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What Taurus male thinks of Scorpio females (Page 3)
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TaurusLovesScorpio: "And stop telling me your little happy ending and giving me hope. You made me peek at her a couple of times today. Hhahahaha....Crazy thing is the synchronicity of it all. Once I make the slightest decision "I'm going to take a few peaks". We have the oddest/coincidental meeting of eyes."
I'm usually against making Taurus mad, but your challenge is too hard to be turned down. First of all, how can it be a little happy ending if I'm not even old enough to drink yet? I'm just starting my life. And if I, who have so much time, tried my best, why don't you who are already living half your life, pick up your laziness and throw it to thrash bin and get on to it! I mean, there is hope. Please remember, that in the Victorian era, it is the boy who should muster the courage and talk to the lady, not vice versa! Just because it's the modern age doesn't mean you can be so lazy. Peek her boobs! I'm getting irritated on how slow you are. I mean, try to read The Alchemist by Paulo Coelho. It's a very inspiring book. Hearts fear suffering, but no hearts suffer while trying to fulfill their dreams. Don't give up for stupid obstacles. I mean, doesn't happen often to me, that I have the coincidental meeting of the eyes. You have it, don't waste it!
I'm usually against making Taurus mad, but your challenge is too hard to be turned down. First of all, how can it be a little happy ending if I'm not even old enough to drink yet? I'm just starting my life. And if I, who have so much time, tried my best, why don't you who are already living half your life, pick up your laziness and throw it to thrash bin and get on to it! I mean, there is hope. Please remember, that in the Victorian era, it is the boy who should muster the courage and talk to the lady, not vice versa! Just because it's the modern age doesn't mean you can be so lazy. Peek her boobs! I'm getting irritated on how slow you are. I mean, try to read The Alchemist by Paulo Coelho. It's a very inspiring book. Hearts fear suffering, but no hearts suffer while trying to fulfill their dreams. Don't give up for stupid obstacles. I mean, doesn't happen often to me, that I have the coincidental meeting of the eyes. You have it, don't waste it!
TaurusLovesScorpio: "He'd make for a poor Chemical Dependency Counselor."
I agree, but this is not drugs or alcohol. This is requited love, and possibly twin flames.
They say twin flames come together after the runner gives up running because the chaser is so stubborn, or the runner stops running because he is shocked the chaser stops chasing. She stops chasing, so you, please, have a happily-ever-after. You said you needed her to stop chasing. We, people in this thread, people in the universe really, need you to stop giving up!
And they say you need to break your current relationships naturally or something(it's been awhile since I've studied twin flames; my memory has no intent to serve me well) to reunite with your twin flames.
And I'm really sad this didn't happen a few years ago. Persuasion was one of my biggest virtues, and I'm not sure persuasion is serving me as well as before.
I agree, but this is not drugs or alcohol. This is requited love, and possibly twin flames.
They say twin flames come together after the runner gives up running because the chaser is so stubborn, or the runner stops running because he is shocked the chaser stops chasing. She stops chasing, so you, please, have a happily-ever-after. You said you needed her to stop chasing. We, people in this thread, people in the universe really, need you to stop giving up!
And they say you need to break your current relationships naturally or something(it's been awhile since I've studied twin flames; my memory has no intent to serve me well) to reunite with your twin flames.
And I'm really sad this didn't happen a few years ago. Persuasion was one of my biggest virtues, and I'm not sure persuasion is serving me as well as before.
infinite: Why do you see her flirting as a weakness? When I did it, it was a way to explore my capabilities and enjoy the wonderland (Just like Alice ). Remember, she is in her early 20's. She's just having FUN!
>>>From one angle, I get it. I guess it depends on the nature of it; her flirtation is a little too overtly sexual IMO. I am flirtatious myself (Venus in Gem), but its more along the lines of humor. If a woman is constantly trying to use her sexuality on me, I kinda get offended as if she perceives all men as the same. If I can tell she's flashing her cleavage at me, I'll look her straight in the eyes only. She yaps it up with some shady individuals and I see them always lurking around her desk, walking by looking for her when she's not there like lost puppies. I have led women on, and strung them along in the past, and I take it very seriously now. It can be very hurtful if the person develops real feelings for you. Plus, its hard to take a person seriously when they are like that, because it just makes them harder to trust. On another level, I think when someone is too much like this, it can show a neediness that I can see as unattractive. If I'm looking for a partner, I can handle humorous flirtation, but if you need to arouse men sexually to have fun, I think ultimately I would pass on that. Sexuality and sexual thoughts are very powerful things IMO and I just honestly would not want to be with someone who felt the need to be surrounded by that kind of energy all the time. I think we live in a world where men are overly perverted as it is. The short answer is probably that I'm jealous and possessive. LOL.
infinite: Fun is not a weakness.
>>>I think i can be; depends on the context. It think drugs are fun. Addiction is a major weakness of mine so I need to avoid that kind of fun.
infinite; I doubt it's just on a physical level. She knows you are deeper than that, and she is probably deeper than her mask appears to be.
>>>I'm sure she is a very deep person. She's young as you say, and probably I'm too old and serious for her. Maybe one day we will meet up in an old age home or something. hahaha... Scorps have stages, which take time. The older, the better, IMO.
infinite: You have such high expectations of what she should deliver. With your demands and high expectations of what she should be, perhaps it is best not to really get to know her. It seems like you have no patience for that. You just want her to be what you've creat
>>>From one angle, I get it. I guess it depends on the nature of it; her flirtation is a little too overtly sexual IMO. I am flirtatious myself (Venus in Gem), but its more along the lines of humor. If a woman is constantly trying to use her sexuality on me, I kinda get offended as if she perceives all men as the same. If I can tell she's flashing her cleavage at me, I'll look her straight in the eyes only. She yaps it up with some shady individuals and I see them always lurking around her desk, walking by looking for her when she's not there like lost puppies. I have led women on, and strung them along in the past, and I take it very seriously now. It can be very hurtful if the person develops real feelings for you. Plus, its hard to take a person seriously when they are like that, because it just makes them harder to trust. On another level, I think when someone is too much like this, it can show a neediness that I can see as unattractive. If I'm looking for a partner, I can handle humorous flirtation, but if you need to arouse men sexually to have fun, I think ultimately I would pass on that. Sexuality and sexual thoughts are very powerful things IMO and I just honestly would not want to be with someone who felt the need to be surrounded by that kind of energy all the time. I think we live in a world where men are overly perverted as it is. The short answer is probably that I'm jealous and possessive. LOL.
infinite: Fun is not a weakness.
>>>I think i can be; depends on the context. It think drugs are fun. Addiction is a major weakness of mine so I need to avoid that kind of fun.
infinite; I doubt it's just on a physical level. She knows you are deeper than that, and she is probably deeper than her mask appears to be.
>>>I'm sure she is a very deep person. She's young as you say, and probably I'm too old and serious for her. Maybe one day we will meet up in an old age home or something. hahaha... Scorps have stages, which take time. The older, the better, IMO.
infinite: You have such high expectations of what she should deliver. With your demands and high expectations of what she should be, perhaps it is best not to really get to know her. It seems like you have no patience for that. You just want her to be what you've creat
infinite: You have such high expectations of what she should deliver. With your demands and high expectations of what she should be, perhaps it is best not to really get to know her. It seems like you have no patience for that. You just want her to be what you've created in your mind. That or nothing...
>>>That's insightful. Were you checking out my Venus aspects? Hahahah. Yeah, I do that. I just know whatever I'm resonating with inside of her is something powerful and amazing. I also know that the many masks I would have to dig through to get to it would be a disappointment. From what I pick up on the dynamic; I would push her to be less self-centered and discriminating. She would push me to be more ambitious.
VirgoSun: First of all, how can it be a little happy ending if I'm not even old enough to drink yet? I'm just starting my life. And if I, who have so much time, tried my best, why don't you who are already living half your life, pick up your laziness and throw it to thrash bin and get on to it!
>>>Well, I'm in love already, and have to be loyal to that. What kind of man would you want? Wouldn't you want to fall in love with a man that honors what you have enough to try his best to preserve it? If someone comes along and he feels a strong connection, wouldn't you want him to try to wait it out, fight it, etc.? There are many aspects to love. Yes, this girl is the most emotionally/sexually attractive woman I've run into, but who knows about her specific loyalty, or long-term compatibility. Maybe its a test to see just how loyal I am? When you are with someone for as long as I've been with my SO, you have to factor that long-term compatibility into however you're estimating your attraction or love for them. And if you feel its strong, it should carry some serious weight, even if someone more sexy and passionate comes along.
VirgoSun: Just because it's the modern age doesn't mean you can be so lazy. Peek her boobs!
>>>She doesn't really have boobs (and no, I don't mind), but I just don't do stuff like that anyway. What turns her on most is when I look her in the eyes. Very easy to see that.
VirgoSun: I'm getting irritated on how slow you are.
>>>Listen little Virgo; there's no rush. We are all going to wind up in the same place.
VirgoSun: I mean, try to read The Alchemist by Paulo Coelho. It's a very inspiring book.
>>>I have; great book. I was inspired for like 2 days after I read it, then went back to being a Taurus.
>>>Well, I'm in love already, and have to be loyal to that. What kind of man would you want? Wouldn't you want to fall in love with a man that honors what you have enough to try his best to preserve it? If someone comes along and he feels a strong connection, wouldn't you want him to try to wait it out, fight it, etc.? There are many aspects to love. Yes, this girl is the most emotionally/sexually attractive woman I've run into, but who knows about her specific loyalty, or long-term compatibility. Maybe its a test to see just how loyal I am? When you are with someone for as long as I've been with my SO, you have to factor that long-term compatibility into however you're estimating your attraction or love for them. And if you feel its strong, it should carry some serious weight, even if someone more sexy and passionate comes along.
VirgoSun: Just because it's the modern age doesn't mean you can be so lazy. Peek her boobs!
>>>She doesn't really have boobs (and no, I don't mind), but I just don't do stuff like that anyway. What turns her on most is when I look her in the eyes. Very easy to see that.
VirgoSun: I'm getting irritated on how slow you are.
>>>Listen little Virgo; there's no rush. We are all going to wind up in the same place.
VirgoSun: I mean, try to read The Alchemist by Paulo Coelho. It's a very inspiring book.
