This is going to be the most ridiculous thing you’ve ever read

Anyone else hate looking like you tried to be sexy? 😂Like it’s truly embarrassing to me....

So I was brushing my teeth the other night and I was staring at myself in the mirror thinking “who the fuck married your ass?” There I am in one of my husband’s old T-shirts and worn out soffe shorts...hair up in a sloppy ass pony tail...

And I’m like you know what? My husband deserves better than this... I’m going to order some sexier night attire.

But then I was online looking at lingerie like I don’t think I can wear this shit. “Looks like I’m trying too hard.”

What is wrong with me?

I did end up ordering some....but they look more accidentally sexy. I feel that is more my style

Is this a complex? Tell me I’m not alone?

Looks like you just want to spice up your marriage.

Nothing wrong with that...or you.

Posted by Ram416

Looks like you just want to spice up your marriage.

Nothing wrong with that...or you.

If I came to bed wearing a sheer lace crotchless bodysuit he’d probably be like “what are you wearing?” And I’d have to run to the bathroom crying 😂

Maybe he gave me this complex 🤔

😂😂 my ex never cared either.. hell the tshirt came off as fast as the lingerie did so what’s the point? 🤔

Guys always get excited when I wear stuff that I don't think is sexy. Like cute little shorts to sleep in with a cute top. I have a lot of the sexy stuff but never wear it anymore.

However, now you got me thinking I should go over to the Virgos wearing something like that. 😂

This is normal after you have a baby. You are insecure with the changes in your body, and you just want to feel like he still is attracted to you.

It's in your head, woman. Stop it.

Yep this seems normal after recently having a baby.

Posted by nikkistar

This is normal after you have a baby. You are insecure with the changes in your body, and you just want to feel like he still is attracted to you.

It's in your head, woman. Stop it.

Like I’m such a mom now ughh

I always have food particles and other weird shit smeared all over me too from her wiping her mouth and dirty little hands on me 😂

Posted by brianafay

Anyone else hate looking like you tried to be sexy? 😂Like it’s truly embarrassing to me....

So I was brushing my teeth the other night and I was staring at myself in the mirror thinking “who the fuck married your ass?” There I am in one of my husband’s old T-shirts and worn out soffe shorts...hair up in a sloppy ass pony tail...

And I’m like you know what? My husband deserves better than this... I’m going to order some sexier night attire.

But then I was online looking at lingerie like I don’t think I can wear this shit. “Looks like I’m trying too hard.”

What is wrong with me?

Feelz..

I literally had my bf ask me what I was wearing after I brought sexy lingerie...

" Get into a pair of sweats please"...

Then he gave me the good d.

Posted by brianafay

Posted by nikkistar

This is normal after you have a baby. You are insecure with the changes in your body, and you just want to feel like he still is attracted to you.

It's in your head, woman. Stop it.

It is probably that

Like I’m such a mom now ughh

I always have food particles and other weird shit smeared all over me too from her wiping her mouth and dirty little hands on me 😂

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Welcome to being a mom to a baby/toddler. Expect that until they are about 7/8. lol

Posted by brianafay

I did end up ordering some....but they look more accidentally sexy. I feel that is more my style

Is this a complex? Tell me I’m not alone?

Leo moon complex.

I know what you mean... stuff like this is sexy but doesn't come off "try hard":

http://www.lulusilk.com/image/cache/catalog/NTG19W001/silk% 20nightgown% 20ntg19w001-white-746x746.jpg

I have trouble being seen as " sexy " in a physical sense. I think I feel insecure about my body or something and feel scared.

I love sex though and being seen as sexy during sex and being naked or general sexting haha

Wearing outfits or short clothing makes me feel revealed and vulnerable also embarrassed. It's a weird complex

I applauded you!

Posted by emeraldgem

Got this awhile back. It has a little gray criss-cross tank to go with (under the shorts). It's cuuuuute!!!

