Why do you do this?

When ever I talk about things he does wrong....he just throws things back only thing i did wrong....saying that he swallow more than me.

when i am the one taking his crap.

how do i get him to taste his own mistake— He still talks to this girl he cheated with when he was with his ex gf. what am i suppose to think.....then he turn around and throws one mistake i did...what in the world is this about....Guilty!!! —? I have apologised and even done what he asked me to do...so why cant he tell me why in the world he has to speak to her.......

should i quit...or carry on but do the same he is doing to me.

i have given him everything and he knows he mean a lot to me.....this is why he treat me like this.....

aaaaaaaaaaaaaa.....i am going mad

Get a grip on life and stop moaning so much, it's not healthy.

well he texts this girl he cheated with on his ex still and i questioned why? coz they r not in uni together or working together then why— is this wrong for me to ask??

When ever i bring her up we have a big fight and he gets ready to leave me...but he would never say that he'll stop talking to her where as he had problem with a friend of mine who lives in USA 1000 n 1000 of miles away that i flirt with him...big fooking deal it means nothing....but to please my bull i stopped talking to that friend and now when i have a same problem he cant do the same....

he nevers answer my question...just attacks me with you go flirt with your america boy....then blames me for make this so worse...he would say so many hurtful things its tears my heart....

now today on V'day i booked my tickets to go to ireland to see him as its our 1 yr celebration as well....its been 38 hr since we spoke and he wanted me to come over but since i mentioned that girl...he told me well i am busy coz i am gona be with her so dont have time for you....now my tickets are book what the hell should i do.......

My my Fishworry...........so he's in MY country - Ireland:-) and he's treating you so badly - tut tut.........is he an Irish guy or is he a foreign national here— Just wondering......you've now got to become a very very brave lady and do "brave-heart" stuff. You get on your plane and you arrive in Ireland....you book in somewhere nice...you don't go straight to his.....get yourself settled and dollied up:-) You then give him a call telling him you're here at such and such. If he likes to come meet with you, fine, he's most welcome. If he can't no problem!!!...you've some other old friends to look up here anyway:-) (ain't necessarily so!!!!but he need never know!!!....) If he wants you to go to his, you stand your ground polietely saying - no you'd prefer to meet on neutral territory:-)

And then my lovely lady, you've got to bide your time, if he does appear, then the doors are open so that you can at least chat and discuss your highs and lows!!!!

If he doens't then, I'm afraid, he's just not into you - and you accept the hurt and achy breaky heart and then you go out and have the bestest time in Ireland you can imagine....the people here are friendly, very friendly and if all else fails, you give me a ring and we can hit the town and paint it red!!!:-)

Now there's a challenge to you Fishy:-)

Will pm you in a while.

Best wishes.

Alana x

"When ever I talk about things he does wrong"

NEVER do this to a bull. grrrrrrrrrr