>>>I have; great book. I was inspired for like 2 days after I read it, then went back to being a Taurus.
VirgoSun: I agree, but this is not drugs or alcohol. This is requited love, and possibly twin flames.
>>>Eh, not sure I even believe in the twin flames. If she is, this twin flame is going to have to go on the backburner this time around. We'll have many more lives to meet up again, and perhaps it'll be easier if/when we aren't polar opposites.
VirgoSun: They say twin flames come together after the runner gives up running because the chaser is so stubborn, or the runner stops running because he is shocked the chaser stops chasing. She stops chasing, so you, please, have a happily-ever-after. You said you needed her to stop chasing.
>>>I DO get shocked when she stops. She's been mirroring my ignoring for weeks, and today she tried REALLY hard to completely ignore me. The office gets a little frisky on Friday and typically its our make-up day where we get a little lusty towards each other. Today she was trying SO hard to ignore me. I caught her looking once and she whipped her head away so fast, her pony tail slapped her in the face. hahahhah. I did give her a little attention today, and sure enough she did a big show at the very end of the day. Same old stuff with her sexy poses, drinking the water bottle, sticking her butt out, and looking at me every 5 secs to see if I'm watching - grinning arrogantly when she sees that I am. By now I think its just a shallow power game; she wants to know she still has that power over me, but I doubt there is much feeling behind it anymore. I gave into it a little today bc I fear her totally giving up, but its so old stale for both parties. Total dead end.
VirgoSun: We, people in this thread, people in the universe really, need you to stop giving up!
>>>So the Twin Flames can unite and we can save the universe by having amazing sex? Hhahahah....Doubtful. If my life has taught me anything, its that I have *over*emphasized my own importance.
VirgoSun: And I'm really sad this didn't happen a few years ago. Persuasion was one of my biggest virtues, and I'm not sure persuasion is serving me as well as before.
>>>Its not that Taurus is all that stubborn; we just think for ourselves and aren't always able to articulate the depth to which we've analyzed the whole situation. If we really feel you can overturn the myriad of reasons we've made a decision in light of, we'll alter our course.
>>>Eh, not sure I even believe in the twin flames. If she is, this twin flame is going to have to go on the backburner this time around. We'll have many more lives to meet up again, and perhaps it'll be easier if/when we aren't polar opposites.
VirgoSun: They say twin flames come together after the runner gives up running because the chaser is so stubborn, or the runner stops running because he is shocked the chaser stops chasing. She stops chasing, so you, please, have a happily-ever-after. You said you needed her to stop chasing.
>>>I DO get shocked when she stops. She's been mirroring my ignoring for weeks, and today she tried REALLY hard to completely ignore me. The office gets a little frisky on Friday and typically its our make-up day where we get a little lusty towards each other. Today she was trying SO hard to ignore me. I caught her looking once and she whipped her head away so fast, her pony tail slapped her in the face. hahahhah. I did give her a little attention today, and sure enough she did a big show at the very end of the day. Same old stuff with her sexy poses, drinking the water bottle, sticking her butt out, and looking at me every 5 secs to see if I'm watching - grinning arrogantly when she sees that I am. By now I think its just a shallow power game; she wants to know she still has that power over me, but I doubt there is much feeling behind it anymore. I gave into it a little today bc I fear her totally giving up, but its so old stale for both parties. Total dead end.
VirgoSun: We, people in this thread, people in the universe really, need you to stop giving up!
>>>So the Twin Flames can unite and we can save the universe by having amazing sex? Hhahahah....Doubtful. If my life has taught me anything, its that I have *over*emphasized my own importance.
VirgoSun: And I'm really sad this didn't happen a few years ago. Persuasion was one of my biggest virtues, and I'm not sure persuasion is serving me as well as before.
>>>Its not that Taurus is all that stubborn; we just think for ourselves and aren't always able to articulate the depth to which we've analyzed the whole situation. If we really feel you can overturn the myriad of reasons we've made a decision in light of, we'll alter our course.
I give up.
"What kind of man would you want? Wouldn't you want to fall in love with a man that honors what you have enough to try his best to preserve it? If someone comes along and he feels a strong connection, wouldn't you want him to try to wait it out, fight it, etc.? There are many aspects to love."
The man I would want? The only characteristic in my list is a Taurus, nothing more. No, in this kind of age, I really wouldn't care whether someone is really in love with me or just some teenage crush. More of that I want them to learn. Because with me, their dreams are definitely going to be shattered. I mean, any people in love with me will still be young, and teenagers need any lessons they can get. Learning is something emphasized in my life. but young Scorpio are never to be played with, that's something I need to learn. If someone comes along, and he feels a strong connection, I would love it if he can study something from it, even if there will be some pain inflicted. Whether he fights it, tries to wait, or whatever he wants to do, is nothing I can voice my thoughts on, if I can't interfere. But most of all, I would like everybody to follow their hearts. "for where thy treasure is, there will thy heart be also."(Matthew 6:21, Bible)
"So the Twin Flames can unite and we can save the universe by having amazing sex? Hhahahah....Doubtful. If my life has taught me anything, its that I have *over*emphasized my own importance."
I agree, twin flames will unite when it's time, not before. Everybody has over emphasized their own importance; it's really just a matter of time or lives before they stop. Arrogance is one of the seven sins, anyway.
"Its not that Taurus is all that stubborn; we just think for ourselves and aren't always able to articulate the depth to which we've analyzed the whole situation. If we really feel you can overturn the myriad of reasons we've made a decision in light of, we'll alter our course."
That's the thing about analyzing. You're bound to get some mistakes if you do it often enough, and it's learning. And I was giving a compliment actually, when I say Taurus is stubborn. Stubbornness is a virtue to me. Stubborn for me is like patience on one's beliefs. I honestly think Taurus are like children, and the mature ones are wise children. It's like Peter Pan, who can never grow up. The author is a Taurus anyway. Only children can see with perfect clarity, or so I believe. Fooling a Virgo is so much easier than fooling Taurus a
"What kind of man would you want? Wouldn't you want to fall in love with a man that honors what you have enough to try his best to preserve it? If someone comes along and he feels a strong connection, wouldn't you want him to try to wait it out, fight it, etc.? There are many aspects to love."
The man I would want? The only characteristic in my list is a Taurus, nothing more. No, in this kind of age, I really wouldn't care whether someone is really in love with me or just some teenage crush. More of that I want them to learn. Because with me, their dreams are definitely going to be shattered. I mean, any people in love with me will still be young, and teenagers need any lessons they can get. Learning is something emphasized in my life. but young Scorpio are never to be played with, that's something I need to learn. If someone comes along, and he feels a strong connection, I would love it if he can study something from it, even if there will be some pain inflicted. Whether he fights it, tries to wait, or whatever he wants to do, is nothing I can voice my thoughts on, if I can't interfere. But most of all, I would like everybody to follow their hearts. "for where thy treasure is, there will thy heart be also."(Matthew 6:21, Bible)
"So the Twin Flames can unite and we can save the universe by having amazing sex? Hhahahah....Doubtful. If my life has taught me anything, its that I have *over*emphasized my own importance."
I agree, twin flames will unite when it's time, not before. Everybody has over emphasized their own importance; it's really just a matter of time or lives before they stop. Arrogance is one of the seven sins, anyway.
"Its not that Taurus is all that stubborn; we just think for ourselves and aren't always able to articulate the depth to which we've analyzed the whole situation. If we really feel you can overturn the myriad of reasons we've made a decision in light of, we'll alter our course."
That's the thing about analyzing. You're bound to get some mistakes if you do it often enough, and it's learning. And I was giving a compliment actually, when I say Taurus is stubborn. Stubbornness is a virtue to me. Stubborn for me is like patience on one's beliefs. I honestly think Taurus are like children, and the mature ones are wise children. It's like Peter Pan, who can never grow up. The author is a Taurus anyway. Only children can see with perfect clarity, or so I believe. Fooling a Virgo is so much easier than fooling Taurus a
Impulsv: Ur missing the point of tf. It's about going back to self it clears you from fear, insecurities, false ideologies if you do the self work.
>>>You're right. And believe me, that has been happening. In fact, whenever I read about the TF stuff, my experience does match up perfectly. It brings so much to the surface - so much of my arrogance and pride. And I see so much of that in her as well; its like our egos are at war. But that is actually what they say - that the dynamic brings everything up, so it can be healed, etc. My problem with the TF stuff is I just don't know what it is based in. I've looked into where the concept came from and it seems very groundless. The whole idea of it is absurd. Two souls being split apart in order to find one another after living a ton of lives? I mean, its very creative, and it would be awesome if the cosmos actually were structured like this, but its almost too good to be true. I need some sort of basis in evidence for almost everything I believe. It impresses me that the experience matches up, but the concept seems to have no pedigree.
>>>You're right. And believe me, that has been happening. In fact, whenever I read about the TF stuff, my experience does match up perfectly. It brings so much to the surface - so much of my arrogance and pride. And I see so much of that in her as well; its like our egos are at war. But that is actually what they say - that the dynamic brings everything up, so it can be healed, etc. My problem with the TF stuff is I just don't know what it is based in. I've looked into where the concept came from and it seems very groundless. The whole idea of it is absurd. Two souls being split apart in order to find one another after living a ton of lives? I mean, its very creative, and it would be awesome if the cosmos actually were structured like this, but its almost too good to be true. I need some sort of basis in evidence for almost everything I believe. It impresses me that the experience matches up, but the concept seems to have no pedigree.
Impulsv: I'm sure the fact that ur ignoring her touches her insecurity of having to use her looks and body to get a reaction n ur not giving it to her.
>>>This is SO sad. I absolutely hate this. I think you are 100% right here and I shouldn't be so judgmental. There IS a power element to it where I think she enjoys it a little too much, but yeah, ultimately I *know* it is like the only thread of connection betw. us in her mind. That's why I try to look her in the eyes and not at her (incredible) body. It gets intense when I do that though. She is willing to just stand there and stare forever. And I don't know what to do with that? What am I supposed to do? Stare forever? It feels great, like I am almost high from it after we break, but how long can we do that? Sometimes she seems like she's almost going to start walking my way then turns. It is so STRANGE. Its amazing how BRAVE you women are with your eyes. How are you SO brave in some areas, but then curiously so shy in others? I'm starting to really believe that Scorpios are impossible to understand.
