in the entire universe. And I mean that absolutely literally. You will definitely not have the strength to look into her eyes at first. This woman is said to be the natural psychic of the zodiac. This is selling her way short. She is telepathic, a healer or destroyer, and has a metaphysical ability that I cannot even find a word for. She can project fantasies of herself into your head and have you swimming in a blissful and completely SOUL-ENCOMPASSING rolling river of euphoria for-EVER. I sit and daydream about my Scorpio crush all day. There is nothing I??d rather do. And I know this spell is her working (even if she is not aware of her true power); it is beyond anything my imagination could even conjure.
Almost as good as this psycho-spiritual projected mindf*ck, she can tangibly/palpably fulfill every fantasy you have, and she will get off on doing it. There is nothing hotter than a woman who ENJOYS delivering pleasure like she does. She gets off on it more than the Leo. If you think I am exaggerating or taking any form of poetic license here you are dead wrong. When your lazy ass feels the force of this woman, you will never desire another again - your eyes won't even stray, let alone your heart or your soul (which she will fully own and complete). Your loyalty that everyone downplays as if it is some boring minor quality (—well, Taurus has this one good quality — he's loyal?? — you can almost hear the —yaaaawn??). Loyalty is the real key to true love, and true love is forever — it is timeless. The Scorpio inst
So... I know I'm a bit late getting in on this discussion. But I have had a crush on Taurus man for a bit now. I KNOW he's intrigued by me. I shoot daggers and mind bullets at him whenever I get the opportunity. This flirtation has been going on for weeks but... he just won't ask me out and I REFUSE to ask him out. Scorpio pride and all. It's so frustrating and intoxicating. I fantasize about getting him alone. I'm positive we both would just destroy each other (in the best way). But he's taking forever. The flirtation has gone far beyond being deliciously drawn out to "what the hell is going on here? Is he just screwing with me now?" You bulls are infuriating.
mizzscorpio,
they move like molasses. it would be worth it to ask him out though-you're probably missing out on something really sweet!
they move like molasses. it would be worth it to ask him out though-you're probably missing out on something really sweet!
Posted by mizzscorpio
So... I know I'm a bit late getting in on this discussion. But I have had a crush on Taurus man for a bit now. I KNOW he's intrigued by me. I shoot daggers and mind bullets at him whenever I get the opportunity. This flirtation has been going on for weeks but... he just won't ask me out and I REFUSE to ask him out. Scorpio pride and all. It's so frustrating and intoxicating. I fantasize about getting him alone. I'm positive we both would just destroy each other (in the best way). But he's taking forever. The flirtation has gone far beyond being deliciously drawn out to "what the hell is going on here? Is he just screwing with me now?" You bulls are infuriating.
Posted by TaurusLovesScorpio
Its been 5 months since I posted this, and I still have not initiated anything with the scorp I was crushing on. Hahahha....so I wish u the best in getting him to move. We still stare at each other all day and she has done some pretty interesting dances. Its pretty stale by now but it goes on I suppose bc we just cannot ignore the connection when in each others' presence.
Are u guys at work? That makes it real awkward IMO if so. How do you both flirt? Is there hot/cold going on? Do you read him as shy? Can u spell out ''daggers and mind bullets"?click to expand
Umm, yeah; are you sure you two haven't met before?
"Search the topic here" should read "Lunar- LOL...."
@TauruslovesScorpio
I had a slow day at work so was browsing Taurus + Scorpio compatibility analyses for fun... when I ran across your postings and was absolutely floored with how similar it was to what happened to me, or really, us.
I met my current Taurus boyfriend-- but "boyfriend" sounds like such an understatement so-- lover and mate -- four years ago. We were both in college and are still together now. Our connection is deep, primal, dedicated, loyal, and full with interesting twists and turns.
We had a class together back then. It was a huge, stadium-seat classroom, and we sat maybe fifty feet apart, with him sitting behind me and to my left. I began to notice him when I saw him STARING AT ME every single day with enormous intensity. At first I thought it was a fluke, that he was staring at someone else or just into space, but then I realized it was me he was targeting.
I began to look forward to catching his stares every day. I would turn around every now and then, quickly, sometimes casually, sometimes meaningfully, and always see him looking at me. It made me smile.
And yet he never approached! It puzzled me and infuriated me. My wish was that one day I'd come into the classroom and he'd be in the seat next to mine, or that he'd catch me outside and ask me something trivial to kick things off. But it never happened...
UNTIL one day I got a mysterious Facebook friend request from an obvious pseudonym. !!! Can you get any more stalkerish, I ask?? 😉 I ignored it but it appeared in my inbox again... so for fun, I messaged my mysterious befriender with a "do I know you?" message. Quickly, I received a reply.
We parried back and forth for a full weekend, all day both days. At first it started out as you mentioned you'd like to approach your Scorpio if you ever did -- casual, friendly, breezy. But he began to reveal his true identity and at the same time, the full force of his INTENSE attraction to me came through. I had "glowing skin like a princess" and other such extravagant turns of phrase that I was bowled over and ... I will admit... slightly creeped out.
After this exchange I saw him again in class, this time knowing who he was and having spoken to him. He only waved from across the way, and that was it. I was so confused!! Was he not extremely, possibly excessively, attracted to me??
Finally he brought up a movie he wanted to see on a subsequent online chat and I straightforwardly asked him if he wanted to go see it
I had a slow day at work so was browsing Taurus + Scorpio compatibility analyses for fun... when I ran across your postings and was absolutely floored with how similar it was to what happened to me, or really, us.
I met my current Taurus boyfriend-- but "boyfriend" sounds like such an understatement so-- lover and mate -- four years ago. We were both in college and are still together now. Our connection is deep, primal, dedicated, loyal, and full with interesting twists and turns.
We had a class together back then. It was a huge, stadium-seat classroom, and we sat maybe fifty feet apart, with him sitting behind me and to my left. I began to notice him when I saw him STARING AT ME every single day with enormous intensity. At first I thought it was a fluke, that he was staring at someone else or just into space, but then I realized it was me he was targeting.
I began to look forward to catching his stares every day. I would turn around every now and then, quickly, sometimes casually, sometimes meaningfully, and always see him looking at me. It made me smile.
And yet he never approached! It puzzled me and infuriated me. My wish was that one day I'd come into the classroom and he'd be in the seat next to mine, or that he'd catch me outside and ask me something trivial to kick things off. But it never happened...
UNTIL one day I got a mysterious Facebook friend request from an obvious pseudonym. !!! Can you get any more stalkerish, I ask?? 😉 I ignored it but it appeared in my inbox again... so for fun, I messaged my mysterious befriender with a "do I know you?" message. Quickly, I received a reply.
We parried back and forth for a full weekend, all day both days. At first it started out as you mentioned you'd like to approach your Scorpio if you ever did -- casual, friendly, breezy. But he began to reveal his true identity and at the same time, the full force of his INTENSE attraction to me came through. I had "glowing skin like a princess" and other such extravagant turns of phrase that I was bowled over and ... I will admit... slightly creeped out.
After this exchange I saw him again in class, this time knowing who he was and having spoken to him. He only waved from across the way, and that was it. I was so confused!! Was he not extremely, possibly excessively, attracted to me??
