@Adreamuponwaking
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would you walk a way from a girl
Posted by Adreamuponwaking
if it was becoming more and more clear that you aren't sexually compatible?
No I would just put her lower in the friend zone and not be a potential wife. Sex isn't the only thing a woman can offer. Women are much more than sex and has alot to offer than just getting me to cum. Women have many more wonderful aspects and for me are less threatened by my notoriety.
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Posted by LibraSupreme
Posted by Adreamuponwaking
if it was becoming more and more clear that you aren't sexually compatible?
No I would just put her lower in the friend zone and not be a potential wife. Sex isn't the only thing a woman can offer. Women are much more than sex and has alot to offer than just getting me to cum. Women have many more wonderful aspects and for me are less threatened by my notoriety.
The negative side of Libra. 👆🏻
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Lol.......😘♥️😘
Posted by Adreamuponwaking
if it was becoming more and more clear that you aren't sexually compatible?
Yes
Posted by GirlygirlNadia
To be fair I know you're asking the guys OP but if a woman did this she would be considered a whore.
Nah. I've ghosted guys who I wasnt sexually compatable with.
Posted by GirlygirlNadia
Posted by SeaLion
Posted by GirlygirlNadia
To be fair I know you're asking the guys OP but if a woman did this she would be considered a whore.
Nah. I've ghosted guys who I wasnt sexually compatable with.
And you never experienced the double standard? There's hope
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If they called me a whore I wouldn't know since I ghosted them lol
No sexual chemistry, no can do
What is your definition of sexual compatibility? It means different things to different people.
Posted by sweetpea2977
What is your definition of sexual compatibility? It means different things to different people.
Literally doesn't want to do anything I want to do. The options in terms of what we do are completely defined by her.
Also fundamental opposing views of what sex should do in a relationship as evident by sexual preferences/what acts are actually practiced when we do have sex.
(E.G-no neck kissing, or touching os specific erogenous zones, no cuddling after sex, nothing that fosters a sense of true intamacy, etc.)
Yup. I can’t stand closed minded partners. I need all options open for fun and an enjoyable ride.
Posted by MyStarsShine
No sexual chemistry, no can do
let's say there is chemistry BUT you aren't able to act on the chemistry in your preferred ways.
Like you are hot for them but they always want to do acts that you're not 100 percent a fan of but are willing to do because you are a little bit more flexible kink wise and you like ultimately pleasing your partner.
But they aren't willing to do the same for you because they are more rigid. Basically sex is all about them...even when they are doing "something to please you".
Posted by akitu
What do you mean sexually incompatible? Like you don’t fancy them or feel sexual feelings for them? That’s just a friend surely? Or sexually incompatible like they want something specific you don’t want to do?
they want something specific you don’t want to do and vice versa.
Posted by GirlygirlNadia
To be fair I know you're asking the guys OP but if a woman did this she would be considered a whore.
I didn't ask this question in the powder room because I feel like I already know the answer...well at least for most hetero females.
Though I will say that I am proud of those in here that have said they were willing to walk away from their dude on here. History has shown that has not always been the case. The majority of women have historically always put their partners' needs sexually ahead of their own because society has told them that is what they should do.
Posted by Adreamuponwaking
Posted by sweetpea2977
What is your definition of sexual compatibility? It means different things to different people.
Literally doesn't want to do anything I want to do. The options in terms of what we do are completely defined by her.
Also fundamental opposing views of what sex should do in a relationship as evident by sexual preferences/what acts are actually practiced when we do have sex.
(E.G-no neck kissing, or touching os specific erogenous zones, no cuddling after sex, nothing that fosters a sense of true intamacy, etc.)
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😮😮😮
Posted by sweetpea2977
Posted by Adreamuponwaking
Posted by sweetpea2977
What is your definition of sexual compatibility? It means different things to different people.
Literally doesn't want to do anything I want to do. The options in terms of what we do are completely defined by her.
Also fundamental opposing views of what sex should do in a relationship as evident by sexual preferences/what acts are actually practiced when we do have sex.
(E.G-no neck kissing, or touching os specific erogenous zones, no cuddling after sex, nothing that fosters a sense of true intimacy, etc.)
😮😮😮
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right?
like I can handle and am even down for some light BDSM type stuff...but if that's all we do?
Posted by Adreamuponwaking
Posted by MyStarsShine
No sexual chemistry, no can do
let's say there is chemistry BUT you aren't able to act on the chemistry in your preferred ways.
Like you are hot for them but they always want to do acts that you're not 100 percent a fan of but are willing to do because you are a little bit more flexible kink wise and you like ultimately pleasing your partner.
But they aren't willing to do the same for you because they are more rigid. Basically sex is all about them...even when they are doing "something to please you".
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No that wouldn’t work
Posted by sagaciouscorp
On the other hand sex isn’t the only thing that holds a relationship
are you a woman? lol
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if it was becoming more and more clear that you aren't sexually compatible?