Impulsv: Not that she's shallow but that is what society has condition us women to believe that that's what men like, when real love like u describe is way more than that. As u said she can grow old n you'd see her as the most beautiful women on earth.
>>>I honestly feel like I'd *rather* meet her when we are both much older and have shed a lot of the vanity we're both afflicted with.
>>>This is SO sad. I absolutely hate this. I think you are 100% right here and I shouldn't be so judgmental. There IS a power element to it where I think she enjoys it a little too much, but yeah, ultimately I *know* it is like the only thread of connection betw. us in her mind. That's why I try to look her in the eyes and not at her (incredible) body. It gets intense when I do that though. She is willing to just stand there and stare forever. And I don't know what to do with that? What am I supposed to do? Stare forever? It feels great, like I am almost high from it after we break, but how long can we do that? Sometimes she seems like she's almost going to start walking my way then turns. It is so STRANGE. Its amazing how BRAVE you women are with your eyes. How are you SO brave in some areas, but then curiously so shy in others? I'm starting to really believe that Scorpios are impossible to understand.
Impulsv: Not that she's shallow but that is what society has condition us women to believe that that's what men like, when real love like u describe is way more than that. As u said she can grow old n you'd see her as the most beautiful women on earth.
>>>I honestly feel like I'd *rather* meet her when we are both much older and have shed a lot of the vanity we're both afflicted with.
Impulsv: It is admirable that u don't throw love away at first sign of attraction toward another woman. But is it fair for SO to be second best. To be next to you while your pinning over Scorpio 24/7.
>>>If I ignore the Scorp, and focus more on my SO, it does get easier. And its gotten better with time. Its just something I will have to work at.
Impulsv: That u are not able to give her ur all because it with another. Is it fair that she is stick years being second best wasting away her youth when she could be free to find a man who will love her like u do Scorpio. That kinda love exists n it's not u .
>>>I don't think it'll be years. Maybe 1 year at most. I think she would want me to fight this.
Impulsv: So u are not doing her any favor. Ask any woman here us you set free that man if he loved another.
>>>I think there is a free will element to love. Granted, there are some subconscious aspects, attraction in particular, but I think there is a large part of love that is a choice. I choose to stay loyal and to fight this, and try to love her through it. I think there are moments between any two people in love, where their loyalty/commitment will be tested and they'll have to fight to persevere.
>>>If I ignore the Scorp, and focus more on my SO, it does get easier. And its gotten better with time. Its just something I will have to work at.
Impulsv: That u are not able to give her ur all because it with another. Is it fair that she is stick years being second best wasting away her youth when she could be free to find a man who will love her like u do Scorpio. That kinda love exists n it's not u .
>>>I don't think it'll be years. Maybe 1 year at most. I think she would want me to fight this.
Impulsv: So u are not doing her any favor. Ask any woman here us you set free that man if he loved another.
>>>I think there is a free will element to love. Granted, there are some subconscious aspects, attraction in particular, but I think there is a large part of love that is a choice. I choose to stay loyal and to fight this, and try to love her through it. I think there are moments between any two people in love, where their loyalty/commitment will be tested and they'll have to fight to persevere.
VirgoSun: But most of all, I would like everybody to follow their hearts. "for where thy treasure is, there will thy heart be also."(Matthew 6:21, Bible)
>>>You Virgos are so cute, always trying to help people. Its admirable. If you look at that verse in context though, he is not saying to follow your heart. He is actually saying to store up treasure in heaven (which elsewhere really means to be generous towards the poor), rather than store up treasure on earth. He's saying that your heart will be with what you DO, what you feed, what you emphasize, and focus on. If you are all about worldly wealth, then your heart will be there. If you choose to serve people instead, that is where your heart will be. And that's sort of my point in all this (as I say in my last post to Impulsv). There's a choice to make in how I act and who I focus on, and my heart will follow.
VirgoSun: I honestly think Taurus are like children, and the mature ones are wise children. It's like Peter Pan, who can never grow up.
>>>Hahahah, "....for the kingdom of heaven belongs to such as these." (Matt 19:14)
>>>You Virgos are so cute, always trying to help people. Its admirable. If you look at that verse in context though, he is not saying to follow your heart. He is actually saying to store up treasure in heaven (which elsewhere really means to be generous towards the poor), rather than store up treasure on earth. He's saying that your heart will be with what you DO, what you feed, what you emphasize, and focus on. If you are all about worldly wealth, then your heart will be there. If you choose to serve people instead, that is where your heart will be. And that's sort of my point in all this (as I say in my last post to Impulsv). There's a choice to make in how I act and who I focus on, and my heart will follow.
VirgoSun: I honestly think Taurus are like children, and the mature ones are wise children. It's like Peter Pan, who can never grow up.
>>>Hahahah, "....for the kingdom of heaven belongs to such as these." (Matt 19:14)
TaurusLovesScorpio: "You Virgos are so cute, always trying to help people. Its admirable. If you look at that verse in context though, he is not saying to follow your heart. He is actually saying to store up treasure in heaven (which elsewhere really means to be generous towards the poor), rather than store up treasure on earth. He's saying that your heart will be with what you DO, what you feed, what you emphasize, and focus on. If you are all about worldly wealth, then your heart will be there. If you choose to serve people instead, that is where your heart will be. And that's sort of my point in all this (as I say in my last post to Impulsv). There's a choice to make in how I act and who I focus on, and my heart will follow."
I feel that when I help, I am helped much more than I help, though I am not a good helper at times. I thought of by following our hearts we can store our treasures in heaven, because our hearts are the keys to store more in heaven. Are you a priest or something on those lines? I thought God whispers from our hearts, to do the right thing, and by doing the right thing, we'll store more in heaven. My point is really to follow our hearts, because if at early life we're doing good, like donating to the poor and hungry, our heart will whisper to us to do the right things, the good things. I thought one of the objectives of life is to make our hearts pure, by doing what's right, and what's right is whispered by the pure hearts.
TaurusLovesScorpio: "Hahahah, "....for the kingdom of heaven belongs to such as these." (Matt 19:14)"
Then I pray Taurus Moons are also children.
I feel that when I help, I am helped much more than I help, though I am not a good helper at times. I thought of by following our hearts we can store our treasures in heaven, because our hearts are the keys to store more in heaven. Are you a priest or something on those lines? I thought God whispers from our hearts, to do the right thing, and by doing the right thing, we'll store more in heaven. My point is really to follow our hearts, because if at early life we're doing good, like donating to the poor and hungry, our heart will whisper to us to do the right things, the good things. I thought one of the objectives of life is to make our hearts pure, by doing what's right, and what's right is whispered by the pure hearts.
TaurusLovesScorpio: "Hahahah, "....for the kingdom of heaven belongs to such as these." (Matt 19:14)"
Then I pray Taurus Moons are also children.
Posted by TaurusLovesScorpio
I don't even like it if my SO says a movie star is cute/hot/etc. around me. I??ve banned some actors. If the actor is a Taurus, I'm a little more okay with it. I feel proud of the handsome bulls.
LOL...you remind me of my old Taurus high school boyfriend. He had a bunch of actors that he'd never take me to see the movies of. Apart from Scorpio Ryan Gosling, I never even knew exactly who was on his list.
Posted by TaurusLovesScorpio
That's what I like about you, IS. You are very aware of the mystical powers of Scorpios. Alot of Scorps (young ones espec.) are very unaware of their abilities.
I call bullshit on this. I keep reading everywhere about the 'mystical powers of Scorpios' but I feel like they're completely unfounded. And I feel that you especially are exaggerating what's been said to astronomical proportions because of your experience. But then again, I am a young Scorpio.
Posted by TaurusLovesScorpio
I don't think it'll be years. Maybe 1 year at most. I think she would want me to fight this.click to expand
You really do seem to want to get over this. I've started to get a real sense of tiredness in your posts nowadays. Have you mentioned this to your S.O at all? Do you even feel comfortable about mentioning all of this to her or do you think that it would be too awkward for the two of you to talk about?
And TaurusLovesScorpio, you've mentioned how this experience made you confront some negative traits of yours like pride, egoism, etc. I'm curious to know exactly HOW you feel that you've been forced to confront these. Would you mind sharing?
VirgoS: I feel that when I help, I am helped much more than I help, though I am not a good helper at times.
>>>Well, that's right in line with ancient religion *and* modern science, as the thrust of the saying "it is better to give than to receive", is supported by multiple lines of research correlating perceived happiness/well-being with charitable giving. Happiness, resilience, and even lifespan are positively correlated with volunteer work as well:
http://news.bbc.co.uk/2/hi/health/7305395.stm<BR>
http://research.chicagobooth.edu/cdr/docs/spendingmoney-norton.pdf<BR>
http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2013/08/23/volunteering-happiness-depression-live-longer_n_3804274.html<BR>
VirgoS: I thought of by following our hearts we can store our treasures in heaven, because our hearts are the keys to store more in heaven. Are you a priest or something on those lines?
>>>LOL. A priest? Hahahah! No, I do study theology and philosophy of religion though. The "heart" thing is a long discussion as it is clearly a metaphor; and I think it means something very different to modern people than it did to Biblical writers. As far as the Bible goes, the "heart" is more a seat of the will than anything (granted its an emotionally-infused will), and the Bible is not reticent about stating that it can be the wellspring of evil as well as good (Luke 6:45), is rarely some source of untainted purity (Prov. 20:9), can be "hardened" to a point where we are predisposed to ignore the truth (Eph. 4:18), and can even deceive us (Jer. 17:9). Bible aside, I think human experience dictates that we have a darker side to our nature, particularly our emotional nature, that we shouldn't always give in to.
TaurusLovesScorpio: "Hahahah, "....for the kingdom of heaven belongs to such as these." (Matt 19:14)"
Then I pray Taurus Moons are also children.
>>>I was kidding of course; On a serious note, Virgos are the most Christ-like sign in the zodiac IMO. Predisposed towards acts of service and self-sacrifice, and always willing to "take in the strays" as my Scorpio dad would say of my Virgo mom disdainfully.
