serenidad
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Posted by MyStarsShinePosted by LostthoughtsPosted by aquarius09After observations, I can tell you why " level-headed practical" man would go younger.Posted by CAPZPRIMEI have no Cap in me but I find that equally cringy when I see 30 plus men behaving like Peter Pan and don’t have their shit together and going after juvenile kids. I can’t imagine a level-headed practical man going after a younger childish woman.Posted by aquarius09yep at 30 you arent a child anymore, it's isnt cute or sad. it's just a weird way of narcissism;Posted by CAPZPRIMEIndeed the most Cap answer ever! Very practical and ain’t no Cap have time to handle a child.Posted by BumboklaatThey are but there is nothing to handlePosted by CAPZPRIMEThe crazy ones are the 👍🔥🥵 if you can handle it.Posted by aquarius09Face is important but at the same time I’ve met dosen of women with pretty face and a totally fucked up personnality, legit crazyPosted by BumboklaatI notice water moons and Cap placements playing it safe and taking face into account. I think men who care about nice face are the most discerning in my experience. Both my bros are like you and care about face before body.Posted by aquarius09I'm aqua with Scorpio moon. Venus in Capricorn, Mars in Taurus. Virgo Asc.Posted by BumboklaatWhat’s your Venus and mars? I believe you’re Aqua with Pisces moon, right?Posted by LuckyLibra7Na I look at face first. Facial expressions, personality.
It really depends.
There typically has to be some sort of attractive feature about her. Whether it's the butt, breasts etc. Men will then focus that specific part and block out the butter-face.
Men and women are different at the end of the day, complimentary opposites. Men don't invest into sex as much as the average woman does. There doesn't always need to be a connection and sometimes it's "she has a nice body and that's where I draw the line. I don't want anything more."
This also reflects the large population of men that can't even get a woman to orgasm. Lack of investment overall.
My satisfaction comes from emotional and or romantic connection and control so physical will always be 2nd.
I like romancing and inspiring, then seeing reactions, injecting energy that way into them, then you inject the other energy.
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So now I analyse the whole package but I think a feminine attitude with a sweat voice and a fit body is a killer, face can be average/cute with that
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Pass 30 if you are still crazy u are just not interesting, grow the fuck up, society won’t hold ur hand
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It's the energy. Younger woman still have a zest for life and still enjoy the things a lot of older people dont. They are happy expressive and overall more energetic. As well as more apprecative. There are times when doing something for a older woman is the equivalent of giving her a gift card while the same thing with a younger version is a big deal. Been there done that comes to mind. " oh I did that with such and such" or they had a bad experience with something you realky like and are lukwarm and completely disinterested about it.
Imagine going out of your way for someone and getting that kind of feedback. Time and time again.
I see a lot of woman talk about standards and I get that. Im not talking about quality of life stuff. It's the everyday things, bread and better of life that's just not appreciated by older woman. That zest for life and appreciation of everyday things and joy from the bigger stuff.
Jaded. Older woman tend to be jaded.
Imagine doing things for someone constantly and getting such weak ass feedback. It gets to you.
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Older men tend to be jaded and set in their ways hence why more women are going for younger men …. Sexually very compatible imo 🔥click to expand
i think older mature women should definitely go for younger men. i keep telling women this (i told aquarius09 this too before)
i have seen men who are so disgustingly immature in their 40s. and i have seen men in their 20s who are light years more mature than those older men. it’s not about age.
Posted by aquarius09Posted by serenidad
i guess kimbo has nothing to say after i accidentally ruined his mic drop moment 😅oops
Don’t take him seriously. He’s just a flippant user who trolls people and goes away. He does show whose side he’s on though even when he’s being facetious.click to expand
he’s most likely one of whorpio’s simps.
imagine being a simp to someone like whorpio and not even remotely feeling embarrassed by that.
tragic
Posted by serenidadPosted by aquarius09Posted by serenidadThis guy utters his ridiculous way of thinkingPosted by CAPZPRIMEnah i’m gonna be driving around in my jeep wrangler going on adventures as usual 🤪 lolPosted by serenidadyep dont drive cause you gonna have a car crash have stats about it, crazy statements.Posted by CAPZPRIMEso if you’re so convinced that she’s missing out on some wonderfully good fulfilling experiences, tell me exactly what she’s missing out on by not sleeping around? lolPosted by serenidadbut aquarius is an extreme, she talking about being raped and killed, getting aids all the worse ?Posted by CAPZPRIMEyour thinking is too black and white. too extreme. lolPosted by serenidadyeah live your full life in your appartement with your two cats.
“Don't be so thirsty for opportunity that you drink from every cup handed to you. That's how you
get poisoned.”
one of my favorite quotes.
also @aquarius09,
don’t listen to the dudes in here implying you’re “missing out” by not engaging in casual sex with random low quality dudes.
any dude who encourages a woman to sleep around obviously doesn’t have her best interest at heart. would they encourage their own daughters to do the same? i don’t think so.
implying that there must be something wrong with a woman for not wanting to be used (pumped and dumped) by dudes is crazy.😂 clown world lol 🤡
dont experience life. dont drink alcohol you might finish alcoholic
dont take drugs u gonna be an addict,
dont do sport u might break your arm.
everything of that is normal. take all your decision by fear making.
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“if someone isn’t having casual sex, they’re not having fun in life?” what if they’re having fun in lots of different other ways? ever thought of that? lol
i think op would wanna listen to a happily married dude leading a healthy, fun, fulfilling life (me) over listening to dudes like you 😅lol are you even happy? doesn’t seem like it. 😅
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what the actual fuck ?
happiness come and go?
so you think OP want to hear about a "MALE" who is if i remenber homosexual ? because your situation have legit 0 correlation with her ?
she doesnt want to hear advice from a hetero married female with kid ? you are not worth it' u know what i'm a clown if u want.
and that whole talk about sex aquarius is obviously a virgin since she obviously ignored to answer me.
yes Great sex if fun, sex if fulfilling.
and if u think sex lead to rape or pregnancy instantly, u either had being raped or being pregnant in the past or either u ARE A TOTAL VIRGIN U WATCH TOO MANY YOUTUBES VIDEO WHO STAY TOO MUCH AT HOME.
people are normals outside. sociopath, fuckboy whatever are rare.
y'all crazy for real, you all three need to reread what you write.
i'm an unhappy incel who live in a third world country because i want aquarius to live life and go outside.
sadly im normal dude
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some horny irresponsible dudes looking to smash and dash— 😂😂 dudes who can’t even properly take care of themselves let alone raise a kid trying to f**k her raw? 😂
is that what she’s missing out on? 🤪
yeah sure sounds like an opportunity of a lifetime 😂 lol
also FYI,
women have been murdered from one night stands. i can pull links for you if you want.
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stay at your home.
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like i said, you are a very black and white thinker. there’s no in between with you. you have a very poor imagination.
there are millions of ways to have fun and experience new and fulfilling things in this world.
but you can only think of a few lol
because you have a very narrow view of what people do for fun and a very poor imagination.
some people have interests outside of just sex 😂
also, you comparing not having ever tasted chocolate with not having ever slept around is comical 😂 how can you even compare the two? nobody got hurt or acquired trauma from eating chocolate 😂 (maybe just those people with chocolate allergies lol)
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with conviction at 32. This is just the confidence you need in life, except these types
of dudes don’t have it where you need it🤣😂 I can’t imagine any late 20s to 30s woman being attracted to him unless they are strictly doing ONS and he doesn’t open his mouth. I guess anonymity allows people to freely speak their level of stupid. I’m 💯 certain now that this guy is living a basic life where no quality person is really admiring and loving him for his meretricious life style . The saying “trash attracts trash” rings true here.
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i don’t even think it’s about anonymity and ppl being extra liberal online anymore.
many ppl are just mentally/emotionally stunted. they are physically adults but their mental age is like fourteen. they haven’t matured since fourteen.
cuz i’ve been noticing something for a while now.
only on dxp have i seen ppl who are annoyed by ppl having morals.
only on dxp do i find myself having to explain basic human decency to ppl.
that says a lot about the quality of the ppl here, don’t you think?
i can count level-headed members on just one hand. that’s a problem. i don’t think i wanna be here much longer if this is the overall climate lolclick to expand
DXP had quality people 11-12 yrs ago. Advice was also given by some sensible folks. Now it’s become an echo chamber of the jaded and miserable who promote their quixotic and outlandish garbage anonymously. I really don’t think they would get away with saying these things out loud in the real world. I bet you anything the reason they freely drivel on here is because they are pretending to be someone of quality in real world. The act gets tiresome so they release it here.
Posted by UndinePosted by LostthoughtsPosted by UndinePosted by LostthoughtsPosted by aquarius09The premise was " level-headed practical man".Posted by CAPZPRIMEYour post gives me pedo vibes.Posted by aquarius09After observations, I can tell you why " level-headed practical" man would go younger.Posted by CAPZPRIMEI have no Cap in me but I find that equally cringy when I see 30 plus men behaving like Peter Pan and don’t have their shit together and going after juvenile kids. I can’t imagine a level-headed practical man going after a younger childish woman.Posted by CAPZPRIMEyep at 30 you arent a child anymore, it's isnt cute or sad. it's just a weird way of narcissism;Posted by aquarius09Indeed the most Cap answer ever! Very practical and ain’t no Cap have time to handle a child.Posted by BumboklaatThey are but there is nothing to handlePosted by aquarius09The crazy ones are the 👍🔥🥵 if you can handle it.Posted by BumboklaatFace is important but at the same time I’ve met dosen of women with pretty face and a totally fucked up personnality, legit crazyPosted by LuckyLibra7Na I look at face first. Facial expressions, personality.
It really depends.
There typically has to be some sort of attractive feature about her. Whether it's the butt, breasts etc. Men will then focus that specific part and block out the butter-face.
Men and women are different at the end of the day, complimentary opposites. Men don't invest into sex as much as the average woman does. There doesn't always need to be a connection and sometimes it's "she has a nice body and that's where I draw the line. I don't want anything more."
This also reflects the large population of men that can't even get a woman to orgasm. Lack of investment overall.
My satisfaction comes from emotional and or romantic connection and control so physical will always be 2nd.
I like romancing and inspiring, then seeing reactions, injecting energy that way into them, then you inject the other energy.
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So now I analyse the whole package but I think a feminine attitude with a sweat voice and a fit body is a killer, face can be average/cute with that
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Pass 30 if you are still crazy u are just not interesting, grow the fuck up, society won’t hold ur hand
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It's the energy. Younger woman still have a zest for life and still enjoy the things a lot of older people dont. They are happy expressive and overall more energetic. As well as more apprecative. There are times when doing something for a older woman is the equivalent of giving her a gift card while the same thing with a younger version is a big deal. Been there done that comes to mind. " oh I did that with such and such" or they had a bad experience with something you realky like and are lukwarm and completely disinterested about it.
Imagine going out of your way for someone and getting that kind of feedback. Time and time again.
I see a lot of woman talk about standards and I get that. Im not talking about quality of life stuff. It's the everyday things, bread and better of life that's just not appreciated by older woman. That zest for life and appreciation of everyday things and joy from the bigger stuff.
Jaded. Older woman tend to be jaded.
Imagine doing things for someone constantly and getting such weak ass feedback. It gets to you.
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It practically says that older men deserve to interact romantically and sexually mainly with those without life experience.
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Those men aren't pedos or prioritize sex. I said notjing about sex.
At no point in the long post was sex mentioned or eluded too. You know what was?
Emotional and mental side of things.
Wow the way you Automatically went the most negative fucked up interpretation of what I pointed, reenforces jaded part and what it's like for real men late 30s and beyond. Why I see men my age go early 30s late 20s. Even older men the that end up pursuing 10 years younger.
I'll be 40 this and I've run into woman my age or older. Do you know what my experience as been?
I have to try and fight these negative mentalities
and assumptions about my intentions.
I recently met a woman 2 years younger then me.
The connection and chemistry was too grest to ignore. My heart pounded and I could stop wanying to just stare into her eyes. It was like I was. You know that kind of wholesome love.
I thougt wow at the very least I want to get to know her and we would end up great friends.
I told her I wanted to get to know her and asked her out. We texted a bit and she said what she was just looking for a good friend. I thought hey cool that works for me too and told her that.
Went out last minute one night talked a bit stsrted bantering and flirting a bit. Lol I couldn't help it and I could tell it was the same for her. End of the night comes and thier is that awkwardness the good kind. I think to myself you know what, I want this relationship. I willn't invite her in to show I'm serious. Even though I was dieing to and I know she would say yes.
I told her all of that. She responded maybe next time.
Small talk here and there over a week about our lives and her kids and situation. Then one a phone conversations she unloads on me about being just wanting her for sex like the others. I point out to her that Im not like that and give examples. Also her telling me she just wants close friendship and me agree and happy with that myself. There were 2 other instances of that over 2 weeks before she just vanished.
Thats what older practical level headed men have to deal with. Go younger and you don't have to fight that battle.
Now the zest for life and the little things. This meme sums it up nicely.
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Ill be 40 this year. I usually attract plus or minus 4-8 years and I liked that. Aa someone who is big on the little things and aporeciates the little things, It's getting hard on there. Actively going for late 20s to early 30s is looking more appealing.
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If not pedo per se, you clearly promoted types of romantic relationship that are known to be highly dysfunctional: father- daughter or teacher-pupil. All may be exciting at the beginning, but the thing is…the “daughter” eventually grows up, and the “pupil” graduates! Then what? Call them “jaded” because you have nothing left to teach them, they’ve overgrown your offerings and want to be respected and treated like an equal…?
Why are you even defending your bullshit? The fact that you didn’t even realise how bad it was, how pathetic it sounded, and what it said about yourself…pffft
Humbert says hello, he wants his Lolita back! 🤣
Did..did you even understand what I said?
Are we talking about the same thing?
Why are you stuck on huge age differences.
That's not what Im talking about at all.
I even gave reasons why a mature man would choose younger.
If your one of those jaded older woman, know it's not about age or external youth for most of those people. It's internal, spirit and energy. Reconnect with yours. Love and live again. Zest for life and appreciation for the everyday things.click to expand
Posted by serenidadPosted by MyStarsShinePosted by LostthoughtsOlder men tend to be jaded and set in their ways hence why more women are going for younger men …. Sexually very compatible imo 🔥Posted by aquarius09After observations, I can tell you why " level-headed practical" man would go younger.Posted by CAPZPRIMEI have no Cap in me but I find that equally cringy when I see 30 plus men behaving like Peter Pan and don’t have their shit together and going after juvenile kids. I can’t imagine a level-headed practical man going after a younger childish woman.Posted by aquarius09yep at 30 you arent a child anymore, it's isnt cute or sad. it's just a weird way of narcissism;Posted by CAPZPRIMEIndeed the most Cap answer ever! Very practical and ain’t no Cap have time to handle a child.Posted by BumboklaatThey are but there is nothing to handlePosted by CAPZPRIMEThe crazy ones are the 👍🔥🥵 if you can handle it.Posted by aquarius09Face is important but at the same time I’ve met dosen of women with pretty face and a totally fucked up personnality, legit crazyPosted by BumboklaatI notice water moons and Cap placements playing it safe and taking face into account. I think men who care about nice face are the most discerning in my experience. Both my bros are like you and care about face before body.Posted by aquarius09I'm aqua with Scorpio moon. Venus in Capricorn, Mars in Taurus. Virgo Asc.Posted by BumboklaatWhat’s your Venus and mars? I believe you’re Aqua with Pisces moon, right?Posted by LuckyLibra7Na I look at face first. Facial expressions, personality.
It really depends.
