Your thoguhts boyz & gurlz...

Mr. T wanted to see me and spend time together, so I agreed....We start making out and I tell him "aunt flow is in town"....The discussion from that point goes like so:

Him (very serious tone): Are you wearing sexy panties?

Me: No, I have on my "hanes her way"

Him (disgusted facial expression): What? You do at least have on a matching bra right?

Me (shocked): What does it matter?

Him: Baby, you have to maintain. So what you are telling me is once each month you don't want me around you?

Me (more shock): What? So you mean to tell me that I must wear my nice Vicki Secret sexy panties while I am on my monthly? Who does that??

Him: Yes, you should be sexy all the time.

Me (unnerved): SOOOOO, I should be sexy, even when I don't feel my sexiest and even when I can't engage in the act itself?

Him: I mean I like to look at your body and I life the feel of nice material against your skin, not cotton.

I do not know about other females, but I personally do not know many women who like to play sexy dress up when they are on their monthly. I found it hard to believe that we were having this conversation, but he was dead serious. I was shocked that he was talking to me about my monthly and on top of that telling me what I should wear while on it...Mr. T is very sweet & affectionate which I like soooo much. Some men do not even want to be around a woman during those times, but come on now. IDK, maybe I was overly sensitive at that moment. Tauruses are known to tell it like it is, but DAMN. I never have encountered this with any other guy.

Is this what most males are thinking but never have the guts to say, or is this just normal for Taurus (domineering) males?

Bullerina-Based on some of the other post that I have read about Taurus males, I thought this might be normal, being that this is my first encounter with them. He too loves seeing me in dresses. Anytime we see each other he asks if I am going to wear a dress or skirt. (Guess I shouldn't have told him that I like to sleep nude either.) He also wanted to see what I was wearing to the club one night. He thought that I was very sexy when he saw the outfit and gave a lot of compliments. I now wonder what would've happened if he had not approved. It is still kinda new, only few weeks in.

Merc-I stood my ground. I told him that if is going to deal with me he will have to deal with my "hanes her way & fruit of a looms" once a month, because I will be damned if I wear sexy underwear for him at that time and if he can't handle that then I don't know what to tell ya. I told him that I put on wht makes me comfortable. He proceeded to apologize for offending me. I accepted his apology. The nerve of his azz, though. I did not complain when I saw his GAP boxers, I too have a preference for nice things, like sexy silk, but my attitude is come s you are as long s they ain't dirty or got holes. He hsn't shown me any temper or overly aggressiveness. I am hoping that won't happen....

Sorry for the mispelled words.

haha what an idiot, i probably would have bitten his face off for saying something like that

Taurus men are usually sensitive... but then who knows they love..err nice things!

gttommy-I can tell indeed that he was being honest, I was just caught off guard by his straight-forward approach. I can see he is attracted to ultra feminine women. Everytime we see each other he is checking my nails/toes to see if they have been manicured/pedicured, loves to smell my hair and skin. It is like he has this idealized vision of a woman.

o.k. So I'm jumping into this conversation. LOL My Mr. T thinks I'm most sex when i'm right out of the shower, wet hair, no make up and in my wife beater and cotton undies. He loves the natural look but appreciates when I am dressed up. He thinks its hot when I wear skirts as well.

ha ha!! Merc!!

Merc, GEG- That is the funny thing about Mr. T. I do not wear makeup at all. When we first met the first thing he said when he walked up to me after looking at my toes was "you're a natural beauty". I don't wear a hair weave or fake nails (no offense to those who do), not to much jewelry.

Bullerina- I hear what you are saying. I made it a point to show him that I am not always sexy. Mr. T has seen me in sweats, jeans and T-shirt, work clothing, hair pulled back in a ponytail and was fine. It was just the sexy underwear thing that threw me for a loop, which was my reasoning for posting.

NOTE: This conversation occured 2 weeks ago that was referred to (not in detail) from my earlier post below

https://www.dxpnet.com/opinion/taurus/taurus-men-insecure-1016286/

loveataurus- Maybe for Mr. T his visual, smell perception and touch are some of the most important things that must be satisfied in order to keep him interested.