Why was he shaking?

Are you in a relationship? if so,for how long?
Has he done this kind of thing before?

Well,the difference between us is,he wouldn't have even gotten in my door...let alone sex and a gift.
:/

If you feel you can talk to him about it,then do so.While you're at, it be firm on the fact you EXPECT it NOT to happen again.
Then if it does ever happen again...he doesn't respect you and you need to respect yourself enough to curb him.
And please,don't ever reward a man for bad behavior with sex and gifts.

Bulls (and bullettes) have to respect someone.It's a requirement with us.
If you don't show us you're respectable and don't even respect yourself...we're not going to take you seriously.

Life is full of lessons and mistakes,sweetie.You don't need to be embarrassed or ashamed...just learn through them all. 🙂