There typically has to be some sort of attractive feature about her. Whether it's the butt, breasts etc. Men will then focus that specific part and block out the butter-face.
Men and women are different at the end of the day, complimentary opposites. Men don't invest into sex as much as the average woman does. There doesn't always need to be a connection and sometimes it's "she has a nice body and that's where I draw the line. I don't want anything more."
This also reflects the large population of men that can't even get a woman to orgasm. Lack of investment overall.
My satisfaction comes from emotional and or romantic connection and control so physical will always be 2nd.
I like romancing and inspiring, then seeing reactions, injecting energy that way into them, then you inject the other energy.
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So now I analyse the whole package but I think a feminine attitude with a sweat voice and a fit body is a killer, face can be average/cute with that
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Pass 30 if you are still crazy u are just not interesting, grow the fuck up, society won’t hold ur hand
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It's the energy. Younger woman still have a zest for life and still enjoy the things a lot of older people dont. They are happy expressive and overall more energetic. As well as more apprecative. There are times when doing something for a older woman is the equivalent of giving her a gift card while the same thing with a younger version is a big deal. Been there done that comes to mind. " oh I did that with such and such" or they had a bad experience with something you realky like and are lukwarm and completely disinterested about it.
Imagine going out of your way for someone and getting that kind of feedback. Time and time again.
I see a lot of woman talk about standards and I get that. Im not talking about quality of life stuff. It's the everyday things, bread and better of life that's just not appreciated by older woman. That zest for life and appreciation of everyday things and joy from the bigger stuff.
Jaded. Older woman tend to be jaded.
Imagine doing things for someone constantly and getting such weak ass feedback. It gets to you.
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i think older mature women should definitely go for younger men. i keep telling women this (i told aquarius09 this too before)
i have seen men who are so disgustingly immature in their 40s. and i have seen men in their 20s who are light years more mature than those older men. it’s not about age.click to expand
I agree! I noticed it too that men in their 20s I come across and work with are so pleasant and affable. All these men I come across my age group are so miserable and unhappy. They think all women are gold diggers and users. I would go for someone younger in a heartbeat if I find someone who is my cup of tea.
Posted by aquarius09Posted by serenidadPosted by aquarius09i don’t even think it’s about anonymity and ppl being extra liberal online anymore.Posted by serenidadThis guy utters his ridiculous way of thinkingPosted by CAPZPRIMEnah i’m gonna be driving around in my jeep wrangler going on adventures as usual 🤪 lolPosted by serenidadyep dont drive cause you gonna have a car crash have stats about it, crazy statements.Posted by CAPZPRIMEso if you’re so convinced that she’s missing out on some wonderfully good fulfilling experiences, tell me exactly what she’s missing out on by not sleeping around? lolPosted by serenidadbut aquarius is an extreme, she talking about being raped and killed, getting aids all the worse ?Posted by CAPZPRIMEyour thinking is too black and white. too extreme. lolPosted by serenidadyeah live your full life in your appartement with your two cats.
“Don't be so thirsty for opportunity that you drink from every cup handed to you. That's how you
get poisoned.”
one of my favorite quotes.
also @aquarius09,
don’t listen to the dudes in here implying you’re “missing out” by not engaging in casual sex with random low quality dudes.
any dude who encourages a woman to sleep around obviously doesn’t have her best interest at heart. would they encourage their own daughters to do the same? i don’t think so.
implying that there must be something wrong with a woman for not wanting to be used (pumped and dumped) by dudes is crazy.😂 clown world lol 🤡
dont experience life. dont drink alcohol you might finish alcoholic
dont take drugs u gonna be an addict,
dont do sport u might break your arm.
everything of that is normal. take all your decision by fear making.
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“if someone isn’t having casual sex, they’re not having fun in life?” what if they’re having fun in lots of different other ways? ever thought of that? lol
i think op would wanna listen to a happily married dude leading a healthy, fun, fulfilling life (me) over listening to dudes like you 😅lol are you even happy? doesn’t seem like it. 😅
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what the actual fuck ?
happiness come and go?
so you think OP want to hear about a "MALE" who is if i remenber homosexual ? because your situation have legit 0 correlation with her ?
she doesnt want to hear advice from a hetero married female with kid ? you are not worth it' u know what i'm a clown if u want.
and that whole talk about sex aquarius is obviously a virgin since she obviously ignored to answer me.
yes Great sex if fun, sex if fulfilling.
and if u think sex lead to rape or pregnancy instantly, u either had being raped or being pregnant in the past or either u ARE A TOTAL VIRGIN U WATCH TOO MANY YOUTUBES VIDEO WHO STAY TOO MUCH AT HOME.
people are normals outside. sociopath, fuckboy whatever are rare.
y'all crazy for real, you all three need to reread what you write.
i'm an unhappy incel who live in a third world country because i want aquarius to live life and go outside.
sadly im normal dude
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some horny irresponsible dudes looking to smash and dash— 😂😂 dudes who can’t even properly take care of themselves let alone raise a kid trying to f**k her raw? 😂
is that what she’s missing out on? 🤪
yeah sure sounds like an opportunity of a lifetime 😂 lol
also FYI,
women have been murdered from one night stands. i can pull links for you if you want.
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stay at your home.
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like i said, you are a very black and white thinker. there’s no in between with you. you have a very poor imagination.
there are millions of ways to have fun and experience new and fulfilling things in this world.
but you can only think of a few lol
because you have a very narrow view of what people do for fun and a very poor imagination.
some people have interests outside of just sex 😂
also, you comparing not having ever tasted chocolate with not having ever slept around is comical 😂 how can you even compare the two? nobody got hurt or acquired trauma from eating chocolate 😂 (maybe just those people with chocolate allergies lol)
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with conviction at 32. This is just the confidence you need in life, except these types
of dudes don’t have it where you need it🤣😂 I can’t imagine any late 20s to 30s woman being attracted to him unless they are strictly doing ONS and he doesn’t open his mouth. I guess anonymity allows people to freely speak their level of stupid. I’m 💯 certain now that this guy is living a basic life where no quality person is really admiring and loving him for his meretricious life style . The saying “trash attracts trash” rings true here.
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many ppl are just mentally/emotionally stunted. they are physically adults but their mental age is like fourteen. they haven’t matured since fourteen.
cuz i’ve been noticing something for a while now.
only on dxp have i seen ppl who are annoyed by ppl having morals.
only on dxp do i find myself having to explain basic human decency to ppl.
that says a lot about the quality of the ppl here, don’t you think?
i can count level-headed members on just one hand. that’s a problem. i don’t think i wanna be here much longer if this is the overall climate lol
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DXP had quality people 11-12 yrs ago. Advice was also given by some sensible folks. Now it’s become an echo chamber of the jaded and miserable who promote their quixotic and outlandish garbage anonymously. I really don’t think they would get away with saying these things out loud in the real world. I bet you anything the reason they freely drivel on here is because they are pretending to be someone of quality in real world. The act gets tiresome so they release it here.
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as much as i wanna believe that, one can’t pretend to be a quality person if one is simply not. a quality person is a quality person no matter where they are. both online and in real life. if someone is a “part-time quality person” and “part-time degenerate”, then are they really a quality person at the end of the day?
sure, ppl have good qualities and bad qualities but when the bad parts of them are so unbearable, it kinda cancels out the good. it doesn’t mean the good isn’t there but ppl who are good at reading ppl will notice the bad more and treat you accordingly.
Posted by aquarius09Posted by serenidadPosted by MyStarsShinei think older mature women should definitely go for younger men. i keep telling women this (i told aquarius09 this too before)Posted by LostthoughtsOlder men tend to be jaded and set in their ways hence why more women are going for younger men …. Sexually very compatible imo 🔥Posted by aquarius09After observations, I can tell you why " level-headed practical" man would go younger.Posted by CAPZPRIMEI have no Cap in me but I find that equally cringy when I see 30 plus men behaving like Peter Pan and don’t have their shit together and going after juvenile kids. I can’t imagine a level-headed practical man going after a younger childish woman.Posted by aquarius09yep at 30 you arent a child anymore, it's isnt cute or sad. it's just a weird way of narcissism;Posted by CAPZPRIMEIndeed the most Cap answer ever! Very practical and ain’t no Cap have time to handle a child.Posted by BumboklaatThey are but there is nothing to handlePosted by CAPZPRIMEThe crazy ones are the 👍🔥🥵 if you can handle it.Posted by aquarius09Face is important but at the same time I’ve met dosen of women with pretty face and a totally fucked up personnality, legit crazyPosted by BumboklaatI notice water moons and Cap placements playing it safe and taking face into account. I think men who care about nice face are the most discerning in my experience. Both my bros are like you and care about face before body.Posted by aquarius09I'm aqua with Scorpio moon. Venus in Capricorn, Mars in Taurus. Virgo Asc.Posted by BumboklaatWhat’s your Venus and mars? I believe you’re Aqua with Pisces moon, right?Posted by LuckyLibra7Na I look at face first. Facial expressions, personality.
It really depends.
There typically has to be some sort of attractive feature about her. Whether it's the butt, breasts etc. Men will then focus that specific part and block out the butter-face.
Men and women are different at the end of the day, complimentary opposites. Men don't invest into sex as much as the average woman does. There doesn't always need to be a connection and sometimes it's "she has a nice body and that's where I draw the line. I don't want anything more."
This also reflects the large population of men that can't even get a woman to orgasm. Lack of investment overall.
My satisfaction comes from emotional and or romantic connection and control so physical will always be 2nd.
I like romancing and inspiring, then seeing reactions, injecting energy that way into them, then you inject the other energy.
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So now I analyse the whole package but I think a feminine attitude with a sweat voice and a fit body is a killer, face can be average/cute with that
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Pass 30 if you are still crazy u are just not interesting, grow the fuck up, society won’t hold ur hand
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It's the energy. Younger woman still have a zest for life and still enjoy the things a lot of older people dont. They are happy expressive and overall more energetic. As well as more apprecative. There are times when doing something for a older woman is the equivalent of giving her a gift card while the same thing with a younger version is a big deal. Been there done that comes to mind. " oh I did that with such and such" or they had a bad experience with something you realky like and are lukwarm and completely disinterested about it.
Imagine going out of your way for someone and getting that kind of feedback. Time and time again.
I see a lot of woman talk about standards and I get that. Im not talking about quality of life stuff. It's the everyday things, bread and better of life that's just not appreciated by older woman. That zest for life and appreciation of everyday things and joy from the bigger stuff.
Jaded. Older woman tend to be jaded.
Imagine doing things for someone constantly and getting such weak ass feedback. It gets to you.
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i have seen men who are so disgustingly immature in their 40s. and i have seen men in their 20s who are light years more mature than those older men. it’s not about age.
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I agree! I noticed it too that men in their 20s I come across and work with are so pleasant and affable. All these men I come across my age group are so miserable and unhappy. They think all women are gold diggers and users. I would go for someone younger in a heartbeat if I find someone who is my cup of tea.click to expand
it’s about what the individual has been through at his age.
some guys have had to grow up fast due to special life circumstances.
some guys in their 20’s have actually gone through more life lessons, hardships and shouldered more responsibilities than someone in their 30s and 40s sometimes.
Posted by UndinePosted by LostthoughtsPosted by WarAngel79Posted by LostthoughtsIs it about youth and spirit or looks for you too?Posted by UndineThis is the way. 💯Posted by LostthoughtsYour post gives me pedo vibes.Posted by aquarius09After observations, I can tell you why " level-headed practical" man would go younger.Posted by CAPZPRIMEI have no Cap in me but I find that equally cringy when I see 30 plus men behaving like Peter Pan and don’t have their shit together and going after juvenile kids. I can’t imagine a level-headed practical man going after a younger childish woman.Posted by aquarius09yep at 30 you arent a child anymore, it's isnt cute or sad. it's just a weird way of narcissism;Posted by CAPZPRIMEIndeed the most Cap answer ever! Very practical and ain’t no Cap have time to handle a child.Posted by BumboklaatThey are but there is nothing to handlePosted by CAPZPRIMEThe crazy ones are the 👍🔥🥵 if you can handle it.Posted by aquarius09Face is important but at the same time I’ve met dosen of women with pretty face and a totally fucked up personnality, legit crazyPosted by BumboklaatI notice water moons and Cap placements playing it safe and taking face into account. I think men who care about nice face are the most discerning in my experience. Both my bros are like you and care about face before body.Posted by aquarius09I'm aqua with Scorpio moon. Venus in Capricorn, Mars in Taurus. Virgo Asc.Posted by BumboklaatWhat’s your Venus and mars? I believe you’re Aqua with Pisces moon, right?Posted by LuckyLibra7Na I look at face first. Facial expressions, personality.
It really depends.
There typically has to be some sort of attractive feature about her. Whether it's the butt, breasts etc. Men will then focus that specific part and block out the butter-face.
Men and women are different at the end of the day, complimentary opposites. Men don't invest into sex as much as the average woman does. There doesn't always need to be a connection and sometimes it's "she has a nice body and that's where I draw the line. I don't want anything more."
This also reflects the large population of men that can't even get a woman to orgasm. Lack of investment overall.
My satisfaction comes from emotional and or romantic connection and control so physical will always be 2nd.
I like romancing and inspiring, then seeing reactions, injecting energy that way into them, then you inject the other energy.
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So now I analyse the whole package but I think a feminine attitude with a sweat voice and a fit body is a killer, face can be average/cute with that
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It's the energy. Younger woman still have a zest for life and still enjoy the things a lot of older people dont. They are happy expressive and overall more energetic. As well as more apprecative. There are times when doing something for a older woman is the equivalent of giving her a gift card while the same thing with a younger version is a big deal. Been there done that comes to mind. " oh I did that with such and such" or they had a bad experience with something you realky like and are lukwarm and completely disinterested about it.
Imagine going out of your way for someone and getting that kind of feedback. Time and time again.
I see a lot of woman talk about standards and I get that. Im not talking about quality of life stuff. It's the everyday things, bread and better of life that's just not appreciated by older woman. That zest for life and appreciation of everyday things and joy from the bigger stuff.
Jaded. Older woman tend to be jaded.
Imagine doing things for someone constantly and getting such weak ass feedback. It gets to you.
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It practically says what was?
Emotional and mental side of things.
Wow the way you Automatically went the most negative fucked up interpretation of what I pointed, reenforces jaded part and what it's like for real men late 30s and beyond. Why I see men my age go early 30s late 20s. Even older men the that end up pursuing 10 years younger.
I'll be 40 this and I've run into woman my age or older. Do you know what my experience as been?
I have to try and fight these negative mentalities
and assumptions about my intentions.
I recently met a woman 2 years younger then me.
The connection and chemistry was too grest to ignore. My heart pounded and I could stop wanying to just stare into her eyes. It was like I was. You know that kind of wholesome love.
I thougt wow at the very least I want to get to know her and we would end up great friends.
I told her I wanted to get to know her and asked her out. We texted a bit and she said what she was just looking for a good friend. I thought hey cool that works for me too and told her that.
Went out last minute one night talked a bit stsrted bantering and flirting a bit. Lol I couldn't help it and I could tell it was the same for her. End of the night comes and thier is that awkwardness the good kind. I think to myself you know what, I want this relationship. I willn't invite her in to show I'm serious. Even though I was dieing to and I know she would say yes.
I told her all of that. She responded maybe next time.
Small talk here and there over a week about our lives and her kids and situation. Then one a phone conversations she unloads on me about being just wanting her for sex like the others. I point out to her that Im not like that and give examples. Also her telling me she just wants close friendship and me agree and happy with that myself. There were 2 other instances of that over 2 weeks before she just vanished.