>>>Well, that's right in line with ancient religion *and* modern science, as the thrust of the saying "it is better to give than to receive", is supported by multiple lines of research correlating perceived happiness/well-being with charitable giving. Happiness, resilience, and even lifespan are positively correlated with volunteer work as well:
http://news.bbc.co.uk/2/hi/health/7305395.stm<BR>
http://research.chicagobooth.edu/cdr/docs/spendingmoney-norton.pdf<BR>
http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2013/08/23/volunteering-happiness-depression-live-longer_n_3804274.html<BR>
VirgoS: I thought of by following our hearts we can store our treasures in heaven, because our hearts are the keys to store more in heaven. Are you a priest or something on those lines?
>>>LOL. A priest? Hahahah! No, I do study theology and philosophy of religion though. The "heart" thing is a long discussion as it is clearly a metaphor; and I think it means something very different to modern people than it did to Biblical writers. As far as the Bible goes, the "heart" is more a seat of the will than anything (granted its an emotionally-infused will), and the Bible is not reticent about stating that it can be the wellspring of evil as well as good (Luke 6:45), is rarely some source of untainted purity (Prov. 20:9), can be "hardened" to a point where we are predisposed to ignore the truth (Eph. 4:18), and can even deceive us (Jer. 17:9). Bible aside, I think human experience dictates that we have a darker side to our nature, particularly our emotional nature, that we shouldn't always give in to.
TaurusLovesScorpio: "Hahahah, "....for the kingdom of heaven belongs to such as these." (Matt 19:14)"
Then I pray Taurus Moons are also children.
>>>I was kidding of course; On a serious note, Virgos are the most Christ-like sign in the zodiac IMO. Predisposed towards acts of service and self-sacrifice, and always willing to "take in the strays" as my Scorpio dad would say of my Virgo mom disdainfully.
Miscreant: LOL...you remind me of my old Taurus high school boyfriend. He had a bunch of actors that he'd never take me to see the movies of. Apart from Scorpio Ryan Gosling, I never even knew exactly who was on his list.
>>>No joke...Gosling is at the top of my list. When I even think of my list, he appears instantly in my mind. Hahhaha...He wasn't on my radar for a while there and The Notebook slipped through the cracks, but then he started getting buff. I get jealous even when the commercials for his movies come on. "Oh you're gonna watch that? You're gonna watch him just standing there with his shirt off like that? You like that?!" HHHHHHhahahhahaha....Fortunately every woman I have ever been with is a jealous freak (I really only like jealous women; to me jealousy = passion), and they put up with me. I sell it really well with humor though so its really not all *that* bad. Plus its always a negotiation. I've had to make a few trades (usually decoys) to get rid of certain people. If I like a certain actress (mostly Scorps), I try my hardest not to reveal it...hahahahha.
>>>No joke...Gosling is at the top of my list. When I even think of my list, he appears instantly in my mind. Hahhaha...He wasn't on my radar for a while there and The Notebook slipped through the cracks, but then he started getting buff. I get jealous even when the commercials for his movies come on. "Oh you're gonna watch that? You're gonna watch him just standing there with his shirt off like that? You like that?!" HHHHHHhahahhahaha....Fortunately every woman I have ever been with is a jealous freak (I really only like jealous women; to me jealousy = passion), and they put up with me. I sell it really well with humor though so its really not all *that* bad. Plus its always a negotiation. I've had to make a few trades (usually decoys) to get rid of certain people. If I like a certain actress (mostly Scorps), I try my hardest not to reveal it...hahahahha.
Miscreant: I call bullshit on this. I keep reading everywhere about the 'mystical powers of Scorpios' but I feel like they're completely unfounded. And I feel that you especially are exaggerating what's been said to astronomical proportions because of your experience. But then again, I am a young Scorpio.
>>>Well I am a Leo Moon and we've been known to exaggerate for dramatic effect. But really, I think everyone has these abilities. Do you have any sort of religious or spiritual belief framework? If you don't believe in this sort of thing, you really won't have the conscious intent, which a lot of it requires, to experience or notice psychic phenomena on a level that would deviate from standard chance expectation. But there are practices (like certain types of meditation and Yoga), exercises, experiences, and experiments that make these abilities much more readily apparent. Its a long discussion probably not suited for this thread, but if you have the attention span for it, here is a two part talk by one of the leading researchers summarizing over a generation of scientific experiment:
Types of telepathy, remote viewing, clairvoyance, precognition, have been studied under very strict conditions, in very highly esteemed laboratories across the world for decades, and the positive results have been replicated over and over. Its very threatening to mainstream materialism so its controversial (even to myself at first), but IMO, the results are undeniable. Its breaking into mainstream as well (e.g. Discover magazine Mar. 2012 published an article on Cornell U. Professor of Psychology's experiments providing evidence for precognition). That said, if you watch the videos and do a little reading on it, you'll see that those with greater imagination, greater ability to focus intensely and direct their thoughts, and heightened emotional states, excel in these abilities. You can see how water signs (in different ways) would seem uniquely suited, just as astrologers say.
In my research in philosophy, the paranormal, and even neuroscience, its become clear that the mind is more than just the brain. Consciousness is not a physical thing, but more like a field, and it extends out past (and can interact with more than just) our own body. A good book on all of this, actually by a Neuroscientist who teaches at the University of Montreal, is _Brain Wars_, or you might check o
>>>Well I am a Leo Moon and we've been known to exaggerate for dramatic effect. But really, I think everyone has these abilities. Do you have any sort of religious or spiritual belief framework? If you don't believe in this sort of thing, you really won't have the conscious intent, which a lot of it requires, to experience or notice psychic phenomena on a level that would deviate from standard chance expectation. But there are practices (like certain types of meditation and Yoga), exercises, experiences, and experiments that make these abilities much more readily apparent. Its a long discussion probably not suited for this thread, but if you have the attention span for it, here is a two part talk by one of the leading researchers summarizing over a generation of scientific experiment:
Types of telepathy, remote viewing, clairvoyance, precognition, have been studied under very strict conditions, in very highly esteemed laboratories across the world for decades, and the positive results have been replicated over and over. Its very threatening to mainstream materialism so its controversial (even to myself at first), but IMO, the results are undeniable. Its breaking into mainstream as well (e.g. Discover magazine Mar. 2012 published an article on Cornell U. Professor of Psychology's experiments providing evidence for precognition). That said, if you watch the videos and do a little reading on it, you'll see that those with greater imagination, greater ability to focus intensely and direct their thoughts, and heightened emotional states, excel in these abilities. You can see how water signs (in different ways) would seem uniquely suited, just as astrologers say.
In my research in philosophy, the paranormal, and even neuroscience, its become clear that the mind is more than just the brain. Consciousness is not a physical thing, but more like a field, and it extends out past (and can interact with more than just) our own body. A good book on all of this, actually by a Neuroscientist who teaches at the University of Montreal, is _Brain Wars_, or you might check o
A good book on all of this, actually by a Neuroscientist who teaches at the University of Montreal, is _Brain Wars_, or you might check out D. H. Powell's _The ESP Enigma_. I predict you will do neither though. Hahahaha...As an aside, I've read at least one astrologer who says that the evolution of the Scorpio through their stages is in synch with their coming to an awareness of their unique spiritual and psychic abilities. How old are you?
Miscreant: You really do seem to want to get over this. I've started to get a real sense of tiredness in your posts nowadays. Have you mentioned this to your S.O at all? Do you even feel comfortable about mentioning all of this to her or do you think that it would be too awkward for the two of you to talk about?
>>>Yeah, I'm definitely exhausted. We've talked about it in general - like "what if?" scenarios. I basically think I can get through it alone at this point. I don't want to hurt her, and believe me, she would be devastated. I've considered discussing it, and really it seems more like me doing that would be an attempt to sabotage our relationship than an attempt to salvage it.
>>>Yeah, I'm definitely exhausted. We've talked about it in general - like "what if?" scenarios. I basically think I can get through it alone at this point. I don't want to hurt her, and believe me, she would be devastated. I've considered discussing it, and really it seems more like me doing that would be an attempt to sabotage our relationship than an attempt to salvage it.
Miscreant: you've mentioned how this experience made you confront some negative traits of yours like pride, egoism, etc. I'm curious to know exactly HOW you feel that you've been forced to confront these. Would you mind sharing?
>>>I saw that she plays "games", which I normally don't. So I started to game myself because I felt *challenged* by her. Once I decided to game, since I saw her big thing was reading me, I intentionally gave off mixed signals. Also, If I see someone is ego-tripping, I blow their head up even more. As an example, I think she's super hot, but I don't typically stare at women inappropriately out of respect for them. But then I saw the exhibitionist streak in her constantly strutting/posing and checking my response. So I gave her what she seemed to want. I portrayed my (real) lust on my face in very obvious ways. She couldn't contain her elation. From there she got ALL cocky, like "I have this guy". I could see it in her expressions, her little smirk/evil grin; she really felt powerful and in control. So she continued her show, and sometimes I'd respond, sometimes I'd ignore. I could tell this hurt/confused her. I'd give her just enough to keep her doing it, but take it away just enough to make her wonder if I was bored of her. Really, *I* was power tripping - exactly what *I* didn't like about her. In my mind I felt like she was trying to manipulate me with her "dance", and I started thinking along the lines of "I'm the one in control. I am making you dance for me." Not only was I power-tripping, but I realized that *I* use sex as power in a relationship constantly, just like she was trying to do to me. There's a lot more. I could list so many ways. All of my criticisms of her pride and invulnerability, really all apply to me as well. I hate her hard shell, how she acts all tough, how I *know* she really likes me but won't approach, etc. But I'm terrified by the thought of her seeing me anxious to speak with her, or desperate enough to approach her with any kind of obvious agenda.
>>>I saw that she plays "games", which I normally don't. So I started to game myself because I felt *challenged* by her. Once I decided to game, since I saw her big thing was reading me, I intentionally gave off mixed signals. Also, If I see someone is ego-tripping, I blow their head up even more. As an example, I think she's super hot, but I don't typically stare at women inappropriately out of respect for them. But then I saw the exhibitionist streak in her constantly strutting/posing and checking my response. So I gave her what she seemed to want. I portrayed my (real) lust on my face in very obvious ways. She couldn't contain her elation. From there she got ALL cocky, like "I have this guy". I could see it in her expressions, her little smirk/evil grin; she really felt powerful and in control. So she continued her show, and sometimes I'd respond, sometimes I'd ignore. I could tell this hurt/confused her. I'd give her just enough to keep her doing it, but take it away just enough to make her wonder if I was bored of her. Really, *I* was power tripping - exactly what *I* didn't like about her. In my mind I felt like she was trying to manipulate me with her "dance", and I started thinking along the lines of "I'm the one in control. I am making you dance for me." Not only was I power-tripping, but I realized that *I* use sex as power in a relationship constantly, just like she was trying to do to me. There's a lot more. I could list so many ways. All of my criticisms of her pride and invulnerability, really all apply to me as well. I hate her hard shell, how she acts all tough, how I *know* she really likes me but won't approach, etc. But I'm terrified by the thought of her seeing me anxious to speak with her, or desperate enough to approach her with any kind of obvious agenda.
