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Why am I only attracted to jerks?
You're immature.
I think that's pretty common.Maybe we just seek validation from places we don't see it coming.We may often not realize it though.I dunno how much this is true- "you attract what you are" Can't be true.Can it?
You're not the only one. Trust me, gurh.
I think it's ur Venus in Gemini in you. .. I feel you completely
I don't always get attracted to jerks. I once got really attracted to this jerk. In fact I didn't like him at one point. Nobody liked him because he'd always threaten people and do stupid stuff to piss off people. But I fell for him and it was the best fall ever. I got to see a side of him that I never would've. Maybe you see through people and know there's a good side to them and crave to unlock it or you just want people you can't have because that's just how things work.
Posted by usernameqwerLow self-esteem.
Why am I only attracted to jerks?
I'm a Taurus sun, Libra Moon, Gemini Venus, Cancer Mars, Aries Mercury.
I'm just interested in guys who act like jerks or dont like me. I want to pursue them but they either dont like me or we have different goals in a relationship so relationship or dating...
I don't like guys who like me. I think they are boring and submissive.
If someone LIKES you, then something must be wrong with them.
Posted by PalerioIdk... there's a lot to be said for recognizing and admitting that stuff.
You're immature.click to expand
🙂
Posted by SassyKiwi
I got to see a side of him that I never would've. Maybe you see through people and know there's a good side to them and crave to unlock it
This!! I can totally relate to this.I always believe(or would like to believe) this so-called jerks have some very good/sensitive side to them which I always crave to unlock.I've been successful many times too.Also I very much love the whole process of unlocking.It fascinates me so much.
Women want what they can't have. That's why 95% are never satisfied in life. It's probably why they live longer too.
Posted by MontgomeryImmature in a good way, she just need to live a bit longer 🙂Posted by usernameqwerLow self-esteem.
Why am I only attracted to jerks?
I'm a Taurus sun, Libra Moon, Gemini Venus, Cancer Mars, Aries Mercury.
I'm just interested in guys who act like jerks or dont like me. I want to pursue them but they either dont like me or we have different goals in a relationship so relationship or dating...
I don't like guys who like me. I think they are boring and submissive.
If someone LIKES you, then something must be wrong with them.
Posted by PalerioIdk... there's a lot to be said for recognizing and admitting that stuff.
You're immature.
🙂click to expand
She's clearly trying to find a genuine and confident good guy, a manly guy with a soft interior, who in the end is I guess what every woman at a certain point of her life wants. The problem is that at her age, and I would imagine she's young (late teen/early twenties), the whole package is rare, almost impossible to find, guys are either very insecure/almost awkward or jerks, so it's natural for her to like these latter, not to mention she's a Taurus and a doormat won't be enough in any case... She simply doesn't know how to attract the kind of guy she's looking for, she wants someone she can't spot in the crowd atm; furthermore, a guy who's got everthing going on doesn't remain on the market for long, the window is narrow.
Therefore she needs to be receptive and steal him before some other girl does it. She's just not ready yet, nothing really knew, we all went through the same butter.
Posted by busyeyes88You must be really strong while successful with guys!!! 🙂 And you're of course right with stop pursue!Posted by usernameqwerYou should not be pursuing guys!! The ones you chase and who escape you are the ones who prefer to pursue. Stop pursing men and they will come to you. Pursuance just reads as "desperation"!! Set your goals in life and pursue those. The rest will follow.
I'm a Taurus sun, Libra Moon, Gemini Venus, Cancer Mars, Aries Mercury.
I'm just interested in guys who act like jerks or dont like me. I want to pursue them but they either dont like me or we have different goals in a relationship so relationship or dating...
I don't like guys who like me. I think they are boring and submissive.click to expand
Posted by usernameqwerYour a disgrace to all tauruses.
I'm a Taurus sun, Libra Moon, Gemini Venus, Cancer Mars, Aries Mercury.
I'm just interested in guys who act like jerks or dont like me. I want to pursue them but they either dont like me or we have different goals in a relationship so relationship or dating...
I don't like guys who like me. I think they are boring and submissive.
Guys should fall for u ! Seems like i need to teach u a lesson in private.
My dad and I are ok. I'm more close to my mom than to my dad. My dad is a Virgo.
Well, I'm not interested in jerks like real jerks, but I mean nice, smart guys who put challenges on me to kind of make me chase them; who are not always available. Those who always try to do what I want make me bored.
Well, I'm not interested in jerks like real jerks, but I mean nice, smart guys who put challenges on me to kind of make me chase them; who are not always available. Those who always try to do what I want make me bored.
Which signs have you been dating?
& you really have to know what you need and can tolerate. And lucky we Taurus know at a young age what is acceptable and not...
& you really have to know what you need and can tolerate. And lucky we Taurus know at a young age what is acceptable and not...
Its too much air or wishy washy bullshit and one can't always satisfy you..
It is okay to have different goals but are willing to work it out if you want it too..
It is okay to have different goals but are willing to work it out if you want it too..
Posted by FirstDecanTaurianWomen0428I just dated 1 Libra. Now, I'm interested in 1 super smart, experienced in life Virgo, he liked me too but he doesnt believe in commitment so dating or relationship doesnt work out for us. I'm also interested in an upper class Cancer guy, but I guess he is not interested in me. :/
Which signs have you been dating?
& you really have to know what you need and can tolerate. And lucky we Taurus know at a young age what is acceptable and not...
Hm for Taurus...
Astrology wise. Virgo and Cancer are compatible with Taurus. And less Libra..
Try Sagittarius, Aquarius, Gemini, and Leo males next. On the astrology experience..
Try each sign and experience what you like. Except the previous ones. And not everyone has the same placements. So try and live and learn..
Then come back here and tell us of all the signs that are worth it in realistic way. Lol..
Astrology wise. Virgo and Cancer are compatible with Taurus. And less Libra..
Try Sagittarius, Aquarius, Gemini, and Leo males next. On the astrology experience..
Try each sign and experience what you like. Except the previous ones. And not everyone has the same placements. So try and live and learn..
Then come back here and tell us of all the signs that are worth it in realistic way. Lol..
Posted by GobshiteAnd detached Venus in Gemini. Always craving the excitement of the chase.
It's your superficial Libra moon, plain and simple.
If you find that the guys you like are constantly turning you down, then you should probably reassess how you are conducting yourself in the presence of them. If you have low self-esteem, it could be you give off that vibe, without realizing it.
Mercury squaring your Mars.
Posted by usernameqwerHow's your parents relationship with one another. Usually we seek out dysfunctional people (in your case jerks) because we've experienced or witnessed dysfunctional people and relationships during our childhood. It's the whole endless cycle bit.
My dad and I are ok. I'm more close to my mom than to my dad. My dad is a Virgo.
Well, I'm not interested in jerks like real jerks, but I mean nice, smart guys who put challenges on me to kind of make me chase them; who are not always available. Those who always try to do what I want make me bored.
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I don't like guys who like me. I think they are boring and submissive.