What if you found out that....

What if you found out that your boyfriend ( exclusive relationship) was chatting online with multiple women ( foreign ones). I don't know the content of the talking . But my ex boyfriend hit the talks from me. Talked to them through skype ( problably video), yahoo, viber, whattsapp en several other sw he hit on his phone.

He even took off earlier for work to chat. Several accounts on hi5/tagged, all with multiple beautiful azian women.

I couldn't cope with that behaviour and broke the relationship off. Because, who am i to tell " you can't do that"?

Seems that not everyone thinks i was right to make a deal out off this.

Opinions?

You probably made the right decision. You can't tell him not to do it, but if you don't like it and it makes you uncomfortable…he should stop.

Posted by andstrollbot
They are probably Asian men

hahaha, oh no , definately women

Naaaaaaaaaw.

I can't.

Video chatting? No.

If she isn't your mother, sister, cousin, or auntie...

y'all don't need to be on skype.

Secretly at that.

Suspect behavior that raises questions, all no good. Like what is the nature of these chats if you must go about it all in secrecy?

I definitely would have mentioned it and told him how it made me feel before leaving. If he continued and it bothered me so, I would have done the same. But did y'all try to talk about it all first?

Sorry OP, that sucks 😢

Does he carry a bottle of lotion and head into the bathroom right after?

no he didn't.... :-p

lol

I'm happy you ended it. This shows your strong and you're standing up for what you believe in.

I always think there's someone better out there for me. I know that's true for you too!!

I'd be soooo ghost... as soon as I discovered. Then, he'd call and ask this or that and I'd say, "I'm just not feeling you anymore." And, that would be the truth.

People like to get in long arguments about suspect or bad behavior... don't feel like that shit.

Linda

Apploads for ending crap!

Good luck girl

Glad you ended it.