What do women really think of plus sized men?

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I don't think of them. Live and let live.

My assistant editor for the school paper was overweight. He was a good guy and we enjoyed each other's company until personal matters got in the way. It was tricky eating with him because he had this habit of opening his mouth really wide as though it took much effort to get his food in his mouth. I have many quirks, and this was one of his that bothered me, but I soon grew to overlook it.

There is another guy on campus who is obese, and he tried to get close, but I don't believe in "pity dating" (as I found out one of the girls did with him before dumping him right after the first date.) We make small talk when we see each other but, otherwise, he hangs out with a different crowd.

As people, I have no trouble getting along with them so long as they are good people and we are socially compatible (as is true for any body type for me.) If you are asking romantically, then I have never been attracted to one - I am much too active, and an overweight man signals to me that he will not complement my lifestyle or the the lifestyle I would like to promote to my children. Whether we want to admit it or not, being physically attracted to one another is an important part of compatibility, and I'm honestly not attracted to obese men. A little chub with an active mind and the ability to workout is okay - he doesn't have to be ripped, but obesity is a whole other food group.

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The unofficial sequel to the thread in the Men's cave! I'm sorry I can't keep a straight face on this one. So ladies, do you love a man with boobs way bigger than yours?

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The first picture is a funny guy.
Second one might be in the sport, aka strong men!
The third.. I'll definitely want that one! 😄 (he's not fat, it's a different muscular that might either wrestling body or heavy-competitions sport one.

The other pictures that I took out.. first one doesn't seems to be smart one.. headphone & swimming pool?
The last one seems like a douchebag that told his wife to go back to the kitchen.
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Third guy is fat but he's actually a strong man. You can't be strong with just muscles, you need some fat for the endurance.
I would trust this guy to haul tree trunks around in the snow or fight bears or sthg.
The two first guys are morbidly obese tho.
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Sn1p3r187....

There is a huge difference between being "plus sized" or curvy then these photos...these men are morbidly obese.

Honestly...I've been both. I used to be a size 12 and now I'm barely a size 6. I've never had a problem at all or noticed if more men were attracted to one size more then the other because....men like different things. There is somebody for everybody.

Personal preference. I will say that for me...I may not be initially be attracted physically to the photos above, but if I was already in love with my guy and he gained weight I would most def. still love him and try to support him in his happiness and a healthier lifestyle.

That's a very good thing thing to do. I'd actually do the same. Also I think this is the realest example of plus sized men but the way I see "plus" has no boundaries- Image Not Found
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There is always Exception *angel face*
omg...he got inspired and wrote this song?


actually Robby Krieger who is the one who wrote this song.

Jim girlfriend love him to the end but I guess she was not
enough for him..he will stay if he truly loved her .
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i know this,
i've looked it up too.
i was just joking around as a you know...love 2x the size.

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i honestly didnt read into Jim Morrison's background enough. I dont know what happpend with him and his gf.

but with drugs and addiction like that, wellll....

you'd have to experience it yourself to understand.
He cheated on her more than 5 times if was not more than that.

And she cheated on him more than once

But it 's look like she is his family since he left them for ever.

poor girl killed herself after him .
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sounds like they got revenge on eachother.

"you cheated on me so i'll cheat on you"


disgusting.

but people do it all the time.
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i read further on wikiepdia.

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Pamela_Courson

On April 25, 1974, Courson died of a heroin overdose on the living room couch at the Los Angeles apartment

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it's not a wonder, she did that,

if you degrade yourself, you will be disgusted with yourself and be very unhappy.


That story of Cheryl Strayed is very similar.

she degraded herself, being slutty, but then she wanted to REDEEM herself...so she did, by walking that long trek/journey.

It's a self-healing.

poor girl in this story, is very sad, here she could not redeem herself.
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Posted by Sn1p3r187
The unofficial sequel to the thread in the Men's cave! I'm sorry I can't keep a straight face on this one. So ladies, do you love a man with boobs way bigger than yours?

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No not bigger than mine. It really depends on how he treats me. Lipo and gastro are real and effective. So what.

We'll always have something to do... Workout, take a walk, stroll, swim, ride bikes, hike, eat, cook, prepare food portions, so much more.
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Sn1p3r187....

There is a huge difference between being "plus sized" or curvy then these photos...these men are morbidly obese.

Honestly...I've been both. I used to be a size 12 and now I'm barely a size 6. I've never had a problem at all or noticed if more men were attracted to one size more then the other because....men like different things. There is somebody for everybody.

Personal preference. I will say that for me...I may not be initially be attracted physically to the photos above, but if I was already in love with my guy and he gained weight I would most def. still love him and try to support him in his happiness and a healthier lifestyle.
Sorry, but a size 12 is far from morbidly obese.
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Sn1p3r187....

There is a huge difference between being "plus sized" or curvy then these photos...these men are morbidly obese.

Honestly...I've been both. I used to be a size 12 and now I'm barely a size 6. I've never had a problem at all or noticed if more men were attracted to one size more then the other because....men like different things. There is somebody for everybody.

Personal preference. I will say that for me...I may not be initially be attracted physically to the photos above, but if I was already in love with my guy and he gained weight I would most def. still love him and try to support him in his happiness and a healthier lifestyle.
Sorry, but a size 12 is far from morbidly obese.

Yah...that's kinda my point.
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Ok. I guess I misread you.