Why r they so confusing...?

Understanding Mixed Signals in Relationships

Feeling confused about his behavior may stem from unclear intentions or emotional distance. It is common for people to act inconsistently when they are uncertain or dealing with their own feelings. Open communication can clarify your relationship status and help you understand his true feelings.

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Kari28
@Kari28
12 Years

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I miss him so much! We started talking around feb and everything was going great till mid May when I felt like he was changing. Around June I asked him what are were and he quickly got defensive and said we were just friends. I was so hurt that I disappeared and stop talking to me. And the one thing that made it worse was on my birthday he didn't even text or call me when I was there for him on his. I sometimes wonder if he still thinks about me as I do.
😢
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Roam
@Roam
11 Years

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Posted by Kari28
I miss him so much! We started talking around feb and everything was going great till mid May when I felt like he was changing. Around June I asked him what are were and he quickly got defensive and said we were just friends. I was so hurt that I disappeared and stop talking to me. And the one thing that made it worse was on my birthday he didn't even text or call me when I was there for him on his. I sometimes wonder if he still thinks about me as I do.
😢

Sounds like he had you on his team and found a starting player.
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cancergoddess143
@cancergoddess143
11 Years500+ Posts

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Posted by Kari28
I miss him so much! We started talking around feb and everything was going great till mid May when I felt like he was changing. Around June I asked him what are were and he quickly got defensive and said we were just friends. I was so hurt that I disappeared and stop talking to me. And the one thing that made it worse was on my birthday he didn't even text or call me when I was there for him on his. I sometimes wonder if he still thinks about me as I do.
😢



There is no reason to be confused. This happened to me before with a Taurus. We dated for almost 4 months then that was it. It didn't work out. I moved on and there was no confusion. He doesn't owe you anything and nor do you owe him anything. 4 months is not enough time to develop a deep friendship with someone. You two were in the trial period and still getting to know each other. Either way, move on. He sure has and probably is not thinking about you. Sorry 😢