serenidad
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Posted by aquarius09Posted by SoulPosted by aquarius09I mean you shouldn't. I get extremest using religion as a way to pretend they can justify murder and destruction, but most religious people just want to live life with their morals and values while keeping people like you at at distance. Most religious people wouldn't want to kill you, or even try and convince you. They just want to live life based off their own standards. It's the news, media, and extremist that want to make you think otherwise. Trust me, I have a dark spirit. Every super religious person I've met never tried to convince me anything. Once they had to leave all they said was "It was nice meeting you, and if we ever cross paths again I'll enjoy having another conversation with you." Most religious people are super open to having convers with people outside their own religion.Posted by SoulI agree but I’m not an astrology junkie to disclose that anyway. It’s true people perceive those who are into the occult as cuckoo. I understand that all too well because I view religious people as that.
Again age range matters a fuck ton.
Me in my teens and early 20s had a huge ego, and would fuck anyone who could stroke it the right way. At the same time I had secret standards, so I would never truly love them or try and make it an actual relationship. Me now doesn't like people much, and accepts I was fucked up in the past. To the point I actually feel I don't deserve love or people in my life. Because of that I'd rather just be alone.
Also I'm not trying to be a prick, but most men with actual standards wouldn't date you, or anyone here for that matter. The second you tell them you are into astrology you would instantly look like a creepy woman into dumb shit. Not saying astrology is dumb or anything. That's just how most normal people outside the occult view it.
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No, I strongly disagree. Most religious people are duplicitous and need the facade of religion to make people believe that they are good persons when in reality they aren’t and prone to doing shady things. I met my share of religious people and come from one. And no, I’m not getting my opinion from news and media. I observe religious people closely and use to be religious myself until I read up on my religion. In fact, most religious people have no clue what they are following as they don’t study their faith with critical thinking skills. They blindly follow a faith based on hearsay or what religious figures feed them.click to expand
i’ve seen one too many documentaries of priests molesting kids by telling them some bullshit like “this is god’s will” lol 😂 (like trying to convince the kids that god wants this for them)
god’s will my ass lol 😂 i guess it must also be “god’s will” then if the fathers of those kids ever decide to shove the priest off a high cliff and make it look like an accident too lol 😂 can’t blindly trust religious leaders lol
Posted by serenidadPosted by aquarius09Posted by SoulNo, I strongly disagree. Most religious people are duplicitous and need the facade of religion to make people believe that they are good persons when in reality they aren’t and prone to doing shady things. I met my share of religious people and come from one. And no, I’m not getting my opinion from news and media. I observe religious people closely and use to be religious myself until I read up on my religion. In fact, most religious people have no clue what they are following as they don’t study their faith with critical thinking skills. They blindly follow a faith based on hearsay or what religious figures feed them.Posted by aquarius09I mean you shouldn't. I get extremest using religion as a way to pretend they can justify murder and destruction, but most religious people just want to live life with their morals and values while keeping people like you at at distance. Most religious people wouldn't want to kill you, or even try and convince you. They just want to live life based off their own standards. It's the news, media, and extremist that want to make you think otherwise. Trust me, I have a dark spirit. Every super religious person I've met never tried to convince me anything. Once they had to leave all they said was "It was nice meeting you, and if we ever cross paths again I'll enjoy having another conversation with you." Most religious people are super open to having convers with people outside their own religion.Posted by SoulI agree but I’m not an astrology junkie to disclose that anyway. It’s true people perceive those who are into the occult as cuckoo. I understand that all too well because I view religious people as that.
Again age range matters a fuck ton.
Me in my teens and early 20s had a huge ego, and would fuck anyone who could stroke it the right way. At the same time I had secret standards, so I would never truly love them or try and make it an actual relationship. Me now doesn't like people much, and accepts I was fucked up in the past. To the point I actually feel I don't deserve love or people in my life. Because of that I'd rather just be alone.
Also I'm not trying to be a prick, but most men with actual standards wouldn't date you, or anyone here for that matter. The second you tell them you are into astrology you would instantly look like a creepy woman into dumb shit. Not saying astrology is dumb or anything. That's just how most normal people outside the occult view it.
