When a Taurus likes you..

Is it normal for them to see their potential mate as a "need." As in once they decide they are into you, they need you, want you, must have you kind of thing? It sort of seems that way to me, but I was wondering if this is common.

Posted by RollergirlOrc
Is it normal for them to see their potential mate as a "need." As in once they decide they are into you, they need you, want you, must have you kind of thing? It sort of seems that way to me, but I was wondering if this is common.

Your sentence is vague. please be more specific.

^^As in they decide that they absolutely need you in their life and without you, they'd suffer or be unhappy. It's slightly different then enjoying someone's company that their life revolves around their partner, but that Taurus fears losing someone they like (even if nothing indicates a potential loss).

Posted by RollergirlOrc
^^As in they decide that they absolutely need you in their life and without you, they'd suffer or be unhappy. It's slightly different then enjoying someone's company that their life revolves around their partner, but that Taurus fears losing someone they like (even if nothing indicates a potential loss).

Emotions without stability is a fleeting intuition.
When it's warm, it's beautiful, but without any real tangible structure, it loses its luster.
So there is no potential fear of loss, depending on the Bull, just a hedonistic 'ego' stemmed from an unwillingness to let go.

However,

If those emotions are nurtured, and there is great potential for stability, then that euphoric state becomes heightened, a collage of butterflies, peace, and a consistent melodic movement accompanied by feelings of ambiguity, love and jealousy. Despite it's contradictory nature, this feeling is raw, pure, and altruistic. Unconditional. Selfless.

The 'possessiveness' of a Taurus, when their intentions are pure and altruistic, stems from a fear of loss.

The possessiveness of a Taurus, when their intentions are disingenuous, stems from a hedonistic ego, wanting what is readily available to them...an act that would never bring them fulfillment or a long term commitment. [See 'Harem']

So... When they like to the point of NEED, they really like you? I spose so. Curious because I've been told i was 'needed' Taurus before and got scared/slightly confused because of commitment problems on my end.