Thats what older practical level headed men have to deal with. Go younger and you don't have to fight that battle.
Now the zest for life and the little things. This meme sums it up nicely.
https://www.pebble.by/p/yobQUNikiz35/wholesome_boomer_humor
Ill be 40 this year. I usually attract plus or minus 4-8 years and I liked that. Aa someone who is big on the little things and aporeciates the little things, It's getting hard on there. Actively going for late 20s to early 30s is looking more appealing.
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It’s about whoever desperately needs a free drink! 🍸
Ok your talking about clubers and boys and bros.
None of the bars and clun stuff was my thing.
I've known good guys who have and for them, yes they where trying to get laid if she was up for it. But you need to keep in mind, not every guy is like that and they are consenting adults.
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Posted by serenidadPosted by aquarius09Posted by serenidadDXP had quality people 11-12 yrs ago. Advice was also given by some sensible folks. Now it’s become an echo chamber of the jaded and miserable who promote their quixotic and outlandish garbage anonymously. I really don’t think they would get away with saying these things out loud in the real world. I bet you anything the reason they freely drivel on here is because they are pretending to be someone of quality in real world. The act gets tiresome so they release it here.Posted by aquarius09i don’t even think it’s about anonymity and ppl being extra liberal online anymore.Posted by serenidadThis guy utters his ridiculous way of thinkingPosted by CAPZPRIMEnah i’m gonna be driving around in my jeep wrangler going on adventures as usual 🤪 lolPosted by serenidadyep dont drive cause you gonna have a car crash have stats about it, crazy statements.Posted by CAPZPRIMEso if you’re so convinced that she’s missing out on some wonderfully good fulfilling experiences, tell me exactly what she’s missing out on by not sleeping around? lolPosted by serenidadbut aquarius is an extreme, she talking about being raped and killed, getting aids all the worse ?Posted by CAPZPRIMEyour thinking is too black and white. too extreme. lolPosted by serenidadyeah live your full life in your appartement with your two cats.
“Don't be so thirsty for opportunity that you drink from every cup handed to you. That's how you
get poisoned.”
one of my favorite quotes.
also @aquarius09,
don’t listen to the dudes in here implying you’re “missing out” by not engaging in casual sex with random low quality dudes.
any dude who encourages a woman to sleep around obviously doesn’t have her best interest at heart. would they encourage their own daughters to do the same? i don’t think so.
implying that there must be something wrong with a woman for not wanting to be used (pumped and dumped) by dudes is crazy.😂 clown world lol 🤡
dont experience life. dont drink alcohol you might finish alcoholic
dont take drugs u gonna be an addict,
dont do sport u might break your arm.
everything of that is normal. take all your decision by fear making.
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“if someone isn’t having casual sex, they’re not having fun in life?” what if they’re having fun in lots of different other ways? ever thought of that? lol
i think op would wanna listen to a happily married dude leading a healthy, fun, fulfilling life (me) over listening to dudes like you 😅lol are you even happy? doesn’t seem like it. 😅
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what the actual fuck ?
happiness come and go?
so you think OP want to hear about a "MALE" who is if i remenber homosexual ? because your situation have legit 0 correlation with her ?
she doesnt want to hear advice from a hetero married female with kid ? you are not worth it' u know what i'm a clown if u want.
and that whole talk about sex aquarius is obviously a virgin since she obviously ignored to answer me.
yes Great sex if fun, sex if fulfilling.
and if u think sex lead to rape or pregnancy instantly, u either had being raped or being pregnant in the past or either u ARE A TOTAL VIRGIN U WATCH TOO MANY YOUTUBES VIDEO WHO STAY TOO MUCH AT HOME.
people are normals outside. sociopath, fuckboy whatever are rare.
y'all crazy for real, you all three need to reread what you write.
i'm an unhappy incel who live in a third world country because i want aquarius to live life and go outside.
sadly im normal dude
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some horny irresponsible dudes looking to smash and dash— 😂😂 dudes who can’t even properly take care of themselves let alone raise a kid trying to f**k her raw? 😂
is that what she’s missing out on? 🤪
yeah sure sounds like an opportunity of a lifetime 😂 lol
also FYI,
women have been murdered from one night stands. i can pull links for you if you want.
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like i said, you are a very black and white thinker. there’s no in between with you. you have a very poor imagination.
there are millions of ways to have fun and experience new and fulfilling things in this world.
but you can only think of a few lol
because you have a very narrow view of what people do for fun and a very poor imagination.
some people have interests outside of just sex 😂
also, you comparing not having ever tasted chocolate with not having ever slept around is comical 😂 how can you even compare the two? nobody got hurt or acquired trauma from eating chocolate 😂 (maybe just those people with chocolate allergies lol)
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with conviction at 32. This is just the confidence you need in life, except these types
of dudes don’t have it where you need it🤣😂 I can’t imagine any late 20s to 30s woman being attracted to him unless they are strictly doing ONS and he doesn’t open his mouth. I guess anonymity allows people to freely speak their level of stupid. I’m 💯 certain now that this guy is living a basic life where no quality person is really admiring and loving him for his meretricious life style . The saying “trash attracts trash” rings true here.
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many ppl are just mentally/emotionally stunted. they are physically adults but their mental age is like fourteen. they haven’t matured since fourteen.
cuz i’ve been noticing something for a while now.
only on dxp have i seen ppl who are annoyed by ppl having morals.
only on dxp do i find myself having to explain basic human decency to ppl.
that says a lot about the quality of the ppl here, don’t you think?
i can count level-headed members on just one hand. that’s a problem. i don’t think i wanna be here much longer if this is the overall climate lol
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as much as i wanna believe that, one can’t pretend to be a quality person if one is simply not. a quality person is a quality person no matter where they are. both online and in real life. if someone is a “part-time quality person” and “part-time degenerate”, then are they really a quality person at the end of the day?
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Nah, it happens all the time in real life where people pretend to be more quality than they really are. I had a friend who created a false image of herself to get a guy’s approval up until
it was online. The moment the dude said he’s flying over to come see her, she backtracked and rejected him before he came here, saw her in person and found out that 90% of what she claimed about herself was fabricated. My sister does that too. People not comfortable in their skin pretend to be something they are not.
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I cant have a relationship because male are toxic and fuckbois.
I cant have a relationship with female because they are all whores.
Femcel statement VS Incel statements.
at the end two losers who have no experience of life and mad at a reality they cant control.
delusional.
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No, actually we do get it. The irony is he doesn’t get that he falls under the incel sentiments despite that he’s supposedly living a fulsome life. People who live empty lives promoted by him, in reality, are very sad and it’s a transparently pathetic attempt to mask it with “we are living our life to the fullest.”
Posted by LostthoughtsPosted by WarAngel79Posted by LostthoughtsThis is the way. 💯Posted by UndineThe premise was " level-headed practical man".Posted by LostthoughtsYour post gives me pedo vibes.Posted by aquarius09After observations, I can tell you why " level-headed practical" man would go younger.Posted by CAPZPRIMEI have no Cap in me but I find that equally cringy when I see 30 plus men behaving like Peter Pan and don’t have their shit together and going after juvenile kids. I can’t imagine a level-headed practical man going after a younger childish woman.Posted by aquarius09yep at 30 you arent a child anymore, it's isnt cute or sad. it's just a weird way of narcissism;Posted by CAPZPRIMEIndeed the most Cap answer ever! Very practical and ain’t no Cap have time to handle a child.Posted by BumboklaatThey are but there is nothing to handlePosted by CAPZPRIMEThe crazy ones are the 👍🔥🥵 if you can handle it.Posted by aquarius09Face is important but at the same time I’ve met dosen of women with pretty face and a totally fucked up personnality, legit crazyPosted by BumboklaatI notice water moons and Cap placements playing it safe and taking face into account. I think men who care about nice face are the most discerning in my experience. Both my bros are like you and care about face before body.Posted by aquarius09I'm aqua with Scorpio moon. Venus in Capricorn, Mars in Taurus. Virgo Asc.Posted by BumboklaatWhat’s your Venus and mars? I believe you’re Aqua with Pisces moon, right?Posted by LuckyLibra7Na I look at face first. Facial expressions, personality.
It really depends.
There typically has to be some sort of attractive feature about her. Whether it's the butt, breasts etc. Men will then focus that specific part and block out the butter-face.
Men and women are different at the end of the day, complimentary opposites. Men don't invest into sex as much as the average woman does. There doesn't always need to be a connection and sometimes it's "she has a nice body and that's where I draw the line. I don't want anything more."
This also reflects the large population of men that can't even get a woman to orgasm. Lack of investment overall.
My satisfaction comes from emotional and or romantic connection and control so physical will always be 2nd.
I like romancing and inspiring, then seeing reactions, injecting energy that way into them, then you inject the other energy.
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So now I analyse the whole package but I think a feminine attitude with a sweat voice and a fit body is a killer, face can be average/cute with that
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It's the energy. Younger woman still have a zest for life and still enjoy the things a lot of older people dont. They are happy expressive and overall more energetic. As well as more apprecative. There are times when doing something for a older woman is the equivalent of giving her a gift card while the same thing with a younger version is a big deal. Been there done that comes to mind. " oh I did that with such and such" or they had a bad experience with something you realky like and are lukwarm and completely disinterested about it.
Imagine going out of your way for someone and getting that kind of feedback. Time and time again.
I see a lot of woman talk about standards and I get that. Im not talking about quality of life stuff. It's the everyday things, bread and better of life that's just not appreciated by older woman. That zest for life and appreciation of everyday things and joy from the bigger stuff.
Jaded. Older woman tend to be jaded.
Imagine doing things for someone constantly and getting such weak ass feedback. It gets to you.
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It practically says that older men deserve to interact romantically and sexually mainly with those without life experience.
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Those men aren't pedos or prioritize sex. I said notjing about sex.
At no point in the long post was sex mentioned or eluded too. You know what was?
Emotional and mental side of things.
Wow the way you Automatically went the most negative fucked up interpretation of what I pointed, reenforces jaded part and what it's like for real men late 30s and beyond. Why I see men my age go early 30s late 20s. Even older men the that end up pursuing 10 years younger.
I'll be 40 this and I've run into woman my age or older. Do you know what my experience as been?
I have to try and fight these negative mentalities
and assumptions about my intentions.
I recently met a woman 2 years younger then me.
The connection and chemistry was too grest to ignore. My heart pounded and I could stop wanying to just stare into her eyes. It was like I was. You know that kind of wholesome love.
I thougt wow at the very least I want to get to know her and we would end up great friends.
I told her I wanted to get to know her and asked her out. We texted a bit and she said what she was just looking for a good friend. I thought hey cool that works for me too and told her that.
Went out last minute one night talked a bit stsrted bantering and flirting a bit. Lol I couldn't help it and I could tell it was the same for her. End of the night comes and thier is that awkwardness the good kind. I think to myself you know what, I want this relationship. I willn't invite her in to show I'm serious. Even though I was dieing to and I know she would say yes.
I told her all of that. She responded maybe next time.
Small talk here and there over a week about our lives and her kids and situation. Then one a phone conversations she unloads on me about being just wanting her for sex like the others. I point out to her that Im not like that and give examples. Also her telling me she just wants close friendship and me agree and happy with that myself. There were 2 other instances of that over 2 weeks before she just vanished.
Thats what older practical level headed men have to deal with. Go younger and you don't have to fight that battle.
Now the zest for life and the little things. This meme sums it up nicely.
https://www.pebble.by/p/yobQUNikiz35/wholesome_boomer_humor
Ill be 40 this year. I usually attract plus or minus 4-8 years and I liked that. Aa someone who is big on the little things and aporeciates the little things, It's getting hard on there. Actively going for late 20s to early 30s is looking more appealing.
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A little bit of everything. And make no mistake, they're judging me by metrics that I don't want to be judged by anyway. 😅
Posted by UndinePosted by WarAngel79Posted by LostthoughtsThis is the way. 💯Posted by UndineThe premise was " level-headed practical man".Posted by LostthoughtsYour post gives me pedo vibes.Posted by aquarius09After observations, I can tell you why " level-headed practical" man would go younger.Posted by CAPZPRIMEI have no Cap in me but I find that equally cringy when I see 30 plus men behaving like Peter Pan and don’t have their shit together and going after juvenile kids. I can’t imagine a level-headed practical man going after a younger childish woman.Posted by aquarius09yep at 30 you arent a child anymore, it's isnt cute or sad. it's just a weird way of narcissism;Posted by CAPZPRIMEIndeed the most Cap answer ever! Very practical and ain’t no Cap have time to handle a child.Posted by BumboklaatThey are but there is nothing to handlePosted by CAPZPRIMEThe crazy ones are the 👍🔥🥵 if you can handle it.Posted by aquarius09Face is important but at the same time I’ve met dosen of women with pretty face and a totally fucked up personnality, legit crazyPosted by BumboklaatI notice water moons and Cap placements playing it safe and taking face into account. I think men who care about nice face are the most discerning in my experience. Both my bros are like you and care about face before body.Posted by aquarius09I'm aqua with Scorpio moon. Venus in Capricorn, Mars in Taurus. Virgo Asc.Posted by BumboklaatWhat’s your Venus and mars? I believe you’re Aqua with Pisces moon, right?Posted by LuckyLibra7Na I look at face first. Facial expressions, personality.
It really depends.
There typically has to be some sort of attractive feature about her. Whether it's the butt, breasts etc. Men will then focus that specific part and block out the butter-face.
Men and women are different at the end of the day, complimentary opposites. Men don't invest into sex as much as the average woman does. There doesn't always need to be a connection and sometimes it's "she has a nice body and that's where I draw the line. I don't want anything more."
This also reflects the large population of men that can't even get a woman to orgasm. Lack of investment overall.
My satisfaction comes from emotional and or romantic connection and control so physical will always be 2nd.
I like romancing and inspiring, then seeing reactions, injecting energy that way into them, then you inject the other energy.
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So now I analyse the whole package but I think a feminine attitude with a sweat voice and a fit body is a killer, face can be average/cute with that
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Pass 30 if you are still crazy u are just not interesting, grow the fuck up, society won’t hold ur hand
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It's the energy. Younger woman still have a zest for life and still enjoy the things a lot of older people dont. They are happy expressive and overall more energetic. As well as more apprecative. There are times when doing something for a older woman is the equivalent of giving her a gift card while the same thing with a younger version is a big deal. Been there done that comes to mind. " oh I did that with such and such" or they had a bad experience with something you realky like and are lukwarm and completely disinterested about it.
Imagine going out of your way for someone and getting that kind of feedback. Time and time again.
I see a lot of woman talk about standards and I get that. Im not talking about quality of life stuff. It's the everyday things, bread and better of life that's just not appreciated by older woman. That zest for life and appreciation of everyday things and joy from the bigger stuff.
Jaded. Older woman tend to be jaded.
Imagine doing things for someone constantly and getting such weak ass feedback. It gets to you.
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It practically says that older men deserve to interact romantically and sexually mainly with those without life experience.
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Those men aren't pedos or prioritize sex. I said notjing about sex.
At no point in the long post was sex mentioned or eluded too. You know what was?
Emotional and mental side of things.
Wow the way you Automatically went the most negative fucked up interpretation of what I pointed, reenforces jaded part and what it's like for real men late 30s and beyond. Why I see men my age go early 30s late 20s. Even older men the that end up pursuing 10 years younger.
I'll be 40 this and I've run into woman my age or older. Do you know what my experience as been?
I have to try and fight these negative mentalities
and assumptions about my intentions.
I recently met a woman 2 years younger then me.
The connection and chemistry was too grest to ignore. My heart pounded and I could stop wanying to just stare into her eyes. It was like I was. You know that kind of wholesome love.
