Asking for Nudes

This topic was created in the The Powder Room forum by nikkistar on Friday, October 25, 2019 and has 36 replies.

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I was talking to my bestfriend earlier today, and I was sending her memes of how girls feel when getting unsolicited dick pics.

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But then, we started talking about when guys ask for nudes.

So ladies, what would be your opinion on a man that asked you for nudes?

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Posted by nikkistar

I was talking to my bestfriend earlier today, and I was sending her memes of how girls feel when getting unsolicited dick pics.

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But then, we started talking about when guys ask for nudes.

So ladies, what would be your opinion on a man that asked you for nudes?

So...Nikki...you ARE receiving dick pics and bragging to your friend?

Why don’t you post them HERE when people can actually discuss...length and circumference and shit? WHY nikky why? 🤦‍♀️🤷‍♀️

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Posted by Phantom_Dangus
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Posted by Antiphates

Is this really a thing?

I always thought it was more a meme than something that happens on a regular basis.

Yes, it is.

I once worked with three single chicks in the processes of dating and it was a daily occurrence/topic of discussion.

Okay, but do they keep dating those who do this or is this an auto next-button?

Did you know about this?

https://www.theguardian.com/commentisfree/2019/sep/07/texas-passes-law-against-dick-pics-week-in-patriarchy


"The cyber-flashing act, which went into effect last Saturday, doesn’t just apply to men sending dick pics; it bans the electronic transmission of unwanted visual material depicting any person’s “intimate parts” as well as the “covered genitals of a male person that are in a discernibly turgid state”

lol

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@saggurl88
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I always get asked for nudes, and I just tell whoever it is that I only send nudes to someone who has already seen me naked.

Guys don't even want to see lingerie pics, they want full nudity- ungrateful bastards. I think lingerie pics are more classy and that's good enough for someone you've been dating but hasn't seen anything yet.

I do like receiving dick pics. I don't mind them at all. Videos are even better. I love seeing how a man touches himself. How gentle or firm and his hand placement. Such a turn on.

There was only one time that I received one without warning and I told him not to ever do that again. It was a cousin of a guy I was dating. He just randomly sent it through social media. It was like one second he was asking me how my vacation was and the next, he said "hold on, I have something for you" and sent that. -___-

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Posted by _Dazed

tbh..

I think it shows how intrepid she is. It's a good quality in a women imo.

When do you start asking for them or are they just volunteered?

This is actually what I loved about my Scorpio ex. He would ask for them all the time. I even used to strip down in my work bathroom to send them. He was so much fun sexually. Too bad he made me cry so much 😢

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Posted by saggurl88
Posted by _Dazed

tbh..

I think it shows how intrepid she is. It's a good quality in a women imo.

When do you start asking for them or are they just volunteered?

This is actually what I loved about my Scorpio ex. He would ask for them all the time. I even used to strip down in my work bathroom to send them. He was so much fun sexually. Too bad he made me cry so much 😢

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I've never explicitly asked for nudes.

Subtle compliments and words of affirmation usually does the trick.

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Posted by Phantom_Dangus
Posted by Antiphates
Posted by Phantom_Dangus
Posted by Antiphates
Posted by TheRabbit
Posted by Antiphates

Is this really a thing?

I always thought it was more a meme than something that happens on a regular basis.

Yes, it is.

I once worked with three single chicks in the processes of dating and it was a daily occurrence/topic of discussion.

Okay, but do they keep dating those who do this or is this an auto next-button?

Did you know about this?

https://www.theguardian.com/commentisfree/2019/sep/07/texas-passes-law-against-dick-pics-week-in-patriarchy

No, but it sounds like an overall good idea. I mean it is sexual harassment.

I'm really undecided on the fairness of it. On the one hand, sending one unsolicited is definitely harassment, similar to exposing yourself to someone on the street. On the other hand, the law only covers males, so if a woman sent her vajayjay unsolicited, the law wouldn't apply. I know they did it this way because this is the direction the harassment more often goes, but still. Seems obviously sexist, there. I'm also not sure how "unwanted" is being defined.

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"The cyber-flashing act, which went into effect last Saturday, doesn’t just apply to men sending dick pics; it bans the electronic transmission of unwanted visual material depicting any person’s “intimate parts”"

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Posted by _Dazed
Posted by saggurl88
Posted by _Dazed

tbh..

I think it shows how intrepid she is. It's a good quality in a women imo.

When do you start asking for them or are they just volunteered?

This is actually what I loved about my Scorpio ex. He would ask for them all the time. I even used to strip down in my work bathroom to send them. He was so much fun sexually. Too bad he made me cry so much 😢

I've never explicitly asked for nudes.

Subtle compliments and words of affirmation usually does the trick.

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lol I think that's the way my ex would get them from me. Telling me he missed whatever part he wanted to see and how much he's thinking of it- worked every time. I used to get so excited at the thought of doing what he wanted.

I miss that feeling.