TaurusLovesScorpio: "LOL. A priest? Hahahah! No, I do study theology and philosophy of religion though. The "heart" thing is a long discussion as it is clearly a metaphor; and I think it means something very different to modern people than it did to Biblical writers."
Hahah, I was kidding when I said the priest part. I mean, what kind of priest divorced? Actually, what kind of priest(I'm Catholic) even marry at the first place? Everything changes here in the modern era. Some is good, some is bad, but the world never really changes. But the good part is that women are finally rising once again. Lots of things are different than the old ages, because the Earth people are growing. I mean, a crying baby is different with an old man.
"and the Bible is not reticent about stating that it can be the wellspring of evil as well as good (Luke 6:45), is rarely some source of untainted purity (Prov. 20:9), can be "hardened" to a point where we are predisposed to ignore the truth (Eph. 4:18), and can even deceive us (Jer. 17:9). Bible aside, I think human experience dictates that we have a darker side to our nature, particularly our emotional nature, that we shouldn't always give in to."
IMO, That's why kingdom of heaven belongs to little children, because children hearts are pure. And as a dirty heart, I'm attracted to pure hearts, which is probably the reason I love Taurus sign so much, I love Taurus approximately as much as I love Virgo. Shouldn't always doesn't mean always running anyways.
—Above all though we are responsible for rein-countering at least once in every incarnation the soul mate who sure to cross our path. Even if it is only for a matter of moments, because those moments bring with them a love so intense that it justifies the rest of our days... We can also allow our soul mate to pass us by, without accepting him or her or even noticing. Then we will need another incarnation in order to find that soul mate and because of our selfishness, we will be condemned to the worst torture human kind ever invented for itself, loneliness.??
?? Paulo Coelho, Brida
Hahah, I was kidding when I said the priest part. I mean, what kind of priest divorced? Actually, what kind of priest(I'm Catholic) even marry at the first place? Everything changes here in the modern era. Some is good, some is bad, but the world never really changes. But the good part is that women are finally rising once again. Lots of things are different than the old ages, because the Earth people are growing. I mean, a crying baby is different with an old man.
"and the Bible is not reticent about stating that it can be the wellspring of evil as well as good (Luke 6:45), is rarely some source of untainted purity (Prov. 20:9), can be "hardened" to a point where we are predisposed to ignore the truth (Eph. 4:18), and can even deceive us (Jer. 17:9). Bible aside, I think human experience dictates that we have a darker side to our nature, particularly our emotional nature, that we shouldn't always give in to."
IMO, That's why kingdom of heaven belongs to little children, because children hearts are pure. And as a dirty heart, I'm attracted to pure hearts, which is probably the reason I love Taurus sign so much, I love Taurus approximately as much as I love Virgo. Shouldn't always doesn't mean always running anyways.
—Above all though we are responsible for rein-countering at least once in every incarnation the soul mate who sure to cross our path. Even if it is only for a matter of moments, because those moments bring with them a love so intense that it justifies the rest of our days... We can also allow our soul mate to pass us by, without accepting him or her or even noticing. Then we will need another incarnation in order to find that soul mate and because of our selfishness, we will be condemned to the worst torture human kind ever invented for itself, loneliness.??
?? Paulo Coelho, Brida
TaurusLovesScorpio: "I was kidding of course; On a serious note, Virgos are the most Christ-like sign in the zodiac IMO. Predisposed towards acts of service and self-sacrifice, and always willing to "take in the strays" as my Scorpio dad would say of my Virgo mom disdainfully."
Forgive my bad habit for making jokes sound serious. I honestly think, that Jesus is the combination of all best parts of astrological signs. Including Virgo though. Why would your Scorpio dad whine about it? Your Virgo mom would definitely take care from its thrash to its food shopping. Just a bit more money to save another dozen stray animal souls to waste is okay, isn't it? It's not like your Virgo mom waste money for trivial matters anyway, and souls ain't trivial matters.
Forgive my bad habit for making jokes sound serious. I honestly think, that Jesus is the combination of all best parts of astrological signs. Including Virgo though. Why would your Scorpio dad whine about it? Your Virgo mom would definitely take care from its thrash to its food shopping. Just a bit more money to save another dozen stray animal souls to waste is okay, isn't it? It's not like your Virgo mom waste money for trivial matters anyway, and souls ain't trivial matters.
TaurusLovesScorpio: I love what you wrote. I love this thread and your thoughtful consideration of the situation from all angles (hurting your SO, possible immaturity of the Scorpio, the things you hate in her being reflections of yourself, etc). I can feel your exhaustion, frustration, and doubt so clearly through what you wrote. It's also very clear after all you wrote that you aren't a creep/crazy/'nice guy'/cheater--let's be honest, this is the internet so that is my first thought--but you seem to write here just to relieve your obsession and get it out of your head for a little while.
You are worn down, stubbornly loyal to your Sag despite your pounding lust for another woman. This goes against your own strict moral standards and you hate it. To try and stop the obsession, you are pasting horrible caricatures over the Scorpio and seeing if they stick. More than anything, you're deeply frustrated with yourself--your helpless reactions, your never-ending thoughts, your uncontrollable urge to devour her, when the Scorpio might feel exactly the same about a million other men--when she is fickle, manipulative, power-hungry, a simple flirt, shallow, undiscerning--or so you say to yourself to outwit your own desires.
I can't help it, but I want to call you out. I want to give you hope. From my own happy ending. I am much younger (7 1/2 years) than my Taurus and was a very "self-centered and discriminating" girl in my early twenties when I met him. He changed that. He changed me and I surrendered to him. I was unwilling at first, I broke up with him very coldly, but he wrote long, long letters to me that sound freakishly like what you've written here, that brought me back into his arms. His writing style sounded like yours, but with this change: that he'd kissed me, felt my body's warmth and breathed me in, that I revealed myself to him, and that he wanted me entirely.
You seem to realize that you are barely holding yourself back. Your otherworldly lust for her is bound by a delicate thread and it could break in a second--you get stuck in an elevator together, you stay late in the office together, anything could happen, it would be so simple.
I guess what I'm trying to do is push you to an ultimatum. I know you are scared, and tired, and have obligations and responsibilities. And you seem to worry that love with the Scorpio will be untenable, volatile, and overwhelming---from the other side of the divide, I can report that it was, at first.
You are worn down, stubbornly loyal to your Sag despite your pounding lust for another woman. This goes against your own strict moral standards and you hate it. To try and stop the obsession, you are pasting horrible caricatures over the Scorpio and seeing if they stick. More than anything, you're deeply frustrated with yourself--your helpless reactions, your never-ending thoughts, your uncontrollable urge to devour her, when the Scorpio might feel exactly the same about a million other men--when she is fickle, manipulative, power-hungry, a simple flirt, shallow, undiscerning--or so you say to yourself to outwit your own desires.
I can't help it, but I want to call you out. I want to give you hope. From my own happy ending. I am much younger (7 1/2 years) than my Taurus and was a very "self-centered and discriminating" girl in my early twenties when I met him. He changed that. He changed me and I surrendered to him. I was unwilling at first, I broke up with him very coldly, but he wrote long, long letters to me that sound freakishly like what you've written here, that brought me back into his arms. His writing style sounded like yours, but with this change: that he'd kissed me, felt my body's warmth and breathed me in, that I revealed myself to him, and that he wanted me entirely.
You seem to realize that you are barely holding yourself back. Your otherworldly lust for her is bound by a delicate thread and it could break in a second--you get stuck in an elevator together, you stay late in the office together, anything could happen, it would be so simple.
I guess what I'm trying to do is push you to an ultimatum. I know you are scared, and tired, and have obligations and responsibilities. And you seem to worry that love with the Scorpio will be untenable, volatile, and overwhelming---from the other side of the divide, I can report that it was, at first.
(cont.)
My Taurus and I had a huge reconciling and battled for possession of each others' souls. We tested each other and failed all the tests, maybe purposefully, as another test (haha), but we were unable to go through with the intended parting, and could not resist the magnetic forces pulling us back to each other.
Now (three and a half years later) we love each other and know each other. We are each others' best friends. We're still young so who knows if it will truly last, but we have been through a lot of rough times and have taken care of each other. We have a deep, comfortable relationship although my Taurus is still sometimes a mystery to me, and vice versa. We still feel electric lust for each others' bodies--sex is ALWAYS interesting, new levels of conquest and surrender, love, passion, trust, temptation--and it's tolerable now. The lust comes in waves but the possession is always there. He is mine, I am his.
And funnily enough, I pushed him to be more ambitious, as well. Thanks to both of us, and me, we saved up enough money to move to NYC and are successfully making ends meet, and my Taurus is venturing into professional worlds and writing again--short stories, blunt and harshly beautiful ones.
That's why everything you've written is freaking me out so badly. I showed a little of what you wrote initially to my Taurus, and he thought *I* wrote it to mess with him-- that's how eerily similar it sounds to his early letters to me--and the story of his obsession and my surrender.
Figure it out, Taurus Loves Scorpio. You owe it to yourself.
My Taurus and I had a huge reconciling and battled for possession of each others' souls. We tested each other and failed all the tests, maybe purposefully, as another test (haha), but we were unable to go through with the intended parting, and could not resist the magnetic forces pulling us back to each other.
Now (three and a half years later) we love each other and know each other. We are each others' best friends. We're still young so who knows if it will truly last, but we have been through a lot of rough times and have taken care of each other. We have a deep, comfortable relationship although my Taurus is still sometimes a mystery to me, and vice versa. We still feel electric lust for each others' bodies--sex is ALWAYS interesting, new levels of conquest and surrender, love, passion, trust, temptation--and it's tolerable now. The lust comes in waves but the possession is always there. He is mine, I am his.