I thougt wow at the very least I want to get to know her and we would end up great friends.
I told her I wanted to get to know her and asked her out. We texted a bit and she said what she was just looking for a good friend. I thought hey cool that works for me too and told her that.
Went out last minute one night talked a bit stsrted bantering and flirting a bit. Lol I couldn't help it and I could tell it was the same for her. End of the night comes and thier is that awkwardness the good kind. I think to myself you know what, I want this relationship. I willn't invite her in to show I'm serious. Even though I was dieing to and I know she would say yes.
I told her all of that. She responded maybe next time.
Small talk here and there over a week about our lives and her kids and situation. Then one a phone conversations she unloads on me about being just wanting her for sex like the others. I point out to her that Im not like that and give examples. Also her telling me she just wants close friendship and me agree and happy with that myself. There were 2 other instances of that over 2 weeks before she just vanished.
Thats what older practical level headed men have to deal with. Go younger and you don't have to fight that battle.
Now the zest for life and the little things. This meme sums it up nicely.
https://www.pebble.by/p/yobQUNikiz35/wholesome_boomer_humor
Ill be 40 this year. I usually attract plus or minus 4-8 years and I liked that. Aa someone who is big on the little things and aporeciates the little things, It's getting hard on there. Actively going for late 20s to early 30s is looking more appealing.
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Posted by serenidadPosted by MyStarsShinePosted by LostthoughtsOlder men tend to be jaded and set in their ways hence why more women are going for younger men …. Sexually very compatible imo 🔥Posted by aquarius09After observations, I can tell you why " level-headed practical" man would go younger.Posted by CAPZPRIMEI have no Cap in me but I find that equally cringy when I see 30 plus men behaving like Peter Pan and don’t have their shit together and going after juvenile kids. I can’t imagine a level-headed practical man going after a younger childish woman.Posted by aquarius09yep at 30 you arent a child anymore, it's isnt cute or sad. it's just a weird way of narcissism;Posted by CAPZPRIMEIndeed the most Cap answer ever! Very practical and ain’t no Cap have time to handle a child.Posted by BumboklaatThey are but there is nothing to handlePosted by CAPZPRIMEThe crazy ones are the 👍🔥🥵 if you can handle it.Posted by aquarius09Face is important but at the same time I’ve met dosen of women with pretty face and a totally fucked up personnality, legit crazyPosted by BumboklaatI notice water moons and Cap placements playing it safe and taking face into account. I think men who care about nice face are the most discerning in my experience. Both my bros are like you and care about face before body.Posted by aquarius09I'm aqua with Scorpio moon. Venus in Capricorn, Mars in Taurus. Virgo Asc.Posted by BumboklaatWhat’s your Venus and mars? I believe you’re Aqua with Pisces moon, right?Posted by LuckyLibra7Na I look at face first. Facial expressions, personality.
It really depends.
There typically has to be some sort of attractive feature about her. Whether it's the butt, breasts etc. Men will then focus that specific part and block out the butter-face.
Men and women are different at the end of the day, complimentary opposites. Men don't invest into sex as much as the average woman does. There doesn't always need to be a connection and sometimes it's "she has a nice body and that's where I draw the line. I don't want anything more."
This also reflects the large population of men that can't even get a woman to orgasm. Lack of investment overall.
My satisfaction comes from emotional and or romantic connection and control so physical will always be 2nd.
I like romancing and inspiring, then seeing reactions, injecting energy that way into them, then you inject the other energy.
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It's the energy. Younger woman still have a zest for life and still enjoy the things a lot of older people dont. They are happy expressive and overall more energetic. As well as more apprecative. There are times when doing something for a older woman is the equivalent of giving her a gift card while the same thing with a younger version is a big deal. Been there done that comes to mind. " oh I did that with such and such" or they had a bad experience with something you realky like and are lukwarm and completely disinterested about it.
Imagine going out of your way for someone and getting that kind of feedback. Time and time again.
I see a lot of woman talk about standards and I get that. Im not talking about quality of life stuff. It's the everyday things, bread and better of life that's just not appreciated by older woman. That zest for life and appreciation of everyday things and joy from the bigger stuff.
Jaded. Older woman tend to be jaded.
Imagine doing things for someone constantly and getting such weak ass feedback. It gets to you.
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i think older mature women should definitely go for younger men. i keep telling women this (i told aquarius09 this too before)
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I raised a 25yr old who has the wisdom of an 80yr old so I agree with you.
Posted by aquarius09Posted by MyStarsShinePosted by LostthoughtsOlder men tend to be jaded and set in their ways hence why more women are going for younger men …. Sexually very compatible imo 🔥Posted by aquarius09After observations, I can tell you why " level-headed practical" man would go younger.Posted by CAPZPRIMEI have no Cap in me but I find that equally cringy when I see 30 plus men behaving like Peter Pan and don’t have their shit together and going after juvenile kids. I can’t imagine a level-headed practical man going after a younger childish woman.Posted by aquarius09yep at 30 you arent a child anymore, it's isnt cute or sad. it's just a weird way of narcissism;Posted by CAPZPRIMEIndeed the most Cap answer ever! Very practical and ain’t no Cap have time to handle a child.Posted by BumboklaatThey are but there is nothing to handlePosted by CAPZPRIMEThe crazy ones are the 👍🔥🥵 if you can handle it.Posted by aquarius09Face is important but at the same time I’ve met dosen of women with pretty face and a totally fucked up personnality, legit crazyPosted by BumboklaatI notice water moons and Cap placements playing it safe and taking face into account. I think men who care about nice face are the most discerning in my experience. Both my bros are like you and care about face before body.Posted by aquarius09I'm aqua with Scorpio moon. Venus in Capricorn, Mars in Taurus. Virgo Asc.Posted by BumboklaatWhat’s your Venus and mars? I believe you’re Aqua with Pisces moon, right?Posted by LuckyLibra7Na I look at face first. Facial expressions, personality.
It really depends.
There typically has to be some sort of attractive feature about her. Whether it's the butt, breasts etc. Men will then focus that specific part and block out the butter-face.
Men and women are different at the end of the day, complimentary opposites. Men don't invest into sex as much as the average woman does. There doesn't always need to be a connection and sometimes it's "she has a nice body and that's where I draw the line. I don't want anything more."
This also reflects the large population of men that can't even get a woman to orgasm. Lack of investment overall.
My satisfaction comes from emotional and or romantic connection and control so physical will always be 2nd.
I like romancing and inspiring, then seeing reactions, injecting energy that way into them, then you inject the other energy.
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So now I analyse the whole package but I think a feminine attitude with a sweat voice and a fit body is a killer, face can be average/cute with that
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Pass 30 if you are still crazy u are just not interesting, grow the fuck up, society won’t hold ur hand
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It's the energy. Younger woman still have a zest for life and still enjoy the things a lot of older people dont. They are happy expressive and overall more energetic. As well as more apprecative. There are times when doing something for a older woman is the equivalent of giving her a gift card while the same thing with a younger version is a big deal. Been there done that comes to mind. " oh I did that with such and such" or they had a bad experience with something you realky like and are lukwarm and completely disinterested about it.
Imagine going out of your way for someone and getting that kind of feedback. Time and time again.
I see a lot of woman talk about standards and I get that. Im not talking about quality of life stuff. It's the everyday things, bread and better of life that's just not appreciated by older woman. That zest for life and appreciation of everyday things and joy from the bigger stuff.
Jaded. Older woman tend to be jaded.
Imagine doing things for someone constantly and getting such weak ass feedback. It gets to you.
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Or better yet they want lil girls or women who look young. My mom is a 60 yr old widow who looks great for her age. She looks young like in her 50s but she doesn’t lie about her age.
Men in her age group don’t even have her in their filter and 90% of them are looking at me. 😖 She’s sitting single because men her age are looking for little girls. It’s quite disgusting actually and I’m on dating app doing God’s good work and giving them reality checks. Some actress (can’t remember her name) went for a guy 20 yrs younger than her and she said that it’s not that we don’t want someone closer in our age group, it’s rather men in our age group don’t want that. It seems like most men remain obstinately childish and never grow up.click to expand
It’s cringeworthy 😬
if ppl are jaded as a result of having been hurt one too many times, then that’s all the more reason to be discerning of who you associate with. which was the point some of us were trying to make from the get go but we were labeled weird for saying that lol
ppl make fun of discerning ppl but don’t realize that discerning ppl are gonna be waaaaaay less jaded when they’re older than those who weren’t as discerning.
because they dodged way more bullets than ppl who weren’t as cautious.
ppl who were discerning are gonna be much less bitter, much less jaded , much less paranoid than those ppl who dived head first into questionable situations.
they say everything is a learning experience and that’s true to an extent.
but do you really need the type of learning experiences that are only gonna make you bitter, jaded ,and resentful?
ppl make fun of discerning ppl but don’t realize that discerning ppl are gonna be waaaaaay less jaded when they’re older than those who weren’t as discerning.
because they dodged way more bullets than ppl who weren’t as cautious.
ppl who were discerning are gonna be much less bitter, much less jaded , much less paranoid than those ppl who dived head first into questionable situations.
they say everything is a learning experience and that’s true to an extent.
but do you really need the type of learning experiences that are only gonna make you bitter, jaded ,and resentful?
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if ppl are jaded as a result of having been hurt one too many times, then that’s all the more reason to be discerning of who you associate with. which was the point some of us were trying to make from the get go but we were labeled weird for saying that lol
ppl make fun of discerning ppl but don’t realize that discerning ppl are gonna be waaaaaay less jaded when they’re older than those who weren’t as discerning.
because they dodged way more bullets than ppl who weren’t as cautious.
ppl who were discerning are gonna be much less bitter, much less jaded , much less paranoid than those ppl who dived head first into questionable situations.
they say everything is a learning experience and that’s true to an extent.
but do you really need the type of learning experiences that are only gonna make you bitter, jaded ,and resentful?
This right here! 👏🏻 I observed this in high school and had this inculcated in my head after 24. Diving first and thinking after will do a number on your mindset and perception of things/people.
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Really depends
I have found the more emotionally mature and available ones are discerning.
The ones who are terrified of real commitment or vulnerability tend to have little discrimination.
Excellent observation! Never thought of it that way but now reflecting back on what you wrote with the juvenile angry men I’ve come across in their 30s/40s, I’d say so.
Posted by StardustmoppedPosted by CAPZPRIMEPosted by Stardustmoppednot interestedPosted by CAPZPRIMEI told you I like sex for fun and you told me I’m sad? I think you just like to argue?Posted by WarAngel79FOOD, BEVERAGE AND SEX.Posted by CAPZPRIMEEverybody has their reasons and their vices. Mine are simple: food, the occasional alcohol, and a pretty face! 😊Posted by WarAngel79i dont even know what the subject about, Aquarius girl need a bike and a hobby,
What if the answer to all of these arguments is somewhere in the middle? 🤭
we need to force her to start yoga class and hope she fall in love with the teacher or some nice random
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someone denying liking that. men or women is a liar to me for real
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Ok, it doesn’t matter 🤣 I’m just pointing it out that you’re a hypocrite.
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He’s a confused and epitome of the word misogynist. Women who sleep around are silly and sad and women who are discerning like me are boring, dull and femcels. He doesn’t like women. He’s an apathetic man who doesn’t humanize women, and to such men, women are just a hole they need to exploit for their sexual needs. Now for some astrology, apathetic men are found mostly in certain stereotypically ‘cold’ signs because they aren’t able to emote or humanize people. Capricorn, Aquarius, Virgo dominant folks as they aren’t attuned with their emotions.
Keep in mind that it’s someone who has majority of these placements.
Posted by CAPZPRIMEPosted by aquarius09Posted by StardustmoppedHe’s a confused and epitome of the word misogynist. Women who sleep around are silly and sad and women who are discerning like me are boring, dull and femcels. He doesn’t like women. He’s an apathetic man who doesn’t humanize women, and to such men, women are just a hole they need to exploit for their sexual needs. Now for some astrology, apathetic men are found mostly in certain stereotypically ‘cold’ signs because they aren’t able to emote or humanize people. Capricorn, Aquarius, Virgo dominant folks as they aren’t attuned with their emotions.Posted by CAPZPRIMEOk, it doesn’t matter 🤣 I’m just pointing it out that you’re a hypocrite.Posted by Stardustmoppednot interestedPosted by CAPZPRIMEI told you I like sex for fun and you told me I’m sad? I think you just like to argue?Posted by WarAngel79FOOD, BEVERAGE AND SEX.Posted by CAPZPRIMEEverybody has their reasons and their vices. Mine are simple: food, the occasional alcohol, and a pretty face! 😊Posted by WarAngel79i dont even know what the subject about, Aquarius girl need a bike and a hobby,
What if the answer to all of these arguments is somewhere in the middle? 🤭
we need to force her to start yoga class and hope she fall in love with the teacher or some nice random
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someone denying liking that. men or women is a liar to me for real
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To you, a women who likes sex for fun is sad and a woman who is very discerning is a femcel. Just admit you don’t like women bro.
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Keep in mind that it’s someone who has majority of these placements.
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Can you both give me the quote where i say women sleep around are bla-bla-bla .
lol I’m okay if you won’t it I supposed to be a depressed incel with no imagination living in the third world 😹.
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You’re a depressed and bitter apathetic man (never called you an incel) in Paris (I actually gave you benefit of the doubt of living in a 3rd world village because only then is your thinking acceptable) sitting at a bar drinking 😆🤣 Living an empty prurient life style does not equal to happiness. Otherwise, celebs wouldn’t be committing suicides or be happy.
As for where you called women sleeping around silly, refer back to your comment in this thread about the virgal dxp user. Also, stardust claims you said that to her. Either way, the so-called boring femcel women who discern have less body count. As far as I’m concerned I’m hot shit by virtue of having low body count thanks to your hypocritical gender that puts low body count on a pedestal 😙😉
Posted by CAPZPRIMEPosted by aquarius09Posted by CAPZPRIMEYou’re a depressed and bitter apathetic man (never called you an incel) in Paris (I actually gave you benefit of the doubt of living in a 3rd world village because only then is your thinking acceptable) sitting at a bar drinking 😆🤣 Living an empty prurient life style does not equal to happiness. Otherwise, celebs wouldn’t be committing suicides or be happy.Posted by aquarius09Can you both give me the quote where i say women sleep around are bla-bla-bla .Posted by StardustmoppedHe’s a confused and epitome of the word misogynist. Women who sleep around are silly and sad and women who are discerning like me are boring, dull and femcels. He doesn’t like women. He’s an apathetic man who doesn’t humanize women, and to such men, women are just a hole they need to exploit for their sexual needs. Now for some astrology, apathetic men are found mostly in certain stereotypically ‘cold’ signs because they aren’t able to emote or humanize people. Capricorn, Aquarius, Virgo dominant folks as they aren’t attuned with their emotions.Posted by CAPZPRIMEOk, it doesn’t matter 🤣 I’m just pointing it out that you’re a hypocrite.Posted by Stardustmoppednot interestedPosted by CAPZPRIMEI told you I like sex for fun and you told me I’m sad? I think you just like to argue?Posted by WarAngel79FOOD, BEVERAGE AND SEX.Posted by CAPZPRIMEEverybody has their reasons and their vices. Mine are simple: food, the occasional alcohol, and a pretty face! 😊Posted by WarAngel79i dont even know what the subject about, Aquarius girl need a bike and a hobby,
What if the answer to all of these arguments is somewhere in the middle? 🤭
we need to force her to start yoga class and hope she fall in love with the teacher or some nice random
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someone denying liking that. men or women is a liar to me for real
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To you, a women who likes sex for fun is sad and a woman who is very discerning is a femcel. Just admit you don’t like women bro.