Finally he brought up a movie he wanted to see on a subsequent online chat and I straightforwardly asked him if he wanted to go see it
Ah, it got cut off.
So after I asked, he immediately replied YES!! and I could almost feel the explosion of all the same things you're experiencing - fear, lust, love, obsession, intensity-- within him. we saw the movie and the movie led to dinner, and to more dates, and slowly I let him into me -- literally as well as figuratively!! 😉
We have been through A LOT together -- huge reckonings, tough circumstances, misunderstandings, but through all that our love and connection has strengthened and deepened. He is truly my lover and best friend.
Please put a stop to the pursuit of your Scorpio if you're both in relationships but I just thought I'd tell you my tale. Maybe in another time or universe you will experience the same.
So after I asked, he immediately replied YES!! and I could almost feel the explosion of all the same things you're experiencing - fear, lust, love, obsession, intensity-- within him. we saw the movie and the movie led to dinner, and to more dates, and slowly I let him into me -- literally as well as figuratively!! 😉
We have been through A LOT together -- huge reckonings, tough circumstances, misunderstandings, but through all that our love and connection has strengthened and deepened. He is truly my lover and best friend.
Please put a stop to the pursuit of your Scorpio if you're both in relationships but I just thought I'd tell you my tale. Maybe in another time or universe you will experience the same.
Posted by mizzscorpio
So... I know I'm a bit late getting in on this discussion. But I have had a crush on Taurus man for a bit now. I KNOW he's intrigued by me. I shoot daggers and mind bullets at him whenever I get the opportunity. This flirtation has been going on for weeks but... he just won't ask me out and I REFUSE to ask him out. Scorpio pride and all. It's so frustrating and intoxicating. I fantasize about getting him alone. I'm positive we both would just destroy each other (in the best way). But he's taking forever. The flirtation has gone far beyond being deliciously drawn out to "what the hell is going on here? Is he just screwing with me now?" You bulls are infuriating.
@Mizzscorpio -- Perhaps make an unsubtle move? It might feel like you're betraying yourself, but based on my experience and the experience of poor TauruslovesScorpio here, they are probably just as bewildered, protective of themselves, and doubting as you.
Personally, I went with my Taurus's "easy-breezy" flow and "easily-breezily" suggested we see that movie he mentioned. It wasn't really asking him out per se, as it was under the guise of being noncommittal just-friends. But I think we both knew what would wind up happening, and it did!
Thank you...just.....thank you for that. I haven't read through all of the posts but I did read your initial ones, and it made me see the Taurus I am hopelessly in love with in a different way. I needed that, so again, thank you. 🙂
Mr. TaurusLovesScorpio, I think you just met your twin flame. Google twin flames sometimes. Running away from someone you love that much is not something I'd recommend, since I don't think you'd meet anyone like that Scorpio ever again in this life.
You're the person in question, so you decide.
And they don't over-glorify the very strong infatuation. The infatuation is super real, and that's not all in a twin flame relationship, so better not miss it. Just don't mistake your twin flame with soulmates. That mistake is too common. But nature doesn't lie. Numbers don't lie either.
Be as skeptic as you want, it's probably rooted deep in your nature anyway. Then if you'd please, make a decision, a slow one maybe, the Taurus way. Take as many time you want, and decide whether she's your twin flame or just another charming lady from your past lives. Just don't take too long and die before you finally decide.
In your pleasantly long and numerous posts it sure seems like you're doing the traditional running and she's doing the traditional chasing in a twin flame relationship.
And they don't over-glorify the very strong infatuation. The infatuation is super real, and that's not all in a twin flame relationship, so better not miss it. Just don't mistake your twin flame with soulmates. That mistake is too common. But nature doesn't lie. Numbers don't lie either.
Be as skeptic as you want, it's probably rooted deep in your nature anyway. Then if you'd please, make a decision, a slow one maybe, the Taurus way. Take as many time you want, and decide whether she's your twin flame or just another charming lady from your past lives. Just don't take too long and die before you finally decide.
In your pleasantly long and numerous posts it sure seems like you're doing the traditional running and she's doing the traditional chasing in a twin flame relationship.
all i know is, i love the cows/bulls. big creatures, but gentle and nurturing. i dont ever worry about them stepping on me. 🙂
....i am 100% sure my scorpio (ex lover..current lover..)..whatever you want to call it ...is my one of my soul mates...
he came into my life for a reason...connection is intense... we can never have a conversation without falling back in love again.....four years we were apart and it felt like we never parted..i will always love him...he's a part of me .....i feel him even when he's not with me...he could be my twin flame ....the last time we shared an intimacy was .....extremely passionate...intense...love making....we shared one soul....words can not describe it...i can't explain it to people because they don't understand. ..i never feel this way with anyone before...i am open to other soul mates to come into my life...
but my scorpio is kept deeply underneath my soul...i will always love him ....
he came into my life for a reason...connection is intense... we can never have a conversation without falling back in love again.....four years we were apart and it felt like we never parted..i will always love him...he's a part of me .....i feel him even when he's not with me...he could be my twin flame ....the last time we shared an intimacy was .....extremely passionate...intense...love making....we shared one soul....words can not describe it...i can't explain it to people because they don't understand. ..i never feel this way with anyone before...i am open to other soul mates to come into my life...
but my scorpio is kept deeply underneath my soul...i will always love him ....
Posted by CluelessCancer
Scorpio women are most overrated chicks on the zodiac. Real Talk. Good luck Bulls, maybe you have the patience for their fuckery, but uhmmm i wouldn't wish their insane asses on anybody. I hope my brothers don't marry one of these sick creatures, it would piss me off.
You really are clueless...
Posted by RedbullPosted by CluelessCancer
Scorpio women are most overrated chicks on the zodiac. Real Talk. Good luck Bulls, maybe you have the patience for their fuckery, but uhmmm i wouldn't wish their insane asses on anybody. I hope my brothers don't marry one of these sick creatures, it would piss me off.
They can be great people, but I been there. Not trying to go back. I had to learn the hard way and i dont regret it. But i have nothing near an idealized vision of this. Just the reality. So I already know. Im avoiding any romantic situation with this sign but otherwise it can be a beautiful thing. And i mean absolutely no harm to Scorps. But like i said I been there and im not a glutton for torture or punishment. I think this reflects Taurus male's position "initially" because I do understand. But the reality of the realtionship taught me otherwise. Lifelong lessons. But that doesnt mean others cant make it work. To each his/her own.click to expand
I'm sorry if you had bad experiences with dating Scorps. I think it varies depending on situations with different people. My first bf was a Taurus and he totally took advantage of my unconditional love for him until I couldn't take it anymore. Eventually I left him because he treated me so badly, and then that's when he woke up and realized what he had, it was too late. We were young though. However, I've never loved someone so openly as I had him - with no guards, walls, etc.
I've had great experiences dating bulls. I'm currently talking to one and it's been great so far. He definitely brings out my sensitive side and I feel comfortable being vulnerable with him. Maybe my venus in Virgo helps and chills me out a bit in romance. But I am very fond of you bulls 🙂
Posted by CluelessCancer
Scorpio women are most overrated chicks on the zodiac. Real Talk. Good luck Bulls, maybe you have the patience for their fuckery, but uhmmm i wouldn't wish their insane asses on anybody. I hope my brothers don't marry one of these sick creatures, it would piss me off.