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Posted by Phantom_Dangus
Posted by _Dazed
Posted by Phantom_Dangus
Posted by Antiphates
Posted by Phantom_Dangus
Posted by Antiphates
Posted by TheRabbit
Posted by Antiphates

Is this really a thing?

I always thought it was more a meme than something that happens on a regular basis.

Yes, it is.

I once worked with three single chicks in the processes of dating and it was a daily occurrence/topic of discussion.

Okay, but do they keep dating those who do this or is this an auto next-button?

Did you know about this?

https://www.theguardian.com/commentisfree/2019/sep/07/texas-passes-law-against-dick-pics-week-in-patriarchy

No, but it sounds like an overall good idea. I mean it is sexual harassment.

I'm really undecided on the fairness of it. On the one hand, sending one unsolicited is definitely harassment, similar to exposing yourself to someone on the street. On the other hand, the law only covers males, so if a woman sent her vajayjay unsolicited, the law wouldn't apply. I know they did it this way because this is the direction the harassment more often goes, but still. Seems obviously sexist, there. I'm also not sure how "unwanted" is being defined.

"The cyber-flashing act, which went into effect last Saturday, doesn’t just apply to men sending dick pics; it bans the electronic transmission of unwanted visual material depicting any person’s “intimate parts”"

lol

I didn't read the article I posted.

https://media1.giphy.com/media/BhonfJKJtq5Dq/source.gif


Your gif game is on point today!

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I'm kind of proud of you! 😆

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Posted by ItsSupes2
Posted by saggurl88

I always get asked for nudes, and I just tell whoever it is that I only send nudes to someone who has already seen me naked.

Guys don't even want to see lingerie pics, they want full nudity- ungrateful bastards. I think lingerie pics are more classy and that's good enough for someone you've been dating but hasn't seen anything yet.

I do like receiving dick pics. I don't mind them at all. Videos are even better. I love seeing how a man touches himself. How gentle or firm and his hand placement. Such a turn on.

There was only one time that I received one without warning and I told him not to ever do that again. It was a cousin of a guy I was dating. He just randomly sent it through social media. It was like one second he was asking me how my vacation was and the next, he said "hold on, I have something for you" and sent that. -___-

I appreciate some classy lingerie

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I would think most men would. I think it all looks better covered up, so it can appeal more to the imagination.

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Posted by ItsSupes2
Posted by saggurl88
Posted by ItsSupes2
Posted by saggurl88

I always get asked for nudes, and I just tell whoever it is that I only send nudes to someone who has already seen me naked.

Guys don't even want to see lingerie pics, they want full nudity- ungrateful bastards. I think lingerie pics are more classy and that's good enough for someone you've been dating but hasn't seen anything yet.

I do like receiving dick pics. I don't mind them at all. Videos are even better. I love seeing how a man touches himself. How gentle or firm and his hand placement. Such a turn on.

There was only one time that I received one without warning and I told him not to ever do that again. It was a cousin of a guy I was dating. He just randomly sent it through social media. It was like one second he was asking me how my vacation was and the next, he said "hold on, I have something for you" and sent that. -___-

I appreciate some classy lingerie

I would think most men would. I think it all looks better covered up, so it can appeal more to the imagination.

I just imagine how I’m gonna take it off without tearing it up 🤣

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lol Sometimes it can be fun to let a guy rip it off. But it just depends on the cost of it.

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Posted by saggurl88
Posted by _Dazed
Posted by saggurl88
Posted by _Dazed

tbh..

I think it shows how intrepid she is. It's a good quality in a women imo.

When do you start asking for them or are they just volunteered?

This is actually what I loved about my Scorpio ex. He would ask for them all the time. I even used to strip down in my work bathroom to send them. He was so much fun sexually. Too bad he made me cry so much 😢

I've never explicitly asked for nudes.

Subtle compliments and words of affirmation usually does the trick.

lol I think that's the way my ex would get them from me. Telling me he missed whatever part he wanted to see and how much he's thinking of it- worked every time. I used to get so excited at the thought of doing what he wanted.

I miss that feeling.

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Cancer coworker a few years back would send me tease photos. Never showed actual nudity. Just enough to spark the imagination.

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i normally don't respond or troll them back. there are also horny people out there sending dick pics to strangers. before me and my bf started dating, we had this plan of selling fake nudes (it was mostly a joke) and we split the profit lol.

i dont get the appeal, there's always porn

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Posted by _Dazed
Posted by saggurl88
Posted by _Dazed
Posted by saggurl88
Posted by _Dazed

tbh..

I think it shows how intrepid she is. It's a good quality in a women imo.

When do you start asking for them or are they just volunteered?

This is actually what I loved about my Scorpio ex. He would ask for them all the time. I even used to strip down in my work bathroom to send them. He was so much fun sexually. Too bad he made me cry so much 😢

I've never explicitly asked for nudes.

Subtle compliments and words of affirmation usually does the trick.

lol I think that's the way my ex would get them from me. Telling me he missed whatever part he wanted to see and how much he's thinking of it- worked every time. I used to get so excited at the thought of doing what he wanted.

I miss that feeling.