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Keep in mind that it’s someone who has majority of these placements.
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lol I’m okay if you won’t it I supposed to be a depressed incel with no imagination living in the third world 😹.
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As for where you called women sleeping around silly, refer back to your comment in this thread about the virgal dxp user. Also, stardust claims you said that to her. Either way, the so-called boring femcel women who discern have less body count. As far as I’m concerned I’m hot shit by virtue of having low body count thanks to your hypocritical gender that puts low body count on a pedestal 😙😉
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You think you’re that important that I’m going to dig this long thread to find it? I referenced it. Good enough. Go find it yourself. Case closed.
Posted by CAPZPRIMEPosted by aquarius09Posted by CAPZPRIMEYou think you’re that important that I’m going to dig this long thread to find it? I referenced it. Good enough. Go find it yourself. Case closed.Posted by aquarius09asked u quote, didnt received it. not credible.Posted by CAPZPRIMEYou’re a depressed and bitter apathetic man (never called you an incel) in Paris (I actually gave you benefit of the doubt of living in a 3rd world village because only then is your thinking acceptable) sitting at a bar drinking 😆🤣 Living an empty prurient life style does not equal to happiness. Otherwise, celebs wouldn’t be committing suicides or be happy.Posted by aquarius09Can you both give me the quote where i say women sleep around are bla-bla-bla .Posted by StardustmoppedHe’s a confused and epitome of the word misogynist. Women who sleep around are silly and sad and women who are discerning like me are boring, dull and femcels. He doesn’t like women. He’s an apathetic man who doesn’t humanize women, and to such men, women are just a hole they need to exploit for their sexual needs. Now for some astrology, apathetic men are found mostly in certain stereotypically ‘cold’ signs because they aren’t able to emote or humanize people. Capricorn, Aquarius, Virgo dominant folks as they aren’t attuned with their emotions.Posted by CAPZPRIMEOk, it doesn’t matter 🤣 I’m just pointing it out that you’re a hypocrite.Posted by Stardustmoppednot interestedPosted by CAPZPRIMEI told you I like sex for fun and you told me I’m sad? I think you just like to argue?Posted by WarAngel79FOOD, BEVERAGE AND SEX.Posted by CAPZPRIMEEverybody has their reasons and their vices. Mine are simple: food, the occasional alcohol, and a pretty face! 😊Posted by WarAngel79i dont even know what the subject about, Aquarius girl need a bike and a hobby,
What if the answer to all of these arguments is somewhere in the middle? 🤭
we need to force her to start yoga class and hope she fall in love with the teacher or some nice random
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someone denying liking that. men or women is a liar to me for real
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To you, a women who likes sex for fun is sad and a woman who is very discerning is a femcel. Just admit you don’t like women bro.
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Keep in mind that it’s someone who has majority of these placements.
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lol I’m okay if you won’t it I supposed to be a depressed incel with no imagination living in the third world 😹.
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As for where you called women sleeping around silly, refer back to your comment in this thread about the virgal dxp user. Also, stardust claims you said that to her. Either way, the so-called boring femcel women who discern have less body count. As far as I’m concerned I’m hot shit by virtue of having low body count thanks to your hypocritical gender that puts low body count on a pedestal 😙😉
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yeah u cant find it ?
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I referenced it. It’s in this thread that’s become so long thanks to your vomiting. 😆 I’d even find it for you if it wasn’t onerous.
Posted by CAPZPRIMEPosted by aquarius09Posted by CAPZPRIMEJust LOL @ your careless perception on life. I’ve seen first-hand what recklessness gets people. My life wouldn’t have turned out as stable and solid as it is if I was living the careless life. “Live a little and get yourself killed or raped. One or the other. At least you would have lived and had fun.” You make it sound like living a prudent life = unhappy and boring/knitting a sweater in a corner. So juvenile at 32. You were criticizing women acting childish in their 30s but meanwhile look at your thinking. Goes to show your double-standards. Very typical Capricorn again.Posted by aquarius09your life is ruled by fear, it's horrible.Posted by CAPZPRIMENo, I don’t engage in reckless sex with a sexy stranger and that isn’t sad. That’s called prudence. You, however, are juvenile and are incapable of understanding the perils of engaging sexually with randos. It could also be men aren’t exposed to the same level of danger.Posted by aquarius09you just indirectly said to me that u never had a lover during holiday.. you want make fun of me, but objectivly i just found your life sad tbh.Posted by CAPZPRIMEHow old are you? You’re pretty juvenile for simplifying and romanticizing sex and implications of frivolous sex. Kinda like getting your holiday fling pregnant or attached. LMAO. 🤣Posted by aquarius09u way too dramatic, its called a lover. u can have sex with someone without being destroyed mentally, like a love on holiday? it wont change anything u'll just experienced pure funPosted by CAPZPRIMEFun at the expense of your mental wellness is not worth it!!! But who really has that kind of foresight? People usually burn their hand and then learn. Some never learn.Posted by aquarius09sex is fun when well performed and when the two partners are adult, but very very rare when someone doesnt catch feelings i feel only pornstar can achieve that and i'm not even surePosted by SoloYep! Aimlessly having excessive sex all because it’s fun and inconsequential also makes one distrustful and resentful of the opposite gender. This goes both for men and women. Hence the jaded and bitter folks.
When I was overwhelmed with emotion and trying to "get back" at someone is when I was being the most reckless with sex. I would ask if they would be okay getting tested before we did, and if they said yes that was pretty much as much trust as I needed to have sex raw.
Fucking almost whoever I could. Didn't make me feel better. Made me feel worse.
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So you go on holiday there is that sexy italian dude greek or whatever talk to you,
your reaction whould be? NO DONT TALK TO ME, U WANT TO STEAL MY BODY AND IM MIGHT END PREGNANT ?
im 32 ? now my turn are you an actual virgin ? yes good sex without getting married or in couple exist,
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Life is unfair and full of double standard, i accept them and i dont care. U mad at reality and u have weird fear.
Yes going outside having fun meeting people, having sex or not having sex is fun. life is about people.
U knitted a wonderful pullover? great so what ? u have nobody to shares it ?
and stop being mad, i'm not mad at you i dont care' i'm not even arguing with you, just take your time and stop writing walls of text paragraph plz
why are you so scared about life ? like whats wrong with you ? talk to me what happened ? u so affraid its crazy for real'
yeah if u are a women of 30 and you actually want a family marriage or whatever having sex with an escort boy is tottaly crazy.
but its legit the same for man, i dont even recommand to fell in love with your escort, tottaly braindead move.
yeah that virgal perfectionist is crazy stupid to me
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Here you go! I win. You really a confused apathetic man.
Posted by CAPZPRIMEPosted by aquarius09Posted by CAPZPRIMEHere you go! I win. You really a confused apathetic man.Posted by aquarius09Life is unfair and full of double standard, i accept them and i dont care. U mad at reality and u have weird fear.Posted by CAPZPRIMEJust LOL @ your careless perception on life. I’ve seen first-hand what recklessness gets people. My life wouldn’t have turned out as stable and solid as it is if I was living the careless life. “Live a little and get yourself killed or raped. One or the other. At least you would have lived and had fun.” You make it sound like living a prudent life = unhappy and boring/knitting a sweater in a corner. So juvenile at 32. You were criticizing women acting childish in their 30s but meanwhile look at your thinking. Goes to show your double-standards. Very typical Capricorn again.Posted by aquarius09your life is ruled by fear, it's horrible.Posted by CAPZPRIMENo, I don’t engage in reckless sex with a sexy stranger and that isn’t sad. That’s called prudence. You, however, are juvenile and are incapable of understanding the perils of engaging sexually with randos. It could also be men aren’t exposed to the same level of danger.Posted by aquarius09you just indirectly said to me that u never had a lover during holiday.. you want make fun of me, but objectivly i just found your life sad tbh.Posted by CAPZPRIMEHow old are you? You’re pretty juvenile for simplifying and romanticizing sex and implications of frivolous sex. Kinda like getting your holiday fling pregnant or attached. LMAO. 🤣Posted by aquarius09u way too dramatic, its called a lover. u can have sex with someone without being destroyed mentally, like a love on holiday? it wont change anything u'll just experienced pure funPosted by CAPZPRIMEFun at the expense of your mental wellness is not worth it!!! But who really has that kind of foresight? People usually burn their hand and then learn. Some never learn.Posted by aquarius09sex is fun when well performed and when the two partners are adult, but very very rare when someone doesnt catch feelings i feel only pornstar can achieve that and i'm not even surePosted by SoloYep! Aimlessly having excessive sex all because it’s fun and inconsequential also makes one distrustful and resentful of the opposite gender. This goes both for men and women. Hence the jaded and bitter folks.
When I was overwhelmed with emotion and trying to "get back" at someone is when I was being the most reckless with sex. I would ask if they would be okay getting tested before we did, and if they said yes that was pretty much as much trust as I needed to have sex raw.
Fucking almost whoever I could. Didn't make me feel better. Made me feel worse.
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So you go on holiday there is that sexy italian dude greek or whatever talk to you,
your reaction whould be? NO DONT TALK TO ME, U WANT TO STEAL MY BODY AND IM MIGHT END PREGNANT ?
im 32 ? now my turn are you an actual virgin ? yes good sex without getting married or in couple exist,
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Yes going outside having fun meeting people, having sex or not having sex is fun. life is about people.
U knitted a wonderful pullover? great so what ? u have nobody to shares it ?
and stop being mad, i'm not mad at you i dont care' i'm not even arguing with you, just take your time and stop writing walls of text paragraph plz
why are you so scared about life ? like whats wrong with you ? talk to me what happened ? u so affraid its crazy for real'
yeah if u are a women of 30 and you actually want a family marriage or whatever having sex with an escort boy is tottaly crazy.
but its legit the same for man, i dont even recommand to fell in love with your escort, tottaly braindead move.
yeah that virgal perfectionist is crazy stupid to me
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..? yep ?
so when i say to not fall in love to your escort as a man or woman when u want a family, its the moment where i said women who sleep around are sluts or holes or whatever crazy stuff i never said ?
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Another thing. Terrible writing and English. It’s so difficult to understand what you’re writing… not buying one bit that you’re in Paris. I’ve never seen a French dude write English so poorly. You are 100% in some village in India. BTW majority of logins on this site are ironically from India. Lying troll.
Posted by aquarius09Posted by CAPZPRIMEPosted by aquarius09..? yep ?Posted by CAPZPRIMEHere you go! I win. You really a confused apathetic man.Posted by aquarius09Life is unfair and full of double standard, i accept them and i dont care. U mad at reality and u have weird fear.Posted by CAPZPRIMEJust LOL @ your careless perception on life. I’ve seen first-hand what recklessness gets people. My life wouldn’t have turned out as stable and solid as it is if I was living the careless life. “Live a little and get yourself killed or raped. One or the other. At least you would have lived and had fun.” You make it sound like living a prudent life = unhappy and boring/knitting a sweater in a corner. So juvenile at 32. You were criticizing women acting childish in their 30s but meanwhile look at your thinking. Goes to show your double-standards. Very typical Capricorn again.Posted by aquarius09your life is ruled by fear, it's horrible.Posted by CAPZPRIMENo, I don’t engage in reckless sex with a sexy stranger and that isn’t sad. That’s called prudence. You, however, are juvenile and are incapable of understanding the perils of engaging sexually with randos. It could also be men aren’t exposed to the same level of danger.Posted by aquarius09you just indirectly said to me that u never had a lover during holiday.. you want make fun of me, but objectivly i just found your life sad tbh.Posted by CAPZPRIMEHow old are you? You’re pretty juvenile for simplifying and romanticizing sex and implications of frivolous sex. Kinda like getting your holiday fling pregnant or attached. LMAO. 🤣Posted by aquarius09u way too dramatic, its called a lover. u can have sex with someone without being destroyed mentally, like a love on holiday? it wont change anything u'll just experienced pure funPosted by CAPZPRIMEFun at the expense of your mental wellness is not worth it!!! But who really has that kind of foresight? People usually burn their hand and then learn. Some never learn.Posted by aquarius09sex is fun when well performed and when the two partners are adult, but very very rare when someone doesnt catch feelings i feel only pornstar can achieve that and i'm not even surePosted by SoloYep! Aimlessly having excessive sex all because it’s fun and inconsequential also makes one distrustful and resentful of the opposite gender. This goes both for men and women. Hence the jaded and bitter folks.
When I was overwhelmed with emotion and trying to "get back" at someone is when I was being the most reckless with sex. I would ask if they would be okay getting tested before we did, and if they said yes that was pretty much as much trust as I needed to have sex raw.
Fucking almost whoever I could. Didn't make me feel better. Made me feel worse.
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So you go on holiday there is that sexy italian dude greek or whatever talk to you,
your reaction whould be? NO DONT TALK TO ME, U WANT TO STEAL MY BODY AND IM MIGHT END PREGNANT ?
im 32 ? now my turn are you an actual virgin ? yes good sex without getting married or in couple exist,
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Yes going outside having fun meeting people, having sex or not having sex is fun. life is about people.
U knitted a wonderful pullover? great so what ? u have nobody to shares it ?
and stop being mad, i'm not mad at you i dont care' i'm not even arguing with you, just take your time and stop writing walls of text paragraph plz
why are you so scared about life ? like whats wrong with you ? talk to me what happened ? u so affraid its crazy for real'
yeah if u are a women of 30 and you actually want a family marriage or whatever having sex with an escort boy is tottaly crazy.
but its legit the same for man, i dont even recommand to fell in love with your escort, tottaly braindead move.
yeah that virgal perfectionist is crazy stupid to me
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so when i say to not fall in love to your escort as a man or woman when u want a family, its the moment where i said women who sleep around are sluts or holes or whatever crazy stuff i never said ?
ok you won. i wont entertainement this more. its doesnt work.
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Another thing. Terrible writing and English. It’s so difficult to understand what you’re writing… not buying one bit that you’re in Paris. I’ve never seen a French dude write English so poorly. You are 100% in some village in India. BTW majority of logins on this site are ironically from India. Lying troll.click to expand
Majority of people who post here are Indian?
How do you know that?
Posted by MyStarsShinePosted by aquarius09Posted by CAPZPRIMEAnother thing. Terrible writing and English. It’s so difficult to understand what you’re writing… not buying one bit that you’re in Paris. I’ve never seen a French dude write English so poorly. You are 100% in some village in India. BTW majority of logins on this site are ironically from India. Lying troll.Posted by aquarius09..? yep ?Posted by CAPZPRIMEHere you go! I win. You really a confused apathetic man.Posted by aquarius09Life is unfair and full of double standard, i accept them and i dont care. U mad at reality and u have weird fear.Posted by CAPZPRIMEJust LOL @ your careless perception on life. I’ve seen first-hand what recklessness gets people. My life wouldn’t have turned out as stable and solid as it is if I was living the careless life. “Live a little and get yourself killed or raped. One or the other. At least you would have lived and had fun.” You make it sound like living a prudent life = unhappy and boring/knitting a sweater in a corner. So juvenile at 32. You were criticizing women acting childish in their 30s but meanwhile look at your thinking. Goes to show your double-standards. Very typical Capricorn again.Posted by aquarius09your life is ruled by fear, it's horrible.Posted by CAPZPRIMENo, I don’t engage in reckless sex with a sexy stranger and that isn’t sad. That’s called prudence. You, however, are juvenile and are incapable of understanding the perils of engaging sexually with randos. It could also be men aren’t exposed to the same level of danger.Posted by aquarius09you just indirectly said to me that u never had a lover during holiday.. you want make fun of me, but objectivly i just found your life sad tbh.Posted by CAPZPRIMEHow old are you? You’re pretty juvenile for simplifying and romanticizing sex and implications of frivolous sex. Kinda like getting your holiday fling pregnant or attached. LMAO. 🤣Posted by aquarius09u way too dramatic, its called a lover. u can have sex with someone without being destroyed mentally, like a love on holiday? it wont change anything u'll just experienced pure funPosted by CAPZPRIMEFun at the expense of your mental wellness is not worth it!!! But who really has that kind of foresight? People usually burn their hand and then learn. Some never learn.Posted by aquarius09sex is fun when well performed and when the two partners are adult, but very very rare when someone doesnt catch feelings i feel only pornstar can achieve that and i'm not even surePosted by SoloYep! Aimlessly having excessive sex all because it’s fun and inconsequential also makes one distrustful and resentful of the opposite gender. This goes both for men and women. Hence the jaded and bitter folks.