That's sad because I personally love Cancers. In fact my moon is in Cancer. You must have had a bad experience with a Scorpio, but I don't think you can say we're all like that. That's like me saying all Cancers are too moody to be bothered with or something like that. Yet see that would be judging all of you based on perhaps one experience. I just wish you wouldn't be so harsh by saying we are all insane, sick creatures. That's just not nice at all.
Psychics are fantastic. One of the few psychics I met also picked up information out of thin air, threw my most well-hidden secret on my face. I got pleasantly surprised then. I don't know what kind of psychic that person is though.. I hadn't even met that psychic face to face. That psychic didn't saw through a lie I made accidentally, so I don't think that psychic is an empaths.
TaurusLovesScorpio: "Ever since I was a kid, if I caught a dangerous creature, I try to tame it, play with it, change it with love, and sometimes even tease it a bit, until it winds up attacking me."
Ever tried playing with a scorpion that stings poison?
TaurusLovesScorpio: "Ever since I was a kid, if I caught a dangerous creature, I try to tame it, play with it, change it with love, and sometimes even tease it a bit, until it winds up attacking me."
Ever tried playing with a scorpion that stings poison?
Posted by TaurusLovesScorpio
Another factor in all this is that the Scorpio mind is a steel trap....
That said, if the connection is real, all she has to do to make it unreal, is tell herself that. She has shown me already; she is mentally strong enough to block me out if she needs to - even if its a pain she carries with her forever. I've never met a woman like that. Usually if a woman is feeling it strong with me, I can capitalize on that. It becomes a means of control for me and gives me the upper hand (which of course I try not to abuse..lol). With her, not only is she not going to allow that, but in fact, she will be the only one in control.
might just have to try and do that with my taurus man...i know i can, the question is, do i want to...actually i dont...i'm in deep sh*t
TaurusLovesScorpio i love your story and especially the way you wrote it...quite expressive...and you know we scorpio women feel the same, why does it have to be so damn complicated.
Posted by Impulsv
Exactly the question is do I want to n I didn't couldn't, I knew exactly what game I needed to play with taurus I chose not to why because I want to teach him this"Usually if a woman is feeling it strong with me, I can capitalize on that. It becomes a means of control for me and gives me the upper hand (which of course I try not to abuse..lol). With her, not only is she not going to allow that, but in fact, she will be the only one in control."
That love has nothing to do with power n control. It is beyond it so I refuse to use those means. N actually I feel my telling him I loved him is showing him that I haven't given up my power over him. He has no control over me. His knowledge if it can't make me do things I don't want. Nope no control over the person whom u should feel u have the upper hand. He said he was confused by me n was mysterious. I love him but don't need him. That how powerful we can be. Completely vulnerable but untouchable.lol
that is awesome! very inspiring 🙂
Hi TaurusLovesScorpio,
My taurus and I had a huge fight last 2 wks. I dropped him but after hearing his part I came to realized my own guilt. So I asked him if we can continue and he said 'no'. I even plead on that minute to work it out...but it seems he was angry to me because of those disrespecting terms I used during the fight and I can't redeem all those words. So we ended it. He told me not to text and call him. I did. after 4 days he emailed me saying all those sorry's and it was his planned to talk to me over the week end for a serious matter and the last sentence is I wish you well and can find a man so soon who will make you happy( i told his face I want more orgasm and he cant make it for me because only his mind is sick watching porns and chatting those cheap ladies).. but it was a miscommunication arise and I couldn't handle his drama and whining anymore. After reading his email. I replied like how sorry I was too of hurting him however if he wanted to continue it.. I am still willing. His reply is rude and still mad at me... and even saying again his last statement: Find a man who is suitable for your lifesyle.because he was sooo mad about going out at night will all those colleagues at work. We live a little bit far maybe he was kind of jealous type. I don't know. But I kept replying his email and he kept replying too.
I guess at this time. I need not to email him anymore 'cause I already get his point.
This is his reply message to me and please translate:
I will go back to a statement I made a few weeks back about being 'married' to my research. Too many times in the past I have put projects on 'hold' for the sake of a relationship and eventually came to resent that person (even though it was my own frustration for not staying focused).
The last couple of weeks we were together I was beginning to 'feel' this again. That was when I decided we needed to have a serious talk and I would explain this all to you. Then all the strange communications started and you kept attacking me.
The worst part of that 'bad Friday' was how it ended. You came back (after pleading with me to work it out) and started yelling very degrading and nasty insults at me through the window. That just made me realize I need to focus the next few years solely on my project.
Bottom line is, you are actually not as complex as you think you are, but other people are much more complex than what you want to believe.
I am glad to hear you are
Taurus seems to bring out the softer side of Scorpios. Otherwise they can be real jerks 🙂
A Scorpio with me is a nightmare, but my Taurus brings out the sweetest side with our Scorpio friend..she wouldn't dare pull the same crap as she would with me.
A Scorpio with me is a nightmare, but my Taurus brings out the sweetest side with our Scorpio friend..she wouldn't dare pull the same crap as she would with me.
I am nor sure what the hell is going on here ! I read and I read... noticing on page 6 that it jumped from March 22nd to August 5th. NOW I am feeling like... slapping, no... shaking, no... running you down, um... no... well I DON'T KNOW WHAT I want to DO... but I WANT to do SOMETHING !!!
I was expecting the story to have come to some kind of fruition when I reached AUGUST ! Surely you had reason for the tradenarked disappearance... but ALMOST 5 MONTHS LATER... WHAT — NOTHING happened ?!!
You still look at her... and she looks at you. You speak about connections... obviously it is the same for her. You have been to a psychic to explain what is going on... but you have never spoken to HER in person ? The one time she said 'thank you' doesn't count... I am betting she says that to ALL the guys ! Really burns you up, doesn't it !
You mentioned the Sagittarius only once I think... said 'Sag' was later hidden in the word 'commitment'. Commitment... WHAT is THAT ? 'Commitment' is just a word... another word for promise, duty, guarantee, liability, OR obligation; Love, passion, chemistry, connection, it is NOT. You are 'obliged' to 'Sag'... a debt to pay... a job to do... but a feeling... one cannot commit to feel always the same... a couple grows together... or it grows apart. Sorry... 5 months ago you should have ended it with 'Sag'... assessed where you were... alone. it isn't fair to stay with one when your heart belongs with another... for 'Sag', for 'Scorpio-chick'... NOR is it for YOU.
As for Scorpio-chick... you just need a good cattle-prodding... I am sure that it will come in one in form or another... in THIS century or the NEXT... WHAT is it going to TAKE ? Life is too short... and the only regrets we have in life, are the risks we DID NOT take.
I was expecting the story to have come to some kind of fruition when I reached AUGUST ! Surely you had reason for the tradenarked disappearance... but ALMOST 5 MONTHS LATER... WHAT — NOTHING happened ?!!