And funnily enough, I pushed him to be more ambitious, as well. Thanks to both of us, and me, we saved up enough money to move to NYC and are successfully making ends meet, and my Taurus is venturing into professional worlds and writing again--short stories, blunt and harshly beautiful ones.
That's why everything you've written is freaking me out so badly. I showed a little of what you wrote initially to my Taurus, and he thought *I* wrote it to mess with him-- that's how eerily similar it sounds to his early letters to me--and the story of his obsession and my surrender.
Figure it out, Taurus Loves Scorpio. You owe it to yourself.
Finally, I admire that you are remaining loyal to your Sag. As soon as I read your dismissal of the Virgo who told you to "peek her boobs" (hahahaha), you completely won me over. I'd just like to suggest you think about your relationship from your Sag's point of view. Does she want to be in a relationship with someone who's just making an effort because he's supposed to? Not because he wants to, desires to, but simply because he is limply waiting for the next life to have a relationship that speaks to his soul?? I would find that detestable. Imagine if she read what you wrote here. Think long and hard--are you wasting her time? What are you giving her besides your tired loyalty?
i was joking when i said about the boobs peek.
VirgoS: Why would your Scorpio dad whine about it? Your Virgo mom would definitely take care from its thrash to its food shopping. Just a bit more money to save another dozen stray animal souls to waste is okay, isn't it? It's not like your Virgo mom waste money for trivial matters anyway, and souls ain't trivial matters.
>>>my Scorp dad was very cautious with strangers, and very distrustful of anyone willing to take charity as, in his own pride, he would never take a "handout" of any sort. If you were in his inner circle (family and very close friends), you were treated like gold though. My Virgo mom would feed the neighborhood....but, she'd forget to feed me...hahah
VirgoS: i was joking when i said about the boobs peek.
>>>It was cute, and hilarious, particularly the way you said it. hahahahaha....
>>>my Scorp dad was very cautious with strangers, and very distrustful of anyone willing to take charity as, in his own pride, he would never take a "handout" of any sort. If you were in his inner circle (family and very close friends), you were treated like gold though. My Virgo mom would feed the neighborhood....but, she'd forget to feed me...hahah
VirgoS: i was joking when i said about the boobs peek.
>>>It was cute, and hilarious, particularly the way you said it. hahahahaha....
I8: I can't stand shady individuals or perves (and I spot them a mile away). Not sure why she likes having them around.
>>>probably makes her feel powerful; she could see them as men who have seemingly lost control (and sometimes even all sense self-respect) in the face of her beauty. I'm sure many strippers feel powerful on some level, even given the nature of most of their clientele.
I8: Or do you show your J&P cards right off the bat?
>>>Never. With Venus in Gem I feel I'm kinda adaptable. I keep a healthy harem when I'm not seeing anyone, and when the latest "the one" comes along, I feel em out. "Oh, strong friendship with you ex? Me too! We are still great friends! Huh? You don't like that? Ok, but....we can't have double standards." And we strike a deal. That sort of thing.... Hhahaaha. I'll usually have a relationship in the harem to match every scenario. If my SO is going to call me to a higher standard, I can do it, as long as they can deal with how I mirror it. And I'm actually usually more willing than they are to let the female friends linger. With Venus in Gem, we get alot out of those relationships - keeps us from being bored. I don't think my J&P is all that bad. I want to own, and to be owned. Do I want my SO hanging with people she has had sex with? Nooooot really. But, if she is gonna demand that trust, she is also going to have to lend it.
I8: And if you don't love yourself, how can you possibly love someone else.
>>>I don't know; that's what everyone says, but not sure I believe it. I have a love/hate relationship with myself. Sometimes, I am too in love with myself to the point of almost having some sort of messianic complex, and other times I hate aspects of myself and life in general. Maybe its bipolar disorder.
>>>probably makes her feel powerful; she could see them as men who have seemingly lost control (and sometimes even all sense self-respect) in the face of her beauty. I'm sure many strippers feel powerful on some level, even given the nature of most of their clientele.
I8: Or do you show your J&P cards right off the bat?
>>>Never. With Venus in Gem I feel I'm kinda adaptable. I keep a healthy harem when I'm not seeing anyone, and when the latest "the one" comes along, I feel em out. "Oh, strong friendship with you ex? Me too! We are still great friends! Huh? You don't like that? Ok, but....we can't have double standards." And we strike a deal. That sort of thing.... Hhahaaha. I'll usually have a relationship in the harem to match every scenario. If my SO is going to call me to a higher standard, I can do it, as long as they can deal with how I mirror it. And I'm actually usually more willing than they are to let the female friends linger. With Venus in Gem, we get alot out of those relationships - keeps us from being bored. I don't think my J&P is all that bad. I want to own, and to be owned. Do I want my SO hanging with people she has had sex with? Nooooot really. But, if she is gonna demand that trust, she is also going to have to lend it.
I8: And if you don't love yourself, how can you possibly love someone else.
>>>I don't know; that's what everyone says, but not sure I believe it. I have a love/hate relationship with myself. Sometimes, I am too in love with myself to the point of almost having some sort of messianic complex, and other times I hate aspects of myself and life in general. Maybe its bipolar disorder.
I8: No, I wasn't, LOL!! I was just really listening to your thought process and it sounds like it's all about you! What she can do for you, but not at all what you would do for her. But, you saying that made me curious and I did check it out, haha! Can't believe it, we have a VERY SIMILAR birthchart! Many of our planets are in the same sign. What is your ascendant?
>>>Cap Ascendant. Yeah, I saw that with our charts...interesting. I like all those Libra placements in Scorps. Really tames some of that Mars energy I think (Libra being opposite Aries, and wanting to keep the peace rather than make war). Plus I have Libra North Node (as do you) which may be why I gravitate towards Libras (my best friend and at least one lifelong mentor). With that NN, we've supposedly had heavy past-life Aries/warrior incarnations, and are here to cultivate the opposite nature (Libra). Why do you think I think its all about me though? What have I said that leads you to that? I mean, not that I am pursuing, but I do think I have alot to offer - maybe just not in assertive courtship.
i8: nyhoo... your venus aspect is the same as mine, too. It's weird. I mean, I really do crave the seductiveness of being with your soul-mate (Winona Ryder and Gary Oldman from Dracula come to mind) but I also get too exhausted by it and in end of day I just want to be with a best-friend type of soul-mate.
>>>You just spoke my mind. My SO is a best-friend soulmate for sure. And plus the sex is the best I've ever had. Its very comfortable/stable and fun. With the scorp come higher highs, but lower lows (like with drug addiction...hahaha). Doesn't it all average out at the end? Any "authority" on soulmates will tell you there can be many. Scorps, in looking for "the ONE" as some do, are really more in line with the whole Twin Flame/Twin Soul concept.
>>>Cap Ascendant. Yeah, I saw that with our charts...interesting. I like all those Libra placements in Scorps. Really tames some of that Mars energy I think (Libra being opposite Aries, and wanting to keep the peace rather than make war). Plus I have Libra North Node (as do you) which may be why I gravitate towards Libras (my best friend and at least one lifelong mentor). With that NN, we've supposedly had heavy past-life Aries/warrior incarnations, and are here to cultivate the opposite nature (Libra). Why do you think I think its all about me though? What have I said that leads you to that? I mean, not that I am pursuing, but I do think I have alot to offer - maybe just not in assertive courtship.
i8: nyhoo... your venus aspect is the same as mine, too. It's weird. I mean, I really do crave the seductiveness of being with your soul-mate (Winona Ryder and Gary Oldman from Dracula come to mind) but I also get too exhausted by it and in end of day I just want to be with a best-friend type of soul-mate.
>>>You just spoke my mind. My SO is a best-friend soulmate for sure. And plus the sex is the best I've ever had. Its very comfortable/stable and fun. With the scorp come higher highs, but lower lows (like with drug addiction...hahaha). Doesn't it all average out at the end? Any "authority" on soulmates will tell you there can be many. Scorps, in looking for "the ONE" as some do, are really more in line with the whole Twin Flame/Twin Soul concept.
I8: Sounds like you both balance each other out. Also sounds like you both don't like to be balanced... interesting...
>>>I am actually terrified of her motivating me to be more ambitious...Hahahahah...Just this interaction we have had - the energy of it - has totally made me think "Ok, time to get your shit together for real." She is VERY driven and focused. Its frightening but also inspiring and attractive. I tend to just let things come to me - bc they always have 😉.
ScorpioLovesTaurus (SLT moving fwd):you seem to write here just to relieve your obsession and get it out of your head for a little while.
>>>That's a big factor now. Expression is key for me. More than wanting to even be with her, my feelings are so intense that I mainly want to express them to her. I wrote that a while ago; still true. Since I can't really do that, I do it by writing/talking it out. I'd explode if I repressed/denied; I have to work through the emotions even if I ultimately transform them. I also wanted to open up a portal to pick the brains of Scorps. See how they reacted to me openly sharing my inner world, analyzing some of their habits, learning what I can (beyond astro books). I feel talking to other embodiments of the archetype helps me get a (very general) feel for how she might think. I have learned a ton. The sign in general just fascinates me.
SLT: I admire that you are remaining loyal to your Sag. As soon as I read your dismissal of the Virgo who told you to "peek her boobs" (hahahaha), you completely won me over.
>>>AAAAhahahaha...."peek her boobs" made me choke on my coffee this morning. Anyway, you write beautifully. Liked your story. If you can elaborate - what made you break with him initiatlly?
I'll respond fully when I have more time; I want to read this again.; you made alot of interesting points.
Also - sounds like the *intense* obsession/attraction was mainly one-sided early on. Let's say I was going to pursue this Scorp. *If* I found out she was just attracted on a surface level, I wouldn't pursue relentlessly like your bull did. I'm too proud (too much Leo in my maybe).
>>>That's a big factor now. Expression is key for me. More than wanting to even be with her, my feelings are so intense that I mainly want to express them to her. I wrote that a while ago; still true. Since I can't really do that, I do it by writing/talking it out. I'd explode if I repressed/denied; I have to work through the emotions even if I ultimately transform them. I also wanted to open up a portal to pick the brains of Scorps. See how they reacted to me openly sharing my inner world, analyzing some of their habits, learning what I can (beyond astro books). I feel talking to other embodiments of the archetype helps me get a (very general) feel for how she might think. I have learned a ton. The sign in general just fascinates me.