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i’ve seen one too many documentaries of priests molesting kids by telling them some bullshit like “this is god’s will” lol 😂 (like trying to convince the kids that god wants this for them)
god’s will my ass lol 😂 i guess it must also be “god’s will” then if the fathers of those kids ever decide to shove the priest off a high cliff and make it look like an accident too lol 😂 can’t blindly trust religious leaders lol
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Here’s the thing though, all of them are mesmerized by the pries—-cult leader so the father and mom would not bat an eye lash if their kid gets molested. They all think it’s a privilege if the cult leader is even touching them. All religions are cults and you will see it if you actually read the text and the resulting behaviour in people.
Posted by PolyannananaPosted by SoulPosted by PolyannananaThose people don't have actual standards though. If so they wouldn't be dating sex cult leaders, or politicians. People with standards would date likewise people with standards, but the word itself is a bit suggestive though. Like if the persons standard was to be a corrupted greedy liar then I guess dating a politician would fit them perfectly.Posted by SoulBut isn't it great that people have weird interests? Otherwise life would be very boring. Also astrology is just innocent and silly, people date politicians, or sex cult leaders which is more unbelievable lol
Again age range matters a fuck ton.
Me in my teens and early 20s had a huge ego, and would fuck anyone who could stroke it the right way. At the same time I had secret standards, so I would never truly love them or try and make it an actual relationship. Me now doesn't like people much, and accepts I was fucked up in the past. To the point I actually feel I don't deserve love or people in my life. Because of that I'd rather just be alone.
Also I'm not trying to be a prick, but most men with actual standards wouldn't date you, or anyone here for that matter. The second you tell them you are into astrology you would instantly look like a creepy woman into dumb shit. Not saying astrology is dumb or anything. That's just how most normal people outside the occult view it.
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I don't think you mean people that are into astrology though. Because majority of women are into it lol. Successful rich beautiful women. You meant more like people who choose to spend time on forums like this maybe instead of doing something more useful with their time. Or at least posting on instagram lol.click to expand
I mean people into astrology are pretty much always into it. I was speaking on the 95% of the worlds population that think it's fake, and laugh when you bring it up. I truly believe most of not all people on this forum are into deep astrology. By deep astrology I mean knowing what a birth chart is. Do you ever speak with people outside the internet about astrology? It could be different in other countries too. In America however most people think you are either stupid or crazy the second you bring up astrology as an actual passion/ hobby.
Posted by aquarius09Posted by SoulPosted by aquarius09I mean you shouldn't. I get extremest using religion as a way to pretend they can justify murder and destruction, but most religious people just want to live life with their morals and values while keeping people like you at at distance. Most religious people wouldn't want to kill you, or even try and convince you. They just want to live life based off their own standards. It's the news, media, and extremist that want to make you think otherwise. Trust me, I have a dark spirit. Every super religious person I've met never tried to convince me anything. Once they had to leave all they said was "It was nice meeting you, and if we ever cross paths again I'll enjoy having another conversation with you." Most religious people are super open to having convers with people outside their own religion.Posted by SoulI agree but I’m not an astrology junkie to disclose that anyway. It’s true people perceive those who are into the occult as cuckoo. I understand that all too well because I view religious people as that.
Again age range matters a fuck ton.
Me in my teens and early 20s had a huge ego, and would fuck anyone who could stroke it the right way. At the same time I had secret standards, so I would never truly love them or try and make it an actual relationship. Me now doesn't like people much, and accepts I was fucked up in the past. To the point I actually feel I don't deserve love or people in my life. Because of that I'd rather just be alone.
Also I'm not trying to be a prick, but most men with actual standards wouldn't date you, or anyone here for that matter. The second you tell them you are into astrology you would instantly look like a creepy woman into dumb shit. Not saying astrology is dumb or anything. That's just how most normal people outside the occult view it.
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No, I strongly disagree. Most religious people are duplicitous and need the facade of religion to make people believe that they are good persons when in reality they aren’t and prone to doing shady things. I met my share of religious people and come from one. And no, I’m not getting my opinion from news and media. I observe religious people closely and use to be religious myself until I read up on my religion. In fact, most religious people have no clue what they are following as they don’t study their faith with critical thinking skills. They blindly follow a faith based on hearsay or what religious figures feed them.click to expand
Once you put it that way, you have a good point. I guess I try to give people the benefit of the doubt too much nowadays. I guess truth be told most of the worlds problems, and the most heinous acts every made by mankind can be related to a religion. Damn. I really want to take my mom to church on Sundays or something before she or I dies. All the negative stuff aside, I think spending one day out of the week in a church with good people, and good morals is actually good for a personas mental health. Like everything in life even that needs good balance, but I'm becoming more and more open to just being in a community based on good morals and values. God knows I need that now more then ever.
