@CapAquaGirl87
10 Years
A Taurus man may avoid contact due to feeling overwhelmed or unsure about the relationship. He values stability and might need space to process his feelings. Understanding his need for patience can help improve communication and clarity in the connection.
Just block him.
Well, if you're a Cap sun, he probably finds you irresistable.
Posted by tbird
Just block him.Yep. That was easily resolved. Nice.
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*bows* I'm here every weekend be sure to tip your waitress.
He does find me irresistible and that's the problem, and tauruses are ALWAYS my kryptonite. Anyone else I have no problem giving the ice queen treatment to. But tauruses always make me weak. So basically I'm kidding myself thinking withholding what he wants is going to make realize how amazing I am as a whole. And then the logical side of me says, why would you even want someone who doesn't already. Oye. Taurus men.
Posted by Capri__unicorn
I know the feeling...Trust me as a cap and former Taurus loving dingbat. Stay away! If he just wants physical that's what it will remain until years of ridiculous testing. If you want something more hold your horses and don't give in until trust, respect, and exclusivity has been established. Caps and tauruses are irresistible to each other and they equally have the power to destroy each other also.My first bf was a cap. He was lovely. We were in our early 20s at the time and had our career goals. It was "lust at first sight"! He was tall blonde Scandinavian from Denmark. We has an "easy" comfortableness with each other.
@OP, as said by Cap_Unicorn. Hold your corner. Decide what kind of contract you want and STICK to it no matter what "temptations" Taurus will put before. They are very "charming"! I told mine that this morning! Do not be fooled by their "charm"...
As long as you have something a Taurus male wants , hold on to what YOU want. He is not going anywhere until he gets you. But make sure you have created the right kind of contract for you because Taurus is a fixed sign... Once contracts have been signed there's no changing it. Never forget... Taurus is FIXED.
Good luck OP.
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Thank you! That is what I was looking, if it was possible to snag him down the road into more than just a phsyical relationship after being so physical so early, before commitment. But it is the phsyical he craves and knows and has said he won't find anywhere else. It's true, he won't. Ha. I guess I might as well settle into the long Taurus haul. Luckily, I am just as stubborn as he is. My last Taurus it was the same situation, he didn't take me seriously until I cut him off physically. He then was too addicted to me and was forced to get to know me and fell crazy, obsessively in love. Sadly, it was a very toxic relationship because of issues we were both going through. Too much damage done to each other. After 5 years he still proposes to me when he manages to get through all of the blocks I have on him (phone, social media, etc).
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My biggest thing is why wont he just leave me alone. Not step up contact when I take out the equation the one thing he wants, which is me physically.