When I was overwhelmed with emotion and trying to "get back" at someone is when I was being the most reckless with sex. I would ask if they would be okay getting tested before we did, and if they said yes that was pretty much as much trust as I needed to have sex raw.
Fucking almost whoever I could. Didn't make me feel better. Made me feel worse.
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So you go on holiday there is that sexy italian dude greek or whatever talk to you,
your reaction whould be? NO DONT TALK TO ME, U WANT TO STEAL MY BODY AND IM MIGHT END PREGNANT ?
im 32 ? now my turn are you an actual virgin ? yes good sex without getting married or in couple exist,
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Yes going outside having fun meeting people, having sex or not having sex is fun. life is about people.
U knitted a wonderful pullover? great so what ? u have nobody to shares it ?
and stop being mad, i'm not mad at you i dont care' i'm not even arguing with you, just take your time and stop writing walls of text paragraph plz
why are you so scared about life ? like whats wrong with you ? talk to me what happened ? u so affraid its crazy for real'
yeah if u are a women of 30 and you actually want a family marriage or whatever having sex with an escort boy is tottaly crazy.
but its legit the same for man, i dont even recommand to fell in love with your escort, tottaly braindead move.
yeah that virgal perfectionist is crazy stupid to me
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so when i say to not fall in love to your escort as a man or woman when u want a family, its the moment where i said women who sleep around are sluts or holes or whatever crazy stuff i never said ?
ok you won. i wont entertainement this more. its doesnt work.
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My brother is in site business and he showed me that majority of logins on this site are from India.
Posted by aquarius09Posted by MyStarsShinePosted by aquarius09Majority of people who post here are Indian?Posted by CAPZPRIMEAnother thing. Terrible writing and English. It’s so difficult to understand what you’re writing… not buying one bit that you’re in Paris. I’ve never seen a French dude write English so poorly. You are 100% in some village in India. BTW majority of logins on this site are ironically from India. Lying troll.Posted by aquarius09..? yep ?Posted by CAPZPRIMEHere you go! I win. You really a confused apathetic man.Posted by aquarius09Life is unfair and full of double standard, i accept them and i dont care. U mad at reality and u have weird fear.Posted by CAPZPRIMEJust LOL @ your careless perception on life. I’ve seen first-hand what recklessness gets people. My life wouldn’t have turned out as stable and solid as it is if I was living the careless life. “Live a little and get yourself killed or raped. One or the other. At least you would have lived and had fun.” You make it sound like living a prudent life = unhappy and boring/knitting a sweater in a corner. So juvenile at 32. You were criticizing women acting childish in their 30s but meanwhile look at your thinking. Goes to show your double-standards. Very typical Capricorn again.Posted by aquarius09your life is ruled by fear, it's horrible.Posted by CAPZPRIMENo, I don’t engage in reckless sex with a sexy stranger and that isn’t sad. That’s called prudence. You, however, are juvenile and are incapable of understanding the perils of engaging sexually with randos. It could also be men aren’t exposed to the same level of danger.Posted by aquarius09you just indirectly said to me that u never had a lover during holiday.. you want make fun of me, but objectivly i just found your life sad tbh.Posted by CAPZPRIMEHow old are you? You’re pretty juvenile for simplifying and romanticizing sex and implications of frivolous sex. Kinda like getting your holiday fling pregnant or attached. LMAO. 🤣Posted by aquarius09u way too dramatic, its called a lover. u can have sex with someone without being destroyed mentally, like a love on holiday? it wont change anything u'll just experienced pure funPosted by CAPZPRIMEFun at the expense of your mental wellness is not worth it!!! But who really has that kind of foresight? People usually burn their hand and then learn. Some never learn.Posted by aquarius09sex is fun when well performed and when the two partners are adult, but very very rare when someone doesnt catch feelings i feel only pornstar can achieve that and i'm not even surePosted by SoloYep! Aimlessly having excessive sex all because it’s fun and inconsequential also makes one distrustful and resentful of the opposite gender. This goes both for men and women. Hence the jaded and bitter folks.
When I was overwhelmed with emotion and trying to "get back" at someone is when I was being the most reckless with sex. I would ask if they would be okay getting tested before we did, and if they said yes that was pretty much as much trust as I needed to have sex raw.
Fucking almost whoever I could. Didn't make me feel better. Made me feel worse.
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So you go on holiday there is that sexy italian dude greek or whatever talk to you,
your reaction whould be? NO DONT TALK TO ME, U WANT TO STEAL MY BODY AND IM MIGHT END PREGNANT ?
im 32 ? now my turn are you an actual virgin ? yes good sex without getting married or in couple exist,
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Yes going outside having fun meeting people, having sex or not having sex is fun. life is about people.
U knitted a wonderful pullover? great so what ? u have nobody to shares it ?
and stop being mad, i'm not mad at you i dont care' i'm not even arguing with you, just take your time and stop writing walls of text paragraph plz
why are you so scared about life ? like whats wrong with you ? talk to me what happened ? u so affraid its crazy for real'
yeah if u are a women of 30 and you actually want a family marriage or whatever having sex with an escort boy is tottaly crazy.
but its legit the same for man, i dont even recommand to fell in love with your escort, tottaly braindead move.
yeah that virgal perfectionist is crazy stupid to me
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so when i say to not fall in love to your escort as a man or woman when u want a family, its the moment where i said women who sleep around are sluts or holes or whatever crazy stuff i never said ?
ok you won. i wont entertainement this more. its doesnt work.
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How do you know that?
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My brother is in site business and he showed me that majority of logins on this site are from India.click to expand
Wow that’s quite surprising for some reason?
Posted by MyStarsShinePosted by aquarius09Posted by MyStarsShineMy brother is in site business and he showed me that majority of logins on this site are from India.Posted by aquarius09Majority of people who post here are Indian?Posted by CAPZPRIMEAnother thing. Terrible writing and English. It’s so difficult to understand what you’re writing… not buying one bit that you’re in Paris. I’ve never seen a French dude write English so poorly. You are 100% in some village in India. BTW majority of logins on this site are ironically from India. Lying troll.Posted by aquarius09..? yep ?Posted by CAPZPRIMEHere you go! I win. You really a confused apathetic man.Posted by aquarius09Life is unfair and full of double standard, i accept them and i dont care. U mad at reality and u have weird fear.Posted by CAPZPRIMEJust LOL @ your careless perception on life. I’ve seen first-hand what recklessness gets people. My life wouldn’t have turned out as stable and solid as it is if I was living the careless life. “Live a little and get yourself killed or raped. One or the other. At least you would have lived and had fun.” You make it sound like living a prudent life = unhappy and boring/knitting a sweater in a corner. So juvenile at 32. You were criticizing women acting childish in their 30s but meanwhile look at your thinking. Goes to show your double-standards. Very typical Capricorn again.Posted by aquarius09your life is ruled by fear, it's horrible.Posted by CAPZPRIMENo, I don’t engage in reckless sex with a sexy stranger and that isn’t sad. That’s called prudence. You, however, are juvenile and are incapable of understanding the perils of engaging sexually with randos. It could also be men aren’t exposed to the same level of danger.Posted by aquarius09you just indirectly said to me that u never had a lover during holiday.. you want make fun of me, but objectivly i just found your life sad tbh.Posted by CAPZPRIMEHow old are you? You’re pretty juvenile for simplifying and romanticizing sex and implications of frivolous sex. Kinda like getting your holiday fling pregnant or attached. LMAO. 🤣Posted by aquarius09u way too dramatic, its called a lover. u can have sex with someone without being destroyed mentally, like a love on holiday? it wont change anything u'll just experienced pure funPosted by CAPZPRIMEFun at the expense of your mental wellness is not worth it!!! But who really has that kind of foresight? People usually burn their hand and then learn. Some never learn.Posted by aquarius09sex is fun when well performed and when the two partners are adult, but very very rare when someone doesnt catch feelings i feel only pornstar can achieve that and i'm not even surePosted by SoloYep! Aimlessly having excessive sex all because it’s fun and inconsequential also makes one distrustful and resentful of the opposite gender. This goes both for men and women. Hence the jaded and bitter folks.
When I was overwhelmed with emotion and trying to "get back" at someone is when I was being the most reckless with sex. I would ask if they would be okay getting tested before we did, and if they said yes that was pretty much as much trust as I needed to have sex raw.
Fucking almost whoever I could. Didn't make me feel better. Made me feel worse.
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So you go on holiday there is that sexy italian dude greek or whatever talk to you,
your reaction whould be? NO DONT TALK TO ME, U WANT TO STEAL MY BODY AND IM MIGHT END PREGNANT ?
im 32 ? now my turn are you an actual virgin ? yes good sex without getting married or in couple exist,
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Yes going outside having fun meeting people, having sex or not having sex is fun. life is about people.
U knitted a wonderful pullover? great so what ? u have nobody to shares it ?
and stop being mad, i'm not mad at you i dont care' i'm not even arguing with you, just take your time and stop writing walls of text paragraph plz
why are you so scared about life ? like whats wrong with you ? talk to me what happened ? u so affraid its crazy for real'
yeah if u are a women of 30 and you actually want a family marriage or whatever having sex with an escort boy is tottaly crazy.
but its legit the same for man, i dont even recommand to fell in love with your escort, tottaly braindead move.
yeah that virgal perfectionist is crazy stupid to me
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so when i say to not fall in love to your escort as a man or woman when u want a family, its the moment where i said women who sleep around are sluts or holes or whatever crazy stuff i never said ?
ok you won. i wont entertainement this more. its doesnt work.
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I was shocked too. However, he told me this like 5-6 yrs ago. I don’t know if that’s still the case today.
Posted by aquarius09Posted by MyStarsShinePosted by aquarius09Wow that’s quite surprising for some reason?Posted by MyStarsShineMy brother is in site business and he showed me that majority of logins on this site are from India.Posted by aquarius09Majority of people who post here are Indian?Posted by CAPZPRIMEAnother thing. Terrible writing and English. It’s so difficult to understand what you’re writing… not buying one bit that you’re in Paris. I’ve never seen a French dude write English so poorly. You are 100% in some village in India. BTW majority of logins on this site are ironically from India. Lying troll.Posted by aquarius09..? yep ?Posted by CAPZPRIMEHere you go! I win. You really a confused apathetic man.Posted by aquarius09Life is unfair and full of double standard, i accept them and i dont care. U mad at reality and u have weird fear.Posted by CAPZPRIMEJust LOL @ your careless perception on life. I’ve seen first-hand what recklessness gets people. My life wouldn’t have turned out as stable and solid as it is if I was living the careless life. “Live a little and get yourself killed or raped. One or the other. At least you would have lived and had fun.” You make it sound like living a prudent life = unhappy and boring/knitting a sweater in a corner. So juvenile at 32. You were criticizing women acting childish in their 30s but meanwhile look at your thinking. Goes to show your double-standards. Very typical Capricorn again.Posted by aquarius09your life is ruled by fear, it's horrible.Posted by CAPZPRIMENo, I don’t engage in reckless sex with a sexy stranger and that isn’t sad. That’s called prudence. You, however, are juvenile and are incapable of understanding the perils of engaging sexually with randos. It could also be men aren’t exposed to the same level of danger.Posted by aquarius09you just indirectly said to me that u never had a lover during holiday.. you want make fun of me, but objectivly i just found your life sad tbh.Posted by CAPZPRIMEHow old are you? You’re pretty juvenile for simplifying and romanticizing sex and implications of frivolous sex. Kinda like getting your holiday fling pregnant or attached. LMAO. 🤣Posted by aquarius09u way too dramatic, its called a lover. u can have sex with someone without being destroyed mentally, like a love on holiday? it wont change anything u'll just experienced pure funPosted by CAPZPRIMEFun at the expense of your mental wellness is not worth it!!! But who really has that kind of foresight? People usually burn their hand and then learn. Some never learn.Posted by aquarius09sex is fun when well performed and when the two partners are adult, but very very rare when someone doesnt catch feelings i feel only pornstar can achieve that and i'm not even surePosted by SoloYep! Aimlessly having excessive sex all because it’s fun and inconsequential also makes one distrustful and resentful of the opposite gender. This goes both for men and women. Hence the jaded and bitter folks.
When I was overwhelmed with emotion and trying to "get back" at someone is when I was being the most reckless with sex. I would ask if they would be okay getting tested before we did, and if they said yes that was pretty much as much trust as I needed to have sex raw.
Fucking almost whoever I could. Didn't make me feel better. Made me feel worse.
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So you go on holiday there is that sexy italian dude greek or whatever talk to you,
your reaction whould be? NO DONT TALK TO ME, U WANT TO STEAL MY BODY AND IM MIGHT END PREGNANT ?
im 32 ? now my turn are you an actual virgin ? yes good sex without getting married or in couple exist,
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Yes going outside having fun meeting people, having sex or not having sex is fun. life is about people.
U knitted a wonderful pullover? great so what ? u have nobody to shares it ?
and stop being mad, i'm not mad at you i dont care' i'm not even arguing with you, just take your time and stop writing walls of text paragraph plz
why are you so scared about life ? like whats wrong with you ? talk to me what happened ? u so affraid its crazy for real'
yeah if u are a women of 30 and you actually want a family marriage or whatever having sex with an escort boy is tottaly crazy.
but its legit the same for man, i dont even recommand to fell in love with your escort, tottaly braindead move.
yeah that virgal perfectionist is crazy stupid to me
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so when i say to not fall in love to your escort as a man or woman when u want a family, its the moment where i said women who sleep around are sluts or holes or whatever crazy stuff i never said ?
ok you won. i wont entertainement this more. its doesnt work.
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I was shocked too. However, he told me this like 5-6 yrs ago. I don’t know if that’s still the case today.click to expand
It’d be interesting to have him check now.
Again age range matters a fuck ton.
Me in my teens and early 20s had a huge ego, and would fuck anyone who could stroke it the right way. At the same time I had secret standards, so I would never truly love them or try and make it an actual relationship. Me now doesn't like people much, and accepts I was fucked up in the past. To the point I actually feel I don't deserve love or people in my life. Because of that I'd rather just be alone.
Also I'm not trying to be a prick, but most men with actual standards wouldn't date you, or anyone here for that matter. The second you tell them you are into astrology you would instantly look like a creepy woman into dumb shit. Not saying astrology is dumb or anything. That's just how most normal people outside the occult view it.
Me in my teens and early 20s had a huge ego, and would fuck anyone who could stroke it the right way. At the same time I had secret standards, so I would never truly love them or try and make it an actual relationship. Me now doesn't like people much, and accepts I was fucked up in the past. To the point I actually feel I don't deserve love or people in my life. Because of that I'd rather just be alone.