You still look at her... and she looks at you. You speak about connections... obviously it is the same for her. You have been to a psychic to explain what is going on... but you have never spoken to HER in person ? The one time she said 'thank you' doesn't count... I am betting she says that to ALL the guys ! Really burns you up, doesn't it !
You mentioned the Sagittarius only once I think... said 'Sag' was later hidden in the word 'commitment'. Commitment... WHAT is THAT ? 'Commitment' is just a word... another word for promise, duty, guarantee, liability, OR obligation; Love, passion, chemistry, connection, it is NOT. You are 'obliged' to 'Sag'... a debt to pay... a job to do... but a feeling... one cannot commit to feel always the same... a couple grows together... or it grows apart. Sorry... 5 months ago you should have ended it with 'Sag'... assessed where you were... alone. it isn't fair to stay with one when your heart belongs with another... for 'Sag', for 'Scorpio-chick'... NOR is it for YOU.
As for Scorpio-chick... you just need a good cattle-prodding... I am sure that it will come in one in form or another... in THIS century or the NEXT... WHAT is it going to TAKE ? Life is too short... and the only regrets we have in life, are the risks we DID NOT take.
so you have completely given up on her—?
exactly why do u fear her?? im sorry i just dont get it :/ do u even see her anymore??
Well thanks! 😉 Scorp with Venus in Virgo here...but you already knew that LOL.
I think what scorpintensepassion is saying about control is true. Self-control is something Scorps seem to master very well. We are very disciplined people, and like you've said before...our minds are like steel traps. However, I will NOT try to control someone I love. Manipulate to get something I want, maybe....but to control you or try to control your actions, no. I value freedom a lot, and actually prefer someone who can respect that and I would do the same for them.
Feeling "liberated to give up control for once"...I think means more we're looking for someone we can be completely vulnerable with. We have so many walls and guards, that we keep our emotions on lock, OR if we're in a situation/interaction that makes us uneasy...we maintain a certain control to keep ourselves from getting hurt. But meeting someone we can trust and be completely ourselves with...would be VERY liberating. All our defense mechanisms would be dropped and there would be no need for the constant self-monitoring we do in order to protect ourselves. Showing vulnerability = giving up control.
I think what scorpintensepassion is saying about control is true. Self-control is something Scorps seem to master very well. We are very disciplined people, and like you've said before...our minds are like steel traps. However, I will NOT try to control someone I love. Manipulate to get something I want, maybe....but to control you or try to control your actions, no. I value freedom a lot, and actually prefer someone who can respect that and I would do the same for them.
Feeling "liberated to give up control for once"...I think means more we're looking for someone we can be completely vulnerable with. We have so many walls and guards, that we keep our emotions on lock, OR if we're in a situation/interaction that makes us uneasy...we maintain a certain control to keep ourselves from getting hurt. But meeting someone we can trust and be completely ourselves with...would be VERY liberating. All our defense mechanisms would be dropped and there would be no need for the constant self-monitoring we do in order to protect ourselves. Showing vulnerability = giving up control.
There are different types of love, and I know I can be romantically in love with different women. Its different when you have venus in an air sign IMO. I actually view exclusive one-on-one love as a very inferior/temporary situation.
So you would be okay with your Sagittarius S.O. bring in love or infatuated with another man while she maintains a relationship with you? I'm not trying to judge, just curious.
I work with a wonderful one also. Meeting her was like having your favorite comfort food from childhood. I've been traversing the sea of Aquas, Cancers, and Arians but the familiar feeling of my old loves resurfaced. Just as good as I remember. Big heart, sweet, a little sultry with the deceptive simplicity. The connection was immediate and magnetic but all my old insecurities are back just like that. While time has made me more humane it has not tempered my wandering eye and I just cannot do it to such a sweetheart. I feel horrible because I know she is waiting for me to take things to the next level. The connection is obvious to everyone else and I even overheard them talking. I don't know what the hell to do.
Posted by IrresistableScorp
And yes we make a web but its made of rainbows, cotton candy, unicorns, sunsets, white cotton linen and all the things you love. We even put strings of lights around it so you don't get too scared. Never be afraid of the web. We made it for you. Not everyone gets a web, you know. 🙂
that was beautiful 😉
candyapples: Well thanks! Scorp with Venus in Virgo here...but you already knew that LOL.
>>>candy, whatuuuuup!!! Respond to my pm, punk!
ca: Feeling "liberated to give up control for once"...I think means more we're looking for someone we can be completely vulnerable with. We have so many walls and guards, that we keep our emotions on lock, OR if we're in a situation/interaction that makes us uneasy...we maintain a certain control to keep ourselves from getting hurt. But meeting someone we can trust and be completely ourselves with...would be VERY liberating. All our defense mechanisms would be dropped and there would be no need for the constant self-monitoring we do in order to protect ourselves. Showing vulnerability = giving up control.
>>>It is easy for me to be vulnerable, laugh at myself, etc. I *don't* understand why it is so hard for Scorps. You folks are some crazy proud people - MASTERS at repressing things, never wanting anyone to feel bad for you. My scorp Dad lives in the 7th level of hell and if I call him, he puts on the happy face and acts like life is awesome, everything is positive, etc. But it is obvious to me that its not *really* the case even if he does succeed somewhat at convincing himself of that day to day. When I lived with him, and we were very close, he opened up for real. But just having moved across the country, he is a completely different person when we talk - total mask. I can see a scorp giving up control and being vulnerable when the relationship is pure/innocent, but once hurt, just like a Cancer, I would think the walls go up, mask goes back on, etc. - at least to a degree.
>>>candy, whatuuuuup!!! Respond to my pm, punk!
ca: Feeling "liberated to give up control for once"...I think means more we're looking for someone we can be completely vulnerable with. We have so many walls and guards, that we keep our emotions on lock, OR if we're in a situation/interaction that makes us uneasy...we maintain a certain control to keep ourselves from getting hurt. But meeting someone we can trust and be completely ourselves with...would be VERY liberating. All our defense mechanisms would be dropped and there would be no need for the constant self-monitoring we do in order to protect ourselves. Showing vulnerability = giving up control.
>>>It is easy for me to be vulnerable, laugh at myself, etc. I *don't* understand why it is so hard for Scorps. You folks are some crazy proud people - MASTERS at repressing things, never wanting anyone to feel bad for you. My scorp Dad lives in the 7th level of hell and if I call him, he puts on the happy face and acts like life is awesome, everything is positive, etc. But it is obvious to me that its not *really* the case even if he does succeed somewhat at convincing himself of that day to day. When I lived with him, and we were very close, he opened up for real. But just having moved across the country, he is a completely different person when we talk - total mask. I can see a scorp giving up control and being vulnerable when the relationship is pure/innocent, but once hurt, just like a Cancer, I would think the walls go up, mask goes back on, etc. - at least to a degree.
IS: And yes we make a web but its made of rainbows, cotton candy, unicorns, sunsets, white cotton linen and all the things you love. We even put strings of lights around it so you don't get too scared.
>>>LOLOL! Hilarious....The softer/cute side of the scorps cracks me up - fuzzy little kittens and puppies in the profile pics....I can still sense the danger though. Hhahahaha....
IS: Never be afraid of the web. We made it for you. Not everyone gets a web, you know.
