sweethearts
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Terms of Endearment
Posted by WarAngel
I still like being called 'handsome'. 😇
Really? If I come across a gentleman, I’d still refer to them as handsome but it’s in the way they hold themselves and the old skool qualities that I see.
Posted by Aqua-Marine
I actually really like it if a guy calls me “cute” because it feels like he’s seeing me for my personality rather than appearance and that is a huge swoon for me
Yes and it’s a common theme for guys, even total strangers that we just meet to refer to us as sexy, beautiful, cute, hot and any number of descriptive words on our appearance. I think a lot of the time it isn’t even taken seriously unless you particularly like that person.
I rarely comment on a guys appearance unless I’m interested in them and wondered what they like to be called. I’d refer to them as “hot” mostly. But I’ve met a couple of guys in RL that I considered “fine” and way out of my league.
Posted by Gobby
When traditional English adjectives aren't good enough for 'youngsters', who foolishly consider slang usage to be 'cool' and superior... only to later realise that they were simply bandwagon jumping tools...
Yes, Darling.
Posted by Dreamy88
I still love being called handsome. My Cancer calls me "handsome man" and every now and then, she'll tell me I look like a fuck boy. I like em both lol
I've learned to embrace the fuck boy -ism
lol at fuck boy, that’d be when you’re getting freaky with it! 😉
I find it Interesting that you guys like to be called handsome.
Posted by IxiPosted by sweethearts
Back in the 90’s we use to call a guy Spunky, or handsome in the 80’s lol, haven’t heard those terms in a while.
What are some of the terms of endearment that make “YOU” feel desired or special and the only one SO has eyes for?
Are men told how attractive they are as often as women are told?
My partners have called me babe, bear, babu, baby, handsome, Honey, Hun, Sparky(🙄), Pendejo (🙄🙄🙄) a few others I can't remember or will take to my grave lol. Generally speaking, I'm all for it so long as it's authentic or good-humored.
As for your second question. Definitely not and it would be nice to be appreciated more in that way BUT honestly all my partners let me know to varying degrees what they thought of my appearance some more often than others but definitely not as much as I let them know.click to expand
Hmm, I call everyone babe, hun, sweetheart whether it’s my girls, friends or male mates. But don’t often refer to guys as hot or sexy, not sure why?
Told Pisces he was easy on the eye when he referred to himself as not being overly attractive and he laughed. Maybe I should have just said he’s a hottie because to me he is, but we aren’t dating so I have my reservations.
Would you prefer to be told point blank that we think your hot?
2020- For a girl, she’s a wap
I use "handsome" "sexy" "hot" "yummy" "babe" or "Baby" and "pretty" for the most part.
I've used "pookie" "sunshine" "honey" "my dear" "my love" as little pet names.
I have never heard a guy not appreciating being called handsome. Thats the equivalent of calling a woman "beautiful"?!?!?!
I've used "pookie" "sunshine" "honey" "my dear" "my love" as little pet names.
I have never heard a guy not appreciating being called handsome. Thats the equivalent of calling a woman "beautiful"?!?!?!
Posted by SeaLion
I use "handsome" "sexy" "hot" "yummy" "babe" or "Baby" and "pretty" for the most part.
I've used "pookie" "sunshine" "honey" "my dear" "my love" as little pet names.
I have never heard a guy not appreciating being called handsome. Thats the equivalent of calling a woman "beautiful"?!?!?!
Not saying they wouldn’t appreciate being called handsome but how often do you hear it being used nowadays?
I like being told beautiful or very beautiful, that to me is inside and out 🙂
Posted by IxiPosted by sweetheartsPosted by pinkbird03
2020- For a girl, she’s a wap
I find that term offensive and degrading.
I wouldn't call her whole person WAP but...experience has shown letting her know she got that good good has tended to be an important validation 😄click to expand
Lol, I got that wrong 😂 I thought it meant something else
Posted by sweetheartsPosted by IxiPosted by sweetheartsPosted by pinkbird03
2020- For a girl, she’s a wap
I find that term offensive and degrading.