Also I'm not trying to be a prick, but most men with actual standards wouldn't date you, or anyone here for that matter. The second you tell them you are into astrology you would instantly look like a creepy woman into dumb shit. Not saying astrology is dumb or anything. That's just how most normal people outside the occult view it.
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if ppl are jaded as a result of having been hurt one too many times, then that’s all the more reason to be discerning of who you associate with. which was the point some of us were trying to make from the get go but we were labeled weird for saying that lol
ppl make fun of discerning ppl but don’t realize that discerning ppl are gonna be waaaaaay less jaded when they’re older than those who weren’t as discerning.
because they dodged way more bullets than ppl who weren’t as cautious.
ppl who were discerning are gonna be much less bitter, much less jaded , much less paranoid than those ppl who dived head first into questionable situations.
they say everything is a learning experience and that’s true to an extent.
but do you really need the type of learning experiences that are only gonna make you bitter, jaded ,and resentful?
This right here! 👏🏻 I observed this in high school and had this inculcated in my head after 24. Diving first and thinking after will do a number on your mindset and perception of things/people.click to expand
And @serenidad
That is well put and valid points for pure decrement in bed partners and beyond.
I thrive on "vibe" when it comes to any relationships. I enjoy connecting with others, its not just about under the sheets. I'm by no means a player Casanova or anything else. Compared to now a days, Very low count for a man.
Slightly off topic but related to what you have said, have you slept with someone and they caught feelings quite strongly and they/you didn't handle it well...end up the bad guy in the situation?
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Again age range matters a fuck ton.
Me in my teens and early 20s had a huge ego, and would fuck anyone who could stroke it the right way. At the same time I had secret standards, so I would never truly love them or try and make it an actual relationship. Me now doesn't like people much, and accepts I was fucked up in the past. To the point I actually feel I don't deserve love or people in my life. Because of that I'd rather just be alone.
Also I'm not trying to be a prick, but most men with actual standards wouldn't date you, or anyone here for that matter. The second you tell them you are into astrology you would instantly look like a creepy woman into dumb shit. Not saying astrology is dumb or anything. That's just how most normal people outside the occult view it.
she can stay quiet about being into astrology lol that’s what i do in real life lol i automatically assumed that’s what most of us here did 😅 lol
Posted by LostthoughtsPosted by aquarius09Posted by serenidadThis right here! 👏🏻 I observed this in high school and had this inculcated in my head after 24. Diving first and thinking after will do a number on your mindset and perception of things/people.
if ppl are jaded as a result of having been hurt one too many times, then that’s all the more reason to be discerning of who you associate with. which was the point some of us were trying to make from the get go but we were labeled weird for saying that lol
ppl make fun of discerning ppl but don’t realize that discerning ppl are gonna be waaaaaay less jaded when they’re older than those who weren’t as discerning.
because they dodged way more bullets than ppl who weren’t as cautious.
ppl who were discerning are gonna be much less bitter, much less jaded , much less paranoid than those ppl who dived head first into questionable situations.
they say everything is a learning experience and that’s true to an extent.
but do you really need the type of learning experiences that are only gonna make you bitter, jaded ,and resentful?
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And @serenidad
That is well put and valid points for pure decrement in bed partners and beyond.
I thrive on "vibe" when it comes to any relationships. I enjoy connecting with others, its not just about under the sheets. I'm by no means a player Casanova or anything else. Compared to now a days, Very low count for a man.
Slightly off topic but related to what you have said, have you slept with someone and they caught feelings quite strongly and they/you didn't handle it well...end up the bad guy in the situation?
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yeah totally. i just feel like sometimes ppl will willingly dive into situations they know will hurt them or situations that they know won’t be so fruitful/productive in the long run and suffer emotional damage needlessly.
so that’s where the discernment needs to come into play. we’re only here on earth for a short period of time and we should experience beautiful things (including love). not mediocre things.
as for your question, i’ve actually never had that happen to me (i only been with two ppl so far lol ex wife and current spouse) but i can understand what you’re describing though.
can i ask you what made you “not handle it well”? did something not feel right about the girl? maybe you saw something that made you uncomfortable about her? or develop suspicions? (something she did)?
or were you not ready? did you yourself have some unresolved feelings from the past or something that made you hesitant?
Posted by serenidadPosted by Soul
Again age range matters a fuck ton.
Me in my teens and early 20s had a huge ego, and would fuck anyone who could stroke it the right way. At the same time I had secret standards, so I would never truly love them or try and make it an actual relationship. Me now doesn't like people much, and accepts I was fucked up in the past. To the point I actually feel I don't deserve love or people in my life. Because of that I'd rather just be alone.
Also I'm not trying to be a prick, but most men with actual standards wouldn't date you, or anyone here for that matter. The second you tell them you are into astrology you would instantly look like a creepy woman into dumb shit. Not saying astrology is dumb or anything. That's just how most normal people outside the occult view it.
she can stay quiet about being into astrology lol that’s what i do in real life lol i automatically assumed that’s what most of us here did 😅 lolclick to expand
Except me 😂
I don’t really care what people think and wouldn’t hide what I believe in …
Posted by serenidadPosted by LostthoughtsPosted by aquarius09And @serenidadPosted by serenidadThis right here! 👏🏻 I observed this in high school and had this inculcated in my head after 24. Diving first and thinking after will do a number on your mindset and perception of things/people.
if ppl are jaded as a result of having been hurt one too many times, then that’s all the more reason to be discerning of who you associate with. which was the point some of us were trying to make from the get go but we were labeled weird for saying that lol
ppl make fun of discerning ppl but don’t realize that discerning ppl are gonna be waaaaaay less jaded when they’re older than those who weren’t as discerning.
because they dodged way more bullets than ppl who weren’t as cautious.
ppl who were discerning are gonna be much less bitter, much less jaded , much less paranoid than those ppl who dived head first into questionable situations.
they say everything is a learning experience and that’s true to an extent.
but do you really need the type of learning experiences that are only gonna make you bitter, jaded ,and resentful?
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That is well put and valid points for pure decrement in bed partners and beyond.
I thrive on "vibe" when it comes to any relationships. I enjoy connecting with others, its not just about under the sheets. I'm by no means a player Casanova or anything else. Compared to now a days, Very low count for a man.
Slightly off topic but related to what you have said, have you slept with someone and they caught feelings quite strongly and they/you didn't handle it well...end up the bad guy in the situation?
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yeah totally. i just feel like sometimes ppl will willingly dive into situations they know will hurt them or situations that they know won’t be so fruitful/productive in the long run and suffer emotional damage needlessly.
so that’s where the discernment needs to come into play. we’re only here on earth for a short period of time and we should experience beautiful things (including love). not mediocre things.
as for your question, i’ve actually never had that happen to me (i only been with two ppl so far lol ex wife and current spouse) but i can understand what you’re describing though.
can i ask you what made you “not handle it well”? did something not feel right about the girl? maybe you saw something that made you uncomfortable about her? or develop suspicions? (something she did)?
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“not handle it well” I was thinking of the past.
This is a big part of it👇
"we’re only here on earth for a short period of time and we should experience beautiful things (including love)"
.it's very much me. A hippieish philosophy.
Connection, intimacy, having fun with things. I can be very expressive.
This has gotten me in trouble....
In the past I had suffered from fOMO and said fuck it and dived in. It's caused confusion and hard feelings when those VERY FEW times Ive done that and they caught serious feelings. I was just enjoying things, you know love and laughter.
I don't like hurting people and never forgot.
They weren't the one and I knew that. Now I hold back until Im sure whats going on their end first.
Thankfully now, I'm very good at feeling people out and the kind of connection we have. I really miss being in a close relationship. It's not that I can't be alone, I've always been happier paired. Waiting sucks.
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Again age range matters a fuck ton.
Me in my teens and early 20s had a huge ego, and would fuck anyone who could stroke it the right way. At the same time I had secret standards, so I would never truly love them or try and make it an actual relationship. Me now doesn't like people much, and accepts I was fucked up in the past. To the point I actually feel I don't deserve love or people in my life. Because of that I'd rather just be alone.
Also I'm not trying to be a prick, but most men with actual standards wouldn't date you, or anyone here for that matter. The second you tell them you are into astrology you would instantly look like a creepy woman into dumb shit. Not saying astrology is dumb or anything. That's just how most normal people outside the occult view it.
I agree but I’m not an astrology junkie to disclose that anyway. It’s true people perceive those who are into the occult as cuckoo. I understand that all too well because I view religious people as that.
Posted by LostthoughtsPosted by serenidadPosted by Lostthoughtsyeah totally. i just feel like sometimes ppl will willingly dive into situations they know will hurt them or situations that they know won’t be so fruitful/productive in the long run and suffer emotional damage needlessly.Posted by aquarius09And @serenidadPosted by serenidadThis right here! 👏🏻 I observed this in high school and had this inculcated in my head after 24. Diving first and thinking after will do a number on your mindset and perception of things/people.
if ppl are jaded as a result of having been hurt one too many times, then that’s all the more reason to be discerning of who you associate with. which was the point some of us were trying to make from the get go but we were labeled weird for saying that lol
ppl make fun of discerning ppl but don’t realize that discerning ppl are gonna be waaaaaay less jaded when they’re older than those who weren’t as discerning.
because they dodged way more bullets than ppl who weren’t as cautious.
ppl who were discerning are gonna be much less bitter, much less jaded , much less paranoid than those ppl who dived head first into questionable situations.
they say everything is a learning experience and that’s true to an extent.
but do you really need the type of learning experiences that are only gonna make you bitter, jaded ,and resentful?
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That is well put and valid points for pure decrement in bed partners and beyond.
I thrive on "vibe" when it comes to any relationships. I enjoy connecting with others, its not just about under the sheets. I'm by no means a player Casanova or anything else. Compared to now a days, Very low count for a man.
Slightly off topic but related to what you have said, have you slept with someone and they caught feelings quite strongly and they/you didn't handle it well...end up the bad guy in the situation?
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so that’s where the discernment needs to come into play. we’re only here on earth for a short period of time and we should experience beautiful things (including love). not mediocre things.
as for your question, i’ve actually never had that happen to me (i only been with two ppl so far lol ex wife and current spouse) but i can understand what you’re describing though.
can i ask you what made you “not handle it well”? did something not feel right about the girl? maybe you saw something that made you uncomfortable about her? or develop suspicions? (something she did)?
or were you not ready? did you yourself have some unresolved feelings from the past or something that made you hesitant?
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“not handle it well” I was thinking of the past.
This is a big part of it👇
"we’re only here on earth for a short period of time and we should experience beautiful things (including love)"
.it's very much me. A hippieish philosophy.
Connection, intimacy, having fun with things. I can be very expressive.
This has gotten me in trouble....
In the past I had suffered from fOMO and said fuck it and dived in. It's caused confusion and hard feelings when those VERY FEW times Ive done that and they caught serious feelings. I was just enjoying things, you know love and laughter.
I don't like hurting people and never forgot.
They weren't the one and I knew that. Now I hold back until Im sure whats going on their end first.
Thankfully now, I'm very good at feeling people out and the kind of connection we have. I really miss being in a close relationship. It's not that I can't be alone, I've always been happier paired. Waiting sucks.
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That’s one of the reasons why I don’t mingle even casually with people I don’t see long term with. I hate hurting people or when they have expectations of me that I never encouraged
in the first place.
Posted by Soul
Again age range matters a fuck ton.
Me in my teens and early 20s had a huge ego, and would fuck anyone who could stroke it the right way. At the same time I had secret standards, so I would never truly love them or try and make it an actual relationship. Me now doesn't like people much, and accepts I was fucked up in the past. To the point I actually feel I don't deserve love or people in my life. Because of that I'd rather just be alone.
Also I'm not trying to be a prick, but most men with actual standards wouldn't date you, or anyone here for that matter. The second you tell them you are into astrology you would instantly look like a creepy woman into dumb shit. Not saying astrology is dumb or anything. That's just how most normal people outside the occult view it.
But isn't it great that people have weird interests? Otherwise life would be very boring. Also astrology is just innocent and silly, people date politicians, or sex cult leaders which is more unbelievable lol
Posted by PolyannananaPosted by Soul
Again age range matters a fuck ton.
Me in my teens and early 20s had a huge ego, and would fuck anyone who could stroke it the right way. At the same time I had secret standards, so I would never truly love them or try and make it an actual relationship. Me now doesn't like people much, and accepts I was fucked up in the past. To the point I actually feel I don't deserve love or people in my life. Because of that I'd rather just be alone.
Also I'm not trying to be a prick, but most men with actual standards wouldn't date you, or anyone here for that matter. The second you tell them you are into astrology you would instantly look like a creepy woman into dumb shit. Not saying astrology is dumb or anything. That's just how most normal people outside the occult view it.
But isn't it great that people have weird interests? Otherwise life would be very boring. Also astrology is just innocent and silly, people date politicians, or sex cult leaders which is more unbelievable lolclick to expand
Astrology is more authentic than politicians 😂
Posted by MyStarsShinePosted by PolyannananaPosted by SoulBut isn't it great that people have weird interests? Otherwise life would be very boring. Also astrology is just innocent and silly, people date politicians, or sex cult leaders which is more unbelievable lol
Again age range matters a fuck ton.
Me in my teens and early 20s had a huge ego, and would fuck anyone who could stroke it the right way. At the same time I had secret standards, so I would never truly love them or try and make it an actual relationship. Me now doesn't like people much, and accepts I was fucked up in the past. To the point I actually feel I don't deserve love or people in my life. Because of that I'd rather just be alone.
Also I'm not trying to be a prick, but most men with actual standards wouldn't date you, or anyone here for that matter. The second you tell them you are into astrology you would instantly look like a creepy woman into dumb shit. Not saying astrology is dumb or anything. That's just how most normal people outside the occult view it.
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Astrology is more authentic than politicians 😂click to expand
It is. It’s fine to have an interest in astrology or any other occult but reserve that talk about interest for when you know the person somewhat. Don’t start talking about these mystical interest or even politics when a person doesn’t know you. It’s going to put them off. I know what it’s saying. People come across as insensible and out of touch with reality when they start talking about hocus pocus from the beginning. I do bring astrology up with guys once I know them a bit better and dazzle them away with what I can read on them.
So no issues when they know a person somewhat.
Posted by MyStarsShinePosted by PolyannananaPosted by SoulBut isn't it great that people have weird interests? Otherwise life would be very boring. Also astrology is just innocent and silly, people date politicians, or sex cult leaders which is more unbelievable lol
Again age range matters a fuck ton.
Me in my teens and early 20s had a huge ego, and would fuck anyone who could stroke it the right way. At the same time I had secret standards, so I would never truly love them or try and make it an actual relationship. Me now doesn't like people much, and accepts I was fucked up in the past. To the point I actually feel I don't deserve love or people in my life. Because of that I'd rather just be alone.
Also I'm not trying to be a prick, but most men with actual standards wouldn't date you, or anyone here for that matter. The second you tell them you are into astrology you would instantly look like a creepy woman into dumb shit. Not saying astrology is dumb or anything. That's just how most normal people outside the occult view it.
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Astrology is more authentic than politicians 😂click to expand
Also more fun lol. And I actually don't know a single person who doesn't enjoy or has never enjoyed talking about signs, compatibilities or retrogrades. It gives people a chance to talk about life in a different, connecting way.