Posted by SoulPosted by aquarius09Posted by SoulNo, I strongly disagree. Most religious people are duplicitous and need the facade of religion to make people believe that they are good persons when in reality they aren’t and prone to doing shady things. I met my share of religious people and come from one. And no, I’m not getting my opinion from news and media. I observe religious people closely and use to be religious myself until I read up on my religion. In fact, most religious people have no clue what they are following as they don’t study their faith with critical thinking skills. They blindly follow a faith based on hearsay or what religious figures feed them.Posted by aquarius09I mean you shouldn't. I get extremest using religion as a way to pretend they can justify murder and destruction, but most religious people just want to live life with their morals and values while keeping people like you at at distance. Most religious people wouldn't want to kill you, or even try and convince you. They just want to live life based off their own standards. It's the news, media, and extremist that want to make you think otherwise. Trust me, I have a dark spirit. Every super religious person I've met never tried to convince me anything. Once they had to leave all they said was "It was nice meeting you, and if we ever cross paths again I'll enjoy having another conversation with you." Most religious people are super open to having convers with people outside their own religion.Posted by SoulI agree but I’m not an astrology junkie to disclose that anyway. It’s true people perceive those who are into the occult as cuckoo. I understand that all too well because I view religious people as that.
Again age range matters a fuck ton.
Me in my teens and early 20s had a huge ego, and would fuck anyone who could stroke it the right way. At the same time I had secret standards, so I would never truly love them or try and make it an actual relationship. Me now doesn't like people much, and accepts I was fucked up in the past. To the point I actually feel I don't deserve love or people in my life. Because of that I'd rather just be alone.
Also I'm not trying to be a prick, but most men with actual standards wouldn't date you, or anyone here for that matter. The second you tell them you are into astrology you would instantly look like a creepy woman into dumb shit. Not saying astrology is dumb or anything. That's just how most normal people outside the occult view it.
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Once you put it that way, you have a good point. I guess I try to give people the benefit of the doubt too much nowadays. I guess truth be told most of the worlds problems, and the most heinous acts every made by mankind can be related to a religion. Damn. I really want to take my mom to church on Sundays or something before she or I dies. All the negative stuff aside, I think spending one day out of the week in a church with good people, and good morals is actually good for a personas mental health. Like everything in life even that needs good balance, but I'm becoming more and more open to just being in a community based on good morals and values. God knows I need that now more then ever.click to expand
Going to church doesn’t make you a good person nor are attendees at churches or
places of worship moralistic or upstanding. I grew up in a religious household and place of worships are swarming with sanctimonious folks who usually have double lives. There’s a definite connection between religion and confused folks that live a double life.
Truly good people with a strong moral compass aka integrity are very rare and can be found anywhere (an atheist, a monotheist like myself, agnostic) but don’t confuse religion or following a faith = good morals. Not necessarily. In fact it’s sadly the opposite.
Posted by aquarius09Posted by serenidadPosted by aquarius09i’ve seen one too many documentaries of priests molesting kids by telling them some bullshit like “this is god’s will” lol 😂 (like trying to convince the kids that god wants this for them)Posted by SoulNo, I strongly disagree. Most religious people are duplicitous and need the facade of religion to make people believe that they are good persons when in reality they aren’t and prone to doing shady things. I met my share of religious people and come from one. And no, I’m not getting my opinion from news and media. I observe religious people closely and use to be religious myself until I read up on my religion. In fact, most religious people have no clue what they are following as they don’t study their faith with critical thinking skills. They blindly follow a faith based on hearsay or what religious figures feed them.Posted by aquarius09I mean you shouldn't. I get extremest using religion as a way to pretend they can justify murder and destruction, but most religious people just want to live life with their morals and values while keeping people like you at at distance. Most religious people wouldn't want to kill you, or even try and convince you. They just want to live life based off their own standards. It's the news, media, and extremist that want to make you think otherwise. Trust me, I have a dark spirit. Every super religious person I've met never tried to convince me anything. Once they had to leave all they said was "It was nice meeting you, and if we ever cross paths again I'll enjoy having another conversation with you." Most religious people are super open to having convers with people outside their own religion.Posted by SoulI agree but I’m not an astrology junkie to disclose that anyway. It’s true people perceive those who are into the occult as cuckoo. I understand that all too well because I view religious people as that.