I wouldn't call her whole person WAP but...experience has shown letting her know she got that good good has tended to be an important validation 😄
Lol, I got that wrong 😂 I thought it meant something elseclick to expand
Just googled it, yes I am offended lol 😂 don’t like it
Posted by IxiPosted by sweetheartsPosted by sweetheartsPosted by IxiPosted by sweetheartsPosted by pinkbird03
2020- For a girl, she’s a wap
I find that term offensive and degrading.
I wouldn't call her whole person WAP but...experience has shown letting her know she got that good good has tended to be an important validation 😄
Lol, I got that wrong 😂 I thought it meant something else
Just googled it, yes I am offended lol 😂 don’t like it
Lol I'm guessing this means you don't do any form of dirty talk in the bedroom?click to expand
Well that’s a different story... I was talking about conversations in general at a bar. I don’t have a SO to go there atm. So if a random said that to me I’d probably punch them lmao.
Plus, we don’t really use that slang down under. There’s a lot of American slang which bypasses the majority of us here.
Posted by NemDeux
Ladies and Gentlemen, a word of caution ...if your SO uses a term of endearment that he/she usually does not use ....prick those ears, 9/10 somethings up lol.
😏🤭
Well now that it’s confirmed they love it, maybe we should loosen our tongues a little and let our men know how sexy and handsome we think they are!
I only gets call fine (but never handsome tho I'm sure some see me as handsome) by certain folks of certain zodiac signs. I don't know how many times I've heard that word "fine" thrown my way. I just look at them with a smirk on my face (and a rather confused expression if you will) as if I don't know what to make of it and keep it moving. Even some of my nieces says I'm pretty. So it has to be true if THEY (my own nieces) says it.
I honestly don't know how I feel about all of that. I'd much prefer people keep their terms of endearment of me to themselves as I don't know how to respond to it without making myself sound like a narcissistic jerk and embarrass myself in the process.
I may come off on this site as a showoff because none of you can see me but in reality I'm just a really shy ass who couldn't care less about being called handsome or pretty. I rather just get looked at as a regular normal man like other men gets looked at and accepted as.
I honestly don't know how I feel about all of that. I'd much prefer people keep their terms of endearment of me to themselves as I don't know how to respond to it without making myself sound like a narcissistic jerk and embarrass myself in the process.
I may come off on this site as a showoff because none of you can see me but in reality I'm just a really shy ass who couldn't care less about being called handsome or pretty. I rather just get looked at as a regular normal man like other men gets looked at and accepted as.
Posted by NemDeuxPosted by sweetheartsPosted by NemDeux
Ladies and Gentlemen, a word of caution ...if your SO uses a term of endearment that he/she usually does not use ....prick those ears, 9/10 somethings up lol.
😏🤭
Well now that it’s confirmed they love it, maybe we should loosen our tongues a little and let our men know how sexy and handsome we think they are!
I'm on first name terms ...lol. jk.
I don't do the cute namea, but i do pay compliments however, when due and true.
When they smell exceptionally nice, or look good in a situation ...or say something clever, I'll let it be known how they make me feel.click to expand
Love it when they smell good and yes I’ll definitely compliment that straight away
Posted by Jumpin_Jupiter
I only gets call fine (but never handsome tho I'm sure some see me as handsome) by certain folks of certain zodiac signs. I don't know how many times I've heard that word "fine" thrown my way. I just look at them with a smirk on my face (and a rather confused expression if you will) as if I don't know what to make of it and keep it moving. Even some of my nieces says I'm pretty. So it has to be true if THEY (my own nieces) says it.
I honestly don't know how I feel about all of that. I'd much prefer people keep their terms of endearment of me to themselves as I don't know how to respond to it without making myself sound like a narcissistic jerk and embarrass myself in the process.
I may come off on this site as a showoff because none of you can see me but in reality I'm just a really shy ass who couldn't care less about being called handsome or pretty. I rather just get looked at as a regular normal man like other men gets looked at and accepted as.
“Fine” to me is the ultimate attractive guy like Sharma Moore ❤️
Posted by sweetheartsPosted by pinkbird03
2020- For a girl, she’s a wap
I find that term offensive and degrading.click to expand
Embrace your sexuality. It’s a compliment.
Posted by Dreamy88Posted by NemDeux
Ladies and Gentlemen, a word of caution ...if your SO uses a term of endearment that he/she usually does not use ....prick those ears, 9/10 somethings up lol.