>>>I've said from the beginning - I am SO flattered. Greatest form of flattery to ever come my way for sure, has been the interest that this woman has shown towards me. I feel TOTALLY unworthy of it. That is part of the reason I indulged so much in signaling how much I appreciated it....To watch her transform herself in front of me, and basically embody everything I desire....Beautiful beyond words, but also destructive in a sort of way given what she knows are my circumstances.
>>>LOLOL! Hilarious....The softer/cute side of the scorps cracks me up - fuzzy little kittens and puppies in the profile pics....I can still sense the danger though. Hhahahaha....
IS: Never be afraid of the web. We made it for you. Not everyone gets a web, you know.
>>>I've said from the beginning - I am SO flattered. Greatest form of flattery to ever come my way for sure, has been the interest that this woman has shown towards me. I feel TOTALLY unworthy of it. That is part of the reason I indulged so much in signaling how much I appreciated it....To watch her transform herself in front of me, and basically embody everything I desire....Beautiful beyond words, but also destructive in a sort of way given what she knows are my circumstances.
Miscreant: So you would be okay with your Sagittarius S.O. bring in love or infatuated with another man while she maintains a relationship with you? I'm not trying to judge, just curious.
>>>Of course, it would hurt tremendously - my ego, my heart, all of it. I'm doing what I can to ignore the situation entirely now. Its SOOOO hard. But I could not judge my SO for this; feelings are what they are. You can subject them to some control, and refuse to feed them, but they don't just disappear completely. I was married to a woman who ran into her first love, who she always told me she had this type of magnetic attraction with. The day she confessed to me that she slept with him (2 yrs after it happened), I fell to the floor in tears. First thing I said to her in response, at that moment, was that I forgave her. And I meant it entirely at that moment, and still do. I could see how sorry she was in her face. The circumstances she was in, when they ran into each other....I just know if I were in her place, I could've caved just as easily.
>>>Of course, it would hurt tremendously - my ego, my heart, all of it. I'm doing what I can to ignore the situation entirely now. Its SOOOO hard. But I could not judge my SO for this; feelings are what they are. You can subject them to some control, and refuse to feed them, but they don't just disappear completely. I was married to a woman who ran into her first love, who she always told me she had this type of magnetic attraction with. The day she confessed to me that she slept with him (2 yrs after it happened), I fell to the floor in tears. First thing I said to her in response, at that moment, was that I forgave her. And I meant it entirely at that moment, and still do. I could see how sorry she was in her face. The circumstances she was in, when they ran into each other....I just know if I were in her place, I could've caved just as easily.
Posted by TaurusLovesScorpio
IS: And yes we make a web but its made of rainbows, cotton candy, unicorns, sunsets, white cotton linen and all the things you love. We even put strings of lights around it so you don't get too scared.
lolz thats so cute :3
Posted by TaurusLovesScorpio
Miscreant: So you would be okay with your Sagittarius S.O. bring in love or infatuated with another man while she maintains a relationship with you? I'm not trying to judge, just curious.
>>>Of course, it would hurt tremendously - my ego, my heart, all of it. I'm doing what I can to ignore the situation entirely now. Its SOOOO hard. But I could not judge my SO for this; feelings are what they are. You can subject them to some control, and refuse to feed them, but they don't just disappear completely. I was married to a woman who ran into her first love, who she always told me she had this type of magnetic attraction with. The day she confessed to me that she slept with him (2 yrs after it happened), I fell to the floor in tears. First thing I said to her in response, at that moment, was that I forgave her. And I meant it entirely at that moment, and still do. I could see how sorry she was in her face. The circumstances she was in, when they ran into each other....I just know if I were in her place, I could've caved just as easily.
So do you think you're the kind of person who prefers polyamory or open relationships, or have you ever tried that before? And do you know if your Scorpio is with someone herself?
Please ignore me if my questions are getting too personal. I'm just curious.
TaurusLovesScorpio: "I'm sure she feels just like I do - just wanting it to kinda end as it isn't going anywhere - especially with how much I've read about how scorps get bored. IMO, we're both done, but still feel that pull, and its an annoyance now."
If it's an annoyance, why don't you at least try befriend that girl and see if the annoyance is gone? The pull is still there, and probably for a reason. Either it is to torture you and make you spiritually grown, or it is to lead you to ___ the scorpio girl.
So you're officially done? You're actually giving up in dating that scorp woman? I was done with a Virgo, but we're still best friends. We didn't have that strong of an attraction, but what I felt was also annoying because I knew it wouldn't work out(because of family and religious reasons and common sense and countless other things), but we're best friends with each other.
The Virgo helped me grow as a friend. I still think that Virgo as really cute, but I treat that person as a sibling now.
If it's an annoyance, why don't you at least try befriend that girl and see if the annoyance is gone? The pull is still there, and probably for a reason. Either it is to torture you and make you spiritually grown, or it is to lead you to ___ the scorpio girl.
So you're officially done? You're actually giving up in dating that scorp woman? I was done with a Virgo, but we're still best friends. We didn't have that strong of an attraction, but what I felt was also annoying because I knew it wouldn't work out(because of family and religious reasons and common sense and countless other things), but we're best friends with each other.
The Virgo helped me grow as a friend. I still think that Virgo as really cute, but I treat that person as a sibling now.
Miscreant: So do you think you're the kind of person who prefers polyamory or open relationships, or have you ever tried that before? And do you know if your Scorpio is with someone herself?
Please ignore me if my questions are getting too personal. I'm just curious
>>>I haven't and def. can't do open relationships. I'm super jealous/possessive. It is bad. I don't even like it if my SO says a movie star is cute/hot/etc. around me. I??ve banned some actors. If the actor is a Taurus, I'm a little more okay with it. I feel proud of the handsome bulls. LOL. I can't imagine sharing someone. My eyes may wander a *bit* in a relationship (pretty rarely actually), but my heart never has. This is just a completely new experience for me. You know how when you go from not having a relationship for a while, to finding someone you think you??re falling for? That feeling of being revived — like you were dead before but now are alive in a whole new way? Well, I felt that way from this connection, WHILE in a committed relationship where I really was in love. Totally foreign to me. I just think there's a unique chemistry here. In fact, the connection with this girl is so strong, that if I were with her, I can't imagine my eyes even ever straying. That's one of the shocking things for me about this; I lost attraction to all other women, including my SO for a while. It actually affected our sex life very negatively. Totally new for me. Its just on a deeper level. Its not about looks; my SO is gorgeous. The Scorp she could gain 40 lbs., shave her beautiful hair, be old and wrinkled??_.I would still prefer her over whoever the latest —most gorgeous woman?? is. As far as her relationships, she looked like she tried to spark a little thing up with an ex that works here, while all this was going on. One psychic I called knew this, without me saying it, said she did this to try to get me out of her head, but that it would end fast and there was no real connection with him anymore. She would play her stare games with me, while he was in the office. I really only saw them going to lunch and stuff a couple times, then that stopped and now she completely ignores him. And I don't mind personal questions at all. I'm ok being vulnerable in general, and I don't feel that my ego is really tied to this pseudonym or any status I'm trying to maintain on this forum. To me, this is total anonymity.