SLT: I admire that you are remaining loyal to your Sag. As soon as I read your dismissal of the Virgo who told you to "peek her boobs" (hahahaha), you completely won me over.
>>>AAAAhahahaha...."peek her boobs" made me choke on my coffee this morning. Anyway, you write beautifully. Liked your story. If you can elaborate - what made you break with him initiatlly?
I'll respond fully when I have more time; I want to read this again.; you made alot of interesting points.
Also - sounds like the *intense* obsession/attraction was mainly one-sided early on. Let's say I was going to pursue this Scorp. *If* I found out she was just attracted on a surface level, I wouldn't pursue relentlessly like your bull did. I'm too proud (too much Leo in my maybe).
Posted by TaurusLovesScorpio
I predict you will do neither though.
Challenge accepted.
The way you interpreted my statement about intuitive/psychic capability isn't exactly how I meant for you to read it, though. I'll PM you about this in a little bit- I don't want to derail your thread.
Posted by TaurusLovesScorpio
No joke...Gosling is at the top of my list. When I even think of my list, he appears instantly in my mind. Hahhaha...He wasn't on my radar for a while there and The Notebook slipped through the cracks, but then he started getting buff. I get jealous even when the commercials for his movies come on. "Oh you're gonna watch that? You're gonna watch him just standing there with his shirt off like that? You like that?!"
It's amazing to me how two Tauruses of different ages and possibly continents feel exactly the same way about Ryan Gosling. He really seems to make an impact on you guys 😄 I actually have a theory that Ryan Gosling was invented by the Canadian government to make sure no one fell completely in love with anyone else.
Posted by Impulsv
Ryan does nothing for me lol however hot tauro channing Tatum that's another story. Is be more concerned about him lol
Nah- when it comes to hot Taurus guys, I'd rather have Henry Cavill.
Sometimes, he's just so beautiful that I can't look directly at him.
I don't worry about the studly bulls at all. I feel like I get a little credit for them..lol. I gave my SO permission to lust during Superman.
I'd say every single one of you bulls are very handsome.
"my Scorp dad was very cautious with strangers, and very distrustful of anyone willing to take charity as, in his own pride, he would never take a "handout" of any sort. If you were in his inner circle (family and very close friends), you were treated like gold though. My Virgo mom would feed the neighborhood....but, she'd forget to feed me...hahah"
Well, your Virgo mom took enough strays and did enough charity for the whole family. Nothing to worry about.
And she never forgot to feed herself?
"my Scorp dad was very cautious with strangers, and very distrustful of anyone willing to take charity as, in his own pride, he would never take a "handout" of any sort. If you were in his inner circle (family and very close friends), you were treated like gold though. My Virgo mom would feed the neighborhood....but, she'd forget to feed me...hahah"
Well, your Virgo mom took enough strays and did enough charity for the whole family. Nothing to worry about.
And she never forgot to feed herself?
:/ if u are over her (scorp)...and decided to stay with ur SO (Sag?) why is ur username "TaurusLovesScorpio"?? just wondering.....
Posted by aftershine
:/ if u are over her (scorp)...and decided to stay with ur SO (Sag?) why is ur username "TaurusLovesScorpio"?? just wondering.....
Over her? Not sure that *can* ever happen. Just making a decision not to pursue. I'm in the office right now hiding behind my monitor. The vortex of seduction that is this woman, is 30 feet away from me right now, and my spirit, having been sucked clear out of my body, is trying to twist my neck so I'll catch a glimpse of her and be hypnotized once again. I'm considering therapy at this point. I have no idea how to change my name on here. Apparently you have to create a new account. I tried to do that as TLS (which could also be TaurusLovesSagittarius) several times, but I never get the actual confirmation email. Help?
Posted by VirgoSunTaurusMoon
I'd say every single one of you bulls are very handsome.
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Ha...I think you just have it bad for bulls (like alot of Virgos I've met). Especially with that Taurus moon, you are in some trouble.
oh my :O
She clearly left a "mark" on you.....its a rare for taureans to lose control like you did over this lady...yeah you should consider therapy, def
But suppose you didnt have your SO and you were single...then you met this lady (scorp) who had this "power" over you....would you have pursued her?
She clearly left a "mark" on you.....its a rare for taureans to lose control like you did over this lady...yeah you should consider therapy, def
But suppose you didnt have your SO and you were single...then you met this lady (scorp) who had this "power" over you....would you have pursued her?
I never had it bad with bulls. The people I have it bad for are all Virgos(I have a weakness on people who are working extremely hard on something good with good purpose) and one extra Libra.
But a psychic once said to me my mate is going to be a Taurus.. This Taurus moon doesn't get me interested in you bulls.. Bulls attract me with a weak magnet, but other Virgins attract me like bee to honey.
And why change your username when it's obvious you still like the Scorpio more than that Sagittarius really? Your failure to change your username might be an omen.
Imagine your future with the Scorp.. and your future with the Sag. Skip the other negative factors. If the Sag is easier to see, is this what you really want?
But a psychic once said to me my mate is going to be a Taurus.. This Taurus moon doesn't get me interested in you bulls.. Bulls attract me with a weak magnet, but other Virgins attract me like bee to honey.
And why change your username when it's obvious you still like the Scorpio more than that Sagittarius really? Your failure to change your username might be an omen.
Imagine your future with the Scorp.. and your future with the Sag. Skip the other negative factors. If the Sag is easier to see, is this what you really want?
Posted by TaurusLovesScorpio
I'll respond fully when I have more time; I want to read this again.; you made alot of interesting points.
...*taps fingers impatiently*
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SLT: I can feel your exhaustion, frustration, and doubt so clearly through what you wrote.
>>>That's one of the reasons I am trying to quit the situation. I felt SO good at one point - particularly in the beginning. The initial infatuation was quite literally intoxicating. I wish I could bottle it and sell it. I've never felt so alive. The music I was listening to during that time period is like permanently tagged with the most potent emotional memories of how I felt about her, I honestly can't even listen to it or I start slipping back. But somewhere it got really dark and painful, *maybe* with how I pulled back being a major factor here, but still. I saw her hot/cold game (even if it as mirroring mine), I saw her attempted indifference, and really ALL the mirroring is so exhausting. How can you ever get to know *the* person, if all they do is mirror you? I think I made my decision when I started approaching what seemed like more good experiences than bad. The low days were too much for me. And I'm starting to suspect that that is just how it is with these two signs. How can you have a good relationship with two super stubborn, competitive, proud people? Someone has to cave. Both instinctively feel its a sign of weakness to do so.
SLT: I broke up with him very coldly, but he wrote long, long letters to me that sound freakishly like what you've written here
>>>I kinda felt like I would *ultimately* have to fight for her if I did pursue, even if she gave the appearance of being already smitten initially. Its just not something I'm used to. I'm used to it being really simple and straightforward (Cancers, Leos, Sags).
>>>That's one of the reasons I am trying to quit the situation. I felt SO good at one point - particularly in the beginning. The initial infatuation was quite literally intoxicating. I wish I could bottle it and sell it. I've never felt so alive. The music I was listening to during that time period is like permanently tagged with the most potent emotional memories of how I felt about her, I honestly can't even listen to it or I start slipping back. But somewhere it got really dark and painful, *maybe* with how I pulled back being a major factor here, but still. I saw her hot/cold game (even if it as mirroring mine), I saw her attempted indifference, and really ALL the mirroring is so exhausting. How can you ever get to know *the* person, if all they do is mirror you? I think I made my decision when I started approaching what seemed like more good experiences than bad. The low days were too much for me. And I'm starting to suspect that that is just how it is with these two signs. How can you have a good relationship with two super stubborn, competitive, proud people? Someone has to cave. Both instinctively feel its a sign of weakness to do so.
SLT: I broke up with him very coldly, but he wrote long, long letters to me that sound freakishly like what you've written here
>>>I kinda felt like I would *ultimately* have to fight for her if I did pursue, even if she gave the appearance of being already smitten initially. Its just not something I'm used to. I'm used to it being really simple and straightforward (Cancers, Leos, Sags).
SLT: This goes against your own strict moral standards and you hate it.
>>>Definitely the hardest part of this - the inner moral conflict. To have to lay next to my SO at times when I can't get *her* out of my head. To feel bothered by her touch, kiss, and affection in general bc my mind is elsewhere. But I have worked at keeping that connection. I've found that a lot of eye contact, sex (even when I didn't want to), and just physical affection has strengthened the bond betw. me and my SO when I felt it was waning bad. On some weekends (more lately), I've even felt the balance shift back by Sunday night to where I feel she's where she should be in my heart. But then the presence of the Scorp, come Monday, does its work all over again. I know it will be easier and things will get better when I'm away from her, but its impossible to *want* that.
SLT:Your otherworldly lust for her is bound by a delicate thread and it could break in a second--you get stuck in an elevator together, you stay late in the office together, anything could happen, it would be so simple.
>>>Hahahah...Yeah, she won't make the move though. I *know* that now. And neither will I so I think we are safe. We've both been like the last people to leave the office at times, and still its just stares.
SLT: we were unable to go through with the intended parting, and could not resist the magnetic forces pulling us back to each other.
>>>yes, its a force of nature, because for *both* of us, I believe, all rationality says this is stupid and pointless and not happening, yet the dance persists. In fact, the more I hide/run lately, the closer she is getting into my personal space. She's popped up in ways she never has before, right at my desk, and I have been a ghost.
>>>Definitely the hardest part of this - the inner moral conflict. To have to lay next to my SO at times when I can't get *her* out of my head. To feel bothered by her touch, kiss, and affection in general bc my mind is elsewhere. But I have worked at keeping that connection. I've found that a lot of eye contact, sex (even when I didn't want to), and just physical affection has strengthened the bond betw. me and my SO when I felt it was waning bad. On some weekends (more lately), I've even felt the balance shift back by Sunday night to where I feel she's where she should be in my heart. But then the presence of the Scorp, come Monday, does its work all over again. I know it will be easier and things will get better when I'm away from her, but its impossible to *want* that.