😏🤭
I know something is wrong when she uses my first name or when she calls me asshole 😬click to expand
Or your name in full 😆
the capricorn calls me 'my love' in our language and tbh it makes me cringe
but he hates us calling each other by name
i mostly use his name when i'm pissed
but he hates us calling each other by name
i mostly use his name when i'm pissed
Posted by Jumpin_Jupiter
I only gets call fine (but never handsome tho I'm sure some see me as handsome) by certain folks of certain zodiac signs. I don't know how many times I've heard that word "fine" thrown my way. I just look at them with a smirk on my face (and a rather confused expression if you will) as if I don't know what to make of it and keep it moving. Even some of my nieces says I'm pretty. So it has to be true if THEY (my own nieces) says it.
I honestly don't know how I feel about all of that. I'd much prefer people keep their terms of endearment of me to themselves as I don't know how to respond to it without making myself sound like a narcissistic jerk and embarrass myself in the process.
I may come off on this site as a showoff because none of you can see me but in reality I'm just a really shy ass who couldn't care less about being called handsome or pretty. I rather just get looked at as a regular normal man like other men gets looked at and accepted as.
Posted by IxiPosted by virgoOPPP
the capricorn calls me 'my love' in our language and tbh it makes me cringe
but he hates us calling each other by name
i mostly use his name when i'm pissed
I swear...when she says your name like short....with hard enunciation...you know its aboutta be summin in this bitch.click to expand
VINCENT
sometimes he laughs which makes me angrier
Any takers on “Spunky?” 😆
Posted by sweetheartsPosted by SeaLion
I use "handsome" "sexy" "hot" "yummy" "babe" or "Baby" and "pretty" for the most part.
I've used "pookie" "sunshine" "honey" "my dear" "my love" as little pet names.
I have never heard a guy not appreciating being called handsome. Thats the equivalent of calling a woman "beautiful"?!?!?!
Not saying they wouldn’t appreciate being called handsome but how often do you hear it being used nowadays?
I like being told beautiful or very beautiful, that to me is inside and out 🙂click to expand
I hear it all the time 🤷♀️
Guess it depends on where you live.
I'm from a part of the world where most people, from random strangers to the grocery lady, call you "sweetheart", "love", "flower", "pet", "honey" and other endearing words, which mean "I'm bored, polite, or happy to take your money" lol.
I personally feel that there is a big difference between calling someone "darling" or "my darling". The former feels cold and patronizing, the latter warm and bonding. So I pay more attention to "my" than to the actual endearing word.
Then there are endearing words, and there are compliments! Handsome, beautiful, gorgeous, sexy, cute, pretty and other compliments are better used when you actually see the person, rather than by text. The former feels like a genuine compliment, the latter like a trivia.
I personally feel that there is a big difference between calling someone "darling" or "my darling". The former feels cold and patronizing, the latter warm and bonding. So I pay more attention to "my" than to the actual endearing word.
Then there are endearing words, and there are compliments! Handsome, beautiful, gorgeous, sexy, cute, pretty and other compliments are better used when you actually see the person, rather than by text. The former feels like a genuine compliment, the latter like a trivia.
Posted by IxiPosted by sweethearts
Any takers on “Spunky?” 😆
I surely hope not 😄click to expand
Didn’t think so but I was surprised that you guys actually like handsome!
Germany is reserved and very liberal, so terms of endearment are either never used or labeled as sexist. Schatz (treasure) is still in use though.
My aries ex called me querido I liked that a lot, and I had a taurus girl we snuggled a lot and used baby nicknames, like Wuschel Puschel and Schnuckelchen.
Posted by sweetheartsPosted by Jumpin_Jupiter
I only gets call fine (but never handsome tho I'm sure some see me as handsome) by certain folks of certain zodiac signs. I don't know how many times I've heard that word "fine" thrown my way. I just look at them with a smirk on my face (and a rather confused expression if you will) as if I don't know what to make of it and keep it moving. Even some of my nieces says I'm pretty. So it has to be true if THEY (my own nieces) says it.
I honestly don't know how I feel about all of that. I'd much prefer people keep their terms of endearment of me to themselves as I don't know how to respond to it without making myself sound like a narcissistic jerk and embarrass myself in the process.