Please ignore me if my questions are getting too personal. I'm just curious
>>>I haven't and def. can't do open relationships. I'm super jealous/possessive. It is bad. I don't even like it if my SO says a movie star is cute/hot/etc. around me. I??ve banned some actors. If the actor is a Taurus, I'm a little more okay with it. I feel proud of the handsome bulls. LOL. I can't imagine sharing someone. My eyes may wander a *bit* in a relationship (pretty rarely actually), but my heart never has. This is just a completely new experience for me. You know how when you go from not having a relationship for a while, to finding someone you think you??re falling for? That feeling of being revived — like you were dead before but now are alive in a whole new way? Well, I felt that way from this connection, WHILE in a committed relationship where I really was in love. Totally foreign to me. I just think there's a unique chemistry here. In fact, the connection with this girl is so strong, that if I were with her, I can't imagine my eyes even ever straying. That's one of the shocking things for me about this; I lost attraction to all other women, including my SO for a while. It actually affected our sex life very negatively. Totally new for me. Its just on a deeper level. Its not about looks; my SO is gorgeous. The Scorp she could gain 40 lbs., shave her beautiful hair, be old and wrinkled??_.I would still prefer her over whoever the latest —most gorgeous woman?? is. As far as her relationships, she looked like she tried to spark a little thing up with an ex that works here, while all this was going on. One psychic I called knew this, without me saying it, said she did this to try to get me out of her head, but that it would end fast and there was no real connection with him anymore. She would play her stare games with me, while he was in the office. I really only saw them going to lunch and stuff a couple times, then that stopped and now she completely ignores him. And I don't mind personal questions at all. I'm ok being vulnerable in general, and I don't feel that my ego is really tied to this pseudonym or any status I'm trying to maintain on this forum. To me, this is total anonymity.
VirgoSun: If it's an annoyance, why don't you at least try befriend that girl and see if the annoyance is gone? The pull is still there, and probably for a reason. Either it is to torture you and make you spiritually grown, or it is to lead you to ___ the scorpio girl.
>>>I think its the former (torture/spiritual growth). And that's exactly how I'd put it - both those things. I'm wiser, but a little bitter (with God/the Universe/whatever, not her). I can't be friends with this girl. I can't trust myself or her. All that Leo in my chart? I would try to charm her. My ego is too tied to her and what she thinks of me. I would wind up leading her on for sure. And I'm also fairly easily flattered/charmed. She's probably already figured me out. And if she is a typical all-or-nothing Scorp, and as manipulative as I think she is, its a recipe for danger. Virgos can do stuff like this. Virgos I know can be around the most attractive people and remain loyal and professional. I have to keep a distance. It would be disrespectful to my SO on many levels not to.
VirgoSun: So you're officially done? You're actually giving up in dating that scorp woman?
>>>Yeah, in my mind I am. We'll see what happens. And she mirrors so much, I don't have to worry about her. I close up shop and ignore her, she does the same to me. We're going on about 2.5 wks now, no eye contact. I've been hiding. We accidentally made eye contact yesterday and she meanmugged me. I gave her a wide-eyed innocent look. LOL.
VirgoSun: I still think that Virgo as really cute, but I treat that person as a sibling now.
>>>Yeah, two Virgos. I'm sure its all very diplomatic. Hahahah...Not happening with us though. Remember the old cartoons when one character would get super hungry and have a hallucination of their friend as a roasted turkey? That's how I see her. She looks like a meal to me. If I get close enough to smell her, it would be really dangerous.
>>>I think its the former (torture/spiritual growth). And that's exactly how I'd put it - both those things. I'm wiser, but a little bitter (with God/the Universe/whatever, not her). I can't be friends with this girl. I can't trust myself or her. All that Leo in my chart? I would try to charm her. My ego is too tied to her and what she thinks of me. I would wind up leading her on for sure. And I'm also fairly easily flattered/charmed. She's probably already figured me out. And if she is a typical all-or-nothing Scorp, and as manipulative as I think she is, its a recipe for danger. Virgos can do stuff like this. Virgos I know can be around the most attractive people and remain loyal and professional. I have to keep a distance. It would be disrespectful to my SO on many levels not to.
VirgoSun: So you're officially done? You're actually giving up in dating that scorp woman?
>>>Yeah, in my mind I am. We'll see what happens. And she mirrors so much, I don't have to worry about her. I close up shop and ignore her, she does the same to me. We're going on about 2.5 wks now, no eye contact. I've been hiding. We accidentally made eye contact yesterday and she meanmugged me. I gave her a wide-eyed innocent look. LOL.
VirgoSun: I still think that Virgo as really cute, but I treat that person as a sibling now.
>>>Yeah, two Virgos. I'm sure its all very diplomatic. Hahahah...Not happening with us though. Remember the old cartoons when one character would get super hungry and have a hallucination of their friend as a roasted turkey? That's how I see her. She looks like a meal to me. If I get close enough to smell her, it would be really dangerous.
Infinite: I'm so curious to know how she sees you and what she observes of your behavior towards her.
>>>Same.
Infinite: It might be completely different than what you imagine...she probably has NO idea of all that passion you have within.
>>>I'm sure. I do wonder why she hasn't gotten bored and still kept coming back after I've ignored her for long periods, obviously avoided her, etc. Who knows...I'm sure she doesn't understand how I feel. She probably sees me as a typical guy. Guys stare at her all the time, so she maybe thinks I'm only physically attracted, and that would explain why she has really been so sexual/physical, flaunting herself as she has. If we ever got to chatting, and we were both in a place of openness, that would be one of the earlier things I told her about the connection I'm feeling - that its not about her hair, body, clothing, etc. - even though all those are amazing.
Infinite: I would notice their admiration towards me, or that they had a crush on me BUT not the depth and intensity.
>>>Yeah, I'm pretty sure she would be just as shocked. I'm shocked. Hahhahaa....
>>>Same.
Infinite: It might be completely different than what you imagine...she probably has NO idea of all that passion you have within.
>>>I'm sure. I do wonder why she hasn't gotten bored and still kept coming back after I've ignored her for long periods, obviously avoided her, etc. Who knows...I'm sure she doesn't understand how I feel. She probably sees me as a typical guy. Guys stare at her all the time, so she maybe thinks I'm only physically attracted, and that would explain why she has really been so sexual/physical, flaunting herself as she has. If we ever got to chatting, and we were both in a place of openness, that would be one of the earlier things I told her about the connection I'm feeling - that its not about her hair, body, clothing, etc. - even though all those are amazing.
Infinite: I would notice their admiration towards me, or that they had a crush on me BUT not the depth and intensity.
>>>Yeah, I'm pretty sure she would be just as shocked. I'm shocked. Hahhahaa....
notyourtype: I'm a Scorpio rising (also with Venus in Scorpio), and although I've only had one brief encounter with a Taurus, based on that experience alone, I can definitely say I felt that compelling sexual attraction and magnetic pull you speak of. Unfortunately for my Taurus and I, the chemistry did not extend beyond the physical. We were never able to connect on an emotional level and there was also an issue of mis(and lack of)communication, admittedly mostly on my part, which caused him to retreat. Despite the odds, I still can't seem to get him out of my head.