Again age range matters a fuck ton.
Me in my teens and early 20s had a huge ego, and would fuck anyone who could stroke it the right way. At the same time I had secret standards, so I would never truly love them or try and make it an actual relationship. Me now doesn't like people much, and accepts I was fucked up in the past. To the point I actually feel I don't deserve love or people in my life. Because of that I'd rather just be alone.
Also I'm not trying to be a prick, but most men with actual standards wouldn't date you, or anyone here for that matter. The second you tell them you are into astrology you would instantly look like a creepy woman into dumb shit. Not saying astrology is dumb or anything. That's just how most normal people outside the occult view it.
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god’s will my ass lol 😂 i guess it must also be “god’s will” then if the fathers of those kids ever decide to shove the priest off a high cliff and make it look like an accident too lol 😂 can’t blindly trust religious leaders lol
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Here’s the thing though, all of them are mesmerized by the pries—-cult leader so the father and mom would not bat an eye lash if their kid gets molested. They all think it’s a privilege if the cult leader is even touching them. All religions are cults and you will see it if you actually read the text and the resulting behaviour in people.click to expand
that’s crazy that some people can place that much trust in another mere mortal lol a priest is basically some random dude who has a MA or BA in philosophy/theology and completed some courses in the seminary, right? they’re by no means some direct messenger of god lol they’re just a mere mortal with flaws like the rest of us. there’s no valid reason to trust them wholeheartedly lol
i’ve seen a few documentaries on this subject but this one was the most notable one :
Men that have few to no options aren't that discerning. To them, it's like winning the lottery or their lucky day. It takes some of the sting off the fact that high quality women aren't choosing them. Some would rather buy into their ego illusion rather than put in the hard work and effort it takes to be a well rounded person that attracts someone amazing.
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Men that have few to no options aren't that discerning. To them, it's like winning the lottery or their lucky day. It takes some of the sting off the fact that high quality women aren't choosing them. Some would rather buy into their ego illusion rather than put in the hard work and effort it takes to be a well rounded person that attracts someone amazing.
exactly. i never thought i’d hear another dude on here be bold enough to say this out loud.
ppl who don’t have many options are similar to ppl who don’t know where their next meal is coming from so they pounce on any kinda meal that presents themselves.
but the quality of the meal (i’m using meal as a metaphor for people) they’re getting aren’t that good for obvious reasons. but they don’t care because sleeping with a lot of people at least gives them that false illusion that they “got it going on”. but just take one look at the type of ppl they’re “scoring” with. i rest my case.
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Men that have few to no options aren't that discerning. To them, it's like winning the lottery or their lucky day. It takes some of the sting off the fact that high quality women aren't choosing them. Some would rather buy into their ego illusion rather than put in the hard work and effort it takes to be a well rounded person that attracts someone amazing.
Another level-headed response!
Posted by aquarius09Posted by Nightcap-
Men that have few to no options aren't that discerning. To them, it's like winning the lottery or their lucky day. It takes some of the sting off the fact that high quality women aren't choosing them. Some would rather buy into their ego illusion rather than put in the hard work and effort it takes to be a well rounded person that attracts someone amazing.
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Thank God for men like this!
Posted by MyStarsShinePosted by aquarius09Posted by Nightcap-Another level-headed response!
Men that have few to no options aren't that discerning. To them, it's like winning the lottery or their lucky day. It takes some of the sting off the fact that high quality women aren't choosing them. Some would rather buy into their ego illusion rather than put in the hard work and effort it takes to be a well rounded person that attracts someone amazing.
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He shares half my chart and half my mom’s. Made me proud. 🥹 So far I haven’t met anyone who has half or full my chart and isn’t sensible. Hopefully it stays that way 😆 otherwise I’m going to lose faith in astrology.
Posted by MyStarsShinePosted by aquarius09Posted by Nightcap-Another level-headed response!
Men that have few to no options aren't that discerning. To them, it's like winning the lottery or their lucky day. It takes some of the sting off the fact that high quality women aren't choosing them. Some would rather buy into their ego illusion rather than put in the hard work and effort it takes to be a well rounded person that attracts someone amazing.
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He shares half my chart and half my mom’s. Made me proud. 🥹 So far I haven’t met anyone who has half or full my chart and isn’t sensible. Hopefully it stays that way 😆 otherwise I’m going to lose faith in astrology.
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