I may come off on this site as a showoff because none of you can see me but in reality I'm just a really shy ass who couldn't care less about being called handsome or pretty. I rather just get looked at as a regular normal man like other men gets looked at and accepted as.
“Fine” to me is the ultimate attractive guy like Sharma Moore ❤️click to expand
Had to Google that guy cus I was being curious. It corrected me as saying "did you mean shemar Moore". I'm sure that's who you mean. But anyway he look alright. Like a cool fella.
Posted by NemDeuxPosted by IxiPosted by NemDeuxPosted by IxiPosted by NemDeuxPosted by sweethearts
Any takers on “Spunky?” 😆
Isn't spunk(y) slang for sperm? 🤔
Spunk lol
🤣More commonly used by English folk. Must remember to delete search history.
I mean, wth ...my SO is not a mere biological substance ....or are we?
Lol Spunky is like feisty though, courageous brave almost to the point of rambunctiousness.
🤣🤣 Well ...I don't think it'll fly in my everyday lingo.
We have no such equivalent😁😁😁click to expand
Yes, Spunk just meaning hot back in the 90’s down under lol
Posted by Jumpin_JupiterPosted by sweetheartsPosted by Jumpin_Jupiter
I only gets call fine (but never handsome tho I'm sure some see me as handsome) by certain folks of certain zodiac signs. I don't know how many times I've heard that word "fine" thrown my way. I just look at them with a smirk on my face (and a rather confused expression if you will) as if I don't know what to make of it and keep it moving. Even some of my nieces says I'm pretty. So it has to be true if THEY (my own nieces) says it.
I honestly don't know how I feel about all of that. I'd much prefer people keep their terms of endearment of me to themselves as I don't know how to respond to it without making myself sound like a narcissistic jerk and embarrass myself in the process.
I may come off on this site as a showoff because none of you can see me but in reality I'm just a really shy ass who couldn't care less about being called handsome or pretty. I rather just get looked at as a regular normal man like other men gets looked at and accepted as.
“Fine” to me is the ultimate attractive guy like Sharma Moore ❤️
Had to Google that guy cus I was being curious. It corrected me as saying "did you mean shemar Moore". I'm sure that's who you mean. But anyway he look alright. Like a cool fella.click to expand
I originally put Shemar and then corrected it lol anyway that’s my definition of “fine”
Now your going to have to put your pic up 😉 @jumping_jupiter
Posted by NemDeuxPosted by sweetheartsPosted by NemDeuxPosted by IxiPosted by NemDeuxPosted by IxiPosted by NemDeuxPosted by sweethearts
Any takers on “Spunky?” 😆
Isn't spunk(y) slang for sperm? 🤔
Spunk lol
🤣More commonly used by English folk. Must remember to delete search history.
I mean, wth ...my SO is not a mere biological substance ....or are we?
Lol Spunky is like feisty though, courageous brave almost to the point of rambunctiousness.
🤣🤣 Well ...I don't think it'll fly in my everyday lingo.
We have no such equivalent😁😁😁
Yes, Spunk just meaning hot back in the 90’s down under lol
I'll stick to innocuous first names ....🤣🤣🤣click to expand
Can’t be any worse than WAP!?
Posted by sweetheartsPosted by Jumpin_JupiterPosted by sweetheartsPosted by Jumpin_Jupiter
I only gets call fine (but never handsome tho I'm sure some see me as handsome) by certain folks of certain zodiac signs. I don't know how many times I've heard that word "fine" thrown my way. I just look at them with a smirk on my face (and a rather confused expression if you will) as if I don't know what to make of it and keep it moving. Even some of my nieces says I'm pretty. So it has to be true if THEY (my own nieces) says it.
I honestly don't know how I feel about all of that. I'd much prefer people keep their terms of endearment of me to themselves as I don't know how to respond to it without making myself sound like a narcissistic jerk and embarrass myself in the process.
I may come off on this site as a showoff because none of you can see me but in reality I'm just a really shy ass who couldn't care less about being called handsome or pretty. I rather just get looked at as a regular normal man like other men gets looked at and accepted as.
“Fine” to me is the ultimate attractive guy like Sharma Moore ❤️
Had to Google that guy cus I was being curious. It corrected me as saying "did you mean shemar Moore". I'm sure that's who you mean. But anyway he look alright. Like a cool fella.