SLT:Your otherworldly lust for her is bound by a delicate thread and it could break in a second--you get stuck in an elevator together, you stay late in the office together, anything could happen, it would be so simple.
>>>Hahahah...Yeah, she won't make the move though. I *know* that now. And neither will I so I think we are safe. We've both been like the last people to leave the office at times, and still its just stares.
SLT: we were unable to go through with the intended parting, and could not resist the magnetic forces pulling us back to each other.
>>>yes, its a force of nature, because for *both* of us, I believe, all rationality says this is stupid and pointless and not happening, yet the dance persists. In fact, the more I hide/run lately, the closer she is getting into my personal space. She's popped up in ways she never has before, right at my desk, and I have been a ghost.
SLT: I'd just like to suggest you think about your relationship from your Sag's point of view. Does she want to be in a relationship with someone who's just making an effort because he's supposed to?
>>>Honestly, I get bored in every relationship and have to put in effort to keep things exciting and evolving. The good part about my SO is she can't intuitively tell I'm bored. I feel, with a Scorp, she would just easily be able to tell where I was at emotionally. That could be bad for me. I am loyal, but I'm not always emotionally engaged/present. Its just part of my nature, and I think most men deal with this. Once we *have* you completely, the thrill of the hunt is gone. I'm *always* going to have to hold on during those times. If I follow my emotions only, no relationship will ever last for me. But its not just because I'm supposed to. It really is because she's worthy. She's loving/affectionate, gorgeous, a great cook, great in bed and down for whatever, great with my kid, funny, etc. Honestly, I deserve far less. My emotions may lead me to want to stray, but it would be foolish and potentially disastrous.
>>>Honestly, I get bored in every relationship and have to put in effort to keep things exciting and evolving. The good part about my SO is she can't intuitively tell I'm bored. I feel, with a Scorp, she would just easily be able to tell where I was at emotionally. That could be bad for me. I am loyal, but I'm not always emotionally engaged/present. Its just part of my nature, and I think most men deal with this. Once we *have* you completely, the thrill of the hunt is gone. I'm *always* going to have to hold on during those times. If I follow my emotions only, no relationship will ever last for me. But its not just because I'm supposed to. It really is because she's worthy. She's loving/affectionate, gorgeous, a great cook, great in bed and down for whatever, great with my kid, funny, etc. Honestly, I deserve far less. My emotions may lead me to want to stray, but it would be foolish and potentially disastrous.
SLT: Not because he wants to, desires to, but simply because he is limply waiting for the next life to have a relationship that speaks to his soul?? I would find that detestable.
>>>Isn't there something honorable about how I'm fighting for her though? I'm committed to her in this life. Speaking of multiple lives, the most vivid dream I had about the Scorp was in some European castle in a previous century, at a wedding banquet of sorts. There was a table with her family and she was at the head - a total spoiled brat. She was pissed at me, and her family ushered me over to placate her. I remember the distinct personalities of her family. How her dad was sick and tired of her, and they had a very strained relationship. How she basically ruled over the family, and her older sister did everything to appease her. She was pouting, refusing to look at me. One look in the eyes is all it took to win her over. It was magical when our eyes met. And then we went for a walk, where she fell, and I wound up carrying her like a child through this beautiful garden. The crazy part is that my SO was at a parallel table inside, waiting for me to choose her in some manner. And I overlooked her, even though it went against what she, and her entire family expected. It was scandalous. I never remember my dreams and have never had a dream so vivid. Maybe, if what the psychics said about being with the Scorp in a past life is true, my karmic debt is to my SO? Just a thought.
SLT: Imagine if she read what you wrote here. Think long and hard--are you wasting her time? What are you giving her besides your tired loyalty?
>>>Not much honestly. She's really easy to please. All she seems to want is good sex. Hahahhaha....
>>>Isn't there something honorable about how I'm fighting for her though? I'm committed to her in this life. Speaking of multiple lives, the most vivid dream I had about the Scorp was in some European castle in a previous century, at a wedding banquet of sorts. There was a table with her family and she was at the head - a total spoiled brat. She was pissed at me, and her family ushered me over to placate her. I remember the distinct personalities of her family. How her dad was sick and tired of her, and they had a very strained relationship. How she basically ruled over the family, and her older sister did everything to appease her. She was pouting, refusing to look at me. One look in the eyes is all it took to win her over. It was magical when our eyes met. And then we went for a walk, where she fell, and I wound up carrying her like a child through this beautiful garden. The crazy part is that my SO was at a parallel table inside, waiting for me to choose her in some manner. And I overlooked her, even though it went against what she, and her entire family expected. It was scandalous. I never remember my dreams and have never had a dream so vivid. Maybe, if what the psychics said about being with the Scorp in a past life is true, my karmic debt is to my SO? Just a thought.
SLT: Imagine if she read what you wrote here. Think long and hard--are you wasting her time? What are you giving her besides your tired loyalty?
>>>Not much honestly. She's really easy to please. All she seems to want is good sex. Hahahhaha....
Posted by ImpulsvPosted by braindeadtauro
I work with a wonderful one also. Meeting her was like having your favorite comfort food from childhood. I've been traversing the sea of Aquas, Cancers, and Arians but the familiar feeling of my old loves resurfaced. Just as good as I remember. Big heart, sweet, a little sultry with the deceptive simplicity. The connection was immediate and magnetic but all my old insecurities are back just like that. While time has made me more humane it has not tempered my wandering eye and I just cannot do it to such a sweetheart. I feel horrible because I know she is waiting for me to take things to the next level. The connection is obvious to everyone else and I even overheard them talking. I don't know what the hell to do.
So is the insecurity not being able to be faithful ever or just with her Despite this connection ?
I mean having a wondering eye is normal for every man the difference is will u cross it.
Maybe u need to have a little more faith on your character if that's the only thing holding you back from Scorpio.
But then again if you know urself incapable of fidelity then your making the right decision.
But the fact ur stating u don't know what to do tells me the connection is there but perhaps fear of your daemons is only holding you back. Maybe rightfully so or maybe u maybe surprised that those daemons don't define you.click to expand
I know myself. I'd give a 10% probability of me not cheating in the first 6 months. Being generous.
Posted by Impulsv
Vainth yes it's very complementing duo
Briandeadtauro
We are sweethearts but we are not weak. Remember Scorpio has tough external shell." You wouldn't do that to a sweet heart. "
Don't worry we get over it. My motto is anyone is free to go if they find someone else that can love em better, at any point! Yes it will hurt but I won't die. So briandeadtauro give a try u might be surprised.
I know you guys are not weak but you are more sentimental than you let on. You never forget betrayal from someone you really care about.
Anyway we are going out soon. I am not sure how things will turn out. If it seems like things will keep going further I suppose I will just lay all my cards on the table.
Posted by ImpulsvPosted by braindeadtauroPosted by Impulsv
Vainth yes it's very complementing duo
Briandeadtauro
We are sweethearts but we are not weak. Remember Scorpio has tough external shell." You wouldn't do that to a sweet heart. "
Don't worry we get over it. My motto is anyone is free to go if they find someone else that can love em better, at any point! Yes it will hurt but I won't die. So briandeadtauro give a try u might be surprised.
I know you guys are not weak but you are more sentimental than you let on. You never forget betrayal from someone you really care about.
Anyway we are going out soon. I am not sure how things will turn out. If it seems like things will keep going further I suppose I will just lay all my cards on the table.
Is it safe to say u obviously care for her as with other woman ud have no problem behaving in your player ways. Is it safe to say u doubt u can be faithful as you have never really tried it?
I maybe completely wrong but I do sense u view her differently from other ladies given ur confusion.
What if there was an agreement no lies, no promises. The moment u feel another woman will love u better than her or u want out, ur free to go. Same with her. As adults No drama no heart break. As long as u give it your best, all in for once, n exclusive to see how compatible u really are.
In reality every relationship are only in the now as the future no one can predict. Some people are meant to be part of ur life for a long time others shorter. But if u enjoy each other's moment for however long it must be without lies, n promises that u can't keep I think it's a win win😉click to expand
I love a lot about her. She is someone I hope to always have in my life. I would never do anything to hurt her in any way. She is one in a million.
One of my main hangups is that I think I MAY have found my other half, another Taurus but distance is currently a factor. We don't see each other very often but when we do I feel like I don't want to be with anyone else.
The Scorpio reminds me a lot of my first love, another Scorpio. The chemistry when we are together is electric.
But when I am with her I find it difficult to picture a future. I would not want to use her because
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does this describe you? You are fun-loving and outgoing, although you do tend to require plenty of me time, and whe
This friend of mine is always seeking to grab attention of any male, wether he's your friend, bf or husband. She only go
Just curious to see what you guys think of this: I had an ex-girlfriend (Scorpio Sun/Moon/and Rising) invite me to he
Hi, Can someone help me here ? I am a Scorpio woman and have been trying to get into a long term relationship since
Hello to all my wonderful SCORPs. I read this statement in another forum: Ive always envied scorpio girls for be
A guy kinda jokingly maybe not so jokingly say I put up with so much with you, I am writing down all the thank yous he
I finally just texted this girl I've been going nuts about... I asked if it was okay if I call her after I got done with
Just curious.... it is such a fad I was wondering what real women think hehe
In your experience or observations, would you say Scorpio women go after the man they want? For me, when I find the man
I must apologise for two things. 1. Disrespecting Scorpio women. Regardless of my opinion about them, you guys do not
The rules are simple. Number and list the following characteristics of a man in order of importance to YOU. -SEXUAL A
Well, my birthday is coming up in 12 days, and as usual I have no friends(well one on the other side of the United State
So basically I have a Scorp girl friend who has mentioned to me before that she likes to keep her friends separate. As a
Do you think were compatible ? MY SCORPIO FEMALE Zodiac in degrees 0.00 Sun Scorpio 2.59 Moon Virgo 7
Do you really want to be left alone? WTF is with the absolute SHUT down and coldness. That's hard to deal w/ ya know ;).
My cousin/bestfriend is a scorpio and he and I are soulmates, if it wasn't the fact that it is INCEST and that we are both straight males. Other than that, we've experienced the best times in life together, to the point where together we are an unstoppable duo. We literally carry eachother's weaknesses and strengths, only problem is we like boobs and ass, and are cousins.
Gonna go FIND MY SCORPIO WOMAN NOW.