Posted by LostthoughtsPosted by serenidadPosted by Lostthoughtsyeah totally. i just feel like sometimes ppl will willingly dive into situations they know will hurt them or situations that they know won’t be so fruitful/productive in the long run and suffer emotional damage needlessly.Posted by aquarius09And @serenidadPosted by serenidadThis right here! 👏🏻 I observed this in high school and had this inculcated in my head after 24. Diving first and thinking after will do a number on your mindset and perception of things/people.
if ppl are jaded as a result of having been hurt one too many times, then that’s all the more reason to be discerning of who you associate with. which was the point some of us were trying to make from the get go but we were labeled weird for saying that lol
ppl make fun of discerning ppl but don’t realize that discerning ppl are gonna be waaaaaay less jaded when they’re older than those who weren’t as discerning.
because they dodged way more bullets than ppl who weren’t as cautious.
ppl who were discerning are gonna be much less bitter, much less jaded , much less paranoid than those ppl who dived head first into questionable situations.
they say everything is a learning experience and that’s true to an extent.
but do you really need the type of learning experiences that are only gonna make you bitter, jaded ,and resentful?
click to expand
That is well put and valid points for pure decrement in bed partners and beyond.
I thrive on "vibe" when it comes to any relationships. I enjoy connecting with others, its not just about under the sheets. I'm by no means a player Casanova or anything else. Compared to now a days, Very low count for a man.
Slightly off topic but related to what you have said, have you slept with someone and they caught feelings quite strongly and they/you didn't handle it well...end up the bad guy in the situation?
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so that’s where the discernment needs to come into play. we’re only here on earth for a short period of time and we should experience beautiful things (including love). not mediocre things.
as for your question, i’ve actually never had that happen to me (i only been with two ppl so far lol ex wife and current spouse) but i can understand what you’re describing though.
can i ask you what made you “not handle it well”? did something not feel right about the girl? maybe you saw something that made you uncomfortable about her? or develop suspicions? (something she did)?
or were you not ready? did you yourself have some unresolved feelings from the past or something that made you hesitant?
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“not handle it well” I was thinking of the past.
This is a big part of it👇
"we’re only here on earth for a short period of time and we should experience beautiful things (including love)"
.it's very much me. A hippieish philosophy.
Connection, intimacy, having fun with things. I can be very expressive.
This has gotten me in trouble....
In the past I had suffered from fOMO and said fuck it and dived in. It's caused confusion and hard feelings when those VERY FEW times Ive done that and they caught serious feelings. I was just enjoying things, you know love and laughter.
I don't like hurting people and never forgot.
They weren't the one and I knew that. Now I hold back until Im sure whats going on their end first.
Thankfully now, I'm very good at feeling people out and the kind of connection we have. I really miss being in a close relationship. It's not that I can't be alone, I've always been happier paired. Waiting sucks.
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i think we’ve all unintentionally hurt someone before at some point in our lives. i sure have.
but what’s important is that we learned from those past mistakes and we’re trying not to hurt anyone again. some people don’t even feel any remorse so you are so much better than those people and so much more self-aware which is great.
“I really miss being in a close relationship. It's not that I can't be alone, I've always been happier paired. Waiting sucks.”
that’s valid. people who are happier paired are meant to be in a loving relationship. anything less probably won’t cut it for you as in you’ll feel like something is missing. did you have a libra venus if i remember correctly? maybe someone who gives you that peaceful relaxing sunday afternoon vibes might be perfect for you lol
and yes waiting sucks. but keep putting yourself in situations where you can be seen by new people cuz your soulmate can’t find you if she doesn’t know you exist so it’s important to be seen by new people. also, imagine your ideal soulmate and ask yourself “where would she go? where would she most likely be? what sorta places/atmospheres?”and then go there. a person i know found her soulmate this way. 🙂
Posted by MyStarsShinePosted by serenidadPosted by Soulshe can stay quiet about being into astrology lol that’s what i do in real life lol i automatically assumed that’s what most of us here did 😅 lol
Again age range matters a fuck ton.
Me in my teens and early 20s had a huge ego, and would fuck anyone who could stroke it the right way. At the same time I had secret standards, so I would never truly love them or try and make it an actual relationship. Me now doesn't like people much, and accepts I was fucked up in the past. To the point I actually feel I don't deserve love or people in my life. Because of that I'd rather just be alone.
Also I'm not trying to be a prick, but most men with actual standards wouldn't date you, or anyone here for that matter. The second you tell them you are into astrology you would instantly look like a creepy woman into dumb shit. Not saying astrology is dumb or anything. That's just how most normal people outside the occult view it.
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Except me 😂
I don’t really care what people think and wouldn’t hide what I believe in …click to expand
i applaud your courage 😂
i’m usually around males so they’re not really interested in metaphysical stuff lol i sometimes even hide the fact that i’m into psychology in front of ppl i just met too😅 i don’t want them to think i’m scheming something or trying to judge them and stuff lol 😅
Posted by PolyannananaPosted by MyStarsShinePosted by PolyannananaAstrology is more authentic than politicians 😂Posted by SoulBut isn't it great that people have weird interests? Otherwise life would be very boring. Also astrology is just innocent and silly, people date politicians, or sex cult leaders which is more unbelievable lol
Again age range matters a fuck ton.
Me in my teens and early 20s had a huge ego, and would fuck anyone who could stroke it the right way. At the same time I had secret standards, so I would never truly love them or try and make it an actual relationship. Me now doesn't like people much, and accepts I was fucked up in the past. To the point I actually feel I don't deserve love or people in my life. Because of that I'd rather just be alone.
Also I'm not trying to be a prick, but most men with actual standards wouldn't date you, or anyone here for that matter. The second you tell them you are into astrology you would instantly look like a creepy woman into dumb shit. Not saying astrology is dumb or anything. That's just how most normal people outside the occult view it.
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Also more fun lol. And I actually don't know a single person who doesn't enjoy or has never enjoyed talking about signs, compatibilities or retrogrades. It gives people a chance to talk about life in a different, connecting way.click to expand
Yes it is and yes it does 😃
Posted by serenidadPosted by MyStarsShinePosted by serenidadExcept me 😂Posted by Soulshe can stay quiet about being into astrology lol that’s what i do in real life lol i automatically assumed that’s what most of us here did 😅 lol
Again age range matters a fuck ton.
Me in my teens and early 20s had a huge ego, and would fuck anyone who could stroke it the right way. At the same time I had secret standards, so I would never truly love them or try and make it an actual relationship. Me now doesn't like people much, and accepts I was fucked up in the past. To the point I actually feel I don't deserve love or people in my life. Because of that I'd rather just be alone.
Also I'm not trying to be a prick, but most men with actual standards wouldn't date you, or anyone here for that matter. The second you tell them you are into astrology you would instantly look like a creepy woman into dumb shit. Not saying astrology is dumb or anything. That's just how most normal people outside the occult view it.
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I don’t really care what people think and wouldn’t hide what I believe in …
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i applaud your courage 😂
i’m usually around males so they’re not really interested in metaphysical stuff lol i sometimes even hide the fact that i’m into psychology in front of ppl i just met too😅 i don’t want them to think i’m scheming something or trying to judge them and stuff lol 😅click to expand
That must be difficult to suppress a part of yourself ~ I don’t know how to do that 🙃😅
Posted by PolyannananaPosted by Soul
Again age range matters a fuck ton.
Me in my teens and early 20s had a huge ego, and would fuck anyone who could stroke it the right way. At the same time I had secret standards, so I would never truly love them or try and make it an actual relationship. Me now doesn't like people much, and accepts I was fucked up in the past. To the point I actually feel I don't deserve love or people in my life. Because of that I'd rather just be alone.
Also I'm not trying to be a prick, but most men with actual standards wouldn't date you, or anyone here for that matter. The second you tell them you are into astrology you would instantly look like a creepy woman into dumb shit. Not saying astrology is dumb or anything. That's just how most normal people outside the occult view it.
But isn't it great that people have weird interests? Otherwise life would be very boring. Also astrology is just innocent and silly, people date politicians, or sex cult leaders which is more unbelievable lolclick to expand
Those people don't have actual standards though. If so they wouldn't be dating sex cult leaders, or politicians. People with standards would date likewise people with standards, but the word itself is a bit suggestive though. Like if the persons standard was to be a corrupted greedy liar then I guess dating a politician would fit them perfectly.
Posted by aquarius09Posted by Soul
Again age range matters a fuck ton.
Me in my teens and early 20s had a huge ego, and would fuck anyone who could stroke it the right way. At the same time I had secret standards, so I would never truly love them or try and make it an actual relationship. Me now doesn't like people much, and accepts I was fucked up in the past. To the point I actually feel I don't deserve love or people in my life. Because of that I'd rather just be alone.
Also I'm not trying to be a prick, but most men with actual standards wouldn't date you, or anyone here for that matter. The second you tell them you are into astrology you would instantly look like a creepy woman into dumb shit. Not saying astrology is dumb or anything. That's just how most normal people outside the occult view it.
I agree but I’m not an astrology junkie to disclose that anyway. It’s true people perceive those who are into the occult as cuckoo. I understand that all too well because I view religious people as that.click to expand
I mean you shouldn't. I get extremest using religion as a way to pretend they can justify murder and destruction, but most religious people just want to live life with their morals and values while keeping people like you at at distance. Most religious people wouldn't want to kill you, or even try and convince you. They just want to live life based off their own standards. It's the news, media, and extremist that want to make you think otherwise. Trust me, I have a dark spirit. Every super religious person I've met never tried to convince me anything. Once they had to leave all they said was "It was nice meeting you, and if we ever cross paths again I'll enjoy having another conversation with you." Most religious people are super open to having convers with people outside their own religion.
Posted by serenidadPosted by LostthoughtsPosted by serenidad“not handle it well” I was thinking of the past.Posted by Lostthoughtsyeah totally. i just feel like sometimes ppl will willingly dive into situations they know will hurt them or situations that they know won’t be so fruitful/productive in the long run and suffer emotional damage needlessly.Posted by aquarius09And @serenidadPosted by serenidadThis right here! 👏🏻 I observed this in high school and had this inculcated in my head after 24. Diving first and thinking after will do a number on your mindset and perception of things/people.
if ppl are jaded as a result of having been hurt one too many times, then that’s all the more reason to be discerning of who you associate with. which was the point some of us were trying to make from the get go but we were labeled weird for saying that lol
ppl make fun of discerning ppl but don’t realize that discerning ppl are gonna be waaaaaay less jaded when they’re older than those who weren’t as discerning.
because they dodged way more bullets than ppl who weren’t as cautious.
ppl who were discerning are gonna be much less bitter, much less jaded , much less paranoid than those ppl who dived head first into questionable situations.
they say everything is a learning experience and that’s true to an extent.
but do you really need the type of learning experiences that are only gonna make you bitter, jaded ,and resentful?
click to expand
That is well put and valid points for pure decrement in bed partners and beyond.
I thrive on "vibe" when it comes to any relationships. I enjoy connecting with others, its not just about under the sheets. I'm by no means a player Casanova or anything else. Compared to now a days, Very low count for a man.
Slightly off topic but related to what you have said, have you slept with someone and they caught feelings quite strongly and they/you didn't handle it well...end up the bad guy in the situation?
click to expand
so that’s where the discernment needs to come into play. we’re only here on earth for a short period of time and we should experience beautiful things (including love). not mediocre things.
as for your question, i’ve actually never had that happen to me (i only been with two ppl so far lol ex wife and current spouse) but i can understand what you’re describing though.
can i ask you what made you “not handle it well”? did something not feel right about the girl? maybe you saw something that made you uncomfortable about her? or develop suspicions? (something she did)?
or were you not ready? did you yourself have some unresolved feelings from the past or something that made you hesitant?
click to expand
This is a big part of it👇
"we’re only here on earth for a short period of time and we should experience beautiful things (including love)"
.it's very much me. A hippieish philosophy.
Connection, intimacy, having fun with things. I can be very expressive.
This has gotten me in trouble....
In the past I had suffered from fOMO and said fuck it and dived in. It's caused confusion and hard feelings when those VERY FEW times Ive done that and they caught serious feelings. I was just enjoying things, you know love and laughter.
I don't like hurting people and never forgot.
They weren't the one and I knew that. Now I hold back until Im sure whats going on their end first.
Thankfully now, I'm very good at feeling people out and the kind of connection we have. I really miss being in a close relationship. It's not that I can't be alone, I've always been happier paired. Waiting sucks.
.
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i think we’ve all unintentionally hurt someone before at some point in our lives. i sure have.
but what’s important is that we learned from those past mistakes and we’re trying not to hurt anyone again. some people don’t even feel any remorse so you are so much better than those people and so much more self-aware which is great.
“I really miss being in a close relationship. It's not that I can't be alone, I've always been happier paired. Waiting sucks.”
that’s valid. people who are happier paired are meant to be in a loving relationship. anything less probably won’t cut it for you as in you’ll feel like something is missing. did you have a libra venus if i remember correctly? maybe someone who gives you that peaceful relaxing sunday afternoon vibes might be perfect for you lol
and yes waiting sucks. but keep putting yourself in situations where you can be seen by new people cuz your soulmate can’t find you if she doesn’t know you exist so it’s important to be seen by new people. also, imagine your ideal soulmate and ask yourself “where would she go? where would she most likely be? what sorta places/atmospheres?”and then go there. a person i know found her soulmate this way. 🙂
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Ya I know how to meet my type and likely places they will be. Which most of the time is thier home🤣
Catch them on outings with friends. They are the sensitive passionate types.
They are universally liked. Lol and taken as soon as they want to be.
They as in plural is true as well. I've met many myself, I doubt Im special with this. So people have many soulmates and there are different types, it's a matter of choicing to go all the way with a particular one.
Like I said before, I'm very good at feeling out people, it's almost like a cheat. I already know what Im looking for in a life partner. Waiting sucks but I am....and stay out of trouble.
Posted by SoulPosted by aquarius09Posted by SoulI agree but I’m not an astrology junkie to disclose that anyway. It’s true people perceive those who are into the occult as cuckoo. I understand that all too well because I view religious people as that.
Again age range matters a fuck ton.
Me in my teens and early 20s had a huge ego, and would fuck anyone who could stroke it the right way. At the same time I had secret standards, so I would never truly love them or try and make it an actual relationship. Me now doesn't like people much, and accepts I was fucked up in the past. To the point I actually feel I don't deserve love or people in my life. Because of that I'd rather just be alone.
Also I'm not trying to be a prick, but most men with actual standards wouldn't date you, or anyone here for that matter. The second you tell them you are into astrology you would instantly look like a creepy woman into dumb shit. Not saying astrology is dumb or anything. That's just how most normal people outside the occult view it.
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I mean you shouldn't. I get extremest using religion as a way to pretend they can justify murder and destruction, but most religious people just want to live life with their morals and values while keeping people like you at at distance. Most religious people wouldn't want to kill you, or even try and convince you. They just want to live life based off their own standards. It's the news, media, and extremist that want to make you think otherwise. Trust me, I have a dark spirit. Every super religious person I've met never tried to convince me anything. Once they had to leave all they said was "It was nice meeting you, and if we ever cross paths again I'll enjoy having another conversation with you." Most religious people are super open to having convers with people outside their own religion.click to expand
No, I strongly disagree. Most religious people are duplicitous and need the facade of religion to make people believe that they are good persons when in reality they aren’t and prone to doing shady things. I met my share of religious people and come from one. And no, I’m not getting my opinion from news and media. I observe religious people closely and use to be religious myself until I read up on my religion. In fact, most religious people have no clue what they are following as they don’t study their faith with critical thinking skills. They blindly follow a faith based on hearsay or what religious figures feed them.
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only on dxp have i seen ppl who are annoyed by ppl having morals.
only on dxp do i find myself having to explain basic human decency to ppl.
that says a lot about the quality of the ppl here, don’t you think?
i can count level-headed members on just one hand. that’s a problem. i don’t think i wanna be here much longer if this is the overall climate lol