I originally put Shemar and then corrected it lol anyway that’s my definition of “fine”
Now your going to have to put your pic up 😉 @jumping_jupiterclick to expand
Wasn't that the guy that hosted soul train after don Cornelius stepped down?
And lol. I don't know about posting my picture. We done went thru this situation before.
Posted by Jumpin_JupiterPosted by sweetheartsPosted by Jumpin_JupiterPosted by sweetheartsPosted by Jumpin_Jupiter
I only gets call fine (but never handsome tho I'm sure some see me as handsome) by certain folks of certain zodiac signs. I don't know how many times I've heard that word "fine" thrown my way. I just look at them with a smirk on my face (and a rather confused expression if you will) as if I don't know what to make of it and keep it moving. Even some of my nieces says I'm pretty. So it has to be true if THEY (my own nieces) says it.
I honestly don't know how I feel about all of that. I'd much prefer people keep their terms of endearment of me to themselves as I don't know how to respond to it without making myself sound like a narcissistic jerk and embarrass myself in the process.
I may come off on this site as a showoff because none of you can see me but in reality I'm just a really shy ass who couldn't care less about being called handsome or pretty. I rather just get looked at as a regular normal man like other men gets looked at and accepted as.
“Fine” to me is the ultimate attractive guy like Sharma Moore ❤️
Had to Google that guy cus I was being curious. It corrected me as saying "did you mean shemar Moore". I'm sure that's who you mean. But anyway he look alright. Like a cool fella.
I originally put Shemar and then corrected it lol anyway that’s my definition of “fine”
Now your going to have to put your pic up 😉 @jumping_jupiter
Wasn't that the guy that hosted soul train after don Cornelius stepped down?
And lol. I don't know about posting my picture. We done went thru this situation before.click to expand
Not sure, he was a main actor in criminal minds
Posted by pinkbird03
2020- For a girl, she’s a wap
😒 why is that song popular beyond the shock value?
🤢God I hope that vulgar shit doesn't become the norm.
At least Milk Shakes was coy and playful about it.
Posted by LittleStar_Posted by _DazedPosted by LittleStar_Posted by _DazedPosted by LittleStar_
공주님
베개 공주
반대쪽인데
공주 베개 ?
귀엽다ㅋㅋㅋ 아니, 베개 공주는 맞았어.
이 공주님은 올탑 입니다.click to expand
What happened to being a power bottom?
Posted by LostthoughtsPosted by pinkbird03
2020- For a girl, she’s a wap
😒 why is that song popular beyond the shock value?
🤢God I hope that vulgar shit doesn't become the norm.
At least Milk Shakes was coy and playful about it.click to expand
It only happens every once in awhile. Remember lil kim?
It’s fun to be taboo. Let your inner freak out
Posted by pinkbird03Posted by LostthoughtsPosted by pinkbird03
2020- For a girl, she’s a wap
😒 why is that song popular beyond the shock value?
🤢God I hope that vulgar shit doesn't become the norm.
At least Milk Shakes was coy and playful about it.
It only happens every once in awhile. Remember lil kim?
It’s fun to be taboo. Let your inner freak outclick to expand
Lol Yes true😄
Rather it not become common place though, that's what I'm worried about.
There is a time and place for everything. Even to let your inner freak out😘😁
Posted by QueenofthepheasantfairiesPosted by Jumpin_Jupiter
I only gets call fine (but never handsome tho I'm sure some see me as handsome) by certain folks of certain zodiac signs. I don't know how many times I've heard that word "fine" thrown my way. I just look at them with a smirk on my face (and a rather confused expression if you will) as if I don't know what to make of it and keep it moving. Even some of my nieces says I'm pretty. So it has to be true if THEY (my own nieces) says it.
I honestly don't know how I feel about all of that. I'd much prefer people keep their terms of endearment of me to themselves as I don't know how to respond to it without making myself sound like a narcissistic jerk and embarrass myself in the process.
I may come off on this site as a showoff because none of you can see me but in reality I'm just a really shy ass who couldn't care less about being called handsome or pretty. I rather just get looked at as a regular normal man like other men gets looked at and accepted as.class="bqfade">click to expand
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