Is this normal for a girl after a break up?

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We weren’t exactly together again (would of been third time) but we were basically dating again for some almost 3 months trynna figure things out (she kept pressuring me to “promposal” her and ask her out.. I’m 24 she’s 26) she got pissed at me again and totally left, won’t respond or get back to me on the couple times I’ve tried reach out.

Now the questions is, is this shit normal? I was told from a mutual friend(her now ex best friend) that she was telling her about how she’s already had sex with one guy(possibly 2?) and been sending nudes to a handful more and talking to some swinger couple. They had met up two weekends ago and said she was out on the dance floor trynna twerk or something dancing in a way for attention, and ended up going to some guys house party after bar close.

Is this normal behavior for a girl after she leaves a man??
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We weren’t exactly together again (would of been third time) but we were basically dating again for some almost 3 months trynna figure things out (she kept pressuring me to “promposal” her and ask her out.. I’m 24 she’s 26) she got pissed at me again and totally left, won’t respond or get back to me on the couple times I’ve tried reach out.

Now the questions is, is this shit normal? I was told from a mutual friend(her now ex best friend) that she was telling her about how she’s already had sex with one guy(possibly 2?) and been sending nudes to a handful more and talking to some swinger couple. They had met up two weekends ago and said she was out on the dance floor trynna twerk or something dancing in a way for attention, and ended up going to some guys house party after bar close.

Is this normal behavior for a girl after she leaves a man??

It can happen. Especially if she was in very long relationship that started when he was teenager. I would recommend you to left her. She has to figure it out alone.
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We’ve been together 4 years, 2 of them we lived together. Couple of us think she might have a little personality disorder issues but who honestly knows. That’s what I’m figuring tho. Let her grow up and see what’s out there I guess. Run wild.
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We weren’t exactly together again (would of been third time) but we were basically dating again for some almost 3 months trynna figure things out (she kept pressuring me to “promposal” her and ask her out.. I’m 24 she’s 26) she got pissed at me again and totally left, won’t respond or get back to me on the couple times I’ve tried reach out.

Now the questions is, is this shit normal? I was told from a mutual friend(her now ex best friend) that she was telling her about how she’s already had sex with one guy(possibly 2?) and been sending nudes to a handful more and talking to some swinger couple. They had met up two weekends ago and said she was out on the dance floor trynna twerk or something dancing in a way for attention, and ended up going to some guys house party after bar close.

Is this normal behavior for a girl after she leaves a man??

You shouldn't even be asking is this normal. You should simply be happy that such a toxic woman left you, even if she returns, run!
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Few close friends have said the same. She’s tossed all of us out of her life over the past 2 years, all over dumb petty reasons. I’m not sure if I see her coming back at this point!
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Yes, it's normal for a girl who doesn't like a dude, but he keeps trying to get back with her, so she creates outlandish feats for him to do in order to win her affection- which he thinks about doing, but is leary and she has an excuse to behave how she wants and not have to explain anything to the dude that "didn't try"

You seriously need to move on. You must really like this head case, she's playing games with you.
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Wtf is promposal?

A dumb thing where an elaborate way of asking someone to prom is created. Like a marriage proposal.

But they’re 24/26?

Hmm. Sounds like she’s just a raging narcissist then.

Hahahhahahahahhahaaa

But if he doesn’t do it, he’s the narcissist
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Just read it...it’s that kind of a thread you just read and then read another one...hoping next one will have a point. 🤪
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Posted by Arielle83
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Posted by Arielle83
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Posted by Arielle83

Wtf is promposal?

A dumb thing where an elaborate way of asking someone to prom is created. Like a marriage proposal.

But they’re 24/26?

Hmm. Sounds like she’s just a raging narcissist then.

Hahahhahahahahhahaaa

But if he doesn’t do it, he’s the narcissist
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Even when I listen and do what she says I still get castrated! She’s a pretty demanding girl
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We weren’t exactly together again (would of been third time) but we were basically dating again for some almost 3 months trynna figure things out (she kept pressuring me to “promposal” her and ask her out.. I’m 24 she’s 26) she got pissed at me again and totally left, won’t respond or get back to me on the couple times I’ve tried reach out.

Now the questions is, is this shit normal? I was told from a mutual friend(her now ex best friend) that she was telling her about how she’s already had sex with one guy(possibly 2?) and been sending nudes to a handful more and talking to some swinger couple. They had met up two weekends ago and said she was out on the dance floor trynna twerk or something dancing in a way for attention, and ended up going to some guys house party after bar close.

Is this normal behavior for a girl after she leaves a man??

You shouldn't even be asking is this normal. You should simply be happy that such a toxic woman left you, even if she returns, run!

Few close friends have said the same. She’s tossed all of us out of her life over the past 2 years, all over dumb petty reasons. I’m not sure if I see her coming back at this point!

If you believe in god, pray she doesn't and if she does, throw her ass.
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She’s always came back, but this time I think it’s gonna be a little different. I don’t think she will be now
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Yes, it's normal for a girl who doesn't like a dude, but he keeps trying to get back with her, so she creates outlandish feats for him to do in order to win her affection- which he thinks about doing, but is leary and she has an excuse to behave how she wants and not have to explain anything to the dude that "didn't try"

You seriously need to move on. You must really like this head case, she's playing games with you.


Got a lot of history with this one, even with all the shit I still love the hell out of her
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Posted by Arielle83
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Posted by Arielle83

Wtf is promposal?

A dumb thing where an elaborate way of asking someone to prom is created. Like a marriage proposal.

But they’re 24/26?
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Yeah believe me I know. I told some of our friends after the fact, they all had the same reactions. Figured she wanted something to put on Instagram to show just how much were in love
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Posted by Taurus_mn
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Yes, it's normal for a girl who doesn't like a dude, but he keeps trying to get back with her, so she creates outlandish feats for him to do in order to win her affection- which he thinks about doing, but is leary and she has an excuse to behave how she wants and not have to explain anything to the dude that "didn't try"

You seriously need to move on. You must really like this head case, she's playing games with you.

Got a lot of history with this one, even with all the shit I still love the hell out of her
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She seems like she is seriously trying to shake you.

All she's doing and you still want her back? Do you really think that's love on your side or just obsessive/possessive at this point?
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Forget her fast.. Leave that shit behind like last week.

How do all these attention whores get so many dudes?? How is this behavior not a total fkn turn off? Just baffles me.

There's legit no room for me in the dating world, everyone so fkn whack.

Read “bfs ex is stalking me” thread and learn about 6 flowers being less than adequate

I started reading that one earlier and was just like, nope, not going there today.. Lol
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I am glad someone else with me in the same page. 🤝