Cancer coworker a few years back would send me tease photos. Never showed actual nudity. Just enough to spark the imagination.

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I do this a lot. I like it. Not to co workers- but to dates. mostly boob pics with me strategically covering both nipples. Similar to this type of pic but not as skinny 😄

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Posted by Phantom_Dangus
Posted by saggurl88
Posted by Phantom_Dangus
Posted by _Dazed
Posted by Phantom_Dangus
Posted by Antiphates
Posted by Phantom_Dangus
Posted by Antiphates
Posted by TheRabbit
Posted by Antiphates

Is this really a thing?

I always thought it was more a meme than something that happens on a regular basis.

Yes, it is.

I once worked with three single chicks in the processes of dating and it was a daily occurrence/topic of discussion.

Okay, but do they keep dating those who do this or is this an auto next-button?

Did you know about this?

https://www.theguardian.com/commentisfree/2019/sep/07/texas-passes-law-against-dick-pics-week-in-patriarchy

No, but it sounds like an overall good idea. I mean it is sexual harassment.

I'm really undecided on the fairness of it. On the one hand, sending one unsolicited is definitely harassment, similar to exposing yourself to someone on the street. On the other hand, the law only covers males, so if a woman sent her vajayjay unsolicited, the law wouldn't apply. I know they did it this way because this is the direction the harassment more often goes, but still. Seems obviously sexist, there. I'm also not sure how "unwanted" is being defined.

"The cyber-flashing act, which went into effect last Saturday, doesn’t just apply to men sending dick pics; it bans the electronic transmission of unwanted visual material depicting any person’s “intimate parts”"

lol

I didn't read the article I posted.

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Your gif game is on point today!

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I'm kind of proud of you! 😆

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Oh, wow! *blushes*

https://media1.giphy.com/media/SJQbxC7BT5Ego/giphy.gif


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Posted by saggurl88
Posted by _Dazed
Posted by saggurl88
Posted by _Dazed
Posted by saggurl88
Posted by _Dazed

tbh..

I think it shows how intrepid she is. It's a good quality in a women imo.

When do you start asking for them or are they just volunteered?

This is actually what I loved about my Scorpio ex. He would ask for them all the time. I even used to strip down in my work bathroom to send them. He was so much fun sexually. Too bad he made me cry so much 😢

I've never explicitly asked for nudes.

Subtle compliments and words of affirmation usually does the trick.

lol I think that's the way my ex would get them from me. Telling me he missed whatever part he wanted to see and how much he's thinking of it- worked every time. I used to get so excited at the thought of doing what he wanted.

I miss that feeling.

Cancer coworker a few years back would send me tease photos. Never showed actual nudity. Just enough to spark the imagination.

I do this a lot. I like it. Not to co workers- but to dates. mostly boob pics with me strategically covering both nipples. Similar to this type of pic but not as skinny 😄

https://i.dailymail.co.uk/i/newpix/2018/02/19/02/495D06A200000578-5407297-Birthday_suit_Courtney_Stodden_showed_off_almost_all_of_her_surg-a-12_1519007658802.jpg


I mean.. we were hooking up.

But yes like that. She would send me a picture of her abs, but have a bit of titty at the top of the photo.

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Posted by _Dazed
Posted by saggurl88
Posted by _Dazed
Posted by saggurl88
Posted by _Dazed
Posted by saggurl88
Posted by _Dazed

tbh..

I think it shows how intrepid she is. It's a good quality in a women imo.

When do you start asking for them or are they just volunteered?

This is actually what I loved about my Scorpio ex. He would ask for them all the time. I even used to strip down in my work bathroom to send them. He was so much fun sexually. Too bad he made me cry so much 😢

I've never explicitly asked for nudes.

Subtle compliments and words of affirmation usually does the trick.

lol I think that's the way my ex would get them from me. Telling me he missed whatever part he wanted to see and how much he's thinking of it- worked every time. I used to get so excited at the thought of doing what he wanted.

I miss that feeling.

Cancer coworker a few years back would send me tease photos. Never showed actual nudity. Just enough to spark the imagination.

I do this a lot. I like it. Not to co workers- but to dates. mostly boob pics with me strategically covering both nipples. Similar to this type of pic but not as skinny 😄

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I mean.. we were hooking up.

But yes like that. She would send me a picture of her abs, but have a bit of titty at the top of the photo.

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Oh ok, well that makes much more sense then! 😆

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I expect them especially if this libs sun scorp moon ask. It will be funny humor at first and if no pic comes soon for my liking I would consider it a turn off for not keeping me interested.

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Posted by nikkistar

I was talking to my bestfriend earlier today, and I was sending her memes of how girls feel when getting unsolicited dick pics.

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But then, we started talking about when guys ask for nudes.

So ladies, what would be your opinion on a man that asked you for nudes?

I would think he's awfully pessimistic.

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It really depends on how much I realllly like the guy and trust him, considering I have yet to send any, that says a lot. Noooow lacy bras or panties, those don't count right? My bra covered bewbs have been posted here before once upon a time. I was still dressed sooooo 😋🤷‍♀️