Gonna need to see this modeled. Thank you.

Call me crazy, but have you ever tried being crack to the bedroom?

Like not actual ass crack, but crack rocks.

Just an idea.

Posted by Soul

Call me crazy, but have you ever tried being crack to the bedroom?

Like not actual ass crack, but crack rocks.

Just an idea.

Posted by brianafay

Posted by Soul

Call me crazy, but have you ever tried being crack to the bedroom?

Like not actual ass crack, but crack rocks.

Just an idea.

Never crossed my mind tbh

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It's because you're not socinma.

Posted by bumboklatt

Usually when girls try its when they're not sexy

When they try the least its hot af

Like some of those homeless wimmins o lawds

But that maybe something to do witb my placements cause i know some dudes like clean cut girls

....

And I thought I was strange...

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Posted by Ram416

Posted by bumboklatt

Usually when girls try its when they're not sexy

When they try the least its hot afLike some of those homeless wimmins o lawds

But that maybe something to do witb my placements cause i know some dudes like clean cut girls

....

And I thought I was strange...

Just cause they got nowhere to stay and maybe like narcotics doesent mean theyre not hot

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Completely different situation where I live lol. But in some rare occasions maybe the hotness can be seen.

Posted by brianafay

Anyone else hate looking like you tried to be sexy? 😂Like it’s truly embarrassing to me....

So I was brushing my teeth the other night and I was staring at myself in the mirror thinking “who the fuck married your ass?” There I am in one of my husband’s old T-shirts and worn out soffe shorts...hair up in a sloppy ass pony tail...

And I’m like you know what? My husband deserves better than this... I’m going to order some sexier night attire.

But then I was online looking at lingerie like I don’t think I can wear this shit. “Looks like I’m trying too hard.”

What is wrong with me?

Lmao...

When I look in the mirror I thank God for creating this impossible perfection...and because of that I am late for work...but it’s no issue because when I finally come - everybody is happy that I am well and alive...

Otherwise they will be devastated and I can’t have that happen to people around me...

I have to BE! And I AM!

Hello...🧟‍♀️🤔🎈

Posted by emeraldgem

Got this awhile back. It has a little gray criss-cross tank to go with (under the shorts). It's cuuuuute!!!

Go put those hand me downs back in grandma's drawer 🤢

I can't take myself seriously wearing any type of lingerie...I will non stop laugh the whole time. Like it's cute and all and more power to the women that can pull it off but I'm just too awkward 😂

I'm a t-shirt, tank top (then you wake up with one tit hanging out lol), shorts and sweats kinda girl.

Posted by nanorobot

Wow none of this ever occurred to me at all

And here I am suddenly wondering if its selfish that I don't actually give a fuck what he thinks, at all, as I lay here typing happily and comfortably in a mumu

Yeah! Like accidentally got a gorgeous bra on sale and tried to parade it and asked him if he liked my bra and he said he likes them off and hooks were off-putting and un-nesessery!

Well...so much for ‘men loooove lingerie! 🖕

I remember buying lots of beautiful expensive lingerie when I started a relationship and he just said that he preferred me without anything 😆

After that I just buy for myself because I sometimes want to feel extra sexy.

My idea of trying to look sexy is putting on full body reindeer pajamas with antlers and red nose.....oh yes and the wittle tail

I think it's a sign of love and respect, so bravo. You are truly thinking about him over yourself--if that ain't love, Idk what is! I think we take care of ourselves for ourselves, and also in respect to our partner. Who wants someone who doesn't want to look good for them? When I say good, I don't mean completely dolled up but polished. Depressed people ignore their hygiene I tend to think. I may see it in a dated way but that's how I see it. If you aren't trying, there's a reason.

Yeah that is ridiculous.

You just had a baby your hubby should be eternally grateful your even looking at him for a fuck 😅😂

Plus oversized tshirts = easy access and a decent handhold 😉