>>>Mine I feel is some physical/sexual for sure, but mostly emotional. It sucks having someone in your head like that. I lay down at night and fantasies about her and I just talking will flood me. It is really retarded because even when I'm ignoring her, I get up in the morning and I'm picking out things to wear that I think would attract her. She's a motivation when I'm working out. I can be with my SO and often my mind will wander to her, etc. Its almost like I'm living my life in her presence. My biggest fear in cutting off all interaction was that I would literally get so depressed that I would lose my will to live - and by that I mean I just wouldn't enjoy *anything* in life without her. Being around her at first, while we were doing our dance, motivated me in so many positive ways. Pulling out has been VERY damaging. Its died down ALOT bc I've tried my best to make it, but it won't go away entirely. If I have too much to drink, it gets really bad.
>>>Mine I feel is some physical/sexual for sure, but mostly emotional. It sucks having someone in your head like that. I lay down at night and fantasies about her and I just talking will flood me. It is really retarded because even when I'm ignoring her, I get up in the morning and I'm picking out things to wear that I think would attract her. She's a motivation when I'm working out. I can be with my SO and often my mind will wander to her, etc. Its almost like I'm living my life in her presence. My biggest fear in cutting off all interaction was that I would literally get so depressed that I would lose my will to live - and by that I mean I just wouldn't enjoy *anything* in life without her. Being around her at first, while we were doing our dance, motivated me in so many positive ways. Pulling out has been VERY damaging. Its died down ALOT bc I've tried my best to make it, but it won't go away entirely. If I have too much to drink, it gets really bad.
I'm so very impressed with Taurus stubbornness. It's easy for me to talk people into anything if I try hard enough, but the taurus suns don't budge, or they pretend not to budge. Either way, I'm so, very, impressed.
TaurusLovesScorpio: "I think its the former (torture/spiritual growth). And that's exactly how I'd put it - both those things. I'm wiser, but a little bitter (with God/the Universe/whatever, not her). I can't be friends with this girl. I can't trust myself or her."
I honestly think it's spiritual growth and it's destiny way of giving you a chance in this lifetime to talk and 'do something', maybe, to that scorp, but you're still bull-headed, and it seems no amount of words from this stranger can help soften your stubbornness.
I couldn't trust anybody before, I was in a hard time, but I tried my best, and here I am, having that virgo ready to talk to me anytime I feel like calling as long as it's reasonable hours. It's paradise; my old hell had left completely. The Virgo had helped me grown too, and it's only bitter when I refused virgo's entrance to my life.
The only way to resist temptation is to yield to it(Oscar Wilde's quote), after all.
"Yeah, two Virgos. I'm sure its all very diplomatic. Hahahah...Not happening with us though. Remember the old cartoons when one character would get super hungry and have a hallucination of their friend as a roasted turkey? That's how I see her. She looks like a meal to me. If I get close enough to smell her, it would be really dangerous."
We talk about NASA and global warming and how being a vegan can help the Earth. I think it's enough to describe how diplomatic this is.
Eat her already. I mean, she's a scorpio, she can take it. Why are you running from a meal? Let her chase you and catch you, get some peace of mind.
TaurusLovesScorpio: "I think its the former (torture/spiritual growth). And that's exactly how I'd put it - both those things. I'm wiser, but a little bitter (with God/the Universe/whatever, not her). I can't be friends with this girl. I can't trust myself or her."
I honestly think it's spiritual growth and it's destiny way of giving you a chance in this lifetime to talk and 'do something', maybe, to that scorp, but you're still bull-headed, and it seems no amount of words from this stranger can help soften your stubbornness.
I couldn't trust anybody before, I was in a hard time, but I tried my best, and here I am, having that virgo ready to talk to me anytime I feel like calling as long as it's reasonable hours. It's paradise; my old hell had left completely. The Virgo had helped me grown too, and it's only bitter when I refused virgo's entrance to my life.
The only way to resist temptation is to yield to it(Oscar Wilde's quote), after all.
"Yeah, two Virgos. I'm sure its all very diplomatic. Hahahah...Not happening with us though. Remember the old cartoons when one character would get super hungry and have a hallucination of their friend as a roasted turkey? That's how I see her. She looks like a meal to me. If I get close enough to smell her, it would be really dangerous."
We talk about NASA and global warming and how being a vegan can help the Earth. I think it's enough to describe how diplomatic this is.
Eat her already. I mean, she's a scorpio, she can take it. Why are you running from a meal? Let her chase you and catch you, get some peace of mind.
IS: Then again it may be real.
>>>That's what I like about you, IS. You are very aware of the mystical powers of Scorpios. Alot of Scorps (young ones espec.) are very unaware of their abilities. Of course I agree and am not going into it much here, bc its the kind of thing you have to really experience to take seriously, but I actually have had a lot of dialogue. And you don't feel crazy because there is just a type of *knowing* when another person's thoughts are present to you. You can feel them - its a very deep impression unlike anything your brain can normally conjure up. Maybe there isn't proof (which I think there is very little of outside of Logic & Mathematics), but I think there's alot of research supporting it actually. This article gives a brief summary:
http://news.discovery.com/human/life/love-telepathy-is-it-real-120212.htm<BR>
Dean Radin's _Conscious Universe_ gives a very in-depth overview of the results of thousands of controlled studies on telepathy. Stronger the emotional bond betw. participants, stronger the signaling. Rupert Sheldrake's work _The Sense of Being Stared At_ also condenses alot of research that I've found extremely relevant to this experience. And yes, I think Scorps are uniquely suited to it for a variety of reasons.
Pretty amazing thing to experience really, and one of the huge positives that's come out of this interaction. There are alot.
>>>That's what I like about you, IS. You are very aware of the mystical powers of Scorpios. Alot of Scorps (young ones espec.) are very unaware of their abilities. Of course I agree and am not going into it much here, bc its the kind of thing you have to really experience to take seriously, but I actually have had a lot of dialogue. And you don't feel crazy because there is just a type of *knowing* when another person's thoughts are present to you. You can feel them - its a very deep impression unlike anything your brain can normally conjure up. Maybe there isn't proof (which I think there is very little of outside of Logic & Mathematics), but I think there's alot of research supporting it actually. This article gives a brief summary:
http://news.discovery.com/human/life/love-telepathy-is-it-real-120212.htm<BR>
Dean Radin's _Conscious Universe_ gives a very in-depth overview of the results of thousands of controlled studies on telepathy. Stronger the emotional bond betw. participants, stronger the signaling. Rupert Sheldrake's work _The Sense of Being Stared At_ also condenses alot of research that I've found extremely relevant to this experience. And yes, I think Scorps are uniquely suited to it for a variety of reasons.
Pretty amazing thing to experience really, and one of the huge positives that's come out of this interaction. There are alot.
VirgoSun: I'm so very impressed with Taurus stubbornness.
>>>Hahhaa, well then I better be honest about just how stubborn I am. She is going to have to approach me or we will never talk, and both have to live with the residual pain. Its my magnet vs. her web. Hhahaha.... And Taurean inertia is actually at the root of our magnetism. I do feel she is testing my strength at the moment, as if I might be bluffing. I'm not though and I'm not playing games. Just have real reasons. And stop telling me your little happy ending and giving me hope. You made me peek at her a couple of times today. Hhahahaha....Crazy thing is the synchronicity of it all. Once I make the slightest decision "I'm going to take a few peaks". We have the oddest/coincidental meeting of eyes. It will be like through a crowd of people, around a corner, through the 2-inch gap between someone's monitors, and one of each of our eyeballs will meet up. I'm peeking for a second and she is at that same second even though we don't face each other throughout the day...Its nuts...Caught her looking at me with a VERY mean face twice today actually.
VirgoSun: The only way to resist temptation is to yield to it(Oscar Wilde's quote)
>>>He'd make for a poor Chemical Dependency Counselor.
VirgoSun: Let her chase you and catch you, get some peace of mind.
>>>>Truuuuust me. She is DONE chasing. She may be curious still but, I'm sure she's pissed at herself for doing as much as she did. If she approaches me (highly doubtful), it would probably be on some fake friendliness, very casual, and just out of curiosity. And I admit that I probably wouldn't be able to resist talking to her and feeling things out. But the chase part is over....And really, I needed it to be.
>>>Hahhaa, well then I better be honest about just how stubborn I am. She is going to have to approach me or we will never talk, and both have to live with the residual pain. Its my magnet vs. her web. Hhahaha.... And Taurean inertia is actually at the root of our magnetism. I do feel she is testing my strength at the moment, as if I might be bluffing. I'm not though and I'm not playing games. Just have real reasons. And stop telling me your little happy ending and giving me hope. You made me peek at her a couple of times today. Hhahahaha....Crazy thing is the synchronicity of it all. Once I make the slightest decision "I'm going to take a few peaks". We have the oddest/coincidental meeting of eyes. It will be like through a crowd of people, around a corner, through the 2-inch gap between someone's monitors, and one of each of our eyeballs will meet up. I'm peeking for a second and she is at that same second even though we don't face each other throughout the day...Its nuts...Caught her looking at me with a VERY mean face twice today actually.
VirgoSun: The only way to resist temptation is to yield to it(Oscar Wilde's quote)
>>>He'd make for a poor Chemical Dependency Counselor.
VirgoSun: Let her chase you and catch you, get some peace of mind.
>>>>Truuuuust me. She is DONE chasing. She may be curious still but, I'm sure she's pissed at herself for doing as much as she did. If she approaches me (highly doubtful), it would probably be on some fake friendliness, very casual, and just out of curiosity. And I admit that I probably wouldn't be able to resist talking to her and feeling things out. But the chase part is over....And really, I needed it to be.
Infinit8, I hear what you are saying, and I don't want to interact with it too much and be the contrarian, as I agree with alot of it. I see her flirtatiousness with the men around her. For me, its a weakeness. She has a very obvious need to exercise power over others (granted, she is REALLY good at it and displays alot of intelligence), but that signals to me that something is missing within - whether moral or on the level of self-worth. She has a *greater* power over me in alot of ways than she does these other men, as I think I'm probably about 1,000 x's more attracted to her (and in several other dimensions) than these other guys, but at the same time, I am not going to give in to her seductions, and I will shut down if it is just on a physical level. I'm atypical in that regard. The mind is the biggest turn-on for me anyway. But I think that dynamic - her knowing how attracted I am, but *still* not allowing her to control me or giving in - peaks her curiosity more. And really, I really don't care if she judges me as gutless. The reaction I have to her is over how intense I feel. If I knew someone was going through what I am, based on the chemistry they felt with me? I would be flattered; I wouldn't see them as weak. I feel that true chemistry felt between lovers ought to make you weak. And I see her "weakness" and her fear. I saw little of that in the beginning. She was so bold; so in control. I've definitely seen that break down on several occasions. I've seen her lose control of her body and have trouble deciding what to even do when I've chosen not to break eye contact with her. And I know its really flustered her...hahahhaha. Plus I've just seen her obsessiveness. Once I saw that, I mean the cards are pretty much all on the table. And I see none of that as *real* weakness. It is just her inner world she's trying so hard to protect; and its really endearing and cute actually. Speaking hypothetically as if I were going to pursue this - She doesn't need to test anything with me, really. The connection that we have should already answer all that, and if it doesn't then I'm not interested. Because that's where its at for me; it bypasses all my criteria and it should for her as well. I demand reciprocity *especially* with such an intense dynamic. You would never want to be this on the hook with someone who wasn't equally so. Honestly, if a Scorp has to test that much, a sign renowned for your ability to just KNOW beyond reasoning, *especially* "the One
Honestly, if a Scorp has to test that much, a sign renowned for your ability to just KNOW beyond reasoning, *especially* "the One", then I think there's already a problem there.
Posted by Impulsv
U complicated things in the beginning by running from Scorpio n moving in with SO. Now ur hiding behind your child's attachment to SO which wouldn't have happened if u didn't moving with SO knowing u felt for Scorpio. U we're hoping moving in with SO would make u forget. It hasn't worked , won't work!
DONT RUN.
FACE IT
Yes it's sad ur children attached themselves to SO but children are adaptable and have survived the seperation between u n their mother. So no I don't buy it. What are u really afraid off.
Really are u willing to sentence yourself when things don't need to be this complicated.
You're right about hoping it would make me forget. And I'm afraid of alot of things:
-Hurting my daughter more would be primary.
-Hurting my SO, who I love tremendously. I think I just see love differently than you folks. All the signs probably have their own unique spin on it.
-Hurting myself spiritually and morally by doing something that is completely against what I believe to be true about love and the kind of loyalty one should have.
-taking a risk pursuing a young/guarded power-tripping Scorpio who just simply isn't evolved enough at this stage in her life to appreciate the kind of connection I'm looking for.
You're at a different stage in life, Impulsv, so you're seeing this girl through your own feelings for your bull. I don't think I'd really want to be with a Scorp in their twenties. You guys have alot of layers to shed, and dark corners to explore, etc. If I was still looking, it would be a Scorp that is 40+. I think Scorp/Taurus is good for later stages of life. And you're wrong; the separation is working. Slowly but surely. I don't expect the memory of her to fade, or my feelings for her. But I seem to be able to transform them into positives and convince myself that at this juncture, it isn't meant to be.
Posted by TaurusLovesScorpio
Honestly, if a Scorp has to test that much, a sign renowned for your ability to just KNOW beyond reasoning, *especially* "the One", then I think there's already a problem there.
A connection you have with a scorpio is best kept as a memory...... as a life partner.....that's a whole other world.....
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--"Sorry to keep referring to your angelic appearance but you look like the sweetest person on the planet. Have you ever used that stinger? "
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" Pretty shy at first and I take it Scorpio women don't respect this."
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"You know, that's the thing. Deep down, I know this girl is SO sweet. I can see the frosted side of her miniwheats. My dad (a scorpio) was a pretty intimidating man to alot of people, but to those he loved he was the most sensitive, gentle, kind/forgiving person."
Aww, so you can see the true Scorp soul. I really love that about my sign- when we truly love another person we have the ability to be selfless. When a Scorpio woman loves you she will do sweet things and good deeds for you without any expectation of reciprocation